Looking to spice up the bedroom? Learning where your man’s hidden erogenous zones are and how to touch them is the best way to blow his mind in bed!
Think you know everything about your partner? While we don’t doubt you know your man, there’s always something new you can learn about him, especially when it comes to moves that will help you make the most of his biology.
Understanding the hidden erogenous zones for males means you can take him by surprise and drive him crazy with a new move or two. You might think you know all the places to touch a man, but there are more than you think!
What are erogenous zones?
Getting your man turned on is not limited to the area below the belt, you know. Other areas of his body are extremely sensitive to touch, vibration, and pressure. These areas are called erogenous zones!
Erogenous zones have a high concentration of nerve endings and contribute to the majesty of male sexual arousal. Giving extra attention to an erogenous zone during foreplay can enhance pleasure, promote blood flow, and relax your partner. [Read: Stop ignoring erogenous zones – The perfect neck kisses]
Many of the male erogenous zones revolve around the genital areas, but there’s much more than just fondling his penis and squeezing his scrotum. By learning the places to touch a man that aren’t so obvious, you can take your sex life from okay to wow in an instant!
Secrets erogenous zones for males you should learn to play with
We’re all different, but we can all agree that the following zones are extremely pleasurable. You’ll learn how to use your hands and mouth to the best possible effect to turn your guy on like there’s no tomorrow! [Read: Foreplay moves that work really well on men and drive them crazy]
Here are the best places to touch a man to drive him insane with pleasure and desire!
1. The back of his knees
Our bodies have plenty of potential for pleasure in many different areas, yet we skip over many of them. The back of his knees is one of the erogenous zones for males you probably often ignore, are we right?
You see, the skin here is extremely sensitive and smoother than most of the parts of his body. Studies show that areas with little or no hair are super sensitive and easily build strong sexual tension for an explosive orgasm.
So, the next time you’re fooling around with your partner, gently touch the back of his knees, draw circles with your hands, and kiss him there to see what happens. [Read: Foolproof kissing tips for a perfectly sexy smooch]
2. His inner thighs
His inner thighs are also often overlooked. Considering you’re getting closer and closer to his genital area, how could this part not be extra pleasurable?
Touching his inner thighs—or, as we like to call them, the pathway to his package—can really get him in the mood. His jewels reside here, so when you’re moving your fingers around this area, you’re teasing and enticing him.
Move your fingers around his thighs, tickle him gently, then press your palms consistently against his skin and work your magic. Trace the spot where his thighs and hips meet, and sensuously move your fingers up and down. Don’t forget to look him deep in the eyes while he’s in heaven!
3. His lips
We all know that kissing feels great. That’s because it’s utilizing an incredibly erogenous zone! There are many ways you can kiss and touch a man to stimulate him during foreplay and sex. [Read: How to make out with a guy like a sex goddess]
You can be as gentle or as rough as the mood calls for. Try lightly biting his lips and pulling on them with your teeth if you just can’t get enough of him. Gliding your tongue across his lips is a great way to soothe his lips after you’ve been kissing them for a while. Every part of your mouth is an amazing tool to use on your partner’s mouth.
4. His feet
You don’t have to have a fetish to enjoy feet *but if you do, all the more power to you!* Because there are so many nerve endings in our feet, the area is yours to explore! Areas such as under the ankle, the bottom of the foot, and the toes are all very sensitive and arousing.
His feet are the perfect spot to start your foreplay. We all have numerous nerve endings on our feet, but men have a higher concentration than women. Massaging his feet is both relaxing and sexy, so you’re doubling the benefits. Win-win!
Lay him on the bed, take his socks off, pour oil into your palms, and do your work. Start with one foot – take the foot into your hands and start making gentle movements around his ankle. Do the same with his other foot. Want to go a little further? Brush his feet against your breasts or your mouth. He will explode! [Read: Feet fetishes – incorporating feet into your sex life]
5. His underarms
Okay, it’s not the sexiest area, but when it comes to a sensual massage, you cannot neglect this part. His underarms are extra sensitive—sometimes to the extent that he simply can’t bear your fingers playing there. This makes it a great erogenous zone for males.
When fondled tenderly, your man will feel unimaginable pleasure, so add some wet kisses, gently blow some air, and let your fingernails dance and scrape. Start at his armpits, and go all the way down to his stomach. Caressing the underarms will get his attention, and he will want more and more.
