Are Good Looking Girls Mean or Nice?

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Are good looking girls mean to some guys? Or are they actually nicer than other girls? Here’s a good looking girl’s answer to that big question.

There are a lot of misconceptions about good looking girls out there.

Now they’re not all wrong.

But more often than not, they are more of a stereotype than anything else.

Have you ever heard the line that good looking girls are mean and arrogant?

Now is that all true?

I definitely don’t think so.

I’m a girl who could be considered good looking, and I’d like to share my thoughts with others.

But please don’t think me conceited.

I’m only trying to strike a conversation.

[Read: How to avoid the friend zone and make a girl desire you]

The mean good looking girls

There are a lot of mean girls out there, and perhaps a few good looking mean girls too.

But that doesn’t mean all good looking girls are mean.

Here are a few reasons why some good looking girls are mean.

#1 They’re conceited. It’s true, a few good looking girls are completely full of themselves.

They think they’re a gift to mankind or something, and believe they need to be treated better than everyone else. They’re the annoying kind of good looking girls, and definitely, the shallow ones too.

#2 They like the attention. Almost all good looking girls know they get attention all the time. They know they’re hot stuff and they intend to use their looks at every possible instance to get something favorable.

It may be to date someone rich and have a sugar daddy, or it may be something to do with getting a better job. The attention works for them and they fully use it to their advantage. [Read: 12 tips to get a girl’s attention wherever you are]

#3 They’re intentionally mean. Some good looking girls are just terribly mean. I’ve seen many girls bat their eyelids at a guy and make him approach them only to spurn him away! It’s terrible and annoying, and these are the kind of girls that give good looking girls a bad name.

But this is more like the exception than the rule. All good looking girls are not heartless skanks whose only sole means of pleasure is chucking a wrecking ball at a guy’s heart.

Good looking girls are not intentionally mean

For a long time, I’ve seen just how misunderstood good looking girls are. No matter what a good looking girl does, it’s always bad. There’s just no way out. Here are a few reasons why good looking girls are assumed to be mean.

#1 Guys always exaggerate a good looking girl’s rejection to feel better about themselves. [Read: Ways to reject a guy nicely without hurting him]

#2 Too many guys hit on good looking girls all the time, and they really don’t have the time to play nice to all the guys. What would you do if girls threw themselves at you all the time? You obviously can’t play nice to every girl you meet, especially if you know that you’re never going to be interested in that person.

#3 Guys are always mean to good looking girls. They expect a good looking girl to be snappy, so the guys go all out with their rude remarks. Additionally, a few guys get incredibly rude when they’re rejected. So a great looking girl’s always got to be on guard, or she’ll end up getting insulted by guys all the time.

#4 Cheesy pick up lines. How do you like your eggs in the morning… fried or fertilized? Really? How can a girl not get annoyed when she hears something like that? Most guys always use a pick up line when they strike up a conversation with a good looking girl like a pick up line makes them look cooler. But when a girl’s out with her friends, could it be possible that she’s just trying to have a nice time, not get her eggs picked?! [Read: 10 types of creepy guys that girls always avoid]

People love to see a good looking girl punished

Sometimes, petty jealously can make people really mean. When a good looking girl gets a great guy, everyone else just hopes for her to get dumped or cheated on.

And almost always, everyone wants the good looking girl to date a guy who would treat her like crap just so she can feel their pain. This is especially true for guys who get rejected often. But really, why? What have good looking girls ever done to you? Well, yes, maybe some girl rejected you. But why stereotype all good looking girls into evil witches? [Read: Signs a girl is just using you]

Guys want a girl who’s beautiful but doesn’t know it

Isn’t that unfair? I’ve had a few guys tell me this line with a mean grin, to spite me or be frank, I really can’t tell.

But guys, you want the best girl in the world when clearly, you’re not the best guy in the world yet. You want a confused girl who’s insecure and timid, one who isn’t aware of her own beauty. Why is that? So you can feel good about yourself?

Isn’t that mean? You want the best of something without giving your best back to her. And at the same time, when a good looking girl wants a great guy, everyone thinks the girl’s a bitch, or that she’s shallow. It’s just so unfair.

Who are the real mean girls?

The real mean girls are the ones who constantly want attention or are the ones who think they’re really good looking when they really aren’t. They act snotty and constantly want attention because somewhere deep down, they’re all insecure because they’re not sure if they’re pretty.

And almost always, a good looking girl’s not so good looking friend is usually the mean one. She tries to use her good looking friend’s attractiveness to get attention and treat guys badly because she wants to get even with all the guys who didn’t give her attention. I may sound rude and full of myself, but it’s true. People get mean when they want to inflict pain on someone else for their own shortcomings.

