#2 Don’t be a prude. A guy may like you for your innocence at first. But no guy will continue to remain fascinated by a woman who’s easily shocked by anything other than the missionary. Guys love girls who know their way around in bed. Girls who are confident look and create an aura of sexiness all the time. If you want to please your man in bed, learn new moves and read about things other couples indulge in. [Read: 30 sexy ways to spice up your sex life]
#3 Get fit and look sexy. Guys are very visual. You don’t need to look like an underwear model, but the closer you are to that, the more attractive you’d look in bed. Yes, your man does love you for who you are and more blah blah, but let’s face it, fitter looking people look more sexy, there’s no denying that.
Hit the cardio for a few months and take care of your body. And when you look better, you’ll feel better about yourself and feel more confident, and sex will feel a lot better too.
#4 Tease him. Play games with him. Have fun with each other all the time, and don’t restrict games to just the bedroom. If you want to be good in bed, you need to make him desire you everywhere else too. Sex isn’t a light switch that gets on and off only in the bedroom. Grind him when you’re on the dance floor, and awe him when you’re with his friends. [Read: 10 fun sex games to play with your boyfriend]
#5 Shed your inhibitions. Yes, you’d look better when you lose that weight. But that doesn’t mean you’re not hot stuff already. There’s nothing more putting off than a girl who feels awkward and embarrassed about her own body when she’s making love. Feel confident about yourself even when you’re naked and go on and try new things with him.
#6 Explore sex and get creative. Sex is fun, and is as unique as the couple indulging in it. Try new things with each other now and then, and don’t get stuck in a routine even if it feels comfortable. [Read: 50 fun kinky ideas to make sex more exciting]
If both of you enjoy only the missionary and nothing else, then don’t change your sex positions. Instead, look for ways to make that position more fun by watching porn videos or watching other couples on webcam chat. Do something unique all the time, and try to keep sex fresh and exciting. And just when you think you’ve been doing something for too long, always bring a new twist to make it more exciting.
#7 Extend foreplay the way he likes it. Men don’t enjoy foreplay. We’ve known that for a long time. But that’s probably because we’ve asked them for the wrong thing. For us women, foreplay is defined by sensual hand movements and massages, and licking and nibbling. Perhaps, there are other things that your man would enjoy better in bed.
You could let him massage you with scented oils or paint on you with edible body paint, or you could allow him to take nude photos while making out, or perhaps even read an erotic story together while stroking each other. All of us have our own ideas of foreplay. Find which one works for your man and use it. [Read: 12 foreplay tips for men that actually work]
#8 Talk dirty. An active imagination can do wonders for your sex life. Guys love a girl who knows to talk so dirty that they get an erection just listening to what she has to say. If you want to know how to please your man in bed, you need to know to talk dirty. Get imaginative and express your thoughts to him. He’ll surely love it. [Read: Sexy ways to talk dirty with a guy and make him hard]
#9 Sound sexy. When you moan or breathe heavily, it’s contagious. When you’re making love with your man, moan softly as he kisses you deeply or gasp when he penetrates you deeper. It may be your involuntary way of showing appreciation, but it’ll turn him on more.
If a man thinks you’re enjoying sex with him, he’ll start to enjoy sex a lot more too. For guys, ego plays a big role in sex. If he hears that he’s good in bed, he’d want to have more sex with you just to feel good about himself. So moan and let him know just how good he is! [Read: How to moan the right way and sound really sexy in bed]
#10 Communicate. It’s the easiest way to please your man in bed, don’t you think? Talk about your new moves in bed and find out what your man likes. Asking “do you like it this way?” while having sex is a question that includes talking dirty and communicating better at the same time. Always listen to each other and learn from each other. It’ll help both of you please each other better and enjoy sex a lot more too.