How to Tell If a Guy Likes Kissing You & Is Turned On While Kissing

Want to know how to tell if a guy likes kissing you or if he’s turned on while kissing you? Here are the signs you need to recognize a boner while kissing!

Signs a Guy is Turned On While Kissing You

Can you tell if a guy likes kissing you? So you’ve been kissing for a while, but is he enjoying it or just doing it to pass the time? Here’s everything you need to know if he’s turned on while kissing you or if he finds your kiss so seductive and appealing he just wants more… and more!

This is a common question that goes through many of our minds when we’re making out with the guy we like: what are the signs a guy is turned on while kissing you? Is that a boner you feel? Is he actually turned on while kissing him? Or, is this just whatever for him?

It’s a good question.

How to know a guy likes kissing you

You want him to feel the same as you feel, you want him to enjoy kissing you. And the quickest sign to know he’s enjoying kissing you is the duration of the kiss.

The more he loves kissing you, the longer he’d want to kiss you.

Of course, there’s the off-chance that this is the first time he’s kissing you, so he’s wary to kiss you for any longer than 5 seconds! If you think he’s being a gentleman and holding himself back, use this guide on how to kiss a guy for the first time and turn him on to bring out the animal in him!

Okay, so let’s take this one step further. Do you want him to be turned on by everything you do with him while kissing him? This is the easy part.

The good thing is, when it comes to men, it’s not too hard to see whether they’re turned on or not. Sometimes, it’s as easy as looking down at their pants or running your hands over his trousers.

If you want to know if he’s hard and has a boner while kissing you, check out this feature on how to tell if a guy has a boner and is hot and bothered by you!

If you’re unsure whether a guy is turned on while you two are kissing, you need to look at the signs. Of course, not all men are the same, and some may be more shy or nervous when kissing a girl, so the signs may be more subtle in some guys and may not even show up right away.

But that still doesn’t mean he’s not enjoying kissing you, or that he’s not turned on by you.

Do guys get hard when you kiss them?

If you’re looking for a straightforward answer, YES! Yes, they do get hard when you kiss them. But there are a few things you need to remember.

A guy may not get hard if it’s a quick peck on his lips. He may not get hard if he’s nervous and awkward, and he’s worked his courage up to kiss you. And he definitely won’t get hard if he’s not into kissing you.

But for every other reason and in every other way, he will start to experience some stage of firmness in his pants.

If you want to make sure he gets aroused when he kisses you, be sure to make the kiss passionate. Kiss him fully, run your hands over his back or his arms, and just enjoy the kiss yourself.

If you want to make sure you make him hard and give him a boner while kissing him, use these 12 kissing techniques to give a guy a boner while kissing him. Try it, and 100%, he WILL have a rock hard erection in a minute!

What happens to guys when they make out – Why they get boners

Guys get a boner while kissing you for the same reasons you’d feel horny while kissing a guy. A kiss is the stepping stone to something more sexual and intimate.

Whether you do end up making out or having sex with a guy, a passionate kiss arouses all of the same feelings as actually having sex with someone. Your body prepares you for sexual intercourse, and inevitably, you get horny.

If a guy gets a boner while kissing you, it’s the best sign to know he’s definitely interested in doing more with you.

When you kiss him and feel a boner in his pants, you can bet he’s hoping to get to second base, or more real soon! Check out these 15 moves to arouse a guy while making out and make him fantasize about having sex with you if you want to leave him wild and horny while kissing him.

The most obvious signs a guy is turned on and horny while kissing you

Now you probably know how to arouse a guy and leave him hard while kissing you. But is it working? Is he horny during the kiss?

For him, it can be nerve-wracking to kiss a girl he really likes, and even if turned on, it can affect his ability to get turned on.

These things can take some time. But, for the most part, these are the most common signs men will show when they’re turned on while kissing.

Is he enjoying it as much as you are? Use these signs to find out!

