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How to Find Out if a Girl Likes You in 12 Ways

How To Find Out If A Girl Likes You In 12 Ways

Do you sometimes feel like a girl is attracted to you, be it a friend or someone you see now and then? Learn how to find out if a girl likes you here.

It’s not always easy to know if a girl likes you.

Just when you assume a girl is interested in you, you may find out that she’s only being friendly or nice.

But by putting a few obvious signs together, you’ll see that it’s not so hard to decipher a girl’s feelings towards you.

How to find out if a girl likes you

If you’ve ever felt like a girl likes you, just use these tips to bring things out in the open.

And once you do know the answer, you can ask her out if you choose to or just enjoy the attention!

[Read: 15 obvious flirting signs between a guy and a girl]

#1 You catch her staring at you often. Does she steal glances at you now and then? And every time you look at her, does she blush and look away?

If a girl can’t stop staring at you, especially when you’re busy or occupied with something else, it’s a good sign to show that she has something romantic in mind when it comes to your thoughts.

#2 You bump into her often. And somehow, she doesn’t seem surprised to see you.

If you don’t know this girl or haven’t been introduced to her, and you still see her out of the blue in places where you like hanging out, she may want to catch your eye.

#3 Her friends seem excited. She seems nervous. One of the easiest ways to find out if a girl likes you is by watching her behavior when she’s with her friends. Do you see her friends nudging her while she blushes and discreetly looks at you now and then? Well, if her friends stare hard at you and laugh, and if she coyly catches your eye, there’s definitely a crush in the air. [Read: Do girls like shy guys who don’t make a bold move?]

#4 She thinks you’re a great guy. When you have a conversation with this girl, does she constantly remind you about how sweet a guy you are? Being labeled a sweet guy isn’t always a compliment. But if she ever does say any girl would be lucky to have you, then that surely is a compliment!

#5 She looks for excuses to touch you. Some girls are just touchy feely all the time. But almost all the girls aren’t. Does a girl look for excuses to touch you or hold your hand? If you notice this behavior of hers only around you and not any other guy, she probably does have feelings for you.

#6 She compliments you a lot. Does this girl treat you preferentially? Does she favor you or take your side all the time? There’s a good chance that a girl likes you if she favors you and compliments you for the smallest of reasons, all the time.

#7 She talks about your exes and girlfriend. When a girl likes a guy, she’d want to know everything about his relationship status and his past relationships. It’s an easy way to get to know more about the kind of girls you like and are attracted to, and also the relationship issues that matter to you.

#8 She talks about your plans. If a girl likes you, she’d want to be a part of your life beyond work or college hours. Friends do casually ask each other what they’re up to over the weekend, but if a girl wants to date you, she’d try to look for similar activities often, so she can join you.

#9 She gives you all her attention. We’re all busy in our own lives. But if a girl likes you a lot, she’ll push everything else aside so she can spend more time with you. Does she spend time talking to you for a long while even if she’s busy, be it in hallways or over phone? [Read: 20 signs of attraction in the first conversation]

#10 She asks you out. If a girl likes you but is too shy to ask you out on a date , she may try to look for subtler ways to date you or ask you out. Does she ask you about your weekend plans or if you’d be interested in a show or a game for which she has tickets? If she always picks you as the first option to ask out, there’s definitely more than just friendship on her mind.

#11 She flaunts her single status. Does this friend of yours make it very clear to you that she’s single and ready to date someone? If she constantly reminds you that she’s looking for a good guy to date, or asks you to go clubbing with her because she’s got no date, she may indeed like you.

#12 She gets jealous when you ignore her. Does this girl get annoyed when you talk a lot to some other girl? Does she pass a snide remark or pull your leg saying you’re attracted to the other girl just because you had a friendly conversation with that girl? She may be jealous on the inside. [Read: How to get any girl’s attention wherever you are]

And when you ignore this girl completely and have a touchy flirty conversation with another attractive girl, does she avoid you completely or get rude all of a sudden? Sometimes, romantic jealousy is the best sign of romance.

[Read: Signs and circumstances when a girl may like you]

Now individually, these signs on how to tell if a girl likes you may not give you the answer. But watch out for these 12 signs and see if she triggers more than a few of them when she’s with you. If she does, there’s a good chance that she likes you!

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24 thoughts on “How to Find Out if a Girl Likes You in 12 Ways”

  1. heavenangel says:

    Wow. Great pointers! Unfortunatly I adore this one particular girl and I’m always nice to her, and theres not one point on here that she does ๐Ÿ™ but im not going give up. im going to keep you’all posted on my progress.

  2. Alyssa says:

    Gotta be honest, not all of these are true. Girls can be just as shy as guys, I wouldn’t do most of these things..

  3. Tasha says:

    Eh, I’m a girl myself and I read this to see if the advice they give is legit. Ehhhhh, I’ll give it a b- I guess. Most of the things were right, not all of them, but you forgot a crucial sign that even I DO. HAIR TWIRLING!!! HELLO? LOVEPANKY ANYONE HOME? THAT IS CRUCIAL

  4. TMCLA says:

    TBH, they are pretty obvious. I’m not the most brilliant socialiset, and even I kneew most of them.

  5. TMCLA says:

    In my last comment, I meant “socialiser”, not “socialiset”!

  6. chellam says:

    Hey guys i have never talked to her,i feel shy to see face to face,but,interestingly the 1st and 3rd point apply to me often!!!she is one cute thing in this world!!!

  7. Saki says:

    Actually, there’s more to it than girls. Girls can: Act like they hate you but spend time hitting and laughing at you, but they like you. They act mean and harsh, but wish they weren’t. Act…UNIQUE around you. Be nice to you when they feel down or wish you would like them. AND THERE’S SO MUCH MOREEEE

  8. Holly says:

    Noooooooooo, I would never do these things nor would any of my friends. So untrue! Though I suppose some girls do these things…definitely not all though.

