Comments on: How to Tell if He’s Serious about You http://www.lovepanky.com/women/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women/how-to-tell-if-hes-serious-about-you Flirt. Tease. Fall in Love. Indulge in the finest reads on love, dating, self-improvement, and a lot more. Sun, 26 Apr 2015 04:26:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.3 By: Allie http://www.lovepanky.com/women/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women/how-to-tell-if-hes-serious-about-you#comment-5504076 Sat, 21 Mar 2015 01:15:08 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=3239#comment-5504076 Emily, your post was written nearly 3 years ago so I do hope your lifestyle has changed and improved since then. The way you described yourself, I have significant doubts that any man would take you seriously as relationship material. You can’t drive, you don’t pay for anything, you act like a princess….you don’t possess the qualities a man would expect in a partner. Men don’t tie themselves down to girls like you who haven’t yet developed a sense of self, purpose or direction. Men may spoil you and spend money on you, but mostly because they enjoy you physically (looking at you, touching you, having arm candy to show off to their friends, etc). You haven’t yet developed into a person that anyone could possibly take seriously. You’re just a young, pretty girl that he’s throwing money at until he’s ready for something real. If you want to be taken seriously, you need to step up as a human being and stop accepting free money and gifts from men. If you’re doing this and you don’t have a ring on your finger, you’re essentially an escort.

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By: baby http://www.lovepanky.com/women/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women/how-to-tell-if-hes-serious-about-you#comment-5503338 Sun, 01 Mar 2015 22:29:34 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=3239#comment-5503338 So i’m stuck in between a rock and a hard place right now . And guy i dated earlier last year have started talking again . We broke up due to his insecurities and his feelings. His ex broke his heart . By kissing his best friend. He claims he really likes and loves me. But i still see him and his ex communicating. I’m unsure if him abd his ex still have a thing ? And if he really likes me . He also asked me to prom . We are all seniors and his ex goes to the same school as us . Any advice?

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By: Allyson http://www.lovepanky.com/women/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women/how-to-tell-if-hes-serious-about-you#comment-5043208 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 09:45:51 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=3239#comment-5043208 Well… I met a man on a dating site 2 months ago… He’s 67… I’m 56… We’ve only met twice so far… Once at a diner… The other at my apartment… There was no sex or anything… Just a light kiss on the lips… He was touchy feely… But always a gentleman… Rubbing my shoulder or my leg while we sat watching tv… He even followed me all around the kitchen while I was making drinks… Even touching my foot with his while we sat on my love-seat… The bad part is that he went to cape cod with a woman he’d once had sex with… He claims he’s know her for years and they are now just friends… Sharing the same motel room with separate beds… I feel a bit hurt as I felt he should have stayed here and got to know me during his time off from work… Before he drove to cape cod, he asked if I would like to fly there (he would pay) and be with him… I said no maybe another time… I actually didn’t want to go because I don’t know him or his friends at all… And if anything went wrong between us I would be stuck there… I am awaiting disability and struggling financially right now… I don’t have a sofa in my apartment and he said that “we” need to get one… Then in a low voice and said, “and I will help you with your problems”… But I’m confused by this other woman… He claims he told her he met me… She was she wished she could meet someone too… I even asked him if I did fly to cape cod, I would not feel comfortable with her there… He said if I did come there, she wouldn’t be there… They are in separate beds in the same motel room… I like him… I I feel he likes me too… He calls or texts me everyday… Even when he’s at work…

What do you make from all this?… I need your advice…

Thank you…

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By: Harmony http://www.lovepanky.com/women/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women/how-to-tell-if-hes-serious-about-you#comment-4919109 Sat, 23 Aug 2014 04:13:08 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=3239#comment-4919109 Men tend to “show” their love. Words can be just that, words. So see what a man does.. If he wants to be with you and doesn’t want to take the chance of losing you, he would be there for you. No matter what the excuse for not being there, if he loves you, wants you in his future, and respects you, he will find a way… Otherwise , life is short and there is a man that will love you the way you should be loved. Be open for that one :)

