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How to Get Nudes: The Nicest Way to Get Sexy Snaps Without Asking

If you like the idea of receiving nude snaps, you might be at a loss at how to ask for them. The key? Learning how to get nudes without having to ask!

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We all know the stereotypes about naked pictures. Guys ask for nudes right away and girls shut them down. You know those guys who gloat about getting all the naked pictures they want? They know what they’re doing and they know how to get nudes without even asking for them. That’s why they get so many!

If you ask for naked pictures from someone, you’ll probably get shut down. Why? Because it’s distasteful to ask for them.

It’s something intimate and a way of sexting that you can’t really ask for. It’s also vital that you don’t even attempt to hint about them too soon!

[Read: How to ask for nudes the right way and receive a gallery of naughty pictures]

Why sending nudes when you’re in a relationship can be a great thing

Some may say naked pictures and sexting are the worst things to happen to relationships. We disagree. If you’re in a relationship, sending nudes to your partner can really improve it. You’ll increase the anticipation and grow closer with all the fun flirting you’re doing.

As long as you’re being safe about it, there’s no harm in it. Being able to connect with your partner, even when you’re far away, is important for maintaining a healthy relationship. It’s also really valuable for long-distance couples, too. [Read: 16 mind-blowing ways to spice up your sex life]

It’s very easy for your sex life to get into a rut after a while. If you’ve been together a while, things may have become a little stale. Sending nudes can help to add a little spice to your relationship and give your sex life some extra sizzle!

It’s a great way to build up the tension during the day, telling your partner what you want them to do to you and sending them a nude as a way of getting them hot under the collar. The sex at the end of the day is sure to be mind-blowing. [Read: Sexting ideas: 14 Sexy tips to effortlessly sext like a real pro]

How to get nudes without ever asking for a single picture

In order to get the most nudes and the most gratifying naked pictures, you should never ask. We know that may seem difficult to understand because you may think other people won’t just send you nudes. But you’re wrong.

People actually love to and want to send naked pictures but the second they’re asked for them, they see red flags waving in front of their eyes. Here’s how to get nudes without asking for them at all.

1. Form a bond of trust

Nobody is going to send you nudes if they don’t trust you. Why would they? You’ll have a naked picture of them and they’ll have nothing but your word. And if they don’t trust you, that means nothing.

So make sure they trust you and don’t just bullshit your way to get it either. Be a genuine person and show them they can trust you with anything. They won’t worry about sending nudes when they trust you. [Read: How to properly build trust in a relationship and make it last]

2. Make sure you’ve already been intimate

A girl who’s never stood in front of you naked won’t want to send you naked pictures. That being said, you probably aren’t going to get many nudes from random people this way. But you shouldn’t want to.

You need to have a sexual relationship with someone already if you want to know how to get nudes without asking. When you’re committed to each other and sexually active regularly, they’ll use sexting as a way to connect further and you won’t have to ask. [Read: 17 of the best naughty ideas to spice up married sex]

3. Sext regularly

Sexting is what you need to do in order to get nudes without asking. If you don’t sext, you won’t have anything prompting the other person to get on their phone and snap a picture.

When you’re already texting naughty things back and forth, sending a nude will just become natural to them. They’ll do it as a means of sexting, especially if you set it up that way. [Read: How to initiate sexting: Make your partner hot and horny for you]

4. Be a little vulnerable yourself

That doesn’t mean you have to be physically vulnerable. However, sending a nude picture is a really vulnerable thing and you have to be fair about it. Why would someone send something that risky to you if you won’t even open up to them and let them in?

5. Turn them on first

If you turn them on, they’ll want to turn you on, too. Talk about all the things they love that you do in bed. Go into detail about what you’ll be doing to them later and specifically mention the body parts you want them to send you in a picture.

If they start thinking you really want that specific body part, they’ll be more likely to send it. You basically have to lead them into teasing you with their nudes. [Read: 60 dirty and seductive ways to turn on your lover]

6. Mention how much you love their body

If you start talking up their body and describing how much you like certain parts, they’ll start thinking about sending you those things.

You can even say something about how seeing it would be too much for you right at that moment. This will probably make them want to send one even more!

7. Talk about the last time you were together in bed

Bringing up the last time you two got intimate will immediately trigger their arousal. They’ll be taken back to that moment and, assuming it was a good time, they’ll get really turned on.

When they’re turned on, they’ll be more likely to want to send you naughty pictures. Make sure to be as detailed as possible so they know you really just want to reimagine that moment together. [Read: 10 reasons why you should have morning sex more often]

8. Tell them you miss them … and their body

If you’ve been apart for a while, tell them you miss them. Begin by pointing out all the things you miss about them that don’t have to do with their body. Then you can eventually talk about what specific parts of their body you miss.

Doing this will first make them think you actually miss their presence, which will be touching and sweet. Then you’ll increase the anticipation and make them miss you, which will prompt them to send that nude you want so bad but won’t ask for. [Read: How to make your partner miss you even more]

9. Go into detail about what you’re imagining

If you’re picturing something about their body specifically, talk about it. Go into detail and make them see just how much you pay attention when you’re intimate together. This is a great way to turn them on and make them want to show you those parts you’re imagining so much.

10. Be appreciative as hell when you do get them

The best way to increase your odds of getting nudes without asking for them is to be as grateful as possible when you do get them.

If you’re indifferent when you receive a nude from your partner, they’re probably going to think twice about sending another in the future.

[Read: How to take nude pictures of your lover]

Remember – safety first!

At the start, we mentioned trust. Your partner is trusting you with their naked snaps, so you need to be on your guard and make sure that you keep them safe. Never share the photos with anyone and never show them to a single soul.

These are your personal property but they’re also the personal property of your partner. Sharing these, even for a single second, is a total violation of their trust, and it’s downright wrong. [Read: 10 signs the guy you’re with deserves your trust]

You should also make sure that you secure the snaps somewhere safe. Keep them password protected on your phone, so if you do lose your phone, nobody can get into it and see the photos. It goes without saying that if you’re going to return the favor and send nude snaps back *which you should if they’re doing it for you* then check that you’re sending it to the right person beforehand!

As long as the nude photos you and your partner share with each other remain between the two of you, they can be a fantastic and very sexy way of spicing up your love life, whether you’re far apart or close together.

[Read: How to keep your naked photo safe]

[Read: How to take good nudes – 36 tips for the sexiest naked selfies you can ever take]

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If you really want to know how to get nudes without ever having to ask for them, build a relationship based on trust, sexting, and appreciation. You’ll get them all the time that way.

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