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Ever wondered what turns a guy on sexually? Here are 20 of the biggest sexual turn ons that no guy can resist. Try them and you’ll know what we mean.

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When you’re a guy, just watching a great girl is a turn on.

But if you want to turn on any guy with the slightest effort, here are a few pointers on what turns a guy on that could point you in the right direction.

What turns a guy on?

For a guy, getting turned on is all in the head.

If he’s experiencing the stage of infatuation or watching a girl he doesn’t know, he’d get turned on in no time.

If he’s in a relationship with you, it may take just a wee bit of effort to get him high and mighty.

But in no particular order, here are 20 things that would definitely turn on any guy, no matter where he is.

[Read: How to turn a guy on]

#1 Skin and skimpy clothes

Give a guy a little peek-a-boo or flash him a bit of thigh in a flimsy skirt when he least expects it, and all he’d want is more.

#2 Lingering touches

Guys love it when a cute girl gently touches them. It doesn’t have to be sexual, but as long as the touch tingles his sensation, he’ll feel tight around his jeans.

#3 Close proximity

Ever found yourself standing in an elevator with a guy you like? Stand close to his side, and he’ll have a lump in his throat. Stand in front of him and graze your butt against his pants, and he’ll have a lump way below his throat.

#4 A girl who flirts

Any guy gets helplessly drawn to a girl who can smile, flirt and laugh back with a twinkle in her eyes. It makes him feel more like a man. And it also makes him wish you were his. [Read: How to flirt with a guy without really flirting]

#5 A sexually confident girl

A sexually confident girl is a huge turn on for any guy. Getting the opportunity to date a girl who can take control and dominate him in bed is a fantasy that all men dream of.

#6 A girl who’s not sexually confident

Men love the helpless damsel in bed. As much as they love a sexually confident woman, they also get extremely turned on by a virgin who knows nothing in bed. It works two ways. He can please her like no man ever has. And no matter what, he’d always be great in bed.

#7 A shy girl who’s not so shy after all

There’s something about the cute girl next door with her little cute books and her cute attitude that guys like. But when a guy dates this sweet girl and sees that she’s got more of a sexual wild side than he could ever have imagined, he’d be tight around his shorts for many days to come!

#8 A girl who can surprise him

Surprise your man with a few sexy tricks up your sleeve and he’ll love you for it. Open the door for him with nothing on but your sexy lingerie. Strip yourself off for no reason out of the blue and ask him to take you. Shock him, awe him and surprise him and he’ll desire you and get turned on by you forever. [Read: How to dress for sex]

#9 Two women together

There’s almost nothing that turns a guy on more than watching two girls together. A guy may like a girl. But bring two girls who can get touchy feely with each other and his mind might just explode.

#10 Accidental touches down there

Have you ever bumped into a guy and accidentally touched him down there with your hand? Or have you sat down next to him and scribbled something on an iPad or a notebook when it’s on his lap? If his member can feel your hand’s pressure, we assure you, he’ll reciprocate with his own pressure upwards.

#11 Accidental boob graze

It happens all the time, when you hug a guy, when you accidentally walk into a guy or when a guy tries to catch you as your foot slips a stair. If a guy gets to feel an attractive girl’s breasts, there’s little that can stop him from growing down there.

#12 Accidental kiss

Accidental kisses don’t happen all the time, but when it does happen, it’s something a guy’s little head will never forget. [Read: How to kiss a friend accidentally]

#13 A girl who’s good in bed

You don’t need to be sexually dominant or submissive. As long as you’re hot stuff who can excite a man in bed, he’d get turned on by you no matter what.

#14 Lingerie and high heels

This one’s a lethal combination. It’s so sexy, there’s nothing any guy can ever do to resist a girl wearing lingerie and heels. If you ever find out that your man had a one night stand with a random girl, there’s a good chance that she was wearing this. Or perhaps, just a trench coat and a hat.

#15 Well fitting clothes

This sounds rather refined and clean. And it really is. Guys get turned on by a girl who looks really hot in clothes that fit her well. Just watching a girl’s breasts take shape in her perfectly fitting tight top is a definitely turn on for any guy.

#16 Sitting on his lap

Have you ever sat on a guy’s lap? Try it. As long as you sit in the right place, you’d feel something hard forcing its way up in less than a minute, even if the guy’s trying hard to concentrate on losing the erection. The next time you click a picture with a cute guy, you know where to sit now, don’t you? [Read: 10 tips to seduce a man who's not yours]

#17 See through clothes

Sheer white shirts and black bras on girls are every guy’s dream, especially when it’s wet. Guys love it when a girl wears sheer clothes that are so thin and flimsy that all they need is a light source on the other side to see every curve on her body through the light.

