Let’s be real, this is something we all wonder when we meet someone new. We want to make out with them and figure out how to get him all riled up. The thing is, knowing how to turn a guy on while kissing isn’t as complex as it seems.
Guys are already probably turned on if they’re kissing you
This is just the reality of it. Are you turned on while kissing him? You should be. And the same is for him. Kissing is a sexual act. Doing it with someone for the first time is even more arousing than you think.
Therefore, most guys – if they really like you – will already be turned on by just kissing you. That being said, there are ways to drive him even more nuts and make him continuously want to come back for more.
Because that’s your goal, right? You want him to not be able to get enough of you. The best way to do that is to turn him on so much while kissing that he can’t stop thinking about it while you’re apart. [Read: The best tips for turning on a guy]
How to turn a guy on while kissing with some naughty, sensual moves
Keep in mind that all guys are different. They like different things and that means you’ll have to experiment a little to figure out what your guy likes best. But overall, guys tend to enjoy these moves while you’re making out.
#1 Use a tiny bit of tongue. Don’t thrust your tongue in his mouth the second it touches his. That’s just a little too aggressive and not sexy because it can get messy. Instead, use a very small amount and do it tastefully.
Go slow while you’re kissing you. Grab the sides of his face and give him a deep kiss with a tiny bit of tongue. Sometimes simple is best. [Read: How to kiss with tongue and avoid a sloppy mess]
#2 Moan very softly. Never moan like the girls in porn. You don’t want to make him think you’re getting off by just kissing him. That being said, you can let very small sounds of pleasure escape and still make him go nuts. It gives his ego a boost at the same time, which is even better.
#3 Glide your hands down his chest and stomach. Using your hands in general will definitely do more for you than just leaving them be. So take them from around his neck or the sides of his face and just trail them down.
Don’t go too low, but just low enough to make him WANT you to keep moving them down. This is a great way to turn him on and get him thinking about where else he’d like your hands to go.
#4 Nibble on his bottom lip. You have to be careful not to bite down too hard here. Just barely graze the bottom of his lip with your teeth. If he does seem super into this, then you can bite a little harder and even give a small tug. It’s super sexy and will drive him nuts! [Read: The scientific explanation of why lip biting is so damn sexy]
#5 Make a move to kiss his neck. You don’t just have to kiss his mouth and turn him on. Take your attention down to his neck and kiss there. It’s a really sensitive erogenous zone for them that too many girls forget about.
Just like you enjoy your neck kissed, so does he. Although, some guys may not get much from this. You really have to pay attention to how he’s reacting and adjust your actions from there. Just avoid giving him a hickey since guys tend not to like them.
#6 Kiss just below his ear. And make sure some of your breath goes into his ear. Another amazing erogenous zone for men is the earlobe. Getting close and even nibbling on his earlobe might make him go nuts. You’ll just have to try and see how he likes it. [Read: 8 secret erogenous zones for men]
#7 Gauge his interest in these moves. While you’re doing this stuff, see how he’s reacting. Is his breathing getting heavier? Is he trying to deepen the kiss? He could even be grabbing you and pulling you into him.
All these are signs he definitely likes what you’re doing. If he’s shying away from you and not really doing those things, he might not be into a certain thing. Keep trying and you’ll find that sweet spot.
#8 Think about what you’d like. Truth be told, guys and girl aren’t all that different when it comes to what turns us on while kissing. So think about what would turn you on. Is it neck kisses? Is it hands grabbing at you?
Try some of what you’d like on him and see how he likes it. Chances are, you’ll turn him on a lot and then you’ll also be able to tell how compatible you’d be in the bedroom.
#9 Be a little aggressive. You don’t have to play really nice here. You can grab him and push him against the wall if you want. Try to be a little forward and aggressive with him. Some guys really love a girl in charge. See if your guy is that type. [Read: How to attract a man in a way they can’t resist]
#10 Break apart and smile at him. This is just a cute and very sexy thing to do. You can pull apart just enough to let him see your smile before diving right back in for more.
Not only does this show him that you’re having a good time, but it gives him a little confidence boost. And when guys are feeling good, they can end up feeling REALLY good somewhere else.
#11 Take his hands and put them somewhere on you. This is super direct. So only do it if you’re comfortable with doing it. I’m not saying you should put his hands on your boobs if you’re not okay with that.
I’m talking about putting them on your waist or around your face or really anywhere you want him to touch you. This shows him your own desire and the fact that you want him will make him a lot hornier.
#12 Lean your body into his. It’s really all about showing him you want him just as much as he probably wants you. So lean into him. Let your body rest against his so he can feel every part of you.
This is super powerful because it makes him think about what that would feel like without clothes on. And that thought alone will turn him on more than you know.
[Read: 15 subtle ways to make a man want you more than ever]
Learning how to turn a guy on while kissing is all about making him think about getting naked with you. That means a lot of hands and a little moaning. Give him just a sneak preview of the naughty you and he’ll want more.
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