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How to Sext Your Boyfriend: A Naughty Guide to Leave Him Yearning

When it comes to keeping your relationship exciting, learning how to sext your boyfriend should be on the list. Here’s how to leave him craving you.

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If you want to know how to keep the sparks in your relationship, you need to learn how to make it more exciting. After a while, life with your partner can be a little stale and boring. Learning how to sext your boyfriend can definitely help keep things interesting.

This is especially true if you don’t really do any form of sexting at all. With so many apps out there, the options are really endless. Sending a naughty text accompanied by a sexy picture can do more than just turn him on.

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Relationships aren’t just something you can hop on and ride out without any work. They require effort. You need to constantly be trying to improve your relationship – no matter how great you think it is already.

One of the biggest reasons couples split up is because they feel like their partner has stopped trying. And it may be true. If one person is putting in more effort than the other, your relationship will fall apart. One of you will start resenting the other and then all of the nice things you do for them will stop. You’ll end up unhappy and eventually, single. [Read: 15 ways to express your love without using words]

How to sext your boyfriend and leave him wanting your touch

Since guys are typically sexual, physical beings, sexting is a great way to spice things up on your end. If you feel like your relationship is falling flat or is even getting boring, learning how to sext your boyfriend the right way can help revive it. Here’s how you can do just that.

#1 Know what turns him on. You’re his girlfriend. You know what gets him going in the bedroom and what he likes the best. Use that knowledge to tailor your sexts to meet his needs. Is he a booty guy? Does he like when your boobs are bouncing in his face?

Take what you know about what he likes and talk about that in a sext. By talking about things you know he likes, he’ll be more likely to respond and like those sexts. [Read: 20 sexy things that turn guys on every time]

#2 Send the text during the right time. Don’t just send your sext during any time. You really need to make sure he’s available and can actually respond. If you know he’s got a busy work day full of meetings, don’t try to sext him. However, if he’s already talking to you and it’s not a busy day, feel free to sext away.

#3 Be confident. If you really want to know how to sex your boyfriend and make him like it the most, just be confident. He’ll pick up on the fact that you’re uncomfortable if you don’t show how great you feel. So if you send a sext, don’t take it back. Go for it and have confidence in what you say. [Read: How to build self-confidence to feel great again]

#4 Be detailed. Guys are visual beings and if you don’t want to send a picture, you’ll have to make him visualize the naughty deeds with your words. And that means you’ll have to be descriptive.

Be detailed about what you’re saying. Talk about where you want his hands and what you want to be kissing. This makes it easier for him to see it all in his head, which will definitely turn him on more.

#5 Send a naughty picture. If you trust your man and want to turn your sexting up a notch, send him some sexy picture. Just remember that sending nudes is very vulnerable and you can’t undo it.

Again, you’ll want to make sure you’re focusing on what he likes most. If he’s an ass guy, send pictures of your booty in some sexy panties. He’ll love to see it and he won’t be able to wait to get home and rip them off. [Read: How to send sexy nude selfies and not get in trouble]

#6 Gauge his interest. Not every guy is into sexting. If you and your partner have never done it before, you’ll have to gauge whether or not he’s interested in it. A great sign that he definitely loves it is if he responds quickly and with enthusiasm. If he takes forever to reply and doesn’t seem very interested, just stop the sexting.

#7 Know when to stop. You can’t sext all day long. Sometimes it’s better to send a few quick sexts and be done with it. A great way to know when to stop is when he seems to be at peak interest. It might be counterproductive, but stopping early will make that anticipation carry over until he sees you.

#8 Follow through with what you say. If you send a text saying you’ll do something naughty to him and then you don’t actually do it, he’ll be kind of annoyed. And this also ruins any future sexting you choose to do. If he doesn’t believe what you say, the sexting will basically be worthless. [Read: 22 things men really want in bed]

#9 Talk about what you want from him. If you’re not sure where to start, just talk about what you want him to do to you. Mention certain places you want him to kiss you and where exactly you want his hands.

Doing this will not only tell him what to do the next time you’re in bed, but it’ll make him feel amazing that you’re thinking of him in such naughty ways.

#10 Mention what you want to do for him. Something that’s even hotter than talking about what you want him to do is talking about what you want to do to him. Be descriptive, too. If you want to pull out his hard cock and put it in your mouth, then tell him that. This builds a very strong visual for him and he’ll be overjoyed with it. [Read: 50 sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend]

#11 Bring up a memory of a great romp in the sheets. Another great place to start the sexting conversation is by mentioning a great memory together in bed. Was there a specific time that felt so great you just can’t stop thinking about it? If so, talk about it. Tell him what you liked best and that you’d like to top it. He’ll definitely be down to do that.

#12 Have fun with it. Don’t take it too seriously. Sexting is fun. It’s all about bonding and having fun with your boyfriend. In order to know how to sex your boyfriend the right way you also need to learn how to relax and just let loose. Send those sexts and make it a fun time.

[Read: Your complete guide for safe and naughty sexting]

Knowing how to sext your boyfriend can actually improve your sex life and relationship in general. But it can sometimes be a little intimidating. Luckily, these tips can help you figure out just what to say to turn your man on and leave him begging for more.

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Annabel Rodgers
Annabel is a lifestyle writer, cheese enthusiast (Wisconsin native over here) and fantasy adventure author-in-progress who enjoys all things love, dog,...