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Do Women Like The Penis? Things that Make a Perfect Cock

Do women like a penis? Or, is it more about what you can do with it? In her eyes, what exactly is the perfect cock? So many questions, so little time! 

What Do Women Really Think About Your Penis?

We could wax poetic about the parts of the penis, but the gist of it all is this: there’s a head, a shaft, and a couple of balls. The number of parts can be multiplied in terms of sex, but for the purpose of this article we will stick to the basics first. But of course, you’re all curious about the question – do women like a penis?

There’s a new misconception that women tend to smile with glee whenever the word ‘penis’ is mentioned, but that is absolutely not true. Women can be terrified of it.

It’s not just a symbol of virility or the mark of a man. It is an entity that has the ability to invade a woman’s most intimate area… and more.

As far as private parts go, the penis is probably the most obvious of them all. It is literally out there for the entire world to admire or abhor. It can be big, small, fat, thin, loopy, technicolored or even bedazzled. When it comes to variety, the penis does not disappoint. [Read: The average penis – 10 easy answers that’ll make you a know-it-all]

Does the perfect cock exist?

When it comes to the perfect cock, there are a lot of things to take into consideration. Firstly, women aren’t all the same. They like different things. And that means what makes a great piece of equipment for one woman wouldn’t do the job for another.

However, there are universally preferred characteristics when it comes to a guy’s member. But that doesn’t mean that every woman will like these things. If you want to know what makes the perfect cock, you’re in the right place. [Read: The big penis – Advice for the haves and have-nots]

How much are women interested in penises?

Women are designed to be passively interested in penises. When they first meet a man, they don’t immediately gaze at a man’s crotch the way some men do with women’s breasts. The thought of a man’s penis size and shape simply passes through a girl’s mind.

It’s not something that they fixate on all through the night.

But that doesn’t mean that women are incapable of having sexual thoughts. Women are just more focused on the process of making love or having sex, rather than the anatomical factors involved. They are usually optimistic about the size of their partner’s member before they get into bed, however. [Read: Penis facts – 18 shocking and weird dick facts you have no idea about]

The truth is, women are more interested in your penis once they’ve seen it. Before that, they worry more about how your relationship is going to progress and whether you will be a good boyfriend.

That is usually advantageous for guys because no matter how disappointing their penis is, they can compensate by being loving and affectionate. Sometimes, that is all that counts. [Read: Why are men so obsessed with their penis size]

What are the different types of penises according to women?

Size does matter. Sorry to say. But, there are other factors that need to be considered when women ponder upon penises. Yes, they are as different as the people who own them.

However, there are specific categories that women are aware of. [Read: How much does size matter to a woman?]

1. The really big penis – Length > 7 inches, circumference > 6 inches

Any guy can have a huge penis, but some have extremely huge ones that are primarily evident in the folds of their chinos. Women are not really sure if they want a man with a huge penis. Some can’t take the size, while some are reluctant to stretch out their vaginas just to try it.

It may be something a man can be proud of, but that doesn’t mean that everyone wants a piece of it.

2. The micro-penis – Length < 3 inches, circumference < 4 inches

This is the really big penis’s slightly less endowed counterpart. More and more men are speaking up about the disadvantages of having a tiny penis. They almost never give G-spot orgasms and men who have them usually have distressing views on their overall credibility as a man.

However, they can be well aware that they’re not well endowed, so they make up for it through other means like sex toys, using their hands or being a very cunning linguist. [Read: 8 tips and tricks to giving oral sex like a pro]

3. The average penis – Length 5-6 inches, circumference 5-6 inches

 Popular belief is that a man with this type of penis can give about 6-7 orgasms for every 10 times they have sex, but only if it’s paired with a great technique.

Women who have partners with average penises usually don’t complain about the size, but they may not be satisfied with the technique their partner uses.

4. The smaller penis – Smaller than her ex’s

No matter how good you are in bed, your partner can never admit that your penis is better than her ex’s, simply because the ex was just that good.

The only way to not become a person with this type of penis is to never ask about your girlfriend’s ex. [Read: 11 hot ways you can get better in bed]

5. The unicorn – Perfectly proportioned to her vagina

This one is a rare find. It is exactly the penis of a woman’s dreams, if she ever took the time to imagine one. It fits perfectly inside her, right down to the curve, and it can always give her a G-spot orgasm.

It’s huge enough to generate waves of pleasure, but not so big that it can choke a girl when she’s going down on you. Any penis can be a unicorn if it finds its female counterpart. [Read: 18 sex tips to make her crave for more]

6. The work of art – Requires algebra and calculus to measure

Surprisingly, a lot of men have strangely-shaped and colored penises. Some look like chocolate dipped hotdogs, while some have architectural differences, including angle and shaft-to-head proportion.

Women are slightly apprehensive of penises like these. Unless it looks like a monster out of their nightmare, they will be willing to try it once or twice to see if they like it.

7. The one with technical difficulties

Size and shape won’t matter if the machinery doesn’t work. Women want men who can perform at a moment’s notice. The point of sex is to derive pleasure from each other and reach a climax.

You need to medicate or check with a physician if your penis isn’t doing anything except take up space in your boxers. [Read: How to last longer during sex]

Why penis size and shape matters

We don’t want to burst anyone’s bubble, but size and shape really do matter – but only to a certain extent. Your penis has to be big enough to please a woman but if it’s too big, it can become a problem.

And we can’t forget about the shape. Some are thicker than others and some have a curve to it that can be good or bad depending on the person the guy is with. It all boils down to one thing – compatibility.

It doesn’t matter what your penis looks like so long as it’s compatible with the woman. [Read: How to know a guy has a big dick – 18 signs he’s big and well-endowed]

What type of penis do women want and what are the signs of a perfect cock?

