Ball games and frisbees are boring. Check out this naughty list of wild things you can do and redefine sexy fun by having sex on the beach.
Having fun on the beach can’t get any better than these naughty, sexy turn-on tips for couples looking to explore sex on the beach. Try them at your own risk, and let your sexual desires explode into orgasms galore.
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There’s something about a beach that makes it a big turn on for just about anyone. It’s romantic, fun, and erotic. And that makes fun on the beach a heady cocktail of lust and sexual desires for couples and singles alike. When was the last time you had a wild time having fun on the beach? It was probably out with a huge group of friends, or late at night while having sex with your partner.
Real Fun on the Beach For Couples
From our past lessons on having fun on the beach, we’ve seen that you can have fun in a crowded place, being the center of attention. Or, you can do it discreetly, while having sex in a quiet hideaway. But seriously though, that’s not much of a turn on, is it?
Hiding it and doing the deed can be fun the first few times, but can get quite monotonous and boring after a while. [Read: Seven sexiest places to have sex]
While you’re on a beach in the middle of your vacation, have fun and remember that no one knows you. And whatever happens in the vacation stays in the vacation, other than the memories and the thrills, of course. Here is a list of sizzling naughty tips to turn you and your partner on, and increase your libido all at once.
Why People Are Drawn to Sex on the Beach
If sex on the beach has never crossed your mind or it’s something you’ve contemplated but never dared to try, there are compelling reasons to consider it.
From the thrill of adventure to the beauty of the setting, here’s why this might just be an exhilarating experience you and your partner would enjoy at least once.
1. Adventure and Spontaneity
One of the biggest draws to having sex on the beach is the element of adventure it introduces. Engaging in an activity that’s outside the everyday norms can add a thrilling layer to your sexual life.
It’s about breaking free from the typical bedroom scene and injecting a sense of unpredictability and excitement. This spontaneity can enhance your connection and make the moment more memorable. [Read: 59 hottest places to have sex that are naughty, risky & adrenaline racing!]
2. Romantic Setting
The natural beauty of a beach—the sound of waves, the feel of sand, and the sight of an expansive horizon—creates a profoundly romantic setting.
This picturesque backdrop can intensify emotions and enhance physical intimacy. Having sex on the beach allows couples to connect deeply in a serene and beautiful environment, away from the usual distractions of daily life.
3. Fantasy Fulfillment
For many, sex on the beach is a long-held fantasy. It’s a scenario that’s often depicted in films and literature, which adds a layer of allure and excitement.
Fulfilling this fantasy can be a thrilling check off your bucket list, providing a story to reminisce about in the future. Making fantasies a reality can be incredibly satisfying and bonding for a couple.
4. A Sense of Freedom
There’s a unique sense of freedom that comes with being semi-exposed in nature. It can be liberating for your sexual and emotional expressions.
On the beach, away from the confines of four walls, many find a new level of openness and vulnerability with their partners, which can strengthen the relationship and enhance intimacy.
5. Rekindling Connections
Choosing a unique and exciting experience like having sex on the beach can serve as a perfect way to rekindle a connection in a long-term relationship. [Read: 49 ways to rekindle a relationship or marriage & spark romance with love]
It breaks the routine and monotony that often dulls romantic relationships. Such an experience can remind both partners of their attraction and commitment to one another, injecting new vitality into their relationship.
6. The Element of Risk
While not appealing to everyone, for some, the slight risk of being seen or caught adds an additional layer of excitement to the experience.
It doesn’t mean breaking the law or offending others, but rather, the thrill of potentially being discovered can heighten the overall excitement. Just make sure to do it responsibly, as you don’t want your sexy time on the beach to end in legal troubles.
Preparations for Enjoyable Beach Sex
Before diving into the exciting experience of sex on the beach, there are several key preparations and considerations that can make the experience more enjoyable and stress-free. Here’s a comprehensive list of what you might want to discuss and arrange to ensure everything goes smoothly.
1. Finding the Right Spot
Choosing a secluded and safe location is crucial when planning sex on the beach. Look for spots that are not only romantic but also offer some degree of privacy.
Avoid crowded beaches and consider visiting during off-peak times or seeking out lesser-known beach areas. It’s important to ensure that the spot you choose is also safe, away from hazards like high tides or rocky areas.
2. Time of Day
The timing of your beach escapade can greatly affect privacy and ambiance. Sunset or night-time can provide not only stunning backdrops but also more privacy under the cover of darkness.
Early mornings are also a quieter time at most beaches. Consider the moonlight for a naturally romantic setting that still provides enough light for safety. [Read: Romantic sex: Ways to go from ordinary sex to romantic fantasy]
3. Comfort and Hygiene
Bring the necessary items to ensure comfort and cleanliness. A large blanket or a beach mat can help keep sand at bay, while towels can be used for cleaning up afterward.
Wet wipes or baby wipes are handy for quick sanitation. Remember to pack a small trash bag to dispose of any used items responsibly.