#18 Stiff nipples

Va va voom! Stiff nipples are a sight that no guy forgets, be it on a girl on the street or on the girl next door. It’s every guy’s dream to pinpoint the exact location of a girl’s nipple. Help him out with that and his little member may just rise to give you a standing ovation. [Read: Top 10 sexual fantasies for men]

#19 Boy shorts

Guys love boy shorts on a girl with never ending legs. The little sneak peeks of her cute butt when she bends low are almost always etched on a guy’s mind, never to fade away. Wear one the next time you pick a piece of paper on the floor. You’ll probably find his jaw on the floor when you get up.

#20 An aroused girl

Guys try so hard to turn a girl on with stolen glances, flirty words, and soft touches. But when he does get to see a girl that’s already aroused, be it on a dance floor, on a date, or even in his bed, there’s nothing he can ever think of but his swelling little head and a way to take her to bed!

[Read: How to be a seductress no matter what you do]

And there we have it, the 20 girl things that’ll always turn a guy on. So if you’ve ever been wondering what turns a guy on sexually, try these tips. You’ll surely have a lot of fun watching a guy experiencing the pleasure and the pain of having an unforced erection!


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  • James
    November 15, 2011 | Permalink |

    I agree that an older relationship may numb the turn on just a wee bit. I mean, things can start to slow down in bed after a while. But as long as she knows how to surprise me and keep her sexual attitude upbeat, I don’t see why I wouldn’t get turned on by her.

    And lol, A girl sitting on a guy’s lap, it really would be an embarrassingly pleasurable experience!

  • Two women?
    November 15, 2011 | Permalink |

    I don’t understand this fetish of men. What is with men and two women? Men hate watching two men together, but they love two women making out. Why is that?

    I just think it’s gross. If a girl likes being with another girl, why would she even care about what a guy thinks or how he can turn her on? Ever thought about that, men?

  • Millie
    July 29, 2012 | Permalink |

    Great news for me as I hate my short legs. Seems LEGS are everything for guys. I’m short with awful legs. I wish there were more boob men out there as I have no trouble in THAT area.

  • Lisa
    September 11, 2012 | Permalink |

    Small breasts are JUST AS HARD-ON INDUCING AND HOT AND SEXY AND ATTRACTIVE AS BIG ONES, GUYS!! Why do the boobs HAVE to be big to be considered “great”????? I swear, men just freakin’ baffle me….

  • A Butterfly named Bob
    September 27, 2012 | Permalink |

    Not every guy is a “leg man” or “boob man”. Many men have different areas of the body they prefer to “enjoy” more than others…some may call it a “fetish”. A “foot fetish” is one of the top “other” places men like to look at, for example. And guys WILL “inadvertently” glance at what they like most about a woman…make no doubt about that (I shouldn’t say, but I’m always looking at women’s hands/feet to see the part(s) that turn me on the most ;) )

    When you’re talking to a guy, look at where his eyes flicker to. He’ll likely steal glances at what he likes most about you, I guarantee it (men are visual creatures in that aspect). Your challenge, should you accept it (and him), is to find out what he’s staring at, and cater to it. Maybe you notice him catching quick glances at your legs. Maybe you can show him a little more leg, and ask him if he likes what he sees.

    Just one guy’s perspective…

  • November 21, 2012 | Permalink |

    If a woman catches me glancing at her legs and then teases me by exposing a little more that’s a HUGE turn on. However, if she then says ” want to see more” that kills it. I don’t want to hear that because then it’s like she’s doing it just to turn me on. It’s like it’s not natural. A woman who is natural in her movements will excite me to no end. If she subtly stretches her leg out and sensually teases my level of excitement is sometimes unbearable. Don’t kill it by saying. ” you wanna see more” yuck! Also, regarding #16. Sitting on a mans lap? That is the biggest turn off ever. What is she a little girl. I’m not her father, that shit is old fashioned in a bad way. Awkward as hell. Unless she’s sitting on my lap with her legs opened facing me (way different). Never sit on my lap like in the way your describing. Uggghhh. Now, if she wanted to rest her legs on my lap kick her shoes off and told me to massage her feet, YES!!! Use my lap all you want just don’t sit on it. Way too submissive.

  • CrushHaver
    February 22, 2013 | Permalink |

    Oh my son christ the king, if my pants touched my crush’s ass while she is in front of me I’d melt faster then butter and then freeze up faster then nitrogen cooling

  • Mishka
    April 8, 2013 | Permalink |

    #5: So wrong. So very, very wrong.

