How to Win a Girl’s Heart and Impress Her Effortlessly

how to win a girl's heart and impress her effortlessly

Want to impress the girl you like and have fun doing it? Find out how to win a girl’s heart and impress her effortlessly using these 9 surefire ways.

Winning a girl’s heart takes effort.

It isn’t about saying what’s on your mind to the girl you like.

In fact, it’s the other way around.

The art of winning a girl’s heart is all about making the girl you like fall in love with you without telling her that you like her in the first place.

You need to get to know her better, and then, you need to make her see you as a dating potential.

If you don’t know her yet, make sure you get her attention the right way.

[Read: 12 ways to get any girl’s attention no matter where you are]

And once you do get her attention, all you need to do is talk and charm your way into her heart.

How to win a girl’s heart effortlessly

Most guys make the genuine mistake of playing the game of winning hearts with their heart.

Of course, when you’re in love with a girl, you can’t do anything but think with your heart.

But if you really want to win a girl’s heart, you need to learn to still your heart, and play the game of hearts with your mind.

Don’t let your emotions control the things you do and the way you express yourself, especially when she doesn’t like you back yet.

You may end up portraying yourself like a clingy or creepy guy who’s desperately trying to win her attention. [Read: 10 types of creepy guys all girls avoid]

Instead of trying hard to make her like you, just try to make her enjoy being with you.

Before you know it, she’ll be addicted to talking to you and spending time with you.

9 steps to win the heart of a girl you like

Ever wondered why some guys are such charmers? They seem to win the affection of all the girls all the time. You can be that guy too, as long as you understand what it takes to win a girl’s heart. [Read: How to charm a girl and flatter her into liking you]

Use these 9 steps on how to win a girl’s heart, and you’ll surely be on your way to impressing the girl you like effortlessly.

#1 Be a great guy. Let’s face it, if you want to date a great girl who’s desired by several guys, you need to be a great guy too.

Here’s a great test to find out if you’re in the big league of guys. When you walk into a room full of guys, do you feel like you’re the coolest cat in the room? Or do you look at a few other guys in awe because they seem so much more awesome?

If you think another guy is cooler, or if you admire a few qualities about another guy you meet, it only means you’re lacking that quality yourself in comparison with that guy. Each time you see a guy who seems *cooler* than you, work on that particular trait so you can get better at it over time. It’s the safest way to improve your own personality in the direction you really want. [Read: 15 traits girls look for in a guy to fall for him]

#2 Talk to her. Make her feel special when she’s around you. It doesn’t matter if there are several other guys who are trying to get her attention. All that matters is what you’re doing to win her heart. Talk to her warmly when you bump into her, and let her know that you’re happy to see her. [Read: What to say to a girl you like to make her like you]

#3 Flirt with her. Flirting with a girl whose heart you’re trying to win is a subtle art. You can either make it obvious that you’re flirting with her, or you can be discreet and subtle. Flirt with her discreetly to begin with, and if she reciprocates by flirting back, you can start to get more obvious.

If you want to flirt with her, try to get some alone time with her whenever you can, and avoid flirting with her when there are others around. Flirting with her when her friends are around will make your flirty lines seem like a joke. Save the compliments and the smooth talking for private conversations. [Read: How to flirt with a girl the friend way]

#4 Don’t be clouded by emotions. You know you like her, but she doesn’t know it yet. If you feel like your chances are slipping or there’s no reciprocation from her end, don’t get reckless. Most guys think with their heart and end up professing their love for a girl when she’s just not interested in dating them. Don’t be that guy. Just make sure you stay out of the friend zone, and avoid telling her that you like her unless you know she likes you already. [Read: How to avoid the friend zone and make her desire you]

#5 Don’t be threatened by the competition. Always think twice before you say something to her, especially if it’s not something pleasant or if it’s about another guy. If she’s been ignoring your calls, or if she gives all her attention to another guy in the cafeteria, don’t behave like a little brat and sulk in the corner. And most importantly, don’t confront her about it. She doesn’t owe you any explanations. Remember, winning her heart is a challenge, and every now and then, you’ll have to deal with other guys who want to impress her.

