Men have always had a hard time keeping their eyes focused even when they are around their woman. They always have to stare at other women across the street. It’s almost like you’re helpless and you can’t do anything about it. Or can you?
All women have been there… and done that. By that we mean, we’ve all caught our men staring at other women and their assets, and we’ve all given them the cold shoulder until they came back crawling and sweet talking us into forgiving them. But what is it with men and their wandering eyes? They are supposedly in a happy relationship and they do love you, but there’s something about that girl’s legs or another girl’s breasts that gets his neck craning a complete circle to get a better view. It can be really annoying each time you tell him off, but you know nothing’s ever going to stop him.
Men stare as if they’re hypnotized and at most times, they need a thwack on the head to realize you exist. It’s alright to see your male friends stare at other women, but when your own man sizes up women in front of you, it’s obviously going to hurt you and your ego. Your male friends would say that they stare at women because they are so damn good looking, and that they envy God for having such outstanding creativity! But your boyfriend usually says “oh… I thought I knew that girl, serious… she reminded me of an old school friend.” Or maybe not… Most men do it, but they also add that they try their best not to, but it’s just their involuntary reflexes.
Men stare, better put, ogle. Period. But what they don’t understand is that we look at these guys as annoying men who just can’t seem to work the courage up to approach women. And besides, we’re not actually going to reciprocate the ogles of a coward, are we? But men don’t seem to care. And it’s probably because they know they’ll never have the courage to walk up and approach a girl, and ask her out. So they might as well size her up and register her assets as much as their brain can allow them to. It may be a furtive glance or a drooling stare, but researchers have revealed that an average man spends six months of his life leching at women! And his eyes make sure they get an average of eight sneaky stares each day, sometimes for up to two minutes at a stretch.
So now you know that trying to get rid of his habit is not going to be easy, actually, it’s not going to be possible. But the most important question is how do you handle it? And how do you change all that forever?
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