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Body Language Attraction – Touchy Feely Flirting

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Touchy feely flirting can seem ridiculous, but in reality, you can use the secret of body language attraction and seduce someone into liking you in no time if you just know how to touch a person the right way, at the right time.

Click here to read the introduction on the secret art of the flirting touch.

After reading the introduction, you may have figured how you can use body language attraction and build an emotional connection using touchy feely flirting.

If you just know how to tune your body language and send the right signal, you can flirt and seduce someone into liking you in no time.

The art of touchy feely flirting

Here are four points that can make all the difference if you want to flirt and make someone like you just by flirting with them and touching them at the right time.

Body language attraction and responses

This is as simple as it gets. Keep a keen eye on the body language of your date.

After you start touching your date occasionally, is your potential mate leaning in closer or sitting down in such a manner that both your feet are almost next to each other?

When your date leans in to talk from across a table, do their hands stretch out a little further than necessary?

Or if you’re at a bar counter, and you slide towards them to let others pass, does your date place their hands on you?

If your date is purring inside because of your body language attraction, they can’t help but involuntarily try getting more body contact from you.

If you see that happening, give yourself a pat on the back. You’re going great guns. If it’s not happening, ease up the frequency of touching.

How often should attract using body language?

It’s easy to get carried away while playing touchy feely. But don’t overdo yourself. Don’t let a simple positive response to touch take you all the way to the petting zoo.

Both of you may be touchy feely flirting discreetly, without actually acknowledging it. If you overdo it, you could bring things to a grinding uncomfortable halt [Read: Public display of affection etiquette]. Guys, don’t go rubbing the arms while flirting for the first time. And girls, don’t ever pinch a guy, that’s just annoyingly kiddish. As the date progresses, try stepping into each other’s boundaries by moving closer, instead of increasing the frequency of petting.

And you’d know if you can move in closer by the way your date responds to you. So watch out for the signs and keep the frequency of petting discreet.

Sure signs of body language attraction

Touchy feely flirting can be so much fun, and that’s not just for you. Your date would love it too! But how do know if your date is having a great time feeling you up? Well, there are a few signs that are just way too hard to miss. If your date’s enjoying the attention, it would only be a matter of time before they start touching you back. And that’s when you know you’re spot on.

Still confused? More signs include a hand on your knee, arm or shoulder for more than a second or two, which is definitely more than a casual touch. If someone positions himself or herself right behind you so that they have to reach around you to get something, that’s a sure signal. Let’s face it, if your date found you repulsive, they would find another route to get what they wanted, instead of sliding their palm across your sides, wouldn’t they?

Mutual moves in body language attraction

In addition to touching, watch for someone who follows your lead. If you lean into talk, does she lean towards you or away? If you touch him on the arm, how does he respond?

When most people really like someone, they will signal with body language, even if they are not yet comfortable with touching. And don’t give up. Some people are bad at flirting. But you can always know they like you if they seem to pay attention to you. So watch out for mutual moves.

Even if it takes time for your date to warm up, with a keen eye, you’d be able to make out a few key changes in the behavior. You will start to recognize their touchy feely flirting whether it is through touching, body language or actions.

The final word in body language attraction

All it takes to impress a hot date is an accidental touch that’s premeditated, planned and executed with grace and finesse. Remember to keep a keen eye for mutual signs and make sure you take things further, one step at a time, without overdoing it even once.

Flirting by accidental touch using the attraction of body language is like stacking up a pack of cards one on top of the other. You need to build the attraction and the tension carefully. On the other hand, one wrong move is all it takes to mess everything up, and look sleazy.

So plan your touchy feely flirting with class. You’d be much more confident to determine if that slow hand brush down your arm is a reciprocating move, or a move to push you out of their space.

[Read: How to tell if a girl likes you]

[Read: How to tell if a guy likes you]

Learn to understand the signs of body language attraction and touchy feely flirting, and in no time, you can flirt and seduce someone into liking you before you’re halfway through the date.

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9 thoughts on “Body Language Attraction – Touchy Feely Flirting”

  1. Clare says:

    Gosh, this article gives me gooseflesh! I’ve been on many dates, and seriously, there are times when I just want to hold my date and hug him. Or at times, it’s more like I want to touch him abd pet him! I guess some of these things are involuntary. When you’re having a great time on a date, you’re obviously getting attracted to that person.

    And when you get attracted, it’s easy to feel like cuddling and sitting real close to that person. But using the same logic to create sexual tension? That’s just sweet! I’ve indulged in these things before, only without realizing I’m doing it.

  2. terry says:

    I have been working with a wonderful guy. I think we flirt with each other I really really like him he is always protective of me and gives compliments. When in a crowd we meet eyes and focus on each other. I get this vibe when he’s near me. Do you think he likes me?

  3. I am anonymous says:

    I haven’t known thi guy for long and I have a crush on him, I am NOT an adult only a teenager, and a total failure in love relationships -_-‘ but I really want to know him better. I don’t think I could actually touch him! That would just be too damn awquard! He doesn’t know I fancy him, but we’ve talked about common interests, like games, movies. I feel like I’m getting nowhere!! Help!!

  4. mike says:

    so im a guy in high school and i found this site weeks ago and i’ve read an article every day. i just gotta say u guys at lovepanky have saved my senior year. i was always the odd kid who sat in the back of class and wondered why i didnt have a girlfriend so i just used a couple tips on your site and i know this sounds cheesey but i have been too careless with my flirting and attracted more women than i can handle so ineed to know how do i get rid of some of these girls without being a complete jerk.

  5. tegan says:

    ive been friends with my best mate for 10 years ive had so many bad relationships and hes always been there i have 2 kids unable to have anymore and before i would never of thought about him in that way but do you know the look didn’t hit me till he looked at me honestly just like movies everything was gone just me and him was only a split seconds but felt longer we touch all the time hold hands hug even give him massages so deff sign hes into me so one night i was talking to him and because it was my birthday i asked for a birthday kiss it was one of thous moments your going to kiss but then his friend woke up ruined it. next day i asked him out wrote him a letter explaining how i feel about him and now hes saying he doesn’t want to ruin the friendship and there’s nothing going to happen between us that im a irreplaceable friend . and hes giving me the cold shoulder this isn’t normal for me and him i think hes just scared he will loose me if we try what do you guys think?

  6. Kayla says:

    Ok I’m a 13 year old girl about to turn 14.i really like this guy and I’m not afraid of touching him or anything I just don’t have an excuse to do it. He’s hugged me and put his arm around me before. I comments on a bracelet he was wearing from Jamaica and so I touched him that way but I’m out of ideas. I’m not really on to the accidental touch. He sits next to me on first period and we only have two classes together. Help me please!!!!

  7. help says:

    I like this girl who knows that I like her and she likes someone else. Before that I faked a girlfriend and told her to avoid me for sometime and now she’s yet my friend and I’m attracted to her what should I do since im only 12 and her birthday is coming on 29 th sep

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