Women have a specific set of standards when it comes to choosing the right type of penis to spend the rest of their lives with. When dating, women wonder about it, but aren’t exactly interested in inspecting the goods immediately.

But if they did, what would they be checking for? And, does the perfect cock really exist?

1. Hygiene

It’s understandable that a woman will touch or taste your penis at some point in the relationship. If they smell something funky or see something disturbing down there, they will retreat.

This is a good note for men who have uncircumcised penises or impenetrable bushes. Just remember to wash and trim. [Read: What’s it like to sleep with an uncircumcised man?]

2. Size

Don’t worry about the length of your penis if you’ve got the girth. A penis circumference of 5 inches or more can get a girl off even with a penis that’s 3 or 4 inches long. It may not be aesthetically pleasing, but women rarely consider a penis’s appearance if it’s enough to get her off.

3. Appearance

If your penis has a strange appearance, make sure that you warn your girl about it. Some women do not know how to handle surprises. You might end up offended if she had no idea what she was getting into. [Read: Do women ever get penis envy?]

4. Exposure

Women don’t want to see your penis for more than a couple of hours at a time. They have other things to do and you walking around with your dick out can be distracting.

It also kills the anticipation of your next sexual encounter, because the sight of your penis won’t induce awe anymore.

5. The twins should be trimmed

The balls are the most blatant accessory any person can ever have. Take care of your boys. Try not to tug on them while masturbating and always wear the prerequisite support they need, especially when participating in sports.

Women prefer not to touch hairy balls, so don’t forget to trim down there. [Read: Healthy testicles – 7 tests to keep your balls in check]

6. Average size cocks are supposed to be better for long-term commitment

It’s thought that if a guy has an average-sized cock, there is more chance of a long-term commitment, compared to a larger penis, which could signal a hook up. Of course, this viewpoint varies from woman to woman, but it makes sense when you think about it.

7. Attached to a partner who is trustworthy

Perhaps the most important thing a woman likes about a penis is that it’s attached to someone she can trust and believe in. Really, as long as you’re doing what you can with your appendage, she’s more concerned about your character than anything else. [Read: Blue balls – What it is, why guys get them and every must-know detail]

Penis-related things women don’t actually care about

If you’re worried about having the perfect cock, you should also know what women don’t really care about. Here are a few things many guys worry about, but women just don’t care about.

1. Circumcision

This isn’t a big deal at all. Some people are circumcised, some aren’t. If you keep it clean, it really doesn’t matter if you are or not.

Your member will function the same and please a woman in the way it can. Foreskin has nothing to do with it. [Read: 7 sexy things to love about an uncircumcised penis]

2. The size of your balls

Unless there’s a medical reason for your balls to be abnormally large and distracting, women just don’t care. In fact, they don’t even notice.

If you’re worried about your balls throwing off how perfect your cock looks, stop. It doesn’t do anything. [Read: Balls – the pros and cons and what girls think of them]

3. The sagginess of your balls

Again, ladies don’t even notice this. Sure, if they’re particularly low-hanging it might catch attention, but that won’t deter a woman who likes you. Therefore, you have nothing to worry about when it comes to your balls.

How to have the perfect cock for your woman

If you want to know how your cock can be the best for the widest majority of women, pay attention. It won’t take much to get it there. Remember, every woman likes something different.

Do these few things and your penis will be looking great! [Read: Painful sex – 11 health reasons why sex is painful for men]

1. Keep it clean and fresh

You don’t have to do anything extensive for this. Simply keeping it clean in the shower and trimming it when necessary is all it takes.

If you’ve been sweating excessively and want to get frisky with your lady, hop in the shower for a minute or so just to freshen up.

2. Ask what she likes in terms of hair.

This varies from woman to woman. Some don’t care how much hair you have and others would prefer you remain hair-free.

All you have to do is ask your girl which she likes best. With any luck, she’ll have told you after your first romp in the sheets. Then you can maintain that level of cleanliness for her. [Read: How to safely shave your pubic hair area as a man]

3. To have the perfect cock, you need to have confidence in it!

If you’re insecure about your penis, she will be too. Basically, if you’re always worried about it and asking if it’s okay for her, she’ll notice more flaws.

Have some confidence in your equipment. Own it! The more confident you are, the sexier you’ll be to her.

4. Learn how to use it well

Truthfully, a woman isn’t going to care what your penis looks like if you know how to use it well. In order to do this, you’ll have to practice a lot and figure out what she likes in bed.

Don’t just rely solely on your penis to do the work. Do some learning! [Read: 8 tips for great sex positions if you have a curved penis]

5. Don’t name it

For the love of all that is good in this world, please don’t name it. Doing so is childish and is more likely to result in her not liking it. If you’ve already named it, don’t tell her what it is.

Who knew women had other concerns about penises aside from size, right? The good thing is that knowing these things will help you prepare the woman you’re dating for whatever it is you’re carrying. Just having a neat and clean penis will go a long way, rather than just having a big appendage to impress the ladies. [Read: Sex with a new partner – How to start your adventure with a bang]

So, what penis size do women prefer?

All guys are keen to know what penis size a woman prefers but the truth is there is no answer to give. Just as some people like full-fat cola and others like diet cola, everyone has a different opinion.

A huge penis seems to be the one thing all guys want, but most woman panic when faced with a huge trouser-snake. But, not all women.

Put simply, you have a penis, you can’t change it. All you can do is work out how to use it to the best of your ability. That’s really all she cares about.

[Read: The essential guide to pleasing a woman sexually and emotionally]

The perfect cock? What is perfect anyway? No matter what size it is or how it looks, you can rest assured that women will be more interested in what you have to offer if you show them your sincerity and kindness.

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