[Read: How to kiss a guy for the first time and leave him hot and horny]

1. You feel it

You’re human; he’s human. You can feel the energy, just like he can. If you’re kissing him and there’s this surge of sexual energy and excitement, most likely, he’s feeling the same way.

If you two are kissing and you’re more turned on by what’s happening on the television screen, then there’s a problem. Listen to what your body is telling you.

2. He keeps kissing you

If someone isn’t liking what they’re doing, they’ll try their hardest to stop continuing.

If he isn’t into kissing you, he probably won’t keep kissing you. Well, at least I hope he’ll stop. Not trying to offend you, but having him keep kissing you is only making things more complicated.

3. He tells you he’s into it

If he pulls away for a moment and says, “ wow, you’re an amazing kisser,” or “you have unbelievable lips,” that’s one of the pretty good signs a guy is turned on while kissing you!

No one is going to tell you that they enjoy your lips unless they’re actually into kissing you. If he tells you he enjoys kissing you; then it’s clear where he stands. [Read: How to know if a kiss meant something real and isn’t just a fling thing]

4. Things become more intense

You two started out with innocent kisses, but now things are becoming more intense. It’s turned into french kissing, the breathing has gone heavier, and the energy between you two is more passionate than before. It’s clear that whatever you’re doing is hitting the spot for him.

5. There’s some hand action

You two aren’t just kissing; there’s much more going on. His hands aren’t by his side like a robot. He’s holding your face, rubbing your cheeks, holding your waist.

His lips aren’t the only part of his body that’s working. He’s fully engaged, and that’s a sign that he’s turned on. [Read: 16 clues to recognize a guy who’s insanely aroused]

6. He’s making noises

I know that sounds weird, but I’m not saying that he should be screaming with delight. If anything, that’s a little excessive.

But, when a guy is turned on, he’ll be making moaning or grunting *not extreme* noises, because, well, he’s getting into whatever you’re doing to him. The man is getting turned on!

7. He may cover his crotch

Not every guy is comfortable with showing they have a boner. If this is the first kiss, he may not want to show off his sexual feelings for you.

Every guy is different. If you notice he’s covering his crotch or adjusting himself, he’s trying to keep things under control. [Read: How to give a guy a boner – 20 moves for instant erections]

8. He gives you the look

It’s hard to describe what I mean when I say the look. But when you see the look, you’ll know exactly what I mean.

He may pull back for a moment and stare at you, giving you this look that says, “I want to eat you up right now.” And if that’s what you see in his eyes, that’s what he’s feeling inside.

9. He’s into foreplay

You two have been making out for a while, and he’s not interested in stopping things. He’s not rushing to jump to the next thing; instead, he’s slowing things down and enjoying this part of foreplay with you.

Just because he’s not jumping to the next step, doesn’t mean he isn’t turned on. If anything, it can mean the opposite.

10. He has a boner

If, at some point in the make-out session, you feel or see he has a boner, it’s quite clear what’s going on. The guy is physically turned on by you.

If he wasn’t into kissing you, he wouldn’t continue kissing you, and he definitely wouldn’t have a boner. In other words, boner = a turned on man. [Read: 12 sensual movies to turn a guy on while kissing him]

11. He wants to do more than a kiss

He may try to move past the make-out session, and take things a step further. You, of course, need to decide if that’s something you’re ready for or not.

If things are becoming more intense, he takes off his/your shirt, for example, or takes off his pants; he’s clearly turned on and is looking to take things further.

[Read: 11 signs of a bad kisser and 15 instant remedies to fix it]

In most cases, you’ll notice many of these signs a guy is turned on and likes kissing you when you’re both locked in a steamy embrace. But there may be the chance where he’s not. Don’t let that be a reflection of you. Not everyone is meant to be a match.

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Vinod Srinivas Serai
Vin Serai
Vin Serai is the founder of, and has delved deep into the working of love and relationships for almost two decades. Having dipped his feet in almo...