I know a lot of models and good looking guys and girls, and I can assure you, they are the nicest and sweetest people in the world. Just don’t try hitting on them or taking them to bed at hello. Get to know them as a friend first. You’ll see how nice good looking people really are. They’re just like every other nice person in the world. [Read: 15 tips to be nice and loved by all]

Good looking girls are human too

Contrary to popular belief, good looking girls are just like everyone else. They have a heart that hurts and wants true love too. Here are a few things about good looking girls that many guys don’t give a thought about.

#1 They want to be appreciated too. It’s true, they love romance and little skips of joy like every other girl out there. But please, be a great guy who’s sweet and charming. [Read: Easy ways to be charming around a girl]

#2 They’re more than skin deep. Good looking girls want to be liked for who they are beyond their appearance. When a guy just stares at her without listening to her words, it’s insulting.

#3 They don’t like being constantly picked up. Good looking girls don’t want to be hit on or stared at all the time. They’re not animals at a zoo. Why do guys think good looking girls are just meant to be picked up?

#4 Screw the prejudice. Really, good looking girls aren’t always mean. They know their worth, and they appreciate a guy who knows to behave around them and treat them as a person. And they’re completely human and have feelings just like all other girls. [Read: 10 biggest dating turn offs for girls]

Most good looking girls are nicer than other girls

Almost all the time, most good looking girls are nicer than average looking girls. Good looking girls need to try harder to prove that they’re not stuck up or full of themselves.

An average looking girl sometimes throws a hissy fit just to feel pampered. When she does that, everyone else thinks she’s being cute. But when a good looking girl does the same thing, she’s being bitchy. When a great looking girl asks a guy for a favor like getting dropped home, I see eyes rolling and hear gasps of exasperation. Everyone thinks she’s taking advantage of a guy. But when any other girl does that, they think she’s being a good friend. Isn’t that unfair?

And on another note, good looking girls always need to work harder to achieve anything. Whatever we achieve in life, people think we got it off easy. Yes, it’s true, guys are nicer to good looking girls. But not all of them. Almost all guys just think the world’s spinning in our favor because we’re good looking girls. And that’s just not true.

Debunking the stereotype

Really, good looking girls have a heart too. Just for once, try to see the world through our eyes. How would you feel if every guy you get introduced to looks at your breasts while speaking to you and stares at your ass when you walk away? Would you feel like a person or an object? [Read: Kinds of men who stare at women]

Some girls are mean and annoying, true, but as a guy, you can’t just round up all the good looking girls and brand them as annoying and mean. [Read: Reasons behind why guys like breasts like crazy]

The next time you meet a good looking girl, treat her as a person. Have a stimulating intellectual conversation and let her know that you’re seeing her as more than just someone to sleep with. And when you do that, you may just realize that a good looking girl isn’t just skin deep. And she’ll really appreciate you for making her feel like a person too.

[Read: How to flirt with a girl the friendly way]

So are good looking girls really mean? I’ve said my part, but the truth is still out there for you to find out.

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24 thoughts on “Are Good Looking Girls Mean or Nice?”

  1. JBarros says:

    I totally understand why some beatiful women act bitchy with guys. I go to the disco and I see men, who are drunk and full of crap approaching them.

    I say such, because I am a guy I get often approached by other women. Sometimes by girls who I am not attracted and they are really annoying. I guess if this happened to me 10 x or more times per day, just approximately the same amount of times a hot girl gets approached. I would certainly become quite an a**hole lol.

    I have met a lot of beautiful women, who are very nice and I also met otherwise but it also happens with girls who are less pretty. This is pretty much a stereotype, just like you said.

    Interesting article. Thanks

  2. saintmodel says:

    I am a pretty girl and sometimes question if i am actually pretty. But this whole article is true in my perspective, pretty girls have to be more stern, not letting loose and having fun, we have to keep our head up high always with confidence just to get respect. Boys just don’t understand that we want to have FUN with boys without looking or being called names like a whore, we want to let loose and have fun without men staring at us like “they’re at a zoo”. Sometimes it’s flattering, but most times we don’t want it.

  3. snowsnow says:

    I absolutely agree that this is a stereotype, when your a good looking girl it’s harder to make friends with other girls because they think your gonna steal the spotlight from them and then they get jealous. So what’s the point of being good looking when everyone just thinks your mean and unapproachable

