Artists are just like every other people on the planet. They aren’t that different from everyone else, but they do bring something to the table that most of us don’t – creativity and passion. Admittedly, everyone has the potential to be an artist. However, only those who choose to be artists and commit to their work can truly claim the title.
In terms of relationships, they love just as much as the next person. The only difference is that being an artist means that your personal life becomes a huge part of your work. Aside from that, an artist has no schedule – technically. When inspiration strikes, there are no time-cards, logbooks or overtime pay.
Their world is as crazy as ours, but they have the means to make something out of that craziness. The best we can do as observers is revel in their whirlwind lifestyle, catch them when they feel like falling and enjoy the happiness and intensity that goes with dating powerful personalities like artists. [Read: 10 harsh dating tips to make dating work for you]
Why should you date an artist?
You should date an artist because they can love too. Honestly, people should not segregate artists from us non-creative folks. We’re not the ones who are feeling the impact of this type of mentality. Artists are finding it harder to date out of their industry, because of preconceived notions about them. In order to debunk those notions, here are some very good reasons why you should date an artist.
#1 A look into the other side. Rather than cook up various theories about how artists date, you should go ahead and ask one out. You’d be surprised at the way they live. It’s not all color and creativity – artists live their lives just like you and me. They might do things differently, but the goals are the same – to make a living in order to survive. Their ability to impact society using art is just an awesome bonus.
#2 Better gifts! Let’s admit it. Artists are the best gift-givers. They hold their selves up to a standard, and that does not exempt their ability to choose or make a gift. Most of them do things out of passion and love. So you are sure to get something really special every time they want to give you something.
#3 Honesty. The basis of an artist’s life is an expression of feelings towards the world and the people around them. Most of them are very vocal and honest about the way they feel. They rarely beat around the bush. If you manage to date someone who’s not talkative or wordy, you can expect them to tell you their true feelings through their work.
#4 Inspiration. I’m not talking about volunteering yourself as a muse. Artists actually dislike people who date an artist just to be featured in their work. I’m talking about how you can inspire yourself to have as much passion about your job as they do, even if you’re not an artist.
#5 Determination. If you’re dating an artist who has a moderate understanding of how the world works, you can rest assured that they will not allow themselves to fail in their endeavor. Those who choose to be artists know what the risks are. It’s the same with their relationships. They do everything they can to get what they want, and they won’t hesitate to do anything for the people they love.
Why shouldn’t you date an artist?
People consider artists unpredictable, volatile, intense and nostalgic. These traits are considered profitable in the art world. By being emotionally out there, artists can get the most out of their imaginations. Whether it’s about painting, music, writing, filming and other areas of art, the basis of productivity relies on an artist’s ability to express themselves fully with little to no limitations.
For people who don’t understand what they are going through, those traits tend to be strange and sometimes scary. Things like that shouldn’t pose as a problem for people who want to date an artist. There are other things that you should be concerned about and their personalities are the least of it.
#1 Time. Artists don’t work with a schedule. When inspiration strikes, they will grab the opportunity to work, and you won’t be able to do anything about it. If you want someone who can be there for you all the time, you should consider dating someone who has a definite schedule.
#2 Money. Even if your partner is rolling in the cash after a gallery opening, you can’t expect the situation to stay that way forever. Being an artist requires a big investment in terms of money. Their instruments and materials are pretty expensive, and they are aware of that. If you’re looking to date an artist because you think that they make a lot of money, think again. [Read: 17 brilliant ways to save money as a couple]
#3 Jealousy. If you have trust issues, you shouldn’t date an artist. Their job requires them to interact with lots of people on a daily basis. They need to woo potential buyers and network their butts off. This poses a risk, because you never know who they’ll meet and how they’ll interact. Aside from that, lots of people are attracted by the thought of dating an artist. [Read: 6 little ways to quit being so jealous in your relationship]
#4 Stubbornness. Artists are inherently stubborn. They make a living out of producing the things that they want – not what other people want. This type of attitude transmits to how they handle everyday situations. If you can’t stand losing an argument, you should date someone with a more complacent disposition.
#5 Solitude. Most artists require a significant amount of alone time in order to hone their skills. Musicians require silence. Actors can hole up in hotels while getting ready for a part. Sculptors may spend hours on end staring at a block of marble. Every artist has his or her own method when it comes to working. If you can’t handle being unable to reach them for long periods, then you won’t be a very good partner for them. [Read: 10 hints guys give if they want some space]
Why you shouldn’t care that you’re dating an artist
There’s no need to put artists in a specific box that no man can open. They expect love out of everyone around them. If you can’t handle their quirks and mannerisms, you’re better off not dating anyone at all. That’s because no matter what a person’s profession or passion is, they will have certain characteristics that are out of the ordinary.
Almost everyone wants to experience the same things in life – only we don’t all approach these things in the same way. It doesn’t matter if you heard that they do this and that. You won’t know how an artist approaches a relationship if you don’t even try.
Closing your mind off to the possibility of dating an artist seems pretty narrow-minded and shallow. It’s like saying that you don’t want to date someone from a specific race or social class. You can continue to think that way or you can step outside your boundaries and try something new.
[Read: 15 highs and lows of dating someone smarter than you]
Whether you’re drawn to an artist because of their creativity or you’re averse to dating them because of their erratic schedule, how can you really know if they’d be suitable for you if you don’t give them a chance?
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