Love and romance isn’t just about splurging on expensive gifts or jet-setting on luxurious vacations. What really holds true love together are the little things in love, the little acts of love that really count.
Why are little acts of love so important to keep that warm buzz of love and that glow alive?
There are times in your life when you just sit down and watch the rain pitter-patter against the window pane.
At times like these, you wish you could do so many things for your lover.
You wish you could buy her the moon, or you wish you could just take a break and gift a well deserved vacation to your hard working man.
The little things in love
There are ways to brighten up your partner’s day without doing many of the thoughts that race across your mind.
You don’t have to do something big or extravagant to romance your partner. You don’t have to put in a lot of effort to make them happy.
Even better news… your partner will be most fulfilled by these little things in love that don’t require a lot of effort, planning or money!
Little things in love that really matter
These happy moments are called the little things in love, and they can be your best friend and guide in love.
Little things in love are just that… little and rather simple little acts of love that you can do for your partner. [Read: 9 relationship stages that all couples go through]
Despite the fact that they are “little” they can mean so much to your partner, and ensure that your partner would be fulfilled and happy in your relationship or marriage. And when your loved one is happy you’re happy, so it’s a win-win situation.
When we think of little things in love, the first thing that you would probably get in your mind is an expensive ring or a little holiday, but that’s the last thing you need to keep your partner happy. All you need is a lot of love and caring. And this can take you both a long way into marital bliss. A few of the things that you could do to ignite the flame of love into your life are mentioned here.
Do try one of these little acts for starters, and see for yourself how these little acts of love can make a big difference in your relationship.
Little things in love that lovers do
#1 When your partner gets home from work, ask about your partner’s day and just listen to them.
#2 Tell your partner just how special they are to you.
#3 Give a hug to your partner for no reason.
#4 Pick her a bouquet of wild flowers.
#5 Massage your partner’s back or feet after they’ve had a hard day at work.
#6 Leave an “I love you” note for your partner to find.
#7 Call him when he’s at work and tell him that you were thinking about him.
#8 When you are going to be late getting home or when you have to meet your partner, call and let them know that you’ll be late. It is very inconsiderate to make your partner wait without calling.
#9 Look into each other’s eyes when you make love.
#10 Say “I love you”… at least a few times every day.
#11 When someone calls for your partner on the phone when they’re not around, write down a neat message so they can look through it when they get back.
#12 Hold each other’s hand in public. A little public display of affection is always good for love.
#13 Compliment her, the way she looks, her hair, her smile, her voice, her eyes, her sense of humor, her intelligence, something she has achieved, something she is proud of doing, etc.
#14 Compliment him, the way he makes you feel so special and cared for, his caring touch, his sense of humor, his passionate behavior, his possessiveness, etc.
#15 Kiss your partner when they least expect it! Ahem… as long as you’re not in the middle of an argument. [Read: Cute pet names]
These are just a few of the little things in love that really count more than all the gifts and wealth in the world. There are many more, and surely you can think of a few. Just as long as it doesn’t cost money, and makes your sweetheart feel special and cared for, it’s all great.
Always remember, its the little acts of love and cute love actions that matter more than anything else in the world for two people in love. A big splurge now and then is great, yes, but nothing can ever beat the little things in love!
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