When a girl blushes, it’s super cute. She becomes all coy and shy for a second, even if her personality is far from shy. A gentle shade of pink appears over her face. She might even giggle. Yes, a blushing girl is probably one of the most beautiful sights there is. The good news is that learning how to make a girl blush isn’t actually hard. You simply need to know a few key moves and you’ll be in blushing land before you know it.
Of course, it also depends upon the girl as to what works versus what might not. Some girls blush a little easier than others. For instance, just because a girl is strong and tough on the outside, doesn’t mean she hasn’t got a soft center. That means you need to focus on that and pull the blush out by giving her a heartfelt compliment that pierces that tough exterior!
On the other hand, a girl may be quite soft and sensitive, so simply telling her that she’s beautiful might be enough to make that pink creep across her face.
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Learning how to make a girl blush, not just any girl but your girl, is a fun thing because lots of different things will work. If you find a few that don’t, so what, it’s still fun trying!
How to make a girl blush and feel warm inside
So, let’s learn how to make a girl blush and put these strategies in practice!
#1 Maintain eye contact a little longer than normal. When you hold eye contact with someone, it’s pretty awkward at first, especially if you don’t know the person well. However, if you’re making eye contact with a girl you’re crushing on or someone you’ve just started dating, it’s not hard to make them blush this way! Don’t stare, but hold their gaze just a few seconds longer than you normally would. [Read: How to read a girl and the subtle hints she drops your way]
#2 Compliment her in a way that’s out of the ordinary. Anyone can say “you’re so pretty” or “I love your hair,” but these compliments lack originality. As a result, they don’t always have the desired effect.
If you want to learn how to make a girl blush, think outside of the box and come up with something unique to her. However, unless you know the girl quite intimately, avoid anything that could offend her and not just cause her to blush! [Read: How to compliment a girl and make her blush]
#3 Smile yourself and hold her eyes. Eye contact is a very common way to make a girl blush, but if you smile at the same time, it will definitely intensify the effect. We tend to mirror the body language of someone we like, so if you smile at her, she’s likely to smile. When you keep smiling *in a cute way, not a creepy way*, it will definitely make her blush.
#4 Tease her just a little. A gentle teasing is a great way to cause anyone to blush, so if you tease a girl you’ve been dating or simply crushing on, the likelihood is that she’ll either laugh along with you or become a little coy and slightly embarrassed and start to blush. Remember there is a difference between gentle teasing and offending her. Tread that line carefully. [Read: How to tease a girl sexually and leave her with your thoughts all day]
#5 Use a joke that only the two of you know. Maybe you have an ‘in’ joke that’s personal to the two of you or a pet name that nobody else knows. If you bring it up in public, not loud enough for others to hear but loud enough for her to hear, it will trigger a memory and probably make her blush pretty quickly. When learning how to make a girl blush, it’s about connecting your words and actions to things she can remember. [Read: 18 casual things to text a girl and leave her addicted to you]
#6 Flirt up a storm. Let’s be honest, flirting is pretty awkward most of the time. When you’re connecting with someone, it’s cute. What better way to cause that blushing than by flirting with your girl and watching for her reaction? Be careful not to move into cheesy territory, but keep it light and fun. See what happens. [Read: How to have playful banter and keep the flirting alive forever]
#7 Reminisce over a private memory. A little earlier I talked about bringing up a private joke, but what about a special moment the two of you shared? Tell a story you remember, perhaps when she accidentally tripped and you saved her from falling, how you remember her being embarrassed. Don’t laugh at her. Simply say it with affection, and she’ll probably end up blushing at the memory!
#8 Call her out on something in a joking manner. If she says something funny or something you don’t agree with, call her out in a fun way and see if it makes her blush. This one doesn’t work for every girl, because some girls might become defensive instead. You know your girl better than anyone, and if you don’t, well, it’s trial and error! [Read: Pussy tease – How to be the charming guy who seduces in slow motion]
#9 Say something heartfelt. Speaking from the heart is one of the best ways to learn how to make a girl blush. Genuine compliments about her personality are likely to really hit the spot. Come up with something that you really believe to be true. That’s the key. Make sure you actually believe it because she will see through fake words pretty easily.
#10 Just tell her you like it when she blushes. Sometimes the best way is the direct way! If you want to know how to make a girl blush, just tell her you like it when she blushes! She’ll probably do it by default! [Read: 50 flirty text messages that are sure to make her smile]
So, go make her blush
As you can see, learning how to make a girl blush isn’t that difficult, you just need to be direct and watch for her reactions. However, not every step will work with every girl and some girls might take offense if you’re not careful. For that reason, test the waters before you try it. You don’t want to cause a problem or an argument when all you were trying to do is get her to do the cute blushing thing you love!
Blushing is a reaction that most people can’t help. It happens automatically. You can’t tell yourself not to blush and expect your face to heed your words. If you’re going to do it, you’re going to do it! That’s what’s so cute about when girls blush. They have no control over it. It really shows you a glimpse into how she feels at that moment. It also shows a small amount of vulnerability which in itself is very sweet.
The biggest rules here are not to say something crude. There is making a girl blush in a cute way and making a girl blush because you’re reminding her of something intimate. Some girls might like the memory of that moment, but others might become flustered and truly embarrassed. Keep it light. Again, play around with methods to find out which one suits your girl.
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Learning how to make a girl blush is about connecting memories with words or actions, but it’s also about showing her that you actually care.
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