20 Desirable Ways To Make Your Woman Feel Wanted, Sexy & Beautiful

Regardless of age or shape, all women want to be told and shown how desirable they are. Here are all the ways to make your woman feel sexy all the time!

make your woman feel sexy

It is a harsh world that we live in. The media is by far the biggest and worst critic of women and you will be shocked at the impossible standards that society has set when it comes to the ideal woman. So, you have to know how to make your woman feel sexy.

Women are inundated with wave after wave of flawless beauty every minute of every day. From the cover of their “guilty pleasure” magazine to billboards, music videos, and every show on television, women today are constantly reminded of their flaws.

It comes as no surprise that many women suffer from insecurities and possess low self-confidence. You may see her as the most divine being ever created, but there is a high chance that she will vehemently disagree with you.

A happy wife equals a happy life!

As the main man in her life, it is your job to reassure her that she is a beautiful temptress, even if it is just to you. You need to remind her that you adore her sex appeal and that no matter what, you will always love the way she looks.

You will be very surprised at the positive payback that you will receive once you start convincing her that she is sexy. Remember that a happy wife equals a happy life, so put some effort into it! [Read: How to compliment a girl – 15 must-know tips and 35 of the best lines]

Feeling sexy is important

Feeling sexy isn’t just about what she wears or the way she looks, it’s about how she feels. And when she feels sexy, she feels confident and comfortable in her own skin. Not only does it feel good, but it’s also good for her health and your relationship as a whole.

When she feels sexy, it will lead to having more sex with you. After all, isn’t that what you want?

If you and your lady have hit a lull in your sex life, then it might have to do with how sexy – or not sexy – she feels. So, it’s vital for a healthy sex life.

When she feels sexy being physically intimate with you, then she is more relaxed, enjoys herself, and is more likely to have an orgasm too. [Read: 26 sexy, dirty, freaky things to say and do in bed and try something new]

The best ways to make your woman feel sexy and desirable

There are couples who have been married decades and even after four kids, still behave as if they’ve just started dating. When you ask these couples the secret to what seems like an effortlessly happy marriage, it all came down to making each other feel good.

According to them, “Both partners need to be happy and one way to do this is to boost each other’s self-confidence levels.” Coming from a real-life everyday couple, that one sentence is perhaps the best piece of advice that you will ever receive.

If you make each other feel good, it will shine through and make every aspect of your relationship bigger, bolder, and better.

Whether you have been married for 20 years, or you’re only 20 minutes into your first date with the woman of your dreams, here are some tips on how to make her feel desirable and sexy. [Read: How to make your girlfriend happy and feel like the luckiest girl ever]

1. Compliment her

Women love being showered with compliments. Even if she is the most modest person to walk the earth, she will love the sweet things that you say about her.

Be genuine and honest with your compliments and if you can, be specific as well. Instead of saying, “You are beautiful”, say something like, “You are at your most beautiful when you do not even try, like right now.”

2. Kiss her well

Many couples in long-term relationships will tell you that although they are still very much in love, kissing each other has evolved from hot and heavy make-out sessions to quick smooches.

No matter how long you have been with your lady love, try to keep the flames of passion alive through kisses.

Instead of quick pecks, kiss her like you cannot get enough and make it last for more than 15 seconds. Make love to her with your tongue and mouth and you will be sure to get her weak in the knees and let her see that you find her desirable. [Read: How to kiss passionately and romantically and make your girl feel weak with your kiss]

3. Flirt often

Even though you already have her in your life, there is no reason why you shouldn’t dial back the flirting.

Whether it is sending her a quick text saying, “I’ve been sitting here thinking naughty things about you”, or calling her up and starting with, “Hey gorgeous, I loved how you looked when I left you naked in bed this morning”, she will undoubtedly appreciate you telling her that she is a sexy and wanted woman.

4. Dress well

If you want your woman to feel desirable, you have to make yourself desirable first. Looking sexy and suave for your lady is not that hard to do.

When she sees that you made the extra effort to look good for her, she will know that you are trying to impress her. Women absolutely love that in a man.

It does not mean that you have to gel your hair up even when you are lazing around at home. Basics like showering and putting on clean clothes are good enough, but make the extra effort on date nights. The longer you have been together, the more she will appreciate it. [Read: How to dress to impress a girl and make sure she can’t get enough of you]

5. Initiate sex

Let’s face it, this will make your woman feel sexy. It’s a new age and chastity is a thing of the past. Do not be embarrassed to act like a ravenous wild animal when it comes to initiating sex with your partner.

When you are spontaneous, you are directly telling your woman that you cannot resist her and that you have to devour her right that very minute.

Even if it seems inconvenient, just make it happen. She will love the thrill of doing it somewhere and sometime unplanned. [Read: Sex in a relationship and what it means to a woman]

6. Stare often

Do not mistake this for being creepy. On the contrary, women love catching you looking at them as it lets them know that you are enjoying the view.

Do not be shy to catch each other’s eyes every so often. She will take it as a compliment. Just remember not to cross the fine line between sexily checking her out like a man who is in love, and ogling at her like a pervert on heat.

