Are you wondering if he really loves you or whether it’s just a fling thing? Use these 25 signs he loves you to decode if love is really on his mind. By Daniel Lincoln
Dating a guy can be easy.
But reading his mind?
Well, that’s tricky business.
Several guys are quite comfortable with expressing their affections for the one they love.
But most guys have a hard time expressing their feelings the romantic way.
Your guy may say that he loves you, but he may not be the most proficient when it comes to expressing just how much you mean to him.
If you’re dating the guy already, read on.
But if you want to know if a guy you’re not dating just yet likes you, read these awesome signs in signs he’s in love with you already.
Signs he loves you a lot
You can try to prod romantic answers out of the man you love, but it’ll still leave you confused.
But there are ways to know just how much he loves you without forcing words out of his mouth.
All you need to do is read the signs.
For girls, saying ‘I love you’ is the biggest sign of commitment in a relationship. And girls love feeling reassured every now and then.
But for guys, saying ‘I love you’ the first few times is important. Beyond that, compatibility and understanding matters more than anything else. [Read: The different stages of love for guys]
If your boyfriend or husband doesn’t express his romantic side as often as you’d like him to, it doesn’t mean he’s getting bored of you. He may actually be indulging in many other ways to express his true love for you. But are you really noticing it?
25 unspoken signs and gestures that prove your guy loves you
If you really want to know just how much your man loves you, stop letting words play the important part. Instead, watch his behavior and use these 25 signs he loves you to read his mind.
It’ll help you understand your man better and even make you see just how much he really loves you!
So does your guy really love you, even if he doesn’t express his love through words? Find out here. [Read: 25 easy tips to make your boyfriend happy everyday]
#1 He remembers what you say. A guy who’s in love with a girl always listens to her and remembers what she says, even if it’s something trivial because he takes her seriously.
#2 He’s chivalrous and treats you like a lady. A guy is chivalrous to a girl when he cares about what she thinks of his behavior. If your guy doesn’t care about you, he wouldn’t care what you think of his behavior.
#3 He takes care of your needs. If your man truly loves you, he’d always look for little ways to make your life better, be it about covering you with a blanket when you’re cold, charging your cell phone even when you don’t ask him, or serving you the better piece of chicken when you’re not looking.
#4 You’re always a part of his big plan in life. He speaks about his life and his dreams with you, and you always have a prominent place in all his future plans.
#5 He holds your hand instinctively when you’re in a crowd, or places his hand on your back while crossing the street. This is a reflex action that neither of you may realize. If a guy loves you, he’d definitely want to protect you and reassure you.
#6 He values your opinions a lot and doesn’t take any important decisions about his own life without hearing your opinions and having a discussion with you.
#7 He wraps his hands around you or stands closer to you when you’re talking to some other guys and having a good laugh. It’s his way of letting the world know that you’re the one he loves and every other guy should back away. [Read: 15 subtle signs of a controlling boyfriend you wouldn't normally notice]
#8 He uses the word “we” instead of saying “I” or “Me” while talking and doesn’t even realize it.
#9 He’s very protective of you. If you’re taking a trip by yourself or even if you’re just driving out with friends, does he like receiving your call after you get to your destination? If your man can relax only after knowing that you’re safe, no matter where you are, he definitely has a special spot for you in his heart.
#10 He’s very interested in your life. If your man loves you, he’d always be eager to know everything about your day, including the little details.
#11 The helping hand. He’s always ready to offer a helping hand every time you ask him *even if he’s busy and he does it while whining and grumbling at the same time*. [Read: 13 clingy girlfriend signs and how you can avoid it]
#12 After the fight. He makes up after a fight just as much as you make up with him. And at times, he even swallows his pride and apologizes first even if it’s not his fault in any manner.
#13 He keeps you updated. He keeps you informed about his life and what he’s up to even though he knows he has no obligation to do so.
#14 He respects you and treats you with a lot of respect. He doesn’t stare at other girls when you’re around, neither does he cut you in the middle of a conversation.
#15 You’re the last person he speaks to or texts at night. If he loves you, you’d be the first and last thing on his mind every time he wakes up or goes to sleep.
#16 He sacrifices his happiness to see you happy. It could be something as small as choosing a restaurant for dinner or giving you the fluffier pillow or something way bigger that can impact his life. [Read: 9 relationship stages that all couples go through]
#17 He makes a lot of effort to be liked by your friends and family. He cares about what your friends and family think of him and he also understands that their impression of him will affect your relationship with your friends and family.
#18 He can’t stay mad at you for any reason for more than a couple of hours. People in love can’t stay mad at each other for long, it hurts both lovers too much. So if he takes the effort to apologize or accept your apology, he really does care about you and your feelings.
#19 He talks a lot. If a guy loves you, you’d find that he opens up really easily to you and talks a lot about everything, be it his life, his plans, his work or even about how annoying his friends really are. [Read: 10 things girls should never say to guys ever!]
#20 He loves spending time with you. He goes out of his way to be with you. And if he has to cancel a date for any genuine reason, he’d do everything it takes to make it up to you on the next date.
#21 He stands up for you, no matter what you’ve done and no matter where he is. A man who truly loves his woman will stand by her side even if she’s on the wrong. He may criticize you in private, but never ever in public. [Read: 7 secret signs of a relationship that's going bad]
#22 Making a choice. If he has to choose between you and anything else in the world, he’d choose you in a flash without even thinking, because he doesn’t need to weigh any options there.
#23 He never forgets your special days, be it your birthday or anniversaries or a big day at work. And he goes out of his way to help you prepare for any big days or events in your life.
#24 He doesn’t get annoyed with you even if he’s busy and you tease him or fool around with him. [Read: 10 fun sex games to play with your boyfriend]
#25 At a social gathering, he never gives any girl more attention than he gives you, even if he meets a celebrity.
Don’t jump to conclusions about your man’s love for you. After all, most men aren’t the biggest romantics. But they do have really big hearts that’s full of love for you and you alone.
So does your man indulge in all these non verbal gestures? Use these 25 signs he loves you to truly understand just how much you mean to your man and just how much he loves you!
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