4. Environmental Considerations
Keeping sand at bay is a challenge during beach sex. Choosing your positions wisely can help minimize discomfort; a blanket or beach chair can also aid in this.
Additionally, be mindful of the local wildlife and plant life, ensuring that your activities don’t disturb the natural environment.
5. Dress Appropriately
Wearing easy-to-remove swimwear or clothing can make the transition smoother and less awkward. Avoid complicated outfits or layers, which can be tricky to manage in the sandy environment. Clothing that doubles as a towel or a cover-up can be particularly useful.
6. Use Proper Protection
Always use protection to prevent sexually transmitted infections and unplanned pregnancies. Sand can sometimes interfere with the integrity of condoms, so be extra cautious to ensure they are applied in a clean, sand-free area and check them regularly during the act.
7. Lubrication is Key
In addition, sand can cause friction and discomfort, so using a good quality, waterproof lubricant can enhance the experience.
Make sure the lubricant is compatible with any condoms you use, typically choosing water-based over oil-based to ensure the condom doesn’t degrade. [Read: How to use lube: 25 best lubricants for sex, pros, cons & secrets to use them]
8. Privacy Measures
Apart from choosing a secluded spot, consider the legal aspects of having sex in a public place. Research local laws to avoid any legal trouble, and always have a plan for quickly covering up if someone approaches. Being discreet is key to enjoying sex on the beach without offending others or breaking the law.
9. Check Weather and Tidal Conditions
Before heading to the beach, check the weather forecast and tidal conditions. Avoid days when high winds, rain, or high tides might make the beach unsafe or uncomfortable for your activities.
You don’t want to be in the heat of the moment only to be washed away by huge waves or caught in a sudden storm.
10. Aftercare and Cleanup
Plan for aftercare following your beach experience. Bring plenty of water for hydration, and perhaps some snacks for a post-adventure picnic. Make sure to clean up all belongings and trash to leave the beach as untouched as possible.
Sexy Tips to Have More Fun on the Beach
Who says you need counseling to reignite your passion?
Here are ten guaranteed ways to ignite your passion while having fun on the beach. Dive right in and change your sex lives forever!
1. Play Around in the Water
We don’t mean the regular fun and games of splashing around. Think like frisky bunnies and fool around in the blue waters. It doesn’t matter who’s around as long as you’re moderately discreet.
Let your hands slip and slide all over each other, paying special attention to well concealed areas. [Read: How to get someone to skinny dip with you]
2. Don’t Wear Underwear
A beach isn’t all about the water. So if you’re planning to stay on the shore for a couple of hours, make it a point to go commando.
It feels liberating and daring, and yet, no one knows it but you and your partner. And the cool sea breeze can do wonders between those legs too!
3. Make Out in Public
We all love a bit of public display of affection, but while you’re indulging in this, watch out for the public display of affection etiquette.
Kissing and letting your hands run in a vacation spot is acceptable and enjoyed by other vacationers, and it’s psychologically a huge turn on for the couple too.
4. Get an Outdoor Full Body Massage
Full body massages are relaxing and invigorating. They can be a great warm up to sex or a relaxing way to end the shagathon. When you get a full massage outdoors from a masseur of the opposite sex, it usually ends up with a tingle in the loins.
A stranger’s hands running all over your naked body while your partner watches you will only make your partner desire and want you more! [Read: A happy ending massage confession]
5. Wear Revealing Clothes
When you’re vacationing at a beach spot, going commando can be a personal secret, but there’s a bolder way to get those desires burning. You can’t really wear the skimpiest clothing around your neighborhood, but you can wear them away to full glory when you’re at a beach getaway.
Your partner can see you, your sexy cleavage and those oh-so-hot shorts in full public view, but yet, can’t really have sex with you right there. And this carnal frustration will only increase the sexual passion and the desire to rip those clothes off the minute you guys get some alone-time. [Read: The perfect guide to get naked in public for the first time]
Tips for Naughty Couples on the Beach
Now that you’ve read the first five pointers on how couples on the beach can have a lot of sexual fun and reignite their sexual desires, here are five bolder moves that are guaranteed to set those bed sheets on fire.
And hey, you’re going to feel a lot sexier and desirous too!
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6. Flirt With Others in Beach Parties
This may sound crazy, but it has a logical answer. One of the most important things to keep sexual desires and passion alive is sexual competition.
A partner that attracts the attention of the opposite sex is desired a lot more than one who attracts less attention.
As the loving relationship between a couple plateaus over the years, the sexual interest in each other drops down because of the lack of competition and the partners actually start to stray and get attracted to other people in their workplaces who get more attention from the opposite sex.
By flirting and having fun on the beach, not only are both of you feeling more confident, you’re also making yourselves more desirable in front of your partner. Can having fun on the beach get any better? [Read: Naughty tips to seduce a man who’s not yours]
7. Start Skinny Dipping
A nice cool dip in the nude is a huge turn on for anyone. You could indulge in this with your partner, or both of you could do this with a group of close friends.
