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How to Romance a Woman: 26 Ways to Woo the Girl of Your Dreams

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Want to know how to romance a woman and woo the girl of your dreams? Try these 26 tips with the girl you’ve been with or want to be with!

Being romantic doesn’t come naturally to all guys. But the fact that you are here, reading this to learn how to romance a woman shows that you are on the right track and willing to make the effort!

Let’s face it, ladies love to be romanced. Whether you’ve gone out with her for years and want to show your appreciation or looking for some great ideas to try and bag the girl of your dreams then you have come to the right place. [Read: The biggest passion killers in romance]

How to romance a woman: 26 steps that make all the difference

Romance doesn’t have to be extravagant or expensive. In fact, some of the most romantic gestures don’t cost anything at all. Similarly, it doesn’t all have to be about the big gesture. Small cute things that take you no time really make her day, put a smile on her face, and win you some serious brownie points as well!

It’s lovely to be romantic and is sure to give you that warm, fuzzy feeling inside. But for lots of guys with absolutely no idea where to start, getting romance wrong is all too easy. Going overboard or being too cheesy can be seriously off-putting, especially if you don’t know the girl that well!

#1 Go old-fashioned. Wear a suit, open doors for her, buy her flowers and chocolates, serenade her, pull the chair out for her, wine and dine her. Old romance still works! By being an old-fashioned romantic, she’ll think you are a serious gentleman and is sure to love it. [Read: How to seduce her like a gentleman]

#2 Write her a letter. With texts, emails, and all the other technology people forget the simple joy of receiving and reading a letter. Write her a cute love letter and mail it to her. You’ll earn some brownie points for sure. [Read: Must-have tips for how to write the best love letter]

#3 Sneak a note into her bag. Sneak a cute note into her bag telling her she looks pretty or you miss her. She’ll get a lovely surprise when she finds it!

#4 Send her a cute text. Something as simple as a caring text asking her about her day is all it takes for a woman to feel romanced and appreciated.

#5 Compliment her. If you want to know how to romance a woman, start by telling her how truly beautiful you think she is—especially when it is clear she made an effort to look great.

#6 Buy her favorite perfume. Giving her a lovely gift such as her favorite perfume, especially as a complete surprise, is a very romantic thing to do.

#7 Give her a massage. A relaxing massage soothes and calms her and is sure to be appreciated! [Read: How to give the perfect sensual massage]

#8 Ask her how her day was. Sometimes all it takes is a little care and attention. Asking her how her day was and really listening to her answer shows her your interest in what’s going on with her and that you truly care.

#9 Cook her dinner. Bonus points if you remember what her absolute favorite meal is too!

#10 Get dressed up and go out. A fancy night out on the town can be just what you both need to rekindle the romance. Why not reserve a table at a great restaurant and get glamorous and take her for a fun and romantic night out?

#11 Make time for her. It’s easy, particularly in a long-term relationship, to become like ships passing in the night. Remember making time for one another is so important in a healthy relationship. So, if you know you are guilty of neglecting her then make time for her. She’ll appreciate the effort. [Read: The 7 things that ruin romance in a relationship]

#12 Make her laugh. Laughter absolutely is the best medicine and can be very romantic too. Having fun and laughing together makes you feel closer.

#13 Maker her a mix tape. Go old school and make a ‘mix tape’ of her favorite songs. It might be a CD or playlist but include some great tunes that bring back happy memories of the two of you together.

#14 Tell her you love her. The simple act of taking the time to tell a person that you love them, and doing it as often as possible, is very romantic indeed.

#15 Be spontaneous. Often the most romantic gestures are because they are totally unexpected. Being spontaneous injects adventure, excitement, and romance into your relationship. So make sure to step away from your routine sometimes and have a little spontaneous fun. [Read: 10 spontaneous and romantic moves to try]

#16 Send flowers to her workplace. If you want to know how to romance a woman and woo her, flowers are definitely the way to go! Brighten up her working day by sending a bunch of her favorite flowers there. It may make her blush, but she is sure to appreciate it.

#17 Go for a moonlit walk.  Taking a troll together under the stars costs you nothing. It is a romantic start or end to a great evening.

#18 Watch the sunrise or the sunset. Similarly getting up early to watch the sun rise together, or sitting somewhere peaceful and beautiful to watch it go down can be truly magical experiences that bring you closer together as a couple.

#19 Remember the little things. Remember, love and affection is really all in the details, especially when it comes to understanding how to romance a woman. Paying attention to the things she likes and remembering the things she tells you helps you create romantic surprises she is sure to love.

#20 Tell and show her you appreciate her. If you suspect your woman feels unappreciated, now is the time to change that. Show her that you appreciate her. She’ll feel valued and loved so make sure you take the time to tell her how much you appreciate everything she does. [Read: 16 ways to show you appreciate someone you love]

#21 Make her breakfast in bed. A simple breakfast in bed so she relaxes and has a lie in is a great way to start anyone’s day!

#22 Give her the day off. Tell her that she has the day off. Then, make sure you take care of everything so she doesn’t have to lift a finger!

#23 Write her a poem. Get soppy or silly and write her a romantic love poem to tell her how you feel.

#24 Ask what you can do for her. The simple act of asking her what you can do to help her also demonstrates your love and support.

#25 Whisk her away. Be her knight in shining armor and whisk her away on the trip of a lifetime *or just a romantic weekend at your local B&B will do!*. [Read: 10 types of vacations that create romance]

#26 Respect her. Every woman wants to feel respected, so one of the most important and romantic things you do is always make her feel that way!

Remember, every woman’s idea of romance is different. While some love the conventional types of romance like being wined and dined and taken care of, others baulk at the idea and much prefer romance to come in the forms of adventures and fun.

[Read: How to be romantic without being cheesy]

Only you will know how to romance a woman—your particular woman. And by keeping the romance alive you show her how much you value her. That is something she will truly appreciate.

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Bethany Locke
Bethany Locke
Bethany was born and raised in Scotland and now resides in Brighton where she lives with her partner and rather disobedient cocker spaniel pup. She works as a f...
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