    #9: It’s only arousing if I know they’re warming each other up for me. Otherwise, eh…

  • Urusigh
    April 23, 2013 | Permalink |

    What’s with the “fetish” of liking two girls getting physical? Uh, that’s an easy one. If one is good than two is better. It’s two girls in his field of view, so twice the body to visually explore. It’s girls getting physical, which at least implies a willingness to get physical with him (and with two of them, his odds of doing so with at least one just doubled). There’s the meta-thought that women rarely do this purely for their own pleasure, so it’s presumably being done for his benefit. That’s a signal that even the densest man can usually read as a green light to make a move. Best of all, there’s no competition here. He can picture himself with either girl (or both) (exploring all permutations of which will pretty much consume all his thoughts for some time) without feeling like he’s being measured against someone else.

    @Lisa. You are correct, boobs are totally sexy, whether A’s or F’s. That said, A’s are hard to see or imagine properly while clothed. Once the clothes are off… you have every right to expect the little man to stand at attention and salute in respect. ;) This worry is really more of a girl thing than a guy thing. A boob in the hand is worth more than all those that aren’t, even if they aren’t conducive to playing “motorboat”.

    If you prefer some peer review, the only guys I know who insist on big breasts are kinked toward the BBW body-type, so it’s really just that they feel “bigger is better” overall, not only across the chest. For the rest of us, the average opinion seems to be that much more than a handful is a waste. This works out to the B-C range for most guys, though most of the guys I know are on the tall end and have correspondingly large hands. You’re not one of those girls who refuses to date short men, are you? Smaller sets also have the advantage of not going droopy in a few years, which is something guys looking for a long term relationship sometimes take into account. Preferences seem split between round mounds, cones, and funbags without any clear winner. Several men of my acquaintance do insist on natural breasts, feeling that the majority of women with implants are excessively insecure, shallow, or manipulative. Women with implants are sometimes the but of jokes and derision if that fact becomes overly obvious, such as when she runs. If you’re looking for a long-term love, you’re better off with natural A’s and some confidence than fake F cups.

    BTW: Start sitting with your hip against his… turn to apply shoulder boob when you whisper something into his ear…your hair laying ever so lightly against his shirt (he’ll inhale just to smell your shampoo)… your lips just brushing his earlobe… your hand on his thigh to steady yourself… I got aroused just writing that, any man on the receiving end will be lucky if he still remembers to breathe.

  • shibby
    May 8, 2013 | Permalink |

    Lisa, the bigger ones are typically considered better I think simply because they are more fun to play with as you can do more things with them. Also larger ones are more easily imagined and produce larger curves (men love curves). Basically they are just more obvious. My personal personal size range preference is Large B cup – Small D cup. Giant boobs are a turn off for me as are A cups especially small A cups, I’ve always wondered why they make bras for small A cups women. They really don’t need it, aside from padding their nipples from view. Here is a strange one for ya, I’m not a fan cleavage hanging out, but at the same time I can’t not look. I’ll be honest with you, some of the things that turn guys on is strange, not easily understood, and can range from really tiny things, to large things like giant cleavage or a thong showing. We are odd, and we don’t even understand it. I mean I arrived on this site because i was researching why men like boobs lol. I don’t get it. I can explain how I feel and what turns me on and such, but don’t ask why because I don’t have a answer.

  • tom
    May 10, 2013 | Permalink |

    I’m in love with this girl and her small feet turn me on to the max! holding hands also never felt so good before and that got me aroused in less than 1 minute. kind of weird but boobs are no factor for me..

  • celena
    May 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    Tom baby you are every girl’s dream !