The weird fact about our bodies and human psychology is that we spend so many years covering ourselves up, that we don’t understand the sexual excitement of showing ourselves in the nude to others, until we start showing them off and realizing how good looking and sexy we actually are! [Read: Tips to start skinny dipping]
8. Nipple Slips and Tiny Shorts
Wearing a skimpy bikini in the waters, or a deep neckline at a cocktail party on the beach? A bit of a nipple slip when others least expect it, or a topless cuddle on a beach with your partner with very few people around can do wonders for your libido.
The fact that you excite others around you itself can be a huge turn on that can give you years of great sex and confidence.
Even giving a waiter who’s taking orders at a restaurant a small peek can turn on not just you, but your partner too. After all, it’s sexy, makes you desirable and is so much fun! [Read: How to start fantasizing about someone else with your partner]
9. Take Nude or Semi Nude Photos of Each Other
While you’re out having fun on a beach, take a few very revealing photos of each other when you get the opportunity. If there are people around, it really should make no difference.
If you’re feeling awkward about it, ask a male waiter who comes for room service to take a picture when the girlfriend’s wearing some very revealing nightwear, or get a girl to take a picture when the boyfriend’s wrapped a tiny towel around the waist.
Basically, do something that will help you realize and understand how sexy each of you really are, and how you’re attracting the attention of other people of the opposite sex. [Read: Tips to take good looking nude photos]
10. Have Sex When Someone’s Watching
Have you ever tried this? You really won’t understand how arousing this can be until you try it.
You could do this with the nightlight on and the curtains wide apart in your beachside villa. Or if you’ve got close friends who are also attractive, you could play sexual truth or dare or some drinking game, and slowly take it to having sex with each other in front of another couple.
We’re not telling you that you have to know how to start swinging, we’re just telling you to have a bit of fun with your bodies, and start feeling sexy and rekindle that passion while you’re having fun on the beach.
11. Maintain Discretion
Even in a secluded spot, it’s important to keep a low profile to avoid drawing attention. Use the natural landscape, like dunes or rocks, to shield yourselves from view.
Keep voices down and avoid any sudden movements that could catch the eyes of passersby. Remember, the thrill of sex on the beach can quickly be overshadowed by unwanted attention, so staying discreet not only ensures your privacy but also respects others sharing the beach.
12. Choose Your Position Wisely
The sandy terrain of the beach can make some positions more challenging than others. Opt for positions that limit the amount of sand that can interfere with your intimacy.
For example, one partner lying on a blanket while the other kneels or stands can minimize sand contact and increase comfort. Alternatively, using beach chairs or towels rolled up under hips can provide better angles and keep sand at bay. [Read: Most common sex positions & sexy ways to spice them up to expert level]
13. Stay Aware of Your Surroundings
It’s easy to get carried away, but always keep an ear out for potential interruptions. Whether it’s the sound of approaching footsteps or a nearby flashlight beam at night, being alert can help you react quickly to maintain your privacy.
This awareness helps you manage your environment effectively, ensuring that your sex on the beach experience doesn’t end abruptly.
14. Quick Cover-Up Strategies
Have a plan for quick cover-ups if someone comes into view. Strategically placed towels, sarongs, or large beach hats can be used to cover up quickly.
Consider setting up a small, pop-up beach tent for added privacy, which can be explained as protection from the sun if anyone asks. It does not only give you a bit of privacy but also provides a plausible reason for your seclusion.
15. Embrace and Enjoy the Moment
While it’s important to be cautious and prepared, don’t forget to truly immerse yourselves in the experience of sex on the beach. Focus on the sensations, the sound of the waves, the feel of the breeze, and the uniqueness of the environment.
Let these elements enhance your intimacy. Laugh off any small inconveniences like sand sticking here and there; these are just part of the adventure.
Remember, it’s about the connection with your partner and creating a memorable experience that you both will cherish. Taking a moment to appreciate the setting and each other can deepen your bond and enhance the pleasure of the experience.
Use These Tips and Dive Into the Fun
Now some of these couples on the beach tips may feel like they’re over the top or just a wee bit too bold. But that’s alright, the choices are to each their own. You can indulge in a few or all of these activities, whatever gets your horny adrenaline pumping.
Sex on the beach is definitely a unique and exciting experience to try at least once. It offers a mix of thrill, romance, and a touch of the wild, which can indeed be quite exhilarating. [Read: Outdoor sex: 24 best, hottest places & ways to make it less risky]
By preparing adequately and choosing the right time and place, you can make sure that your adventure is as enjoyable and smooth as possible. Use these tips and dive into the fun, the sexy couples on the beach way. You’ll discover how such an experience can quickly rekindle those lusty desires.
Whether it’s the sound of the waves, the thrill of the slight risk, or simply enjoying each other in a breathtaking setting, sex on the beach can add an unforgettable chapter to your romantic life.
