Ways to Deal with a Complicated Relationship

Complicated relationships can break your heart and literally force you to end your life. I was in a happy marriage for a long time until an old ex of mine came into my life. He told me he was single, and started wooing me even though he knew I was married. Flattered at first, I ended up having an affair with him. I didn’t realize what I was doing until my husband found out and walked out on me.

And then, I find out that my ex only wanted to have an affair with me, because he was already in another relationship with some other woman. Now, I’m having an affair with my ex, seperated from my own loving husband and yet, have no one who truly loves me.

I feel so helpless at times, and yet, I have no idea what to do. Sometimes, simple complications of the heart can ruin an entire family.

I’m in a complicated relationship and for the most part this article rings true. But what if you both are willing to try and works things out. That’s how it was until recently for me. He stopped trying to deal with his obligations and let the stress take away his will to try. He blames his unhappiness with himself for being unhappy with me. I don’t understand but I know he hasn’t given me a fair chance to speak my mind about what I’ve been going thru. He doesn’t see that a relationship is about two people that both need to help eachother. He’s so full of self loathe that its trickled down to me. Its so frustrating bc I know asking to speak would only push him away further. I’m scared and the only thing I can do is keep my distance as much as possible. Its difficult to do when he doesn’t give me an opportunity to share how I feel. He basically just blurted out hurtful words and condemned our future together. I’m so hurt but I don’t want to make things worse.

This is my complication….
I met a guy over a year ago. We were just going to hang out and fool around with each other because that’s supposedly all he did, and I wasn’t on a stage of my life that I wanted to deal with another heartache. I wanted to be able to relax and have fun. He wasn’t even really my type

I fell for my boss, powerful, sexy (to me), dynamic, funny. He had a child from his previous partner but claimed to want more, as many as possible… It was a mutual attraction from day one and after a few months we started a relationship. It was Dificult from the beginning, he has a volatile personality and very demanding, friends and family waved flags, but he would win me with his great side. Very quickly it was clear that when his daughter was in his life I was either the nanny or pushed away. The mother lives in another country so I thought it normal he’d want to be with his child when she was around, I firmed a great relationship with her, but his relationship with her was and is just as strange. They continue with his life and his routine, he doesn’t change to provide a child environment, she has to conform. I realized very quickly he is a control freak, but part of this I was attracted to, the father figure, I want a family and am desperate for a baby, I saw him as the father in my family. At first we seemed to be going on this direction, then he used his daughter and ex as the reason why he couldnt commit to me in that way. Then he changed my clothes, disrespected my friends, my lifestyle, liked my parents took them to eat but never went to eat with them at their home of accept dinner invitations unless in restaurants he chose. I started to get depressed and cry all the time, he was cruel and verbally abusive at times. I started having panick attacks and took anti stress medication for depression and anxiety. Eventually it all came to a head, he had all the passwords to my accounts and one day saw a conversation between an boy I had known in baby school, who also lived in another country, and for the last 3 years we’d casually turned a friendship, I won’t lie the friend was often very flattering to me and I had enjoyed although never reciprocated. My guy went mad, and I finally found a stength to end it. I wasn’t that strong and we got back together for a few months, it was better than ever and I thought I’d won, but as soon as I mentioned marriage and children, he told me he would never forgive my “indiscretion” with my friend, and although we could stay together it would be purely under his conditions. He’s still my manager, and very much in my life, I want to move on, but am half wanting him to tell me he’s changed, I know he won’t change, I’m no longer on medication and it’s been 7 months, I saw him yesterday and the spark is still there and we kissed just a simple goodnight kiss but it felt perfect. I know he’ll have moved on sexually with partners but I can’t, also we live on an island and I’m sort of afraid that if I find someone he’ll never take me back, although I know I should never go back, agh, my head just won’t work!!

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