  4. Name says:

    Great article!
    I’m a very pretty girl who didn’t know she was pretty for most of high school, I had best friends who both separately tried to ruin my life. (One planned to drug and prostitue me) there both beautiful girls as well who I had always thought were prettier than me! Looking back I think differently, but at least I got to develop a personality is the way I see it!
    Guys hardly approach me! When I was single, they would stare.. Hell everyone stares. Yay fun I kind of really need to blow my nose right now, but ill wait. Than if I do decide to blow my nose! The complete looks of disgust! Like pretty people can’t do anything unpretty without people thinking its their place to give a dirty look (that says “I wrongfully put you on this pedistal, your face scrunches oddly when you blow your nose, and I realize your not perfect, and this makes me happy. I still want you to be perfect, but I’m glad your not.)
    And when your used to being stared at, if you go a while with people not staring at you it’s confusing, something’s on my face, I must look ugly today (doesnt make sense but its a thought)
    You can never go unnoticed, people are always waiting for you to fuck up.
    Men approach you drunk. Mainly. And in a group. And there’s a bet on who can take you home! They say your the best looking girl here, wow! Only to drown you in a bunch of game playing. A lot of men need to devalue pretty girls to feel better about themselves. Or to feel like they can approach them! And I’m no longer going to let people walk all over me, and this is we’re the mean hot girl comes from! Only to those deserving of course, lol rant done.

  5. Viviane says:

    Oh my god, TRUTH! that’s so rare

  6. Viviane says:

    I didn’t get the object part…. I didn’t think it happend in life

  7. kundrata says:

    Of course guys look at your breasts and ass, you’re wearing stuff to highlight those, I’m sure. When breasts stare me in the face, it draws my attention, takes practice and concentration not to look.
    Otherwise you get respect, being good looking and dressing modestly, with taste.
    Ever thought of that ?

  8. ander says:

    What I’d like to know is, why did they use a photo of such a plain-looking, too-made-up woman for this article? Did they want to see if we were paying attention?

  9. john says:

    good looking girls have attitude problem…don’t give a damn to what they are saying

  10. Common sense. says:

    In response to kundrata, I don’t wear things to draw attention to my chest and behind. Some girls are actually quite big in those areas and it shows no matter how appropriate their clothing is.

    Ever thought of that? Moron.

  11. Peter says:

    “Guys want a girl who is beautiful but doesn’t know it”

    Actually it’s the other way round.
    Girls want a good looking man who doesn’t know how much good looking he is.

  12. Heather M. says:

    When you said ‘good looking’, I totally thought you meant pretty facial features, but when I read the last paragraphs about guys staring at boobs and ass, it seems like you mean a good looking body.

    On that note, there are alot of unattractive women with sexy bodies and lots of makeup that are not considered naturally good looking but guys would still be all over them.

    Also so true on the unattractive women who do mean things to their competition. They usually start rumors because of it. Jealousy is so unnecessary, most attractive women would probably be good friends with those jealous h8rs.

    I would like to add that most naturally beautiful women don’t even know they are beautiful until well into their adulthood because all of the jealous men and women have mistreated them so much they think that something is wrong with them. Also men rarely approach them. They eventually figure out that they are beautiful and THAT is why those people were being rude and ugly to them.

    It’s obvious that other women are going to do ugly things because they see you as competition (even if you don’t learn that until youre older) but I never understood why men do that until I read your article.

    I always thought that when a man was being ugly with me that he was gay and that he saw me as his competition. But it makes more sense that he probably thinks that I get everything that I want or that he needs to make me feel bad so he can feel good about humiliating the attractive woman.

    Also, I am super nice and people take my kindness for weakness. But when I stand up for myself they see me as a bitch.

    I’m not conceited either, it took me 28 years to discover my beauty and they were mad when I did! They thought I was going to believe them forever. Once I figured out my beauty, I’ve never looked back.

    Also, I love my bff, but I realize that she only goes out with me when I’m bloated, having a bad hair day, it’s wash day, or there’s some other obvious flaw (she’ll practically drag me out). But when I’m flawless she always cancels our plans. She’s pretty too and I don’t treat her like that! You would be amazed at the people who are subtly jealous of your beauty.

  13. Zeph says:

    OMG, you’re so right. “Pretty girls get the least dates” is so true. Men want beautiful women but they shyt their pants at the thought of approaching them. Then you see them with the fat girl next door or the village’s bicycle, who they don’t get called names. Also, pretty girls usually get married last. Life is so unfair.

  14. Claudia C. says:

    Overall I thought the article was interesting, but at first I neither significantly liked nor disliked it as well. I’ve read it over and thought about it a bit more . . . and I’m still not sure.
    A few negative points stuck out to me by the end, and seemed a bit uncaring towards other people. The generalizations including points such as these: Guys always exaggerate ( a focus on guys that get turned down more often), every guy introduced to good-looking women stare inappropriately, and that guys are always mean/nicer to good looking girls(contradictive). Also, I don’t think appearance/attractiveness determines the kindness shown from a person ( so no category of people are “almost all the time” anything than anyone). The article seems to portray (in my opinion) anyone who’s not good-looking as mean and bitter, and guys as sexual weirdos (or something like that). Saying that one category of people work harder than others (especially when determined through physical looks) doesn’t seem right to me. If a not-so-good looking girl thinks she’s more “attractive” than she “really” is, what’s wrong with that? That doesn’t make her a mean person.Also, shouldn’t good-looking girls be able to turn a nice guy down nicely (even if the girls themselves are tired of it)? If he’s mean, that can also be handeled differently I think? Reading the other comments, it seems most of those readers can relate to this article. I’m sorry if anything I’ve written has insulted you somehow (that definitely wasn’t my intention). Parts of this article do seem to make sense on some level, and I guess everyone (generalization) has problems. I remember watching an episode of a show ( I think it was ‘Tyra’ ) where two women (one who thinks she herself is “ugly” and another woman who considers herself “attractive”-but not in a narcissistic, or bad way) explained to eachother the troubles and struggles they have “because” of their appearance. They both seemes to want what the other didn’t.

