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How to Charm a Guy: Leave Him Weak in the Knees and Craving You

Many girls think it’s hard to charm the pants off a guy. But in reality, it’s not at all. Here’s how to charm a guy and leave him wanting more.

how to charm a guy

Guys aren’t as complicated as us ladies make them out to be. Truthfully, they’re pretty simple beings. But knowing how to charm a guy can get a little tricky if you overthink it and just don’t know what to do in general.

Luckily, it’s not very hard to learn. There isn’t a lot that goes into charming the pants off a guy. If you do enough things that he likes, the job is pretty much done itself. That being said, you may not know what a guy likes or how to proceed when you first meet someone.

Getting to know a guy will increase your chances of charming him

Before you can learn how to charm a guy, you first have to learn all about that guy. You can’t immediately get on a guy’s good side if you don’t know anything about them. Sure, he might find you attractive, but that isn’t the same as actually making an impression.

For that, you need to learn a few things about him first. Knowing what he likes and does for a living can help you tailor your actions and conversations to better suit him. Basically, you’ll be able to charm him better if you can relate to him on a personal level. [Read: How to get to know a guy you want to date]

How to charm a guy and leave him craving you

There are a few things you have to know when it comes to hitting on a guy and leaving a great impression. If you want to get his number and potentially start something with him, you first have to charm him. Here’s how you can do just that.

#1 Relax. If you’re uptight and uncomfortable, he’ll notice. And that stuff is also very contagious. So if you’re nervous and acting very unsure of yourself, he’ll feel that and it’ll put him off. Nerves and discomfort are not charming.

#2 Have confidence – it’s sexy. I know this one seems pretty obvious, but you’d be surprised how many girls try to charm guys without having it. You need confidence. Not only should you feel amazing about yourself all the time, but if you feel that way, other people are more likely to feel that way too. [Read: How to build self-confidence and realize your worth]

#3 Act like you know something embarrassing about him. This may not make sense at first, but hear me out. Guys like girls who have an air of mystery about them. That’s not something that’s easy to accomplish but there is one way to make it happen.

Pretend you know something embarrassing about him when you’re talking. That little smirk you’ll have during the conversation will make him want to talk to you more and figure out what’s so funny. It’ll be very charming and alluring.

#4 Make the conversation about him. There are far too many times when girls are the center of conversation when talking with a guy. You know what’s really charming? Turning the conversation around and talking about them.

Ask questions and be engaging. It’s really charming when someone is always asking you about yourself. It’ll also help you get to know him. [Read: 50 cute questions to ask a guy you like]

#5 Talk about his interests. If you haven’t noticed by now, guys LOVE to talk about the things they’re most interested in. So make sure to talk about them. Don’t just ask and then not pay attention, though. That’s not charming.

Make sure you actually care about the things you’re asking him. That level of attention is what will charm him.

#6 Smile a LOT. We all need to smile more when talking to guys. In order to learn how to charm a guy, you need to learn how to talk to them like you’re the happiest you’ve ever been. Happy people are contagious and if he feels great around you, it’ll be really charming. [Read: How to smile more often and change your life]

#7 Say their name when you talk. This is something that’s very charming when it comes from anyone. Have you ever noticed that people who say your name immediately seem more attractive? That’s because they are. So make sure you’re saying their name while talking – but not too much!

#8 Lean in close during the conversation. Your body language can also help you charm a guy. When you’re talking, lower your voice and lean in closer. The proximity will get his mind moving in a very good direction.

#9 Laugh a lot. There’s really nothing more charming than someone who thinks you’re really funny. And believe me, if a guy notices you laughing at his jokes, he’ll become attracted to you quickly. [Read: 10 ways to make a guy laugh without dumbing down]

#10 Make a few jokes. Guys also find funny girls extremely charming. If you can, crack a few jokes and have a sense of humor while chatting. He’ll not only be impressed, but he’ll take a liking to you quickly.

#11 Make a lot of eye contact. Eye contact is very important when talking to someone in general, but if you want to know how to charm a guy, it’s all in the eyes. Look into his when talking but not so much that you’re staring. This will make him feel like you’re paying close attention and that’s very charming. [Read: 10 subtle eye contact flirting moves that always work]

#12 Compliment him on his personality. Chances are, if you tell a guy he’s funny, he’ll start liking you a lot more. Guys love to think they’re hilarious and have a great sense of humor. If you tell him as much, you’ll be charming the pants right off of him.

#13 Get flirty. Flirting is essential in being charming. Don’t be afraid to bring out that flirty side and show him how well you can flirt. He’ll find this side of you very charming and will be addicted to flirting with you. [Read: 30 foolproof flirting tips for girls to use on guys]

#14 Remember the things he says. A girl who actually pays attention is one of the most charming people out there. If you want to impress a guy and leave him craving more of you, then you have to remember the little things. Bring up something he talked about earlier and expand on that conversation. He’ll love it.

#15 Have fun. Those who are having fun easily charm guys. If you’re talking with him and actually enjoying yourself, it’ll come across as much more charming than if you act bored or “play hard to get.”

[Read: How to ask a guy out like a real classy girl]

Learning how to charm a guy is something that’ll take time and practice. But once you get the hang of it, you’ll be charming the pants off every guy you meet.

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Annabel Rodgers
Annabel is a lifestyle writer, cheese enthusiast (Wisconsin native over here) and fantasy adventure author-in-progress who enjoys all things love, dog,...