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What do Men Like in Bed?

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Turning a man on and making him desire you is simple, if you know the rules. Find out the little things that can make a big difference in bed, for you and your man. So what do men like in bed? Find out here.

Click here to read the first four pointers on what men want in bed.

what do men like in bed

Every man has his own wants and desires in bed.

But there are a few things that all men like in bed, with no exclusions.

What do men like in bed

Having a great time in bed isn’t just about what a woman does to a man, but how the experience turns out.

Use these pointers and your quickie shagathons will turn into horny marathons in no time.

So what do men like in bed and what do they want in a woman? Well, find out…

[Read: How to sleep with him in a sexy way]

#5 A woman who can communicate her needs

As a relationship grows, you may start to expect a lot from your man, especially in bed.

But you have to remember that your man is not telepathic. He seriously can’t read your mind.

At times, especially while trying new things in bed, you really have to communicate with your man and tell him exactly what you want.

Holding his head and maneuvering it under the sheets in a dark room would just confuse your man.

If you want him to pay more attention to some part of your body, whisper it to him.

Communicating in bed will help your man relax and focus more on sex rather than on reading your mind!

#6 A girl who can initiate sex

While girls are usually the coy and bashful gender, it’s always great for a man when the tables are reversed. [Read: Top fantasies for women]

Do you ever initiate sex? Well, we’re not talking about the ‘can-we-have-sex’ kind of request. Have you ever sat down on your man while he’s watching the telly and dragged him to your den to have sex?

You have your own sexual needs too, and men do like it when their woman initiates a good romp. Speak your mind and share your own thoughts too. Don’t be shy, instead be brash and tell him exactly what you want. He’ll be more than happy to listen to you, and will only desire you more. [Read: Sexual role play]

#7 A girl who takes control

Men do like taking control of sex, but at times, it’s more relaxing and exciting to be violated by a girl they desire!

Instead of the weekly routine of quietly getting on top of each other in turns, play the lead, and he’ll love that. It’s a secret fantasy for all men, and they absolutely love it when a girl takes control and has her way with him. Dominate him, tie his hands to the bed post or order him to do your bidding. While this may border on a fetish, it’s still exciting for any man.

Your man would find the whole idea of lying back in bed with his eyes closed while you play with him pretty tempting. He can relax and just enjoy your touch, with no pressure of performance or trying to satisfy you. Seriously, which guy wouldn’t like that? [Read: Happy ending massage]

After all, there’s a lot of psychological pressure on a man to perform well in bed and satisfy you. And when you take control of him, he can feel free to drift into pleasure land without a care about anything else.

#8 A woman who can fake an orgasm

This is a selfish issue, but men swell on egos and deflate real fast when their egos are crushed. And one of the biggest ego crushers for a man is not satisfying his woman in bed.

Your man may be sweating, panting, and prolonging sex as much as possible to ensure that you have a great time in bed. But at times, it just doesn’t happen. And he may end up finishing the deed before you reach for the sky and flop down in bed. During times like these, a man can feel really let down and crushed. Your man will love it when you call him a sex god with turrets, but he’ll crawl into a hole just as easily when he feels like he’s underperformed in bed.

It’s always best to be frank in bed and tell your partner if you’re not enjoying sex or don’t really like doing something in bed. But occasionally, it would really help a man’s ego if you can fake an orgasm when you sense that he’s not able to last long enough. He’ll be really grateful for your kindness even though he’ll never know that he underperformed! You could always tell him about that day when he’s on a winning streak in bed.

But if it happens on a regular basis, you really have to tell him the truth even if his ego may crumble to dust. [Read: How to prevent premature ejaculation]

So if you’re wondering what do men like in bed, just use these eight tips on what men like in bed to help you out. And before you know it, you’ll have a man who’ll worship you in bed, and desire you all the time!


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  • Kash
    August 24, 2011 | Permalink |

    Still waiting for god to create a women with the above- hmmm disagree with 8 though, a man should get it right- teach him if you have to.

  • chris
    October 2, 2011 | Permalink |

    never fake an orgasm unless HE tells you to. Otherwise it’s your fault if you don’t enjoy it. I’m sure he tells you what he wants. what makes a great lover is not a trick or flip but the one who talks. Every one’s body is different even men. He is the only one who knows his body and you are the only one who knows yours. If he doesn’t think you are a good lover its his fault for not telling you what he wants, dido for the girl.

  • Lauren
    October 11, 2012 | Permalink |

    Dear GOD! Never fake an orgasm. Never EVER do this. You might be helping his ego, but this will ensure that that lousy move he did- it’s gonna resurface, probably more frequently. In a relationship you should always be honest, if you don’t like something, take control and SHOW HIM WHAT YOU LIKE. Love is mutual- we do not pretend to be in it, sex is part of love, so why should we pretend to be into it if we’re not. He can always make you orgasm even if he’s finished, through oral, through using his fingers. Just as long as he does. If he orgasms too soon, just tell him he owes you one and give him a seductive wink, guaranteed, he will be more than happy to oblige. If sex is going too long and it’s lost your interest, STOP, go to oral sex, please each other that way. There are a lot of things that you can do, but faking an orgasm will only hurt him in the long run- and you too. And god forbid you bring it up in a fight, THAT will crush his ego.

  • Adrian
    December 12, 2013 | Permalink |

    Hey guys, I known its weird for me (a guy) to be reading this, but just wanted to see what they say and whether I would like those things. I totally have to agree with Lauren, girls should never ever fake an orgasm. I can’t speak for all guys, but I know immediately when a girl does it, it’s like I can just sense it. A girl faked on me once, and although I’m not the kind of guy to say anything, I felt like a grade-A idiot and totally useless lover. But, it was also kind of her own fault as well because she didn’t want to do anything else, no oral, no fingers, nothing. The funny thing is, she did it before I was even close to being finished. Why? She actually rolled her eyes and everything, but it still didn’t fool me. I know as a guy, its my fault and everything, but I still couldn’t help but feel really hurt. Girls – please stop doing this.

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