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By: sarah http://www.lovepanky.com/women/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women/how-to-tell-if-hes-serious-about-you#comment-3984556 Mon, 07 Apr 2014 18:02:14 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=3239#comment-3984556 Ive been with my boryfriend two years known him 4. When i first got with him he tried to have sex with mefast now we have a baby. I am confused bc at times he has threatened to leave and leaves then comes back i dont understand it. Also everytime i have a friend he thinks they are a whore and gets mad if i want to hang out with them( they arent even whores either!) He is 37 i am almost 21. He also doesnt like the fact that i want to drink or smoke. I dont do all the time either. He said he doesnt want to live that lifestyle again.

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By: catherine http://www.lovepanky.com/women/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women/how-to-tell-if-hes-serious-about-you#comment-3726048 Mon, 10 Feb 2014 08:11:04 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=3239#comment-3726048 I’m in a relationship with a man that has a girlfriend an two. Kids I constantly ask is he married an he says no. He want marry what for if. He is not ready. I love him an he now says he loves me. An he keeps saying we will over come. Lost an confused I love him an maybe pregnant.

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By: Amanda http://www.lovepanky.com/women/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women/how-to-tell-if-hes-serious-about-you#comment-2682502 Tue, 17 Sep 2013 23:10:37 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=3239#comment-2682502 Emily,
ive been in your situation. The issues are: men do not show affection in the same ways women do. if he doesnt cuddle you or hold ur hand it may bc he is showing u affection in other ways, such as acts of service and quality time. not all men are affectionate and us women cant take it to heart. Another reason he may not want to meet ur family just yet is bc even though u dont care about the age difference he may fear ur parents will. thats a serious step to take that can make or break a relationship. all the thinkgs he does may be to protect u and the relationship. his actions prove the cares about u and takes u seriously. no man would go to the extent he does like put u on his insurance if he wasnt serious. and keep in mind, he will never know u love him if u dont tell him. a man is less likely to express it first bc their first instinct is fight or flight. He loves u, but love grows. he could be falling more in love with you everyday. even if ur scared i would say it first, hes not going anywhere

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By: Rebecca http://www.lovepanky.com/women/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women/how-to-tell-if-hes-serious-about-you#comment-2062776 Mon, 05 Aug 2013 11:05:48 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=3239#comment-2062776 So I met this guy and I’ve known him since June and now its august.. I’m so confused all the time… like when I’m out with him… he will cuddle me or when were on the couch he will put his hand on my stomach.. and he will play with my feet… were seeing each other but we haven’t really asked each other out yet, he will always find something to show me just so he can talk to me or he will always find a way to touch me in an affectionate way.. but its like he doesn’t want to be in a relationship cause he hasn’t asked me out yet???? please help

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By: Confused http://www.lovepanky.com/women/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women/how-to-tell-if-hes-serious-about-you#comment-199924 Sat, 04 Aug 2012 08:36:35 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=3239#comment-199924 He tells me that he’s happy when I’m with him, but he doesn’t know if we should be boyfriend and girlfriend. We’ve been seeing each other for four years now as friends. At home, he treats me like his girlfriend (he gives me kisses and we have sex). We hang out everyday or go on a trip together but he never hold my hands. By the way, he’s 24 and I’m 29. After four years, he still doesn’t if he should call me his girlfriend. Should I stay with him? He really makes me happy and I really love him. What should I do?

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By: Jane http://www.lovepanky.com/women/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women/how-to-tell-if-hes-serious-about-you#comment-199580 Wed, 01 Aug 2012 14:43:30 +0000 http://www.lovepanky.com/?p=3239#comment-199580 Emily, I don’t want to hurt your feelings, but I don’t think he’s serious. When a guy is serious he wants to introduce you to his friends and family. Your guy sounds very financially generous, but so far, he’s compartmentalizing you. He doesn’t want to bring you into every facet of his life because he doesn’t see a real future with you. This could change and your relationship could evolve, but please be careful!

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