Is He Into You? – Sure Signs He’s Into You

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Do you feel something in the air when you’re around this guy? Is he into you? Find out if he’s really into you and has more than just friends on his mind with these signs.

Sometimes it’s not easy for a guy to tell a girl that he likes her.

He may be shy or even scared of getting turned down.

Met a friend who seems to have more than friends on his mind? Is he into you?

It’s not easy to know if a guy’s into you or just being really friendly.

But if you know the signs that really matter, it’ll help you find out for yourself if a guy is into you and help you make the next move.

If you don’t like him, you can always back off.

On the other hand, if you do like him, you can warm up to him and let him see that the romantic feelings are mutual.

Is he into you? – Signs he’s into you

Here are ten signs that can help you find out if he’s into you. Even if your friend fits in with a few of these signs, there’s a good chance that he’s into you.

He uses any excuse to touch you

If a guy’s into you, he’s obviously going to be infatuated by you.

And infatuation also does involve a lot of sexual attraction.

He may not make it obvious or give away any signs, but he’d try to touch you whenever he can, be it crossing the street or hugging you goodbye.

Ever felt like he lingers his touch when you clasp his hand or when he places his arm around your waist or on your back? That’s a good sign that he’s into you.

He treats you like a lady when you go out

When just the two of you go out or hang out for a while, does he behave like you’re his girlfriend? Does he pull a chair back for you, offer to get you things, or does he insist of paying for you even when all friends generally go dutch?

If a friend does this, there’s also a good chance that he’s just being a chivalrous guy. But watch out for his behavior with other girls. Does he treat them the same way or is it just you that gets the special attention? [Read: Are you more than friends?]

He flirts with you

If a guy is into you, he can’t help but flirt with you. Flirting comes naturally when you like someone, you really can’t help it. Do you ever find him sweet talking you or asking you personal questions in a funny way? If he does this in front of others and to all girls, perhaps he’s just the group jester. But if he prefers to flirt when you’re alone or if he likes flirting just with you, he’s definitely into you!

Text him one night when you know he’s alone at his place. Does he text back and start a flirty text conversation with you? Or does he call you up and talk flirty? If a guy likes you, all he needs is a little sign to push his luck further.Β [Read: How to flirt by texting]

He never talks about any other girl

When a guy likes a girl and hasn’t told her that he likes her, he’d want to make it as obvious as possible without really revealing the truth directly. At the same time, just to make it extremely clear that he’s into you and no one else, he may avoid talking about any other girl when he’s around you. That way, at least he’d hope to get the message across that you’re the only girl he notices.

A great way to test this is by talking about a few girls and asking him whom he finds the prettiest. If your name pops up even when it’s not in your list, bingo! You’ve got a guy that fancies you. [Read: How to talk to a guy who likes you]

He wants to be with you

Even when you’re hanging out with your friends, does this guy make his way through the crowd of friends just to be with you? If he constantly chooses to be around you even when there are several other friends he can talk to, he’s obviously very interested in you.

This can be confusing at times because he may just like talking to you. So let’s put this to the test. The next time he walks up to you and your friends and starts having a conversation, wait for a few minutes until he starts talking to someone else. As he begins his conversation with the other person, excuse yourself from the group to go to the cafeteria or some other place. Does he leave the conversation midway and tell you that he’ll come along?

Well, that’s a sure sign that he wants to be with you and that he’s into you.

[Read: How men fall in love]

He likes your attention

If a guy likes you, he’d try his best to please you. Have you ever told him he looks good in a particular shirt? Does he wear it often when he’s around you?

If he knows about your preference in music or places to hang out, does he have the same preferences too? A guy who likes you will always try to become the perfect splitting image of the kind of guy you’d like. So is he into you? If you see that he changes his preference whenever you change your interest, there’s a possibility that he’s trying to impress you and make you like him.

[Read: How to make him want you]

These are a few signs that a guy’s into you. Use these tips to test the signs and find out for yourself if a guy has more than friends on his mind. So is he into you? Read the next five signs in signs that a guy likes you to know for sure.

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19 thoughts on “Is He Into You? – Sure Signs He’s Into You”

  1. cari says:

    this website actually helps!!!:))

  2. MeLa says:

    My guy friend called me cute, nice, and smart in one conversation yesterday. Plus his friends started screaming “Go! *his name* Go!” and he said it was because he was talking to me. Also, he never exactly liked my last boyfriend now that I’m thinking about it. I’m scared…

  3. Janine Juanico says:

    This is really true. Thanks to lovepanky. πŸ™‚

  4. Cunfused says:

    I’ve really really liked this guy at school for about a year now and I can never tell if he likes me or is just being nice. Like this one time in our after school activity we have together, he just kept lightly touching me on my arm, back and even waist. He holds my hand, sits inbetween my legs and lets me do the same, he has called me gorgeous, all sorts of things, like hes picked me up once just so that he could hug me and hold my hand, then proceded to let me sleep on him all the way home. And he always giving me lots of hugs, once he even put his head in my neck and held on really tight then he stole my ice cream haha. He does lootts of things that suggest he is interested, but he does some of that stuff to other girls aswell. So I can’t tell if he is actually intrested or if he is just being nice ooorrr if he’s a whore and I just haven’t realized it. Help!!

