If your sex life is getting boring and you’re looking for a way to spice it up *or even if you’re just looking to add some romance to your love life*, having sex in the tub is definitely the way to go. You could even hire a hot tub and try some delicious hot tub sex too!
For all of you grown-ups out there with little ones at home, it’s also a great way to escape with your lover for an evening. Water, chill out time, and plenty of dirty fun – what more could you want?
Sex in the tub is getting popular lately due to the fact that there are SO many different things you can do in a tub. There are also many different elements you can bring to your sexcapades in the hot water of your bubbly tub that makes it SO much more fun. Not sure how to go about it? Let’s explore! [Read: Spontaneous sex: 15 Reasons you need it and how to do it right]
It’s no secret that having sex with the same person can get a little boring after a while – especially if your sex is usually in the same positions and always in the same place. Sure, it feels good, but it would be SO much better if you had some spontaneity. It’s not always easy to change things up if you’re used to the same old routine, but a little effort can bring some fantastic effects.
When you spice up your sex life, both parties are more satisfied afterwards. This is not only great for you, but it’ll actually bring you two closer as a couple. And on top of that *pun intended,* it will aid in creating a strong and healthy relationship.
Let’s be honest, it feels good and it helps your relationship too. [Read: How to spice up your sex life in 30 sexy ways]
You may think that you can just hop in the tub and get it on, but that would be a huge mistake. There are certain steps you should take, and different positions you should try in order to make the most out of having sex in the tub. If you hire a hot tub and want to try some delicious hot tub sex, you also need to think about a few safety aspects! [Read: Dirty ways to have the sexiest hot sex ever]
Turn the hot water on, add some delicious smelling scents, strip down, and get dirty while getting clean with your lover. In order to make the night an unforgettable one, try these tips for the best ways to have sex in the tub.
You don’t want a scalding hot bath when you’re about to get in and start heating yourself up. Make sure your water is at a medium temperature but still very warm to the touch.
This way, you won’t get too hot to have sex. And the water will stay warm enough while you are getting busy in the bubbles. The same goes for hot tub sex, it might be bubbly but hot bubbles aren’t fun! [Read: How to have safe sex in every single way it is possible to]
Just remember that this bath will have TWO people in it. This means that you can’t fill it up like you normally would it if were just you.
Leave enough space for the both of you to actually get IN the tub. And don’t forget about leaving room for the water to move around since, well, you’ll be moving around.
The last thing you need is for either of you have a harsh reaction to some irritating soap getting somewhere it’s not supposed to be. Nothing will kill a mood faster than a rash forming in the one place you really don’t want it to be. [Read: Hot sex ideas to blow your lover’s mind in bed]
There are TONS of different oils out there that are safe to use during sex in the tub. You can choose from a lot of different ones that smell amazing, and they will only add to the mood – and it’ll make the sex that much better.
What’s a sexy, oily, bubble bath without some candles? Turning the lights down low and having the warm glow of the candles is a great way to set the mood. It also makes the night so much more memorable.
In order to set the mood and make it a really romantic and sexy night, play some soft, slow music. Nothing will get your partner in the mood more than a hot bath, scented oils, candles flickering throughout the bathroom, and soft music humming way in the background. [Read: 50 kinky ideas for a sexy relationship]
Foreplay before having sex in the tub has to be the best part. You have a hot bubble bath all cued up for you and your partner. So get in it with them, grab a soft loofa, and scrub each other down.
Touching each other while you’re all hot and oiled up is a fantastic way to do foreplay. And you don’t even have to stop there… if you know what I mean.
A really fun position to have sex in the tub is to get on all fours and have him behind you. This way you still get the hot water, the scents, and the bubbles, but you’re not completely covered in them. It’s fantastic for when you start getting a tad bit too warm. [Read: 9 Ways to make doggy style your favorite sex position]
Now have your man lower himself into the tub on his back and get right on top of him. This position is great because with the edges of the tub, you have so much more control over your speed and depth. Try switching up those two things for maximum pleasure! [Read: 18 girl on top tips to make sex a lot sexier]
Now it’s time to switch. Have the guy get on top while the lady lies on her back in the tub. This is really intimate and sexy. The oil will make a great lubricant between your bodies, and that skin-on-skin contact will do wonders for the sex.
Don’t just stick with a few positions. Try whatever comes to your mind! Different people will prefer different positions, and you just have to find which one is best for the two of you to have sex in the tub.
No, not the kind your kids might play with. I’m talking about waterproof toys specifically meant for having sex in the tub. There are a lot of fun toys that you can bring with you in the tub for both men and women to amplify your pleasure there. [Read: Wild ways to have sex in the shower and enjoy it]
If you’re using a hot tub outdoors, perhaps in your garden or yard, make sure that nosey neighbors aren’t getting a peek of your action. The same goes for people walking past. They’re not going to appreciate what you’re getting up to, especially if they have young children in the house. It could get you into some very hot water indeed, no pun intended. Just make sure that you’re shielded from view.
Water may wash away your natural lubrication so trying a lube might make things more comfortable and a little sexier too! Make sure you opt for a water-safe version and you’ll be slipping and sliding in the best possible way. [Read: How to use lubricants to liven up your sex life instantly]
It’s really not a good idea. The chances of it not going on right are pretty high. In that case, put the condom on outside of the water and then get back in to enjoy your fun.
It might only seem like a small amount of water but if you’re under the influence, it’s still dangerous. Also, you’re not going to enjoy it as much if you’re not totally in the moment, so wait until you’re sober!
This is a problem if you have the water too hot but it can also be an issue with hot tub sex too. If you feel strange in any way, perhaps dizzy or too hot, stop and get out of the water for a break. See how you feel before continuing. [Read: Unprotected sex: The dangers most people don’t even think about]
If you’re finished or taking a break before heading into the bedroom, take the opportunity to massage each other while you’re all oiled up and warm. This is a great way to end sex in the tub because it will bring you closer together, put cuddling to shame, and it’ll also serve as great foreplay for round 2.
Now, the sex doesn’t necessarily have to END in the tub if you don’t want it to. You can definitely just get warmed up there. The great thing about toweling each other off is that you get to rub your partner down again before hitting the bedroom.
Whether or not you finished in the tub, take the sex to the bedroom and finish – or go for round 2! The sex doesn’t need to stop in the tub. A lot of people use sex in the tub as their warm up before the main event in the bedroom.
[Read: Best places to have sex: 41 Wild and naughty ideas beyond the bed]
Having sex in the tub is a fantastic way to spice up your sex life and add a relaxing element to your sex routine. If you want to know how to have the best sex in the tub, the tips above will help you make it an unforgettable night.
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