  15. Kenneth Priddy says:

    I say MEAN. Married many years to a beautiful girl that knows it as well as everyone who sees her. We have had sex maybe 3 times in 12 years. First it was the meds then she just didn’t it. Feb 2013 decided to discuss it with her again. Her reply was ‘what is the point, I can’t feel it it’s too small’. Well I don’t know any guy that would like to hear that. She has no regrets nor has she apologized. We have talked about it off and on since to no conclusion.

  16. Amanda says:

    I’m an attractive woman who likes to read books and play videogames, so nerd guys like me. And the most annoying thing for me is when you’re nice to some guy, he becomes instantly “in love” and starts to stalk you by phone or social network (done with Facebook, hallelluyah). I ignore them, but they don’t take a hint, and finally when I unequivocally say “I’m not interested” they flip out: THAT’S BECAUSE I’M A NERD, AND I SHOW THAT I LIKE BY CALLING YOU DOZENS OF TIME A DAY! IF I’D BE A BAD BOY BEATING YOU UP, YOU WOULD FALL IN LIVE WITH ME! YOU’RE GONNA END UP ALONE OR WITH A GUY WHO TREATS YOU LIKE CRAP.

    I mean, I know a lot of women like abusive alpha-males (Twilight and other YA novels are here to prove it), but why to make that kind of assumption only because i’m not interested in you? I don’t have the moral obligation to be with someone just because they like me. I need to feel the attraction too!

  17. pinay says:

    “Most good looking girls are nicer than other girls”
    this is sooo true! because most of the mean girls i know are the insecure ones.

  18. ... says:

    I think hot girls are nicer than average looking girls to tbh. I will not however, refrain from looking at a hot girl’s amazing body and I don’t agree that they don’t want you to think they’re hot.

  19. dd says:

    Ikr? Its just so unfair at times besides its not just the guys..the girls takes a while to find out you have no true girl friends????

  20. The Last Jaguar Warrior says:

    This whole article is feminist crap. Girls are (not racially of course) black and white, and that’s how it will always be. In this case, all good looking girls are mean, so watch your step. For those reading this, you have been warned

  21. terail says:

    lol this is the same “good looking” girl who cheated on her boyfriend and said i don’t regret it, right??

    you are a prime example of an awful “good looking” girl who doesn’t realize it because you are too self centered!

  22. Penny says:

    Wow, this article is the story of my life. Amen.

  23. Evan Jones says:

    To be honest your level of attractiveness has nothing to do with your level of kindness. There are both attractive and unattractive girls that are nice, and vice versa. I can understand how it would be frustrating to have guys constantly objectifying you and hitting on you. That being said, the grass is always greener on the other side. There are a lot of girls that probably wish they would get hit on more, and I am sure a lot of guys wish a girl would approach them for once. As a guy, I can attest that, at least for me, it is very hard to approach a girl. You are basically placing yourself in a position to be judged, and it hurts when you are rejected. It is nerve wracking and emotionally damaging when things go wrong. However, due to societal social norms, we as men have to place ourselves in this uncomfortable position. So there are two sides to the coin. I am sure it sucks to get hit on non stop. It also sucks to get rejected when you have worked up the courage to put yourself out there. I know that a lot of guys would love to have an intellectual conversation with a pretty woman. Most of the time we have to jump a bunch of hurdles just to get to that point though. After all, we are boxed into the male stereotype that all men only care about tits and ass. Also, I would say most of the time it isn’t that men only care about the outside. It’s that when you are approaching a girl that you don’t know, all you have to go on is that you are attracted to them. No one wants to be with someone they are not attracted to. That is one thing that you can establish right off the bat, without even talking to someone. I think they are attractive. Now that you have that established, you go up and try to initiate contact, and hopefully get to know the girl. Sometimes it feels like girls take someone telling them they are beautiful as a shallow compliment, and take it as being objectified. It would be nice for them to take it more as, I think you are attractive, and therefore I would like to get to know more about you, and see if maybe something could blossom between us, because right now, I am looking for romance. I know there are guys that literally just want sex, but there are also those who want more. Just like not all hot girls are mean.

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