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How to Talk Dirty To a Guy And Sound Really Sexy!

How To Talk Dirty To A Guy And Sound Really Sexy!

Talking dirty to a guy isn’t as hard as it seems. In fact, understanding how to talk dirty to a guy can be the easiest thing if you know these 10 tips.

Most girls want to talk dirty with their boyfriends.

But many of them just don’t know what to say.

Really, what is talking dirty anyway?

We’ve all heard about it, and we’ve all heard that sex feels a lot sexier and dirtier while talking dirty.

But what is talking dirty all about and how can you get better at that?

To be quite truthful, talking dirty to a guy isn’t as complicated as most girls assume it to be.

And contrary to popular belief, you really don’t have to behave like a porn star to talk dirty or sound sexy when you’re in bed.

[Read: 20 sexy examples to talk dirty to a guy over text and give him a hard on in seconds!]

How to talk dirty to a guy

Talking dirty should come effortlessly, and it definitely will, when you understand what talking dirty is all about.

Learning to talk dirty can definitely make sex feel a lot better and a lot more sexually exciting too, even if you’ve been in a relationship with your man for a long time.

The easiest way to start talking dirty when you’re having sex with your man is to just talk. If your thoughts are sexy, the words will always be dirty.

What you hear on a porn video isn’t dirty talk, it’s almost always just dirty. If your man likes that kind of talk, and you like it too, watch a few nudie videos and learn from it. But if you really want to understand how to talk dirty with a guy and sound really sexy at the same time, just use these tips. [Read: Tips on turning a guy on when he’s with you]

10 sexy tips to talk dirty with a guy

Want to turn your guy on and give him a huge erection while making love to him? Just use these 10 tips to talk dirty with him. Learn to control his big head and his little head with your words and he’ll always be excited to have sex and talk dirty with you.

#1 Speak your mind when you’re horny. While having sex, almost all the time, you’d find that there are a lot of naughty things that pass through your head. If you can think it, say it to your man. If you’re aroused, it’s definitely going to sound dirty.

#2 What if he was a friend or a one night stand? Learning to talk dirty to a guy is all about indulging in an active imagination. What are the fantasies that arouse you?

Just imagine he was a sexy friend who you ended up having sex with when you were drunk. Or imagine he’s a hot guy you’re having a one night stand with. How would you feel? Wouldn’t sex feel awesome and your orgasms feel better if you were having sex with a stranger all of a sudden? Imagine that and talk to him about it. [Read: Top 10 female sexual fantasies]

#3 Talk like you’re having an affair.

How would it feel if both of you were having an amorous affair? The sexiest way to talk dirty to a guy is by fantasizing about passionate moments that are risqué. Say something like “if I was having an affair with a guy like you, I’d get wet just watching you…” to add a few more sexy personal lines to your sexy stories.

#4 Describe your dirty thoughts. Want to arouse a guy even before you get to the act in bed? Whisper what you’d do to him as soon as you get some time alone with him into his ears when he’s driving and on the way home. As long as you go into all the intimate details, it’ll always be perfect dirty talk.

#5 Moan and let him know you like it. At times, you don’t need words to talk dirty to a guy. When you’re making love to your man, show your appreciation with wet gasps and moans. As long as you go ‘aaah’ each time he thrusts you deep, it’ll give him the same horny boost as sexy talk. [Read: Tips to sound sexy in bed]

#6 It’s not always what you say. Say anything sexy, but whisper it in his ears softly and breathlessly. It’s not always what you say to him to turn him on, but how you say it that makes all the difference. Don’t giggle or try to look sweet. Look sexy, feel confident with your own body and moves, and just drop a few sexy words while biting his ear. [Read: How to become a sexy seductress overnight]

#7 Party favors. Talking dirty about a wild party is always a huge turn on. Parties are sexy and sweaty. While having sex, dirty talk to him about the sexy things you’d do to him if both of you were at a crowded club and everyone else was too busy to notice the dirty things you’re doing to him.

#8 Don’t trash talk. Don’t trash talk unless you like it and so does your boyfriend or husband. For most guys, moaning unnecessarily or making extremely aroused facial expressions for no reason can be a sexual turn off. It may work in the nudie movies. It doesn’t always work in real life unless your boyfriend looks at you like a sexy piece of meat.

When feelings are involved in bed, use your imagination and get him thinking. It’ll arouse your man more and create better dirty talking opportunities.

#9 Use crude words only if he likes it. Calling each other a bitch and a dog could excite a few *animal lovers*, not everyone else. If you like it, use it a couple of times and see if your man reciprocates by calling you something indecent in return. If he doesn’t say anything or looks surprised, don’t worry about it and just switch to some other kind of dirty talk. [Read: 30 really dirty would-you-rather questions to turn your guy on]

#10 Talk about a memory. Can you recollect any sexy incidents that always turn both of you on? Perhaps, the time when you almost got caught, or the last time you gave him a road head? Imagining and recreating a sexy memory like the first time you had sex with him or let him fondle your breasts through dirty talk can be extremely arousing and connecting for both of you. [Read: Road head confessions of a good girl]

6 lines that make for good dirty talking to a guy

If you’re looking for a few examples on sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend or husband, just use your imagination and mix these lines in!

# You make me so wet

# Your shoulders look so sexy

# Gosh, it feels so big!

# I love the way you feel inside me

# Ohh… don’t stop that!

# This feels so good!

[Read: How to make your boyfriend want you more than ever!]

