Having sex with a partner is great, but if you need to release some sexual energy, here are some sexy solo sex positions for you to test out.
Whether you have a boyfriend or if you are single, learning these sexy solo sex positions gives you the power to orgasm—with or without a boyfriend. It’ll take some time and definitely some sweat and elbow grease, but believe me, there’s nothing more thrilling than having the power to make yourself orgasm without a man.
11 solo sex positions that hit the nail on the head
No matter if you have a boyfriend or not, it’s important to know what turns you on and what gets you off. So many times women are told men will provide them with pleasure. Sure, they do, but what about pleasuring yourself? I’m all about girl power.
And if you know how to pleasure yourself, then sex with your partner will be even better. See? It’s a win-win. So, in order to get to know what gets you off, you’re going to have to practice.
#1 Down under. You spent all day in the office, work is killing you, and it’s been a long day. So, when you get home, kick your shoes off and fall onto the bed. Don’t bother popping into the shower or taking off your clothes.
Just get down to business and put your hand straight down your pants. You need it now, there’s no time to do any small stuff or trying to make yourself more comfortable. You need that stress release ASAP. [Read: How to give yourself an orgasm: 15 sizzling hot tips]
#2 The shower head. The water is just right and you have all the time in the world to enjoy yourself. Why not make you shower session a little steamier than usual? When the moment is just right, lean against the wall with the shower head between your legs. Let the pressure of the water hit your spot and get you off. Plus, this is one of the easiest solo sex positions to clean up after.
#3 Opposites attract. They say opposites attract so why not switch it up and try using your opposite hand to masturbate. Sure, it’ll feel a little weird at first, but with a little practice, you’ll get the hang of it. Just like hooking up with someone who’s the opposite of you, after you do it once, it’ll become better the second time around. And who knows, maybe you’ll even end up ambidextrous with all the practice.
#4 The invisible man. If you think you can’t be on top when you’re pleasuring yourself alone, then you’re wrong. The invisible man is one of the best solo sex positions. If you do it right, it’s as if you have a guy behind you the whole time.
Put a pillow between your legs, and raise your hips just like you would when you’re riding a guy. With one hand down your panties and your body grinding against your pillow, you’ll be off to an orgasm in no time. [Read: Going solo: The 15 sexy benefits of masturbation]
#5 Around the bend. Sometimes masturbating can get a little boring if you’re doing it in the same position all the time. Let’s switch up your style for a little more pleasure. Try lying face down on your pillow and put your hand behind you, through your legs. If you like the downward dog, then you’ll love this solo sex position.
#6 The dildo date. Dildo, meet the vagina. Vagina, meet the dildo. This is your best friend. Your dildo never lets you down unless you run out of batteries. That’s some loyalty if you ask me. Go wild with your dildo, and spend the night getting to know it a bit better.
Fingers and hands sometimes become a little dull and underwhelming, so invest in this little guy and you’ll never be disappointed. The dildo date is one of the most realistic solo sex positions if you’re trying to simulate an actual man inside of you. [Read: Homemade dildos for when the moment strikes unexpectedly]
#7 Over the panties. Remember in high school when you would be making out with a guy, grinding with clothes on? I say high school, but I’m 25 and still do it. I love it. There’s something about not being able to get to it. It creates tension and makes you hornier.
So, tease yourself and prohibit yourself from going under your panties until you can’t take it anymore. I recommend having an extra towel for after. [Read: Selling used panties: The weird facts you’re dying to know]
#8 The horny mermaid. Sometimes you just need to relax with a warm bubble bath. Fill that baby up and slide right in. Put your legs over the edges of the tub, with your hips elevated slightly. You can have the water running if you’d like. Just remember not to let the water overflow, trust me, you can really lose yourself in this position.
#9 The one-person three way. Who needs people when you can improvise yourself. The one-person three way is when you have one hand on your nipples and the other rubbing your clitoris. Let your imagination take you to places you’ve never been. I mean, we can’t always have two steamy Spanish guys available for a threesome, right? [Read: How to masturbate – 14 sexy self-pleasure tips for women]
#10 The quickie. Who doesn’t love a good ol’ quickie? If you’re in the office or at a restaurant and you just want a quickie to relieve the sexual pressure, then just hop into the bathroom. I don’t recommend sitting on public toilets, but this is an exception. Sit down, pull those panties down to your ankles and give yourself a quickie before your boss starts wondering where you are.
#11 The black swan. Okay, the movie was a little creepy, but that scene with Natalie Portman and Mila Kunis in the bedroom was all levels of hot. You can easily reenact the scene where Portman’s alone and understand why her character was having such a good time. Lie face down with your hand underneath of you. Let your imagination go and fantasize your crush inside of you.
[Read: Pillow humping 101 for girls: Give that pillow a workout]
Though having someone else with you in bed is great, you definitely don’t need someone else to pleasure you. Instead, try out some of these solo sex positions to get yourself off.
