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What Men Want in Bed

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Want to know the deepest, darkest secrets to arouse a man with wild passion and games? Find out what men want in bed, and learn to be the sex goddess every man desires to be with.

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Knowing what men want in bed isn’t rocket science. It’s actually really simple.

To become a sex goddess that your man would love and desire, you don’t need magic.

You just need to know these eight tips on what men want in bed.

What men want in bed

If you were to ask most men what they want in bed, you’re probably going to end up with a lot of vague answers.

And quite frankly, that’s because most men can’t really pinpoint what they want in a girl beyond great looks.

But it’s more than just appearances, it’s about looking into the sexual experience.

When would you, as a girl, say that the sex was great?

You’d obviously know you’ve had great sex when you experience a mind blowing experience that opens the flood gates of ecstasy down there!

So if you’re wondering what men want in bed, keep in mind that they want a girl who can give him an experience of a lifetime, every time.

Remember these eight tips to give him a sexual experience that worth screaming for!

So what kind of a girl do men want in bed? Here goes…

[Read: Sexual fantasies for men]

#1 A girl who can experiment in bed

Do you like getting freaky in bed? Most lovers are too inhibitive to try new things in bed, and would rather stick with the tried and tested missionary. But don’t stop there. Every now and then, try a few new things to turn each other on.

Indulge in fooling around during foreplay, while you’re teasing each other. And remember not to try too many experiments when you’re actually having sex. Changing too many positions while having sex can actually make your man go limp. And that will not end well, what with him sitting against the bed post all huffy and upset.

#2 A woman who looks great and is confident in bed

Now the first part about looking great in bed can seem shallow, but umm… yeah, guys like that. Unless they have a fetish for BBWs [Read: Sexual fetishes]. Looking fit in bed is always going to be an advantage when it comes to knowing what men want in bed. After all, men are visual creatures who are drawn more to appearance than anything else.

But you should remember that good looks depend more on confidence than on actual appearance. If you’re comfortable walking around the room naked, and seducing him with a little jiggle and a bend, he’d desire you and want you even more.

Learn a few tricks and don’t be afraid to show it off. Like strip teasing or belting a few moves? It doesn’t matter if you’re seducing him to a remix of Y.M.C.A., just as long as you feel sexy and confident yourself.

#3 A woman who’s ready to talk dirty and fantasize

Evolution has programmed men to sow their seeds far and wide, as often as they possibly can. While social system and women have trained a man to hold it in his pants, most men do lust about other gorgeous women (women lust too!) now and then.

While many people are against talking dirty in bed and fantasizing about other people, we suggest otherwise. Men and women do fantasize, yet girls shut that thought out and pretend like some other girl can’t stir your man’s loins.

Men love a woman who understands this fact, whether men acknowledge it or not. While you should dump any man who drools every time a pair of never ending legs walk past him, don’t hate him if he takes a sideward peek at another woman for a quarter of a second. It’s involuntary! [Read: Why do guys stare at girls?]

Explore his sexual fantasies and help him open up about his secret desires. Communicate with each other sexually and talk about the little things that turn each other on [Read: How to talk dirty]. Do this and he’s going to want a bedtime treat every night.

#4 A girl who doesn’t feel awkward in bed

First time sex can be a cute experience at times, what with all the blushing and cute eye batting. But after a while, a man would really want his woman to open up and feel comfortable in bed. It’s great to be coy and flirty while dirty talking, but while doing the deed? Nope, men don’t want a shy girl while banging her like a tin roof in a tornado.

Do you feel uncomfortable to go down on him? Don’t go down there and stare at his ding dong like you’re looking at a raw eel in a sushi bar, disgusted and awkward. Explore him and let him explore you. This is one of the important things that men want in bed. They want to be with a woman who’s happy to be in bed with him.

[Read: Tips on turning a guy on]

You have to remember that men want to be with a woman who enjoys doing the deed with them. Click here to continue reading the next four pointers on what men want in bed in what do men like in bed.


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  • RightlyIrked
    January 2, 2012 | Permalink |

    Having a preference for “BBW’s” or larger men/women is not a fetish by the standards of the silly “Fetish Link Blah Blah Read More” link.

    “In medical or psychological terms, a sexual fetish is an object, a practice or a body part, that becomes the focus of a person’s desire while getting it on with a partner. The scientific term applied to sexual fetishes is paraphilia.”

    First off, last time I checked, 1st world people are getting fatter and fatter -> with the MAJORITY being “overweight”. Secondly, preferring to have sex with fat people has nothing to do with OBJECTS, BODY PARTS, or a PRACTICE (unless the practice is plain old screwing!). That is like saying that someone has a fetish for any other person based on any generalization of their body. In my opinion, that is a preference and not a fetish.

    If we all took a page from this book we’d be running around saying I have a FETISH for BBE’s (Big Brown Eyes), I have a fetish for SWG (Skinny White Girls), I have a fetish for RAG (Robust Armenian Gentlemen, I have a fetish for BAC (Breathing Air Constantly).

    Fetishism is often associated with sexually deviant behavior. Currently, the norm is to like thinner people, but for millions of years of evolution prevalence has favored the fatty fat mcfatties as mates. It is not “deviant” or a “fetish” to prefer a bigger man or woman. Saying something of that nature is obtuse and ignorant.

    Thanks for propagating hatred against people of different body types.

  • HumanDefect
    February 6, 2013 | Permalink |

    “Now the first part about looking great in bed can seem shallow, but umm… yeah, guys like that. Unless they have a fetish for BBWs”

    That was pretty offensive actually. Why do bigger girls have to a “fetish” and I’ll have you know , some bigger girls look damn good as appossed to thin ones.

    You need to learn how to word items. We are not a fetish, we are human beings.

    Fetish are things like feet , piercings , tattoos , biting, etc.
    A human being cannot be a fetish, despite their body size.

  • HighlyAnnoyed
    April 24, 2013 | Permalink |

    “Now the first part about looking great in bed can seem shallow, but umm… yeah, guys like that. Unless they have a fetish for BBWs”

    HO UP HO UP HOOOO UP. Are you tripping on acid or just clearly saying your shallow.
    BBW is not a fetish, it is a preference. Back in the ancient cultures it was a good thing to be a big woman or man, it signified wealth and it was considered a very beautiful thing. Since then, the waist line “requirement for beauty” has shrunk, corsets eventually were dropped. Luckily the waist expanded from there but it is still a silly thing to judge someone’s body, some people can’t even control their body.

  • Jess
    August 3, 2013 | Permalink |

    “…don’t hate him if he takes a sideward peek at another woman for a quarter of a second. It’s involuntary!”——and if you catch your girlfriend looking at other guys, you better not hate her. Two way street!

  • Honeychild
    October 5, 2013 | Permalink |

    Seducing a man is as simple as cooking as far he’s not yet yours. Once dating or married, passion desepears and he no longer is interested. It’s also valide for a woman, she no longer tries anything

  • Roxanne91
    October 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    Not all men look or think about other women. Believe it or not there is a thing called true love which is accompanied by lust for that one and only one individual. After all if you believe your other half is beyond business class why would you stare or fantasize about economy? ;)

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