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How to be Graceful and Elegant in 10 Steps

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A graceful woman attracts attention and draws respect from all men. Find out how to be graceful and elegant and wow anyone or any place you walk into.

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The art of being graceful isn’t a trait that’s just used to impress a guy or look good at a social gathering.

It’s the key to a better life.

Men love a graceful woman.

Women envy a graceful woman.

It’s easy to be graceful. In fact, all you need to do is follow ten little steps.

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How to be graceful and elegant

Understanding how to be graceful is filled with self reflecting lessons that need your attention.

If the whole idea of spending time in front of the mirror, miming and pretending like you’re having a conversation or learning to smile and pout puts you off, well, you’re going to have a hard time learning to be graceful.

You’re your own critique. And you can learn to be graceful only if you’re prepared to look at yourself in the mirror and pick your own flaws.

After all, all those perfect celebrities didn’t learn to walk with a graceful swanlike gait when they took their first baby step.

If you want to be graceful, here are ten steps you need to indulge in.

#1 Be aware of your own body

Even as you sit, can you feel the different parts of your body? Do you know the exact position of your toes or your back? Can you visualize the positions of your body parts look without really looking at it? To be graceful, you need to be completely aware of your body no matter where you are. Every move you make should be calculated and precise. [Read: Tips to get a guy to like you]

#2 Take dancing lessons

Learn ballet or any other form of dance like the salsa which emphasizes on graceful and calculated fluid body movement. While being aware of where your body parts are can help you be aware of your body, it takes the understanding of smooth motion to move and carry yourself with grace.

For starters, stand in front of the mirror and jog in one place. Do you see your body move about awkwardly or does it make you look like an athlete? You may think you’re moving perfectly while jogging on-spot or running about, but it takes looking into a mirror to see how clumsy unprofessional runners really are. [Read: How men really fall in love with a woman]

#3 Flexibility and yoga

Learning to be flexible can do wonders for your posture. Take a few yoga lessons and see if you like it. If you’re serious about good posture and total body control, yoga can help you get fitter, mentally and physically. There’s nothing in the world that can help you control your body and be completely aware of it better than yoga.

#4 Practice a good posture

No matter where you are, walk with a straight back that feels comfortable. While many girls prefer to learn to walk straight with a pile of books over their head, you can skip that if you think it’s over the top. But try it at least once to really understand how it feels. After all, it’s the best test to find your real posture.

Stand in front of the mirror and ask yourself if you like what you see when you stand with a straight back? Do you feel confident and composed?

#5 Watch and learn from other people

All of us have a few role models that we like for different reasons. Do you admire someone for the way they look or the way they walk? Or perhaps, is it their confidence? People who seem confident and full of energy always have a great posture. There are no exceptions here. [Read: 20 things that sexually attract a guy when he sees a girl]

If you really want to improve your posture, look good and feel great, sometimes, it may be easier to watch and learn from someone else.

#6 Lose that fat

There’s no bias here that obese women are ungraceful. But you have to understand how being graceful works. You can only be graceful if you are completely aware of your body and completely in control of it. You can control your muscles, but you can’t control the fat in your body because they’re not really controllable by your mind.

So if you have parts you can’t really control, you’ll have to work that much harder to look graceful. It’s easier to just shed the fat by participating in yoga or dance classes. You’ll have a lot more fun, look better and be graceful, all at the same time.

#7 Manners while sitting down

Be aware of what your body is doing no matter where you are. Don’t ever plonk yourself down heavily on a seat. Take your time to sit down in a calculated fluid motion and move back gracefully. No matter what you do, your motions have to be smooth like a dance routine. And don’t spread your legs after sitting down, instead cross your feet.

#8 Sound beautiful and polite

Everyone is drawn to a polite speaker who makes the other person feel comfortable. Speak softly and sound gentle. Don’t speak too fast, yell or indulge in crude gestures. Watch yourself in the mirror and practice your happy smile. It can definitely melt hearts. [Read: How to talk to a guy and make him like you]

#9 Walk like a star

Walk purposefully with an erect back. Don’t ever drag or stamp your feet and don’t be jittery or nervous. Take your time before taking the first step instead of walking about a few times and deciding which way to go. Move with grace, whether you’re running or walking. [Read: How to get a guy’s attention in any circumstance]

#10 Don’t be clumsy

Clumsy people have no control over their body. They have no idea how wide their butt is or how heaving their bosoms are. Don’t be that woman. To test your clumsiness, play a little game of hopscotch and see if you can control your body. Want to get better, play the game on your toes. If you can stand tall even after a round of the game on your toes, you’re definitely graceful!

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If you truly want to know how to be graceful, trust these 10 steps. It’ll help you understand how graceful you really are and how graceful you really can be!


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  • Amy
    September 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    I plan on using these tips and many others to strengthen my relationship. I am ready for a change, and I am sure my man is, too.

  • kuu
    January 26, 2014 | Permalink |

    i have deformed spine. how do I apply this? if it cannot be helped, how do I do this with compensation? a man will find it so brave and adorable and sexy that i don’t give up. even with a crooked spine, and neck always slumped over. and then loving me for the scars that tried to help my deformity. that i solider on, and it is more amazing than the ballerina types this POS says I need to be.

    I’m so envious of the ones worse off than me. like women born with no hips who get married and plop out children.

  • Karin
    March 8, 2014 | Permalink |

    So basically, no fat girl can be graceful & elegant. So explain why I see lots of overweight people (women) with significant others?

  • Dlove
    December 17, 2014 | Permalink |

    being gracefull is not about having a significant other, it is for you to feel more comfortable in your body, it is for you to feel good about how you cary yourself. even if you have a deformed spine. you can still learn ways to maneuver yourself that will make you feel more comfortable.

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