7. Be affectionate 

Every woman loves public displays of affection, so indulge her every so often. Grab her by the waist and hold on to her when you are out at the park. Nuzzle her neck and spontaneously kiss her when you are in line for movie tickets. Hold her hand and caress her cheek while out shopping for groceries.

Be affectionate whenever you can, even if it is just the two of you on the couch at home. [Read: 28 cute ways to show affection in a relationship even if it doesn’t come naturally to you]

8. Create romantic moments

Draw a hot bubble bath for her after a long day at work. Go the extra mile by lighting up candles and putting her favorite playlist on shuffle. Treat her to a back massage when she gets out of the tub and make love to her like never before. 

Always remember that women love being wooed. Being romantic by pampering her with the simplest things is a surefire way to let her know that you find her alluring and that you appreciate her. And of course, that’ll only make your woman feel more sexy, desirable, and way more happier as well![Read: 36 sweetest things you can do with your woman]

9. Tell her she’s sexy

Perhaps you are a klutz and do not know how to show your lady love that you find her irresistible. In that case, make up for it by just telling her that she is sexy and beautiful.

Women have an amazing ability to smell bullshit from 10 miles away so ensure that you are genuine with your words. Look her in the eye to let her know that you truly mean it. You will be surprised at how powerful a few simple words can be to a woman.

10. Present her with lingerie

Head to her favorite lingerie store and pick up something that you want her to wear. Whether it is a sexed-up costume to play out a kinky fantasy, or crotchless panties for easy access, pick out whatever you want to see her in and present it to her. 

Tell her how hot and bothered you got just thinking about her in it and that you need to see her in it right away. You will be sure to thrill her with your sexed-up overtures and she will know that you find her provocative. [Read: 20 things you can do to get her in the mood instantly!]

11. Show her off

If you want your woman to feel desirable, you should shout it from the rooftops. Show her off to your friends and brag about her the next time everyone is out in a group. Brag about not just about the way she looks but also about her accomplishments. 

Be sure not to cross the line and embarrass her. Just highlight some of the things you love about her and she will know that you find her irresistible.

Who knows? She may just let you test out those crotchless panties you bought her right after because you made your woman feel sexy!

12. Take her on romantic dates

Every girl wants to feel like a princess and have her man treat her that way. So, if you wine and dine her on romantic dates, she will feel like you have sex on your mind. And why wouldn’t that make her feel sexy? [Read: Romantic dinner date ideas – 17 fun dates you both will never forget]

13. Give her massages

You don’t have to be a professional masseuse to give a good massage. In fact, this kind of massage isn’t just about your muscles, it’s more about the sensuality of the moment. So, buy some scented body oils, and have her get naked so you can touch every part of her body. 

14. Tell her that her body is sexy

Speaking of her body, you should also compliment hers as often as you can if you want your woman to feel sexy and desirable.

Let’s face it – most women are insecure about how their body looks and feels. She’s probably worried about what you think of it too. So, if you tell her how sexy her curves are, she will believe you.

15. Show appreciation

Taking someone for granted isn’t sexy at all. So, if she feels like you don’t appreciate everything she does for you, then she won’t feel sexy.

Instead, she’ll just focus on the resentment she feels. Therefore, you need to tell her how grateful you are for all that she does for you. [Read: 16 ways to show appreciation for someone you love]

16. Don’t watch porn

Sure, most guys like watching porn. But do you know how that makes their girlfriends and wives feel? Not good at all, and certainly not sexy.

She thinks that if you need to watch other women having sex then she’s “not enough” for you. So, even if you do watch porn, don’t tell her. And definitely don’t watch it too much or else it will desensitize you to having sex with her. [Read: Is watching porn cheating? NO, but it can make or break your sex life]

17. Ask her how you can improve

A lot of people are pretty self-centered and think the world revolves around them.

But no one is perfect, and we can all improve ourselves. That’s why you should ask her what she would like you to improve upon. Whether it’s showing her more affection or taking her on dates, she will appreciate your efforts.

18. Read her a naughty book

If you want her to get in the mood, why not break out a naughty book like Fifty Shades of Grey? And if you’re not into reading, then you could always watch the movie.

The point is to get some erotic images in front of both of you to get her to feel sexy and in the mood. [Read: 15 naughty conversations starters for couples to get you both horny in minutes]

19. Tell her some dirty secrets

If you tell her “I have a secret,” then it will intrigue her and probably turn her on.

But make sure your dirty secrets are fantasies you have about her and her body. Tell her what you want to do to her and where you’d like to do it – that will make your woman feel sexy.

20. Help her with chores

Okay, this one might sound silly. How can helping her with household chores make her feel sexy? Well, most women want their men to help them like that.

Believe it or not, it’s very sexy to them. And they think that if you care enough to help take the burdens off their plates, then you must find her sexy.

[Read: 14 sweet and cute ways to make your woman smile all the time!]

Whether you are in a long-term relationship or embarking on something new, there is no question about how important it is to make your woman feel sexy and desirable. Use these tips and show your woman just how amazing she is, and just how much you appreciate her!

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