When it comes to sex, pretty much anything goes nowadays—as long as it’s legal. People find new and creative ways to have weird sex people 50 years ago would never have even thought up. As long as it’s consenual and you both enjoy it, there’s really no harm in trying something new.
There’s more to sex than just finding the other person attractive. You have to work hard in your relationship to bring something new and exciting to the table if you want to maintain a healthy life with your partner.
If you’ve been with your partner for a long time, it’s normal for things to become a little samey, even boring. By incorporating new and perhaps different acts into the bedroom, you might find serious sizzle coming your way!
[Read: How to spice up your sex life in 30 sexy ways]
There will always be people there to judge you when you talk about the type of sex you like to have—especially if it’s something society would consider “weird.” Nevertheless, you should be able to have sex in any way you damn well please!
Your sex life links to your health and your overall happiness in life. If you’re not getting what you want out of it, you’re going to feel off and even somewhat unhappy. For your own health and well-being, strive to have sex the way you want to! No matter how weird people consider it to be.
Of course, that doesn’t mean forcing your partner into something they’re not comfortable with. It’s important to sit down and talk about new things with your partner and work out how they feel about it. Of course, they should do the same with you.
What you consider to be sexy, weird sex, they might consider to be a little too much for them. In that case, you try something you’re both comfortable with instead. However, they might also be on board. You don’t know unless you talk about it! [Read: 33 absolutely fascinating facts about sex you never knew]
People everywhere have sex. Some of that sex is weird, some are wonderful, and some are, well, a bit strange. But, we can’t judge! These acts may seem weird on the outside, but they might actually be genius sex hacks you’re simply yet to try.
If you’re looking to spice up your sex life and try something new, you might benefit from learning about these ways people engage in weird sex.
Who knows, some of these ways might end up being the only way you ever have sex again. [Read: 17 of the best naughty ideas to spice up married sex]
There are so many different fetishes out there. And so many ways to incorporate them into sex! They’re often considered weird purely because of the fetish you have.
While not all fetishes are weird and crazy, some are so far gone it’s hard to understand that this is normal for them.
Involving your fetishes in sex can take things to another level. Some people with balloon fetishes ask their partners to blow up balloons and rub them all over them while having sex. Sure, this is weird sex. But if you’ve never tried involving your fetish in sex, well, you should. [Read: The kink list – 20 freaky fetishes that aren’t weird at all]
You all know what a Jacuzzi is, right? It’s a nice warm bath filled with jets shooting bubbles out, massaging you into total relaxation. Well, the ballcuzi is something that is gaining popularity, although it is a super weird sex act.
The ballcuzi involves the guy taking his balls and dipping them into a very warm liquid—hot cocoa, tea, just water, etc.—and then their partner blow bubbles into the liquid with a straw. It creates a kind of massaging/tickling sensation that they love—no matter how weird it is. [Read: What are blue balls? A full guide to blue balls and real experiences]
No, this isn’t a cool, futuristic way to have sex in spacesuits. It’s actually a very weird sex thing people do that makes men question getting a normal blow job ever again.
When someone fills their mouth with Pop Rocks before going down on a guy and giving him a blowjob—that is a supernova.
It crackles and pops all over their junk and makes them feel like they’ve got a vibrator going down there. Weird? Yes. Should you try it? Maybe with caution. [Read: How to give good head – The ultimate blowjob guide and 50+ blowjob tips]
Role play is a way for couples to let go of their own personal involvement in sex acts. It remains one of the best ways to spice up your sex life without having to dip into anything that strange.
However, if you take it a step further to extreme role playing, things get weird. This is when you go ALL out with a character—the clothes, attitude, etc.—and you never break during the whole thing. You do and say things that are 100% opposite to you, and it gets very weird depending on your storyline. [Read: The sexual role play guide for beginners]
Believe it or not, this is a thing nowadays. People everywhere actually give themselves or their partner electric shocks in order to get each other in the mood to do the deed. Then they continue to shock them!
Some sex toys are made specifically for this purpose and are safe to use. Although, it’s still super weird. You clamp them on your nipples, genitals, or anywhere to get turned on.
Who knows? This could be your next favorite way to have sex. Although, please, do be careful. Electric shocks tend to hurt.
This is more of a game, if anything. However, it can get really weird if you take it to extreme levels. You blindfold your partner and have them lick different foods/flavors off your genitals.
Not only is it used for fun, but it also pleasures you while they’re doing it. Couples make wagers on if they get them right or wrong. It’s a seemingly innocent game until they guess wrong and you get to do something crazy to them. [Read: 10 naughty sex games for couples to feel horny again]
You might not actually consider this to be weird sex, per se. However, many couples practice role reversal and take it to extremes.
They actually take on each other’s roles completely by even dressing in each other’s clothes. They then do everything they would do to one another, as the other. It gets very weird depending on how far you want to take it. [Read: What is pegging? All the backdoor facts to get you started]
Having sex in public is a kind of fetish many people have. Sometimes they just do it because it’s on their bucket list and think it would be fun.
However, it turns to weird sex when couples do this in public knowing others can see them. They’ll do it on a balcony in the middle of the day or even in the ocean on a busy beach.
The fact that other people can witness them gets them off, although it does come with a major risk of being arrested attached to it. For that reason, it’s probably not recommended and instead, you should stick to subtle areas where you’re not going to be caught! [Read: The wildest and best places you can ever have outdoor sex]
These types of parties have existed for years and years and years. But they are still considered to be weird sex. The strangeness comes in simply because the idea of having sex is usually kept between two people.
However, people participate in group sex parties more and more, because they want to broaden their horizons and try new things—with new people. If you try this, you might find sex in a group isn’t weird for you at all.
If you’re a couple, you could also try swinging but do be prepared for the potential emotional fall-out, if you don’t talk it through first. [Read: 9 types of wild sex parties you can have right at home]
If you haven’t heard of this weird way to have sex, you’re not alone. This type of weird sex is gaining popularity around the world and maybe you should try it.
The girl puts on a strap-on dildo and has anal sex with the guy. This can be extremely pleasing for him even though some women find this to be weird. [Read: Strap on sex – What you need to know for a pegging party of two]
There are countless more different types of weird sex popping up all the time. The human imagination knows no bounds! If you’ve read about something on this list that you’d like to try, why not talk about it with your partner and see how they feel? Maybe they’ll be totally on board and you’ll be trying new things that very evening!
However, if they’re not so keen, why not ask them what they would like to try? Maybe they’ve got some ideas but they’re simply unsure about how to approach the subject. Remember, as we mentioned before – communication is key!
[Read: Kick up the fun – Messy, sexy, and dirty things to do in bed]
People experience sex in all kinds of ways nowadays. These are just a few of the ways people are having weird sex that you might want to try.
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