  9. Arepa says:

    Can I just put this out there for the guys? Do not look for these signs, it’s a waste of energy. Assume the girl is into you until you get a definite no! If you run with this mentality your body language will adjust accordingly and you will project confidence.

  10. sam says:

    i jst need help my bf luv me vry mch he iz crazy abt me he iz a smrt guy bt thing is dat he says hiz frnds think m not beautf n dis make my mood off…
    i wnt to knw shuold i chng my slf or does hiz frnds commnt affect my relationshp?
    by the way m beautyfl bt dnt knw y thy says so bt m not skinny m bit healthy…

  11. somerandomgirlontheinternet says:

    I’m a girl and I do some of these but not a lot if you like a girl be a man and ask her out what’s the worst she could do say no, seriously! Girls love it when guys are man en

  12. somerandomgirlontheinternet says:

    If you like a girl ask her out some of these signs are true but not all just ask her out

  13. Gladiator says:

    Once upon a time there were these four kids ,one was called Mad, the other was One ,No and the last wasalso called No. These four oneday two started a fight that involved One,No and No, As they fought One and No and No. Mad in the other side interapted their fight and warned them not fight and so these three friends continue to fight. Well then Mad realised that there was no stoping of these three fight,he then decided to call the cops and when the police arrived and asked what was going on?,he said ” No,One is fight with No” and the officer asked again ”what do you mean?and he said again,”No, One is fight with No” and the officer said ”Are you mad? and Mad answered with exccited voice and said ”yes im Mad how do you know me”. update me up bro…

  14. confusedman says:

    I really really like this girl, we used to work together for a few months and got on really well and spent all our time together, we both recently quit our jobs and i asked her out for coffee, it was good, we are going for lunch later in the week, I dont know if she sees me as just a friend or more than that, she only shows number 4 in this list but no others. i really havent a clue what to do or anything, i dont want to like my move and it back fires, i just dont know if she sees me as a friend or more, any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks.

  15. Joshua says:

    This girl i like does everyone of these. Im happy now.

  16. Bill Shorten says:

    I really like this girl I talk to her more and more every day and I want to ask her out but I can’t grow big enough balls to. She shows 8 of the 12 that are listed and I believe that we would be the perfect couple. I don’t just want to bang her brains out, I want to be in a loving relationship where we can take long walks on the beach and watch Bollywood movie marathons all day. Can you please lend me some of your balls so I can ask her out.

  17. Gaijin mangaka says:

    Theres dis gal i i think i used to like. she was never interested in me. even after i told her i like her she just overlooked it.we are frnds though. shud i give up on this gal and move on or fight on?

  18. luke says:

    I have liked this girl 4 about 2yrs I use to text her all the the time I told her how amazing I think she iis and at first she said I was really sweet and then she begged me to go back to how I use 2 b I was recently playing music with her and we were sitting beside each other use we got talking and then she started hitting her legs of mine as if she wanted my attention cud she have been flirting wit me what do u think I sud do sud I start txtin her again or what plz help me

  19. A girl says:

    I’m a girl, and honestly Ive tried maybe two of these things. But I tend to bite my lip, do a hair twirl, look down and smile, and I like to be by them when never possible. But I would say that girls usually wait for the guy to ask them out because it just feels natural. And if they say no it’s NEVER to hurt you. Trust me I’ve done my fair share of google searching “how to reject a guy without hurting his feelings”. I always feel sick to my stomach and feel so bad for the guy. So if the girl says no just give her some space and move on.

  20. Mileeya says:

    What’s the age range are we speaking of here? Because as a woman I wouldn’t do anything that’s listed here. And I don’t recall doing any of it even was I younger. Sure I’ve asked the guy about his ex as in a conversation and maybe to see if he’s still broken up by it.

    Guys my advice is study her. Take her out somewhere she can be normal and act herself. And if you’re unsure whether to call it a date, just let her know it’s her call to see what it maybe for her. If she likes you, she wouldn’t talk about another guy in a romantic way. If that’s the case, you’re just a friend. And it might take a few “dates” and if she likes you, she’ll agree seeing you more if she likes you. That’s a start ????

  21. Nirvan mob says:

    Hmmm most of the signs i have seen in her v are good… Ahh best frenz n i have fallen for her she knowz evrything about ma past she cares for me but m not shure if she loves me or not. N ya my only wall now is v have religious issuez she is an hindu n me a catholic it dosnt matter to me n m too scared to ask her out as m afraid of loosin ma angle her smile makes me smile too. Her joy makes me happy. Her sorrowz make me sad i love her plzz guyz help me out

  22. BenardHamz says:

    i’v seen a number of points mentioned in her,i just dono how she gonna react,but am building the courage to tell her what i feel,i cant keep silent forever u no.she my world

  23. Cody Grenzke says:

    I have to ask what the specific age range of people this is being targeted towards. Is it for high school students? Middle school students? College students? Who is this geared towards?

    I am a college student who’s a senior and studying to become an anthropologist. I have noticed a very attractive girl who seems to be looking my way, that I have never spoken to. She is only giving off one sign (staring at me intensively). I will be focusing on the professor and I will look at her. She will be looking straight at me very attentively and will not take her eyes off me. She is unwavering.

    Could this be a good sign? Or could this be something bad? I have no idea and suck at being able to read women. If someone could help me out and reply, that’d be pretty awesome. Thanks!

  24. penguinApricot says:

    If I get the slightest hint that she may be interested in any way..
    I ask her out.
    Heck, even if I get no signs, I may ask her out.

    So, basically all these subtle signs are irrelevant.

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