Wooing a girl is an art.
Too many guys rush right in, express their undying infatuation to a girl they like and expect everything to work out just fine.
To make it simpler to understand, wooing a girl is like a first kiss.
As much as you’d like the thought, you know you just can’t walk up to any girl on the street and kiss her, can you?
[Read: How to kiss a friend accidentally and get away with it]
It’s all about warming her up, letting her know your intentions, and waiting for her to reciprocate your intentions.
How to woo a girl effortlessly
Never ever surprise a girl with your intention.
It may work, but almost always, you’re setting yourself up for failure unless you’re in a club trying to hook up with a girl who’s looking for a one night stand.
[Read: How to hook up with a girl for a one night stand]
If you truly like her, get to know her better, and make her fall in love with you.
A well planned wooing effort goes a long way in making a great impression, and getting her to like you even before you ask her out.
How to make a girl fall for you
Every guy has the potential to make a great girl fall for him. If you know the girl you like already, that’s a perfect start. But if you don’t know her yet, catch her attention and make her interested in you first. [Read: How to approach a girl and impress her]
And once you get to know her, the whole dating game can become much more easier and effortless.
10 steps to woo a girl you like
Here are 10 easy steps to woo a girl and make her like you in no time. But always remember that a great girl likes a great guy. So if you do want to turn her on and make her want you, emotionally and sexually, you need to connect with her and make her desire you. [Read: 25 things about a great guy that turns a girl on]
Just follow these steps, and you’ll definitely be well on your way to wooing a girl the right way and getting her attention.
#1 Spend time with her. Contrary to what most men think, avoiding a girl or playing hard to get before you get her attention will not make her like you more. That works only if she’s already made up her mind to like you or is already infatuated by you.
So instead of behaving like a brat, try to win her heart by becoming an intrinsic part of her life. Be there for her all the time, so somewhere inside, she feels incomplete when you aren’t around her! [Read: How to make a girl want you sexually]
#2 Compliments and charm. Be chivalrous, and you’ll definitely leave her thinking of you fondly. Chivalry is dead only because guys think it’s such a big effort. Chivalry should be a part of your nature, not something you use only when you’re trying to woo a girl.
Be very charming and have long conversations with her. Compliment her every now and then, sometimes even sexually. Remember, each time you make a girl blush with delight, that’s one step closer to wooing her and making her fall for you. [Read: How to charm a girl and flatter her]
#3 Remind her of you. Always look for ways to constantly remind her of you. Text her late at night before she falls asleep, have a good-night conversation over the phone, or buy something silly or inexpensive that reminds her of you.
Speaking over the phone or texting a girl late at night is the perfect way to build the romance. It almost always gets a girl interested in you within a few weeks. If she’s apprehensive to chat with you late at night, start by calling her in the evenings, and delay the calls one step at a time every now and then until you’re able to get her over the phone or text her just before she sleeps.
And once she’s comfortable with that, all you need to do is flirt in a friendly manner until it’s time to take it to something more sexual. [Read: 15 tips to text flirt with a girl and make her want you]
#4 Be the dependable guy. In a girl’s mind, a great guy is a guy who can protect her and be there for her when she needs him. Be the dependable guy who’s always there in times of her need. If she feels grateful to have you around, she’s bound to think highly of you. But at all times, make her feel special around you so she can start to look at you as a potential catch.
Offer to help her or accompany her when she goes to a new place, or needs a friend to talk about something. You need to make her feel like you’re an indispensible part of her life.
#5 Open up to her. Here’s something you need to know about the art of communication. If you want to connect emotionally with anyone in the whole world, all you need to do is confess about an incident from your own life. When you confess about something, it reveals your vulnerable side, and it makes the other person open up to you without even realizing it.
So if you want to get a girl to open up to you emotionally and connect with you, talk to her about a few secrets. It’ll make her feel closer to you, and she may start talking about her own life and her secrets too. The more you open up to a girl and talk to her about your problems, the more she’ll open up to you and get emotionally attached to you.
#6 Avoid becoming a friend. This is very important. There’s a very thin line between a best friend and a guy who’s soon going to be a girl’s boyfriend. It’s very easy to end up becoming a good friend when you’re trying to win a girl’s heart if you don’t build the sexual chemistry with her. Always let her know that you like her and find her attractive for starters. [Read: Easy ways to avoid the friend zone with a girl]
#7 Flirt with her. Tease the girl, and challenge her now and then when she says something. When you pull a girl’s leg, it makes her try harder to prove herself to you. And with a perfect sense of humor, she’ll end up having a great time with you all the time.
If you want to woo a girl, you need to learn to flirt and tease her. Touch her now and then discreetly, find excuses to get closer to her, and make her tingle with excitement by building the sexual chemistry. [Read: 10 steps to build the sexual tension with a girl you like]
#8 Let her know you think of her. There’s nothing more complimentary than knowing you’re being thought of by someone all the time. So impress her and make her go ‘awww’ in little ways. Do you know her favorite song? Tell her you heard it the other day. Or tell her you thought of her while watching a show on the television. Let her know you think of her often. It’ll make her wonder why you think of her so often, and without realizing it, she’ll start thinking of you too.
#9 Slip the word out. If you want to ask the girl out at this point, you can still go ahead and do just that because in all probability, she may like you already. But if you want to play it safe and make sure that she likes you before you even let her know that you like her already, don’t tell her anything just yet. [Read: How to make a girl like you without asking her out]
Instead, while talking to a good girl friend of hers, just *accidentally* slip the little detail that you like her already. Appear embarrassed about it, but don’t tell her anything else. Before you know it, the word would have spread to your friend and even her girl friends may start teasing both of you as a couple. It’s easy and safe, and you can always pretend like you never said it in the first place if things get awkward.
#10 Ask her out. If you’ve built the right sexual tension and made her realize already that there’s more-than-just-friends in the air, all you need to do is ask her out on a date. It could be something as trivial as a coffee or even a date at the movies. Play it subtle, and when the time feels right, tell her how you feel.
[Read: 10 cute ways to ask a girl to be your girlfriend]
Knowing how to woo a girl is simple, even if you want to play it safe and approach her as a friend. All you need to do is remember to avoid the friend zone, and constantly let her know that there’s more than friendship on your mind.
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