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Is He Serious about the Relationship?

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Is your boyfriend really serious about you? Find out if your boyfriend is really serious about the relationship with these signs.

Click here to read the introduction on how to tell if he’s serious about you to read the first five signs.

Is he serious about the relationship?

Is you boyfriend serious about the relationship or is it just a fling for the time being?

He may not say much, but his body language would definitely give away a lot of subtle signs about whether he really is serious about you or not.

If you’re in a new relationship and find yourself wondering if he’s really into you or even serious about you, these signs should help you find the answers.

[Read: 30 super sexy ways to keep a guy interested in the relationship]

#6  When you’re with your friends

He knows your girls mean the world to you, so if he makes an effort to get along with them (and their boyfriends), it shows he wants to be a part of your life.

But let the warning bells clang if he gets too close to one of them and asks too many questions about them.

That’s a sign to dump him immediately.

#7 When you’re apart

If  he rings you a hundred times a day for no apparent reason, you can tell that he wishes he was with you physically right at that moment.

The next best alternative being “checking in” with you, to see what you’re up to, every other hour.

Now we also have another reason to be grateful to text messaging, to tell what level our guy is at! [Read: How to pick a cute pet name for your guy]

If he sends you long mushy messages, he’s infatuated and still in that early mush stage, but if he sends you a short and sweet “I luv u” or a “whr r u” even after you guys have been seeing each other for a while, you’re the one for him.

#8 While posing for pictures

Why is it that we try to smile radiantly into a camera making sure it’s on our “good side”? Because we know that photographs are permanent evidence which cannot be denied. So take out the pictures from your last getaway weekend and examine it closely. [Read: Tips to look sexy while sleeping with your guy]

If he has his body angled toward yours and feet pointing toward you then you two are completely in tune. Also notice if he has his arm around you in a possessive gesture. To do this in a photograph is his way of telling you that you’re for keeps. If he’s not very into you, he’ll move away or at least keep a bit of “safe distance” between the both of you.

#9 When having an argument

Every couple has fights, it’s how you fight that determines whether you’re going to be a passing fad or an enduring trend. If your man is willing to listen to your side of the story and consider your opinion, it shows that he’s trying to make it work. Anyone who gives up after a fight is not just a quitter, he doesn’t believe that what you have is long term. If he is willing to talk it out instead of just storming out, he needs you just as much as you need him. [Read: The best way to talk about past relationships]

#10 When you’re in conversation

Does he look deep into your eyes? As corny as it sounds, this is the biggest pointer that actually reveals whether you mean the world to him as it shows he wants to listen to what you have to say. If he can maintain eye contact for only a short while, it doesn’t mean he’s not trustworthy but simply put, you impress him.

But if he has shifty eyes and seems uninterested, then he’s not really interested in what you have to say but in other non-verbal activities. If his eyes are dilated, it means that he is, quite frankly, mesmerized by you.

[Read: How to have a successful long term relationship that lasts]

Remember, you don’t really need to ask your man if he’s serious about the relationship or if it’s just a fling. All you have to do is watch out for the little signs that he gives away, when he’s around you!

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  • Anna
    April 12, 2013 | Permalink |

    The last one isn’t true. I’m a woman, but I have naturally shifty eyes because I get a headache if I keep them still for too long. I try to keep them normal because I know it makes people uncomfortable, but a lot of people still notice and think I’m rude or untrustworthy.

    On the other hand, I have very big pupils that look dilated all the time, and it can cause people to mistakenly think I’m interested in them when I’m not. Eyes are NOT as good indicators of people as everyone thinks they are.

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