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Tinder Conversation Starters

When it comes to the world of online dating, Tinder takes the cake. Here are the best Tinder conversation starters that’ll leave them wanting more.

No matter who you are, you’ve probably heard of Tinder by now. This dating app’s popularity has been booming since it first came out and for good reason, too. Many people turn to it to meet singles near them and it works great. But the one thing you need to get a date is something intriguing to say. That’s where we come in with Tinder conversation starters that’ll leave someone wanting more.

The first thing you say to someone sets the tone for the entire conversation. And many studies have discovered that your very first discussion has the power to either make people want you more or turn them off completely.

What we say plays the biggest role in attraction

I don’t care if you look like Zac Efron or Beyoncé. If you are terrible at conversing and we don’t click when we talk, it’ll go nowhere. What you say can even affect how attractive someone thinks you are.

We connect with people through emotion. The higher level of emotional attraction we have for someone, the more we’re physically attracted to them, too. All of this emotional attraction bleeds through in conversation. Therefore, you have to say the right things to reach a certain level. [Read: Meaningful topics that ignite intellectual conversation]

Tinder conversation starters that’ll leave them wanting more

It’s easy to think that you just have to say “hi” in order to get someone to like you. But there’s so much more to that initial attraction than you may think. Here are some specific conversation starters you can use and our best tips for getting a response. [Read: 15 signs a girl likes you on Tinder]

#1 “You were just given the opportunity of a lifetime: to pack a bag and leave tonight for a trip to anywhere of your choosing. Where do you go?”

#2 “And how are you spending your day? Netflixing, causally sippin’ on something alcoholic, or out on an adventure?”

#3 “Congratulations! You don’t have to go into work on Monday. How do you spend your three day weekend? Sleeping in, going on a short road trip, or celebrating with drinks?”

#4 “Spontaneity is said to be the spice of life. Tell me about the last spontaneous thing you did and loved.”

[Read: 15 Tinder tips you just can’t ignore if you want a date]

#5 “You just won a million dollars. What’s the first thing you do with the money?”

#6 “If you received a dollar for one thing people frequently get wrong about you, what would be responsible for making you rich?”

#7 “I’ve heard there are two types of people in the world. What do you think those two types are?”

#8 “Someday we’ll look back on the day we met, surrounded by grandchildren, and say to them, ‘it all started with a swipe right.’ Or we can lie about how we met. What do you think?”

[Read: How to get laid on Tinder with these 11 must-follow rules]

#9 “Ice cream, brownies, or cookies… if you had to choose?”

#10 “Hi there Tinderella. Do you mind if I be your Tinderfella?”

Tips for getting a response

The thing about using a specialized Tinder conversation starter is that it can be very impersonal. Your job is to use these lines in addition to these 10 tips for getting a response. [Read: Creative Tinder lines to get you a date on the first try]

#1 Be genuine. If you’re acting out and being obvious about the fact that you’re not at all like you sound, it’ll show. Be genuine and be honest. Nobody likes someone who is so obviously being fake. Have fun with the conversation, but don’t try to make a big scene about it.

#2 Mention something that’s in their profile. This is a GREAT way to get a response. When you’re choosing a Tinder conversation starter, always read their bio. It’ll give you things to use as material. Not only does it show you paid attention, but that you care about their interests in general. [Read: Spot a good Tinder profile with these great examples]

#3 Avoid mentioning physical attraction. I know it’s tempting to tell someone they’re beautiful, but it’s very overused. And in general, commenting on physical attraction indicates that you’d like to get physical with them – which is a turnoff.

Save the comments about their beauty for after you’ve already been talking for a while. And even then, just mention it in passing.

#4 Make them laugh. Laughter really goes a long way to hooking someone on Tinder. When you make them laugh, you’ll almost always get a response. Why? Because they’ll remember you. It leaves a lasting impact when someone found what you said funny. So use a joke or get creative with the above conversation starters. [Read: How to make a girl laugh and like you instantly]

#5 Be yourself. This is said a lot, but it’s true. Don’t use a pick-up line that doesn’t resonate with you. If you’re asking something about traveling when you hate it, it’ll be hard to back up. It just won’t make sense and if you lie about liking to travel, it’ll show after a little while. So just be yourself and go with your personality.

#6 Ask engaging questions. Questions are by far the best way to go about getting a response. You’ll notice the above Tinder conversation starters almost always ask a question. When you need an answer, people will most likely give it to you. It also intrigues them and they feel much more invested in the conversation. [Read: 30 meaningful questions to ask someone]

#7 Don’t be too serious right away. Getting really serious – especially at the start of a conversation – can scare people away. They want to have fun. They want to flirt. So keep things light and interesting without crossing the line into serious. It’ll bode well for you.

#8 Find a way to connect your interests. If you see in one of their photos that they’re skiing and you love to ski, mention it. Find a way to work it into your first line.

People like to know that you have something in common almost right away. When you discuss an interest right away instead of giving a boring compliment, you’re showing them a number of different things.

Firstly, you’re showing that you paid attention to their pictures and bio. Secondly, you’re telling them that you’re interested in more than what they look like. And lastly, you’re engaging with them about something they love to do. All of these are beneficial for you.

#9 Use a cheesy pick-up line, but as a joke. We all know how annoying a really cheesy pick-up line can be. But what’s great about using it as one of your Tinder conversation starters is that you can make fun of it. Using a corny line followed by, “can you believe people actually fall for this type of thing?” can work wonders for getting a response. [Read: 70 hilarious cheesy pick up lines that’ll leave them laughing]

#10 Let it be natural. Don’t force it. Let the conversation be what it is. Do your best to send out a conversation starter that they’ll be intrigued by, but don’t force it. If they don’t respond, they don’t respond. Don’t be that annoying person who just talks and talks.

Bonus tip

#11 Send a GIF! It’s been proven time and time again that breaking the ice with a GIF is the way to go. It can ease tension, make someone laugh, and we all know a strategically placed GIF can really make the conversation better.

[Read: 15 Tinder tips you can NOT ignore if you ever want a date]

Getting someone to reply on Tinder can be difficult, but not impossible. As long as you know what to say, it can go your way. Use these Tinder conversation starters to increase your odds.

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Bella Pope
Bella Pope
Bella is a lifestyle writer, cheese enthusiast (Wisconsin native over here) and fantasy adventure author-in-progress who enjoys all things love, dog, p...

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