#6 Occupy her thoughts at night. The night time is the best time to build the intimacy. Start off by texting her now and then in the evenings, and work your way to calling her at night occasionally. Talk about things that interest her, and over time, she’ll warm up to you and even look forward to talking to you every night. [Read: How to text flirt with a girl and get her interested in you]

If you know another guy who calls this girl often, call her half an hour earlier and try to create an interesting conversation. If she likes talking to you, she’ll probably disconnect the other guy’s call if she’s having a great conversation with you.

#7 Open up to her. The best way to build a bond with the girl you like is by building a secret relationship that no one else knows about. By flirting with her only when it’s just the both of you and by talking to each other late at night, it would be a secret flirty affair only the two of you know about, and that would make the whole relationship so much more exciting and mysterious.

Now take that to the next level. When you’re talking to this girl late at night, tell her a few of your secrets that not many people know about, preferably about your past relationships *both of you will end up talking about sex within a few nights* or a few trivial difficulties you’re having with someone she doesn’t know about *she’ll give you advise on how to deal with that person, and would want an update every night*.

The more she knows about your personal details, the more easily she’ll start talking about her own secrets. And once she starts doing that, she’ll start to feel closer to you, and think about you often too. As long as you avoid talking about something sad or gloomy, she’ll always be excited to stretch the conversation with you. [Read: How to get a girl horny and wet just by sitting next to her]

#8 Win over her friends. If you do know most of her friends, try to be nice to them. This isn’t really necessary, but it can help you score brownie points if she ever does discuss about you with her friends.

So does the girl whose heart you’re trying to win have a best friend? If she does have a best friend, then that’s the girl you need to please. Be nice to her best friend and get friendly with her too. And when her best friend becomes a good friend of yours, *accidentally* slip the word out that you like the girl. As long as you’ve impressed her best friend, she’ll turn into your evangelist and convince the girl you like to start dating you because you’re such an awesome catch!

#9 Get her addicted to you. Unless you know she’s crazy about you already, don’t tell her you’ve fallen for her. Focus on having a good time with her, but at the same time, don’t try too hard to impress her. When you make it obvious that you’re trying to win her heart by buying her flowers or saying something romantic, you kill the mystery. Let her wonder about what you think of her. Compliment her, tell her you miss not having her around, and even tell her that you wish she was with you, but don’t tell her you like her just yet. [Read: 10 ways to build the sexual tension with the girl you like]

And once you know that she’s definitely into you and likes you back, tell her what’s on your mind. [Read: Different ways to tell a special girl that you love her]

As long as you fall in love with your heart, and think with your head while impressing her, you could use these 9 steps on how to win a girl’s heart and make her fall in love with you in no time.

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Vin Serai
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13 thoughts on “How to Win a Girl’s Heart and Impress Her Effortlessly”

  1. Jamie says:

    What you fail to mention is how important it is to not be unattractive. Being good looking will take you a lot further with women than ANYTHING else.

  2. Mirza Saeed says:

    This to be added to it: Make yourself presentable romantically and worth tempting irresistibly
    The one most important aspect of getting the person of your choice to start falling in love in is to be perfectly perfect human. All can’t be what they wish to be but they can surely be what they are capable of being. To produce goodness, whatever and whichever, can be possible by presenting intellectual, romantic and lovable attributes is doable. All you have to do is to try letting the person of your choice know you how gracefully different you actually are. This will work as magnetism to people around you, pushing them to keep coming closer to you. Believe me, it is a sure recipe to start working wonder!

  3. adam smith says:

    is it wrong to tell her that you love her when she does not know me well yet?
    I told her that and she told me that is not the right time to have a relation ship untill we enter the university. so what can i do? shall i wait for her? the problem that i love her so much but i don’t want her to push me back. so i need your advice. thanks

  4. jacob says:

    there’s a girl named hallie being 16 is hard to ask her out ldk what to do help πŸ™

  5. jorry says:

    I really enjoy being here.this site is gonna make me a super shot guy

  6. deguns says:

