Sometimes it’s not easy for a guy to tell a girl that he likes her.
He may be shy or even scared of getting turned down.
Met a friend who seems to have more than friends on his mind? Is he into you?
It’s not easy to know if a guy’s into you or just being really friendly.
But if you know the signs that really matter, it’ll help you find out for yourself if a guy is into you and help you make the next move.
If you don’t like him, you can always back off.
On the other hand, if you do like him, you can warm up to him and let him see that the romantic feelings are mutual.
Is he into you? – Signs he’s into you
Here are ten signs that can help you find out if he’s into you. Even if your friend fits in with a few of these signs, there’s a good chance that he’s into you.
He uses any excuse to touch you
If a guy’s into you, he’s obviously going to be infatuated by you.
And infatuation also does involve a lot of sexual attraction.
He may not make it obvious or give away any signs, but he’d try to touch you whenever he can, be it crossing the street or hugging you goodbye.
Ever felt like he lingers his touch when you clasp his hand or when he places his arm around your waist or on your back? That’s a good sign that he’s into you.
He treats you like a lady when you go out
When just the two of you go out or hang out for a while, does he behave like you’re his girlfriend? Does he pull a chair back for you, offer to get you things, or does he insist of paying for you even when all friends generally go dutch?
If a friend does this, there’s also a good chance that he’s just being a chivalrous guy. But watch out for his behavior with other girls. Does he treat them the same way or is it just you that gets the special attention? [Read: Are you more than friends?]
He flirts with you
If a guy is into you, he can’t help but flirt with you. Flirting comes naturally when you like someone, you really can’t help it. Do you ever find him sweet talking you or asking you personal questions in a funny way? If he does this in front of others and to all girls, perhaps he’s just the group jester. But if he prefers to flirt when you’re alone or if he likes flirting just with you, he’s definitely into you!
Text him one night when you know he’s alone at his place. Does he text back and start a flirty text conversation with you? Or does he call you up and talk flirty? If a guy likes you, all he needs is a little sign to push his luck further. [Read: How to flirt by texting]
He never talks about any other girl
When a guy likes a girl and hasn’t told her that he likes her, he’d want to make it as obvious as possible without really revealing the truth directly. At the same time, just to make it extremely clear that he’s into you and no one else, he may avoid talking about any other girl when he’s around you. That way, at least he’d hope to get the message across that you’re the only girl he notices.
A great way to test this is by talking about a few girls and asking him whom he finds the prettiest. If your name pops up even when it’s not in your list, bingo! You’ve got a guy that fancies you. [Read: How to talk to a guy who likes you]
He wants to be with you
Even when you’re hanging out with your friends, does this guy make his way through the crowd of friends just to be with you? If he constantly chooses to be around you even when there are several other friends he can talk to, he’s obviously very interested in you.
This can be confusing at times because he may just like talking to you. So let’s put this to the test. The next time he walks up to you and your friends and starts having a conversation, wait for a few minutes until he starts talking to someone else. As he begins his conversation with the other person, excuse yourself from the group to go to the cafeteria or some other place. Does he leave the conversation midway and tell you that he’ll come along?
Well, that’s a sure sign that he wants to be with you and that he’s into you.
[Read: How men fall in love]
He likes your attention
If a guy likes you, he’d try his best to please you. Have you ever told him he looks good in a particular shirt? Does he wear it often when he’s around you?
If he knows about your preference in music or places to hang out, does he have the same preferences too? A guy who likes you will always try to become the perfect splitting image of the kind of guy you’d like. So is he into you? If you see that he changes his preference whenever you change your interest, there’s a possibility that he’s trying to impress you and make you like him.
[Read: How to make him want you]
These are a few signs that a guy’s into you. Use these tips to test the signs and find out for yourself if a guy has more than friends on his mind. So is he into you? Read the next five signs in signs that a guy likes you to know for sure.
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