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How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life with 15 Easy Bedroom Rules

You all need to know how to have the best sex of your life. When sex can affect your relationship so much, you want to make sure it’s always amazing.

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We all just deserve incredible sex. It’s not fair to go through life having boring, awful sex. That being said, you may not know how to have the best sex of your life. It takes a lot to be able to tell your partner what you need and get to a point to where it’s always awesome.

Many couples even take years to get to that point. But the sooner you figure it out, the better your sex life can be for good. There’s no need to wait years and go to couple’s counseling just to have great sex.

Without a great sex life, a lot can go wrong in a relationship

We all know by now that sex isn’t the most important part of a relationship. Having a deeper connection and understanding of one another is. However, sex can do a lot to help with that… as long as it’s good sex.

When you get intimate with your partner, you’re bonding. You’re opening all sorts of doorways to communication and affection that are needed in order for a relationship to be healthy and function happily. But when that sex is bad, those doors get shut and sometimes even locked. [Read: 10 reasons you should have great sex every single day]

How to have the best sex of your life and keep your relationship on good terms

In order to prevent resentment and a bunch of other issues in the relationship, you need to have great sex. But if you have no idea how to have the best sex of your life, that’ll be difficult. Here’s how you can go about transforming your sex life so you always leave satisfied.

#1 Talk about why it’s not working. In order to have better sex, you really have to pinpoint why it sucks in the first place. Is your partner not doing what you need? Are you not telling them what you really want?

Getting down to the bottom of the issue is always the first place to start. In order to move on and have the best sex ever, knowing the reason it’s not great to begin with is super important. [Read: 10 big problems in relationships and how to fix them]

#2 Discuss how to fix it. Have a long discussion about what is needed in order to improve your sex life. Are you having enough sex? Do you need more foreplay beforehand? Just talk about it so you can both come to an agreement on what you need to do to make it better.

#3 Communicate before sex. We’re not always in the mood for the same things. Discuss with your partner what you want out of sex before you get into it. Tell them you’re feeling extra kinky or very romantic. Knowing what you want beforehand can help you both better prepare for it.

#4 Communicate during sex. Even while you’re going at it, you have to be talking about what you want and what’s not working. This can even be done in a really sexy way so you don’t disturb the mood. Dirty talking is a wonderful tool that can be used to get what you both want while turning each other on. [Read: How to effectively communicate in a relationship]

#5 Do more foreplay. Everyone could use more foreplay, especially women. If you’re a lady and not getting off or you’re a man who can’t get his woman off, foreplay is the answer. Spend more time getting things warmed up before the main event.

#6 Work on one thing at a time. Instead of just going right into sex, work on pleasing each other with one thing at a time first. Master certain skills you know they like so you can compile all of them during sex.

If your woman loves oral but you haven’t had much success getting her off yet, focus on perfecting that so you know how to get her off every single time. Ladies, know what your man needs and really work on that specifically before jumping into sex again.

#7 Be open to their fantasies. Fantasies offer a lot of sexual pleasure if you’re both willing to work on them. The main thing to remember is to be open to your partner’s fantasies. When you’re willing to do something like that for them, they’ll repay and the sex will be amazing. [Read: 12 arousing sex fantasies to try in real life]

#8 Explore your own fantasies. You have something you want to do that you’ve never tried before. Find out what it is and then talk to your partner about it. Be open and see if it’s something they’d like to try. You never know what might end up being the one thing that makes sex incredible for you every time.

#9 Masturbate a lot more. If sex sucks, you’re probably not getting yourself off enough. It’s really the best way to figure out what you like and where you need to be touched. Plus, the more you masturbate, the higher your libido. Wanting sex a LOT will make it much better. [Read: 15 major benefits of masturbation]

#10 Don’t be afraid to ask for more. If you need more, then tell your significant other that you need more. Or you need longer. Or you need faster. The bottom line is that you have to communicate what you want or you won’t get it. Don’t be shy or afraid of this. If they care, they’ll want to work with you.

#11 Give as much as you take. Don’t think you can have amazing sex all the time if you’re not willing to give your partner the best sex of their life. The more you give, the more you receive. And if that’s not equal, your sex life will be bad. [Read: How to be good in bed all the time]

#12 Work on emotionally connecting first. The thing that makes sense great isn’t always the sex itself. It’s sometimes the person you’re having it with. Plus, the closer you are emotionally, the easier it is to communicate and the more they’ll want to please you because they care more.

#13 Use some toys. Sometimes people need a little something extra to get off. There’s nothing wrong with that and using toys can actually help you immensely. Go ahead and try some. There are plenty out there that are beneficial for both people in the relationship. [Read: 13 must-have sex toys for first timers in the bedroom]

#14 Get creative with positions and location. Doing the same positions day in and day out without them getting any better just doesn’t work. You have to try new stuff. Some positions can be a little weird and intimidating, but those are usually the ones that feel the best.

Open up and ask to try some new stuff. You can even make it a game and see how many you can try in a single romp. Changing WHERE you have sex can also be just as important. So mix it up and go somewhere new!

#15 Make sex fun. Even if the sex doesn’t please you fully, making it fun will increase your desire to have sex. The more you have sex, the easier it will be to eventually get to a point where it’s always satisfying.

[Read: 15 ways to have the best sex ever, every single time]

Knowing how to have the best sex of your life has more to do with maintaining a strong, open channel of communication and feeling comfortable with yourself. These tips can help you reach a sex life worthy of being envied.

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Annabel Rodgers
Annabel is a lifestyle writer, cheese enthusiast (Wisconsin native over here) and fantasy adventure author-in-progress who enjoys all things love, dog,...