    I have dis frnd and a skull mate who I like so much we met some couple of few times since ever then we’ve been chatting online until one night she asked me y do I somuch care about her.. told her she’s gotten into me…I’ve got feelings for her she said nothing but good nyt…the following nyt I said to her since u knw I got feelings for you re u gon let me b a part of ur life she said no I asked y she said to me that am not gonna understand… and we shouldn’t talk about it again…. SO I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO…I REALLY NEED HER IN MA LIFE

  7. victor Arhin says:

    be wise

  8. Adrian says:

    Hey guys, the actual thing about it is…There’s an unfortunate fact of life that I’ve realized when it comes to men and women, and relationships. And that can be summed up as (excuse my language):

    p**** = currency πŸ™‚

    It’s that simple. We need women, they don’t need us. She has nothing to lose – if she doesn’t date or get married, all that’ll happen is she won’t fall pregnant. Girls hold all the cards. They know we crave their p and they continue to win every time. Women don’t crave men and d a quarter as much as we crave them. The quicker a guy can realise this, the less time you’ll spend agonizing over why you can’t find a girlfriend, and you can get over it. It’s literally like having a limitless credit card, she knows she can “buy” the top of the range “product” (i.e. man) because she’ll always be able to afford it. The only way to get “bought” is to become a top of the range product, with much to offer. Sure, women have different tastes, that’s why the answer isn’t always money or looks or body, but sometimes personality – but that’s an oddity. It’s the same way most rich people would commonly buy a Ferrari or Lamborghini (i.e. money and looks qualities in men, or “big engine” if you know what I mean :)) but you’ll get the odd one that buys a Ford GT, Noble or TVR (some special quality, e.g. it’s British – i.e. a certain special, likable personality or special skill in a man). But please note the cars mentioned here, I never once mentioned a rusted and dented 1980’s Vauxhall Astra hatchback, if you get my drift.

    And yes, you damn right, we are just like animals. Just like the biggest alpha male lion mounts all the lionesses of the pride, it’s the alpha man that nails all the women, not his sidekicks. So, I don’t care what anybody has deciphered and written in long elaborate article upon article, because it really is much simpler than all of that. If you’re not worth “buying”, you’ll stay on the shelf.

  9. dee says:

    I mate a girl today at work but l showed her that l love her and l well come her and she really thank me for that. but I don’t know what to do tmrw l love her

  10. Vidia says:

    All of those are right-exept number 6 and i know I’m a girl

  11. Cerulean says:

    those seemed kind of vague to me. honestly, most women want a man who:
    -is healthy
    -can provide a healthy environment
    -can carry on an interesting conversation
    -respects others and is respected by them
    -would make a good parent for any children that may happen later
    -makes the woman feel feminine

    it really isn’t that complicated. of course different women use different criteria for judging those traits, but all women basically just want their needs to be met. if a woman can handle things like earning the money, then she won’t care as much if the man is wealthy. if the girl can handle herself in a fight, then she probably won’t mind if the guy doesn’t look strong. tall women probably don’t care as much about how tall the guy is. I do think shorter women will care a bit more about a man being tall, probably as a way to balance out their own genetics. if you want to attract a girl, find out what she needs from a relationship, and do that.

    Adrian: you are dead wrong. women do need men. we all need different things, like a man who can lift heavy objects or stimulate us mentally or satisfy our emotional needs, but it’s not like we “have nothing to lose”. if men just wanted us for physical satisfaction, they’d all be with the loose women who give in on the first date. also, there have been studies about the alpha male stereotype that have found that in general, that kind of man only attracts older women who are only interested in shallow, physical relationships. I guess cougars like lions.

  12. Edd says:

    I tried the moves and they worked but I gave in too early. They are helpful,just be patient while implementing them.

  13. handicapped girl says:

    My man won my heart by being gentle with me. I have severe spinal column injury and I can’t move all my extremities. The only thing I can move is my upper shoulders and my head. My boyfriend loved me ever since I was normal and loved me even more when I turned handicapped and that means so much to me. I’m lucky to have him because even though, I can’t make love to him the way I used to, he still loves me and still finds a way to pleasure me even though I can no longer feel sometimes. He’s my personal assistant 24/7 and he never gets tired of taking care of me and loving me. I’m the most special girl in the world because of him.

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