Simply make sure that you move away and back to the area, to avoid the sensations becoming too intense. Some guys feel too ticklish here, but it’s a good place to try when exploring new places to touch a man! [Read: 16 non-sexual touches to feel connected and loved]
6. His hands
We use our hands so often that we forget just how sensitive they can really be. There are many nerve endings in the hand that you can play with to arouse your guy. His fingertips and palms are very sensitive, which will make light, slow touches all the more pleasurable.
You can lightly run your own fingers across his palms, or have him graze other parts of your body very softly. Some men also enjoy the sensation of slowly having their fingers sucked. So, flick your tongue around his fingers and nibble on them until he gasps.
Make sure you’re making eye contact. This way, you’re taking control of the foreplay session, while creating a vivid fantasy in his head. It will automatically make him wonder what you’re planning on sucking on next… [Read: The art of giving a perfect finger blowjob]
7. His pubic hairline
Giving attention to his pubic hairline is the fastest way to arouse your man and send pleasure throughout his body. This spot is incredibly sensitive, so make sure you are playing with it very softly.
If you are doing foreplay, you can hook your finger in the hem of his pants and softly run your finger across this area. If your hands are preoccupied, try slowly gliding your tongue across this region and planting soft kisses as you go. Playing in this erogenous zone for males is essentially teasing him about what’s to come. [Read: Sexy, slutty moves to give the best handjob ever]
8. His F spot
The frenulum is a spot just below the head where the glans and shaft meet on the underside of the penis. It contains lots of neural synapses, which is why it is often compared to the clitoris. If stimulated in the right way, it will give your man an unforgettable sensation.
How to flip his switch? With one hand, hold his love muscle steady at the base, and let your tongue slide over this area. Give the F spot fast flicks with the tip of your tongue. Don’t stop doing this, even when he’s having an orgasm. Believe us, he’ll go nuts, so don’t be surprised if your neighbors look at you weirdly in the morning!
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9. His P spot
You’ve heard of the famous perineum—the patch of skin that’s blessed with unbelievable orgasmic potential. It lies between his anus and testicles, and it has nerve endings that run to his prostate. Oh, don’t worry, we’re gonna teach you how to take care of his prostate, too! [Read: Drive him wild – how to find and stimulate the male G-spot]
As we said, his perineum is packed with nerve endings that magnify and increase his pleasure. The cowgirl position is the best position because you can easily reach between his legs and pleasure this erogenous zone for males.
While you’re riding him, press the area between his anus and testicles with the knuckle of your index finger – but please, be gentle. This area is extremely sensitive. Use your knuckle, otherwise, you might scratch him. Yikes!
In order to send your man to unforgettable orgasmic ecstasy, you need to mix up the direction as well as the amount of pressure. Massage up and down, left and right, and so forth. Once he’s near the finish line, press the perineum a little harder and watch him get lost in the ultimate O. [Read: 19 ways to own the cowgirl position and make it way hotter]
10. His G spot
We hate the fact that everybody’s so obsessed with the female G spot that we often forget guys have an equivalent area. The male G spot is the prostate—a small, walnut-sized gland located about ¾ of a finger length inside his anus. When gently massaged, it will give your man a powerful orgasm.
Now, some men enjoy gentle movements, while others prefer more intense pressure. Start massaging gently, and his reaction and response will tell you whether or not he likes what you’re doing. You can use your finger, your tongue, or a toy. Who said toys are for women only?
It’s totally okay if you and your partner aren’t immediately comfortable with exploring his G spot, but you should know by now that this powerful gland can lead to mind-blowing orgasms, and your partner is equally entitled to earth-shattering pleasure. [Read: The curious guy and girl’s guide to first time anal experiences]
11. His abdomen
The abdomen is often overlooked as an erogenous zone for males, but it is one. Research has shown that the abdomen muscles are actually connected to the pelvic floor muscles, which can make stimulation on his abdomen pleasurable.
The abdomen, as well as the sides of his stomach, are hypersensitive to long light strokes. Use your fingertips to gently glide across his abdomen. Or your tongue, too. Planting kisses in this area, or using toys and liquid play will only enhance his pleasure!
The belly button is one of the lesser-known places to touch a man to get a crazy response, but make sure you visit here and just below. The lower abdomen is packed with nerve endings, so a kiss or lick here is sure to drive him insane.
Now, you don’t have to dip your tongue into his belly button if you don’t want to. He might like it, he might not – but you probably won’t! Still, it’s something to try if you both want to!
