I’m Lex Butler, a freelance LovePanky.com contributor based in sunny San Diego, CA, who is passionate about sexual freedom, health, and responsibility. When I’m not writing about wicked games and tough conversations, I’m moderating an amazing adult coloring meet up full of interesting, savvy young women. Additionally, I enjoy cooking (my secret ingredient is love), urban exploration, and spending quality time with my husband.

Latest Features by Lex Butler

what to talk about on a date with an online match

What to Do on Your First Date with an Online Match

What do you do when the hottie you’ve been lusting after online asks you out? These ten tips will help you prep for your first date.

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10 Pro Tips That Will Help You Survive Your Twenties

Navigating your way through your twenties can be crazy. Here are ten life lessons that will make the best years of your life even better.

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10 Ways to Subtly Ask Your Partner to Get Tested

Have you talked to your partner about getting tested for STIs? If not, here are 10 subtle suggestions that will help you learn their status.

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