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Best Lesson to Live by: Surround Yourself with Positive People

If there’s one piece of life advice you should always live by, it’s to surround yourself with positive people. Here’s why it’ll make your life better.

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You can’t deny that keeping positive people around makes you more positive. It’s like their happy mindset is contagious in the best way possible. The more you’re around them, the more you start emulating their characteristics.

This is usually a subconscious thing but you’ll be able to tell by the way your life improves. You’ll notice subtle changes that can only trace back to the people you surround yourself with. And there are many reasons you’d want those people to be positive, great individuals.

Be careful with the company you keep

This is advice that’s been around forever. You hear it at some point in your life and it’s definitely something you should be thinking about always. This phrasing of advice, however, is meant for you to avoid negative leeches.

The people who will bring you down and steal your joy are the people you want to avoid. Which means conversely, you’ll want to keep the good people at your side. Keeping negative people around would be really toxic. You should definitely focus on ditching those negative nellies so you have room for the right kind of people in your life. [Read: How to ditch the bad company in your life]

To surround yourself with positive people is the best life lesson you can live by

Out of all the advice out there about how to better your life, the one that tells you to surround yourself with positive people is by far the best. Not only will it be better for your happiness, but it’ll change your life for the better in a lot of different ways. Here’s why you should definitely work to surround yourself with positive people.

#1 You’ll be more positive. This is just a given. The more you’re around someone, the more you start acting like them. Therefore, being near positive people all the time will naturally make you a more positive person. And that alone will improve your life in so many ways. [Read: 17 ways to welcome positive energy into your life]

#2 Your personal life will improve. One way being more positive can help you is in your personal life. The more happy energy you carry, the more people will want to be around you. That means you’ll make more friends and you could even find love if you haven’t already.

And if you do have someone special in your life, your relationship will only improve. The more positive you are, the better the relationship will be and you’ll be able to get through the tough times together much easier.

#3 Your work life will get better. Yes, your career really can get better if you’re a more positive person. You’ll get a lot more done at work when you’re not moping around and complaining. Plus, your boss will take note of your positive change and it can potentially land you a promotion.

#4 You’ll be more willing to try new things. The benefits of trying new things can be endless. You might find something you like doing, food you absolutely love, and it’ll just add more variety to your life. And if you’re struggling with a boring life, this aspect can change it completely. [Read: 30 new and exciting things to try as a couple]

#5 Stress will dissipate. A lot of stress actually comes from people complaining and stewing over problems that can be fixed much easier. Basically, you’re making your stress worse just by lingering on it. If you surround yourself with positive people, it’ll make the problems seem less significant and ultimately, your stress will be reduced.

#6 It’ll be easier to solve problems. Why is it positive people seem to never have issues? It’s not that they don’t have problems in their life but rather, they solve them with more ease and they don’t bitch about them nearly as often.

When you’re in a positive state of mind, you see problems and don’t think about how horrible they are and how negatively they’re affecting your life. Instead, you see salutations and you work to fix the issue with them.

#7 You’ll be more satisfied with life. People who are overly negative tend to only see what they don’t have. Positive people, on the other hand, are more grateful for the things in their lives. If you surround yourself with positive people, you’ll start viewing life the same way. And that means you’ll be more satisfied with what you have. [Read: 17 ways to live a simple life and find more satisfaction]

#8 You’ll have more success. Since you’re more positive, you’ll want to do more. You’ll have more drive and want to accomplish many more goals and therefore, you’ll be more successful. You don’t see too many negative nellies with riches and success.

What qualifies a person to be “positive?”

Now that we’ve covered why you should surround yourself with more positive people, here’s how to spot that positive person so you can cling to them like glitter on everything it touches.

#1 They support you. This is one of the most important qualities in a positive person. They’re supportive. They want to see other people have success and the people you want around you are definitely them. They’ll help lift you up when you’re feeling down and you’ll be much happier and be more encouraged to pursue the things you want. [Read: 10 signs your partner is truly supportive of your goals]

#2 They see a solution instead of dwelling on the problem. Have you ever been around people who can come up with a solution right away and then fix the problem? Those are the types of positive people you should have in your life.

#3 They’re always willing to help. Helpful people are always needed in your life. You’ll go through times when you need some of that help and if you only have negative people who would rather point out the issues, your life will be pretty hard.

#4 They make you happy whenever they’re around. This should be easy to tell. Do those people make you happy? Do they add value to your life? If so, they’re the ones you want to keep around. This is clear evidence they’re positive people who will only enrich your life. [Read: 13 things you need for a perfectly happy life]

#5 They care about you. This should be a given, but it’s necessary to point out again. The people in your life should care about you. If you’re doubting whether or not someone cares about you, they probably don’t. You’ll know for sure if they do. So only keep people around who value you because those people will be good to you.

[Read: How to be funny and make people love your company]

If you only ever listen to one piece of advice in your entire life, listen to the one that says to surround yourself with positive people. It’ll have the most impact on your life in the best way.

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Annabel Rodgers
Annabel is a lifestyle writer, cheese enthusiast (Wisconsin native over here) and fantasy adventure author-in-progress who enjoys all things love, dog,...