13. His ears
Not only does he want to hear your gasps and sighs of pleasure, but the ears are also one of the best places to touch a man for a great response. Believe it or not, the ears are packed with nerve endings and sensory receptors, which means they’re a key place to visit when driving your man wild.
Lick, nibble, wet them, blow on them, and remember to make a few sexy noises in his ear at the same time. This erogenous zone for males drives them wild with lust. [Read: Types of touches – the 36 physical touches we use and what they mean]
14. His lower back
This one might be difficult if he’s laid flat on his back, but if he’s sitting or in a position that allows you to touch his lower back, he’ll thank you for it!
You need to aim for the sacrum, which is also known as the small of the back. Be gentle here as it’s very sensitive, but a swirling motion with your fingers or brushing against it will make him feel extra pleasure on top of what he’s already feeling.
15. His neck
Don’t miss his neck! Kissing, licking, and even nibbling will drive him crazy in this area. When looking for an arousing place to touch a man, focus on the most sensitive part of the neck is the nape, or the back of the neck. Give this spot extra attention and you’ll make him crazy with desire. This is an erogenous zone for males that can really get you the results you’re after.
Just remember that nibbling or sucking too hard can cause hickies – and not everyone wants to turn up to work the next day with one! [Read: How to turn a guy on while kissing with these sensual moves]
16. His nipples
Some guys don’t feel a huge amount when their nipples are sucked, licked, or even nibbled, but some guys do. You’ll need to work out where your guy is on the sensitivity scale here.
It’s definitely one of the erogenous zones for males that is often overlooked, so make sure you pay a little attention to his nipples and see how he responds. [Read: 25 secrets to make a guy cum fast, hard & explode his load In minutes]
17. His inner wrists
By lightly running your fingers over his inner wrist, you can sexually arouse your man. The skin on the inside of the wrist is delicate, thin, and soft, so be sure not to be too rough on him.
Gently nibbling, sucking, or running your tongue on the inside of his wrist is sure to get him going. This is an underrated erogenous zone for males, but it is great!
18. His scalp
The scalp is a very sensitive part of the body because it has many nerve endings, hence why scalp massages and running your hands through your man’s hair are so enjoyable.
Touching your guy’s scalp could mean gently running your hands through his hair, or even roughly pulling his hair back. Doing either of these is sure to send pleasure all throughout his body.
Tips to stimulate erogenous zones
If this is your first time incorporating erogenous zones into your activity in the bedroom, it is important that you know and follow these tips to make it a fun and arousing time for you both!
1. Check with your partner first
We all have erogenous zones, and although some of them are objectively pleasurable, everyone reacts to sensations differently. You must check in with your partner and ensure these areas of stimulation are actually pleasurable for him. [Read: How to talk about sex with your partner]
If your partner is comfortable with you exploring his body, feel free to do so, but don’t forget to check in on him and ask how things feel. Not only will this help you get to know your partner’s body more, but you are also making sure sexy time is enjoyable for the both of you.
2. Experiment with your partner
Experimenting with different sensations on your man is an exciting and fun way to play with his erogenous zones in the bedroom. His different erogenous zones will have a different response to each stimulus, so give it a try!
Use your hands, mouth, and other parts of your body when touching him. You can experiment with different toys such as sex toys that vibrate, suck, blow, or tickle. [Read: Must-have couple’s sex toys for naughty first timers]
Blindfold him or tie him up so his sensations are restricted. Temperature play is a popular and fun way to explore and touch a man as well. This includes using a lubricant on him, tracing an ice cube over his erogenous zones, or even candle wax play *when used safely.*
3. Take your time
There is no rush to stimulate all of his erogenous zones, so take your time with each one. The longer you play in one of his zones, the more aroused he will become. Teasing him in an erogenous zone will only build up the tension and enhance his sexual pleasure.
Stimulating all of his zones will not make him aroused any faster, in fact, it might overwhelm him and turn him off completely. Instead, take it slow and prioritize one or two zones at a time. Enjoy the experience and be gentle on him. [Read: 25 femdom secrets to dominate your man in bed]
What are you waiting for? Now you know exactly where to touch your man to drive him crazy with desire, there’ll be no looking back!
[Read: Ways to take your sex life from vanilla to OMFG!]
Don’t put off exploration, use these tips to engage his erogenous zones tonight. After all, there’s nothing sexier than seeing your man thoroughly enjoying himself!