  5. Iris says:

    These are true with even the mature crowd. I am in my late 50s and a gentleman at work is flirting with me. I love it. πŸ™‚

  6. deedee says:

    ok I am 500 years of age. I was once a closeted lesbian or gold start lesbian. I have dated men but they all turned out to be shit and worthless so I don’t think I will bother anymore. I kinda hate them so yeah…

  7. Teddybearbloom says:

    So… There’s this guy is perfect in everyday for me we have a lot in common but he doesn’t know that yet… I talk to him everyday at school when I get to see his beautiful face … But I’m not sure if he likes me or if he’s just being nice… Last year at the en of the school year he would give me hugs goodbye when I had to leave for my class but my friends would ask him for a hug and he would never hug them only me… This year in class he is always talking to me about his ex’s like he is trying to make me jelly or something he also likes to touch me a lot like playfully hitting and pushing one day I said he had pretty eyes and he just looked at me and then looked down πŸ™ when I walk next to him I stand really close to him and he doesn’t back away from it I make him smile and laugh and he does the same…when he talks to me he likes to look in my eyes and talk but sometimes he also looks away and talks to me πŸ™ he touches my hands offten when he is playing with something and I steal it from him πŸ™‚ but I don’t think he would like me but I still have hopes that someday he will feel the same for me as I feel for him … Someone please help me …:(

  8. Confused says:

    I met a guy at a party 2 weeks ago, and we instantly clicked. Since last weekend we were messaging non stop through Snap Chat, we’d been together a 4 times, & the whole block thinks of us as a couple. We have similar enough interests, he’s the first guy to ever call me ‘stunning’ or ‘hot’ to my face, with no Instagram filters. (That sounds really sad…!) We had great craic. I stayed in his apartment the other night, and he was late for college. Since then, he hasn’t really replied to my messages, has been making excuses that he just ‘didn’t check his phone’, and I don’t know what’s going on, what I did wrong. People kept asking were we going out but he was too embarressed & kept saying no, even though we were together while sober & got on like a house on fire. Ok, he’s 4 years older than me, & in his 3rd/final year of college while I’m in 1st, but that can’t be the reason?? I asked him why he’s in denial about us being together & he said I’d have to ask him when he was drunk. He’s a lovely, honest guy, but he’s holding back, and it’s driving me insane because he’s near perfection for me. Not in looks, but personality. I just don’t know where I stand with him. I’m too afraid to walk down the hall to his gaff because I’m not sure how he feels about us anymore. It was more than just a ‘fling’. πŸ™

  9. Jasmyn says:

    So there is this guy in my school who would always call me to ask if I wanted to study with him or to go out to lunch. The thing is that I have a boyfriend and he knows it. He is always so flirty with me and he thinks I am really smart. The last time we hung out was 2 weeks ago and we ended up in his apartment just watching funny videos in his computer. Then he asked how many boyfriends I’ve had and said that the fact that I commuted to school was sexy. Also after we left his apartment because we went to a party thing after, he was walking behind me kind of grabbing me by my hips.
    However, after that day he hasn’t really talked to me, in fact, he has been avoiding me. I texted him during the thanksgiving break but he keeps giving me short answer. Do you think he is falling for me so he is avoiding me because I have a bf? Or he is just being friendly? I mean he would typically call me up to study for finals, but he hasn’t. Idk if i like him or like the fact that he might like me.

  10. Person says:

    There is this guy who I have known for 7 years now. Wow! That’s a long time.. Anyways, we were at a New Years party at my house, oh and by the way our families are REALLY good friends. So anyways, he was sitting next to me on the couch watching the Times Square New Years thing on TV. So we were about a foot (maybe a little closer) apart, and he seemed at one point to kind of casually move over, but I couldn’t tell if it was just him getting comfortable or trying to move in towards me… I like him. So maybe it’s just my imagination running wild. Who knows?

  11. flower says:

    I am 16 years old, i have a friend who i really like. We met in 8th grade, i liked him then and it seemed like he did too. we would stand really close and i remember when we were parting i grabbed his hand to say bye and he would not let go πŸ™‚ Now that i am in 10th grade and he pop up in my 2nd period and i feel myself falling all over again. we have long good conversations and he ask questions he would walk with me to class and hold the door open for me. He complemented me and said i look good when i had on something plane but good, he ask to hold my books but i said no at the time, he never asked again nor did i ever get another complement I really don’t know if he like me. but now we start to always look each other and the eye. either i catch him looking at me and i turn my head or I’m looking at him and he catch me. We now talk very little, we seem to talk more body language then anything. either he say hi with his eyebrows or smile or wave. look him in the eye. we don’t touch its awkward i can give his brother a hug but not him. and i don’t know. now we only talk when we at our locker and it just don’t seem like he feel the same way about me. But then sometimes it do. So i am so confused πŸ™ and sad. because i also don’t know how to tell him i like him, and its driving me crazy.

  12. Angel says:

    I am 19 yrs old..and i am in relaxn with a guy since i was 16 but he cheated on me in mid of our relaxnshp…i forgave him n um still vth him but i dun feel the same for him like i felt before..n we r not that much interested in each other now….but there is a guy who loves me since i was 12 but never told me cux he is very shy …he is a gentle guy..never likes to talk yo anyother gal except me..he really loves me a lot and i like him too but i can’t forget my bf and i can’t break my relationship with my bf…may be i am obsessed vth him ..but i know that my bf can cheat me anytime if he would find a gal more interesting for him than me….so wht shud i do…i am really in grt trouble…plzzzz help πŸ™

  13. lauren says:

    hi im in a no strings attached relationship but everytime i sleep over the guy always kiss me goodbye wen he goes to work in the morning….n he always callz me babes but we aint lovers, jst wondering wats going on in his head.plzzzzzz help

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