6 lines that don’t always sound good while talking dirty

# More, more, more! *trust me, he’s trying his best already!*

# Is that all you got, big boy? *are you trying to emasculate him?*

# Screaming *really, how many people actually enjoy screaming?*

# F##k me… *seriously, what IS he doing to you?*

# Harder… *You’ll make him feel like he’s inadequate unless you compliment him for it after a few seconds of harder thrusts*

# Say something dirty to me / Call me a bitch *don’t ask him, just say it*

[Read: How to make out with a guy like a sex goddess]

If you want to talk dirty to a guy, sound sexy and arouse him all at once, always remember to compliment your man with your words or recreate a few sexy fantasies for him while talking dirty. [Read: The beginners guide to having phone sex like a sexy sassy minx!]

Just use these 10 tips on how to talk dirty to a guy and really, you just won’t go wrong. In fact, you’ll bring back the horny school kid in him each time you have sex and talk dirty to him!

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Morgan Miller
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20 thoughts on “How to Talk Dirty To a Guy And Sound Really Sexy!”

  1. anna says:

    thanks for all suggestions that is really helpful 🙂

  2. Someone says:

    My boy found all this talk sexy! He’s coming tonight to hear more 😉

  3. Explore says:

    You make me so wet…if your in bed together take his hand or use your own and moan a little first then say baby you make so wet…its sexier

    Your shoulders look so sexy…really shoulders?? a guy wants to hear about how good he feels not his shoulders. tell him he’s sexy while your hands and mouth explore his body.

    Gosh, it feels so big!…what are you a virgin lol this one i was even like wtf. again even if hes not in you, moan and simply say “”mmm your so big i want you in me (if hes not already) or say it right before you give him a warm up blow job. Gosh is an extremely childish word.

    This feels so good!…is one way to make it impersonal. try your fingers feel so good, your dick feels so good. if talking about a certain positition try “right there baby, just like that”

    6 lines that don

  4. allisonn says:

    @explore .. BEST ADVICE IVE SEEN SO FAR!

  5. Will says:

    @explore…you covered all the bases…nothing to add

  6. Allyssa says:

    I disagree on some of the things you shouldn’t say. My man always tells me he likes me to be loud/scream. And he likes when I say more/harder.F***me because I usually only say that when I’m almost there so he knows he has to go faster for a moment so I can get “there”. I guess it just depends on what you and your partner like to hear.

  7. Morgan says:

    1. Think of your crush.
    2. Make a hand heart.
    3. Kiss it.
    4. Put it over your real heart.
    5. Tomorrow your crush will ask you out. YAY! <3
    6. This only works if you post this on your favorite article.

  8. ANN LEWIS says:

    I lost my husband three years ago to cancer.We had a mutual friend, still my friend, but all of a sudden I can’t get him off of my mind and I told him how I feel.The problem is he has been hurt in two long ago relationships and he told me he was afraid of getting into another one. I know he loves me and is attracted to me, but he’s afraid.How can I convince him to give us a try?We are not kid’s we are in our sixty’s, but sexually I feel 25. My husband had an amazing sex life with all the “dirty talk” and all the crazy wild thing’s we could do to each other and I miss it so much.I trust this man with my life and he know’s that, but he is afraid of being hurt.HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!! I am going to his home tomorrow to talk to him, wish me luck…..Ann

  9. kaye says:

    Anne Lewis who is your love your husband three years ago or now? i wish u luck..same situaiton…. but i love my husband… my new boytriend now is want sex everyday.. help!

  10. Apples says:

    This was really, really helpful. I especially love #2 and #3.

    I’ve been in a relationship for 5 years now, and the sex was starting to get a bit monotonous. But a few weeks ago, we started using these tips and we’re now having sex several times a week! 😉

    And that’s something because we wouldn’t even have sex once a fortnight before. This is really good, very helpful stuff. It was awkward for the first few minutes, and then bam! Orgasms galore! 😉

  11. Scott says:

    As a man, “F**k me” is welcome from a woman; I’m going to give a woman credit for getting into the spirit of the occasion instead of critiquing her lack of imagination. I love talking during sex, but I’m afraid of sounding stupid, so I’m not judging someone else.

    I don’t find “Harder” emasculating, because I’m afraid of hurting a woman during sex. There’s probably always something I could do like gripping harder and tighter or putting more weight on her. It is a useful tip when you ask your man to do something to let him know you liked it.

  12. Mari says:

    These tips are helpful, thank you! There are a few that I disagree with, but nonetheless, you covered all of the basics c:

  13. Justine says:

    I disagree with the “things you shouldn’t say” I say many of those things, requently, and it already makes the sex more excited for the both of us.

  14. Cheyenne says:

    1. Think of your crush.
    2. Make a hand heart.
    3. Kiss it.
    4. Put it over your real heart.
    5. Tomorrow your crush will ask you out. YAY! <3
    6. This only works if you post this on your favorite article.

  15. Liana says:

    1. Think of your crush.
    2. Make a hand heart.
    3. Kiss it.
    4. Put it over your real heart.
    5. Tomorrow your crush will ask you out. YAY! <3
    6. This only works if you post this on your favorite article.

  16. Lexi says:

    These really work! Moaning and looking at him in the eye during a bj gets him really hard. And all the other dirty talk words like a charm.

  17. ella says:

    I jst feel so sexy at times. I want a man…..

  18. Gee says:

    1. Think of your crush
    2. Make a hand heart
    3. Kiss it
    4. Put it over your real heart
    5. Tomorrow your crush will ask you out Yay! <3
    6. This will only work if you post on your favorite article

  19. baby boo says:

    mmmmmm gee if u r single I WOULD DATE

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