When it comes to attracting women, knowing what they want you to say can be more than helpful. But what do girls like to hear? We have the answers.
It’s about more than just telling a girl what she wants to hear. You have to be honest and genuine about it. That being said, knowing what to specifically tell her can help your chances a lot. So what do girls like to hear?
It honestly depends on the girl. You really have to get to know her a bit before you go ahead and try to tell her what she wants to hear. The thing is, there are many things that most women collectively like to hear and you can tailor those things to fit each woman you know.
Being genuine takes you a lot further than just saying something nice
Although you can say these things women like to hear, you can’t bullshit it. Girls can tell. Even if you tell her exactly what she wants to hear, if it seems like it’s forced, it’ll actually hurt her instead of help your chances. [Read: 13 scenarios when being brutally honest is an obligation]
What do girls like to hear?
Once again, each girl is different. You really want to focus on getting to know her first so you can tailor each thing girls like to hear to meet her specifically and also so it’s genuine. Not all women feel the same about a specific compliment but overall, these are the things women like to hear.
#1 That she’s smart. You can almost never go wrong when telling a girl she’s smart. You just have to choose when to and make sure it doesn’t seem insincere. It also helps to pinpoint specifically why she’s smart and in what way. If you make her feel smart, she’ll be happier than you can imagine.
#2 You admire her drive and ambition. Obviously, she actually has to have drive and ambition in order for this compliment to really work. If she doesn’t, she’ll wonder what the hell you even mean. But overall, an ambitious person loves to hear this.
Most often, nobody but them notices just how hard they work. A lot of the work people do isn’t super obvious to people from the outside and it’ll make her feel appreciated if you bring attention to it. [Read: How to make the right choice between love and career]
#3 You love the outlook she has on life. This is a compliment to a person’s very core. It’s who they are and how they view life. This is extremely meaningful and you want to make sure you mean it. Saying this can also show a woman just how much you both fit together when it come sot those important things.
#4 That she’s a priority to you. When you’re trying to show a girl just how committed to her you are, tell her she’s a priority to you. I’ll never forget the time my boyfriend told me, “I want to make you a priority in my life.”
It was the most meaningful thing because it showed how much he cared for me and although our schedules were really busy, he wanted to make the effort. It’s sweet and extremely powerful.
Just make sure to mean it.
#5 She’s unique. All girls want to feel special. We want to be seen as unique and unlike any other girl you’ve ever met. So tell us that and then go into detail about why. That’s the thing with this one. You can’t just say this and think it’s sufficient. Make sure we know why and it’ll mean more than you know. [Read: 15 ways to court a woman like a classy gentleman]
#6 You care about her. This one is really simple but a lot of guys have a hard time admitting it to women. If you care about her, just say so. You don’t have to go into detail about this one but your actions do have to back it up in order for her to believe you.
#7 She’s beautiful in more ways than physically. Basically, you want her to know you think she’s beautiful on the outside, but even more so on the inside. Make it more about her personality and demeanor and less about her physical appearance.
A big reason for this is because we can’t always help how we look. Genetics is responsible for that. However, we can control our actions and speaking to those can make her melt.
#8 She turns you on without even trying. This is something many women want to hear as an ego boost. Yes, women have egos too and we want to feel sexy and confident. Tell her this and she’ll be more than happy. [Read: What turns girls on sexually and otherwise]
#9 If she wants to talk, you’re there to listen. I know this might sound like a very friend-zone thing to say, but girls appreciate this a lot. It means something special when a man will give up his time to listen to us. Voicing as much will make her feel loved and cared for. Just make sure to back this up.
#10 You’ll be there for her no matter what. She wants that commitment from you. If you really feel this way about her, saying so can make a huge difference. She’ll feel more secure, loved, and she’ll realize just how much you want to be in her life.
#11 You want to support her dreams. It’s one thing to say this, it’s another to actually do it. So even though women love to hear this, we need the action to go along with it. If you say you believe in her dreams and want to support her, make sure you do that. Be there to cheer her on when she’s not motivated and help her.
#12 You want her advice. We totally get that men don’t often like to ask for help. Overall, you’d rather figure stuff out on your own. However, in order to make your girl feel wanted and even needed, ask for her advice. You may be surprised by how much she’ll be able to assist with things.
#13 That you appreciate her. Your girl probably does a lot for you. If she does, make sure she knows how much you appreciate her. Saying, “Thank you!” is meaningful, but telling her how much you appreciate all she does for you is just the next step. It takes things a bit further and means a little more. [Read: 25 ways to show your appreciation without using words]
#14 You’re making plans for the two of you. Believe me when I say that a girl really wants you to walk up to her and tell her you made plans for the two of them for a date night. You can even keep them a surprise. Not only will she get really excited, but taking the initiative is also really sexy.
#15 What you think her best quality is. But don’t say anything physical. Women can’t really control what they look like. However, they can control how goal-oriented they are and other personality traits. Focusing on those things and really letting her know why it’s special will make her deeply grateful.