  • Lock
    June 22, 2013 | Permalink |

    So true

  • June 27, 2013 | Permalink |

    I have tried all the suggestions. Spoke to him early in the relationship as soon as I saw it. Clearly explained the respect, value of me being his girlfriend, uncomfortable and message it sends to others around us (like he’s available).
    He explained and admitted to doing this and said “I can still look, it’s the only thing that’s legal and it’s the last thing have left”. To me it sounded like being in a relationship (which he wanted) was a fate worse than death! After it continued, I told him he wasn’t going to win on this subject it either is controlled especially when I’m with him or it’s over. He said he would try harder, because I meant so much to him.
    So now what he does is speak about a store or a bunch of birds that are in the direction of women whether it be the front of them or the back of them, so he can look at them as he has
    been without the excuse of the store or birds.
    I followed that up with dressing even sexier than I do now. Lower cut tops, tighter clothes,
    even more see threw tops without a camisole just a sexy bra. But all that did is catch the attention of other men instead of my boyfriend. In all the time I’ve been with men I have never
    had this experience with a man. Being one of many beautiful women with curves in all the right places and a little waist; it seems meaningless to this man (who chased me with such so called “good intentions”) that likes all types of women no matter what they look like.
    Frankly, I’ve never felt like I had to compete and I am dropping out of this man’s race. I feel it’s
    rude, disrespectful and it also feels abusive on some levels. Looking as in a quick glance is one thing but staring and ogling is quite another.
    I will have to say goodbye Joey, the man who claimed that I was “the best girlfriend he
    has ever had”. Go figure, cause I’m tired of trying to analyze sh**. Yawn!!

  • Ian
    September 22, 2013 | Permalink |

    I think a girl shouldn’t turn a man on in public. He will be really embarrased with his Johnson sticking out. But if there’s nobody around-go ahead! :D

  • Lydia
    September 23, 2013 | Permalink |

    I’m meeting a guy for the first time in a coffee shop, but we have been somewhat “sexting.” No nude pics but dirty talk and suggestive pics. He requested that I wear a low cut top and something to shape my ass nicely, because I get that he’s an “ass man.” Says he has a panty fetish as far as thongs and lacy things; not the dirty, soiled panty thing. What can I do to appear sexy to him but not trying too hard. I don’t want to totally freeze up and it be awkward, either. Any guys’ opinions on this are welcome.

  • Lisa
    September 24, 2013 | Permalink |

    What if an attractive girl happens to have SMALL breasts?? Can a man STILL grow down there? Sheesh…why do breasts ALWAYS have to be big for this??? Can you say UNFAIR????

  • Lisa
    September 26, 2013 | Permalink |

    It’s all rather childish really. If this lust was true more than half the population would be single. You can actually be any shape & size (this goes for both sexes) & be attractive. Take a walk down any city street & look at the couples holding hands, nothing standard about them. Short, tall, chubby, big/small breasted, funny, serious. Who really cares. I’ve found as a 35 year old women that what works for me & my man, is not focusing on ridiculous lists such as this one, but focusing on what makes us happy, in & outside of the bedroom. & I had breast surgery last year, not because of low self esteem but because of traumatic scaring after a horrible experience in my life. My partner loves my new breasts, just as he loved my old. So, not all women, who have surgery are self esteem cripples.

  • davy gravy
    October 10, 2013 | Permalink |

    This i really hot: When a girl adjusts her shirt or by put her arms above her head and revealing her waist and a little belly button> My question is do girls do that on purpose or not> Because its been happening to me a lot lately. For example I was at the gym the other day and a girl is walking by and I saw her adjust her shirt or lift it up a little and showing her belly button ring and hips but she didnt know i saw her from the corner of my eye> But when I did look at her walking by and she saw that she did it again? hmm… also today at the gym i was looking at the next to me and she popped her shirt up a little beween sets when i looked at her. ALso last night I was at a girls house I was dating and her friend was over and her friend lifted up her arms to like stretch revealing her belly button ring for about 20 seconds at a time.. not sure but is that a subtle flirtation with women… or am i looking to much into it. Im not sure if im just being a creeper or not, but its really hot and a big turn on…

  • Ashley
    January 5, 2014 | Permalink |

    ok this question might be a bit irrelivent but what should i do when the guy i like tickles me and uhh touches me (not my private parts but like my curves and stuff) in class? should i laugh or ignore or should i touch him back?

  • Peter
    March 4, 2014 | Permalink |

    My favourite thing is to walk up behind my teenage girlfriend and cup her firm little breasts, while nuzzling her neck. I then slip my other hand down her pants to feel the lips of her vulva. I imagine she is my daughter (I am 40s) and she needs to please me. If she is receptive I usually bend her over a bench/couch and mount her. As I cum I say, ‘good girl’ a lot. It’s hot!!!

  • Lucy
    March 4, 2014 | Permalink |

    I am fourteen and I was at a party. My dad’s friend was there he always is looking at me and my figure. I am always brushing up against him,dressing sexy etc etc and it drives him wild. But one night he came into my room and began touching me between my legs and on my breasts. He pulled out his penis and rubbed it until he came all over my face and chest. It was pretty gross.

  • Adrian
    March 24, 2014 | Permalink |

    There’s nothing hotter for me than what’s described in point number 6 – a cute, shy, slightly under-confident girl, just so sexy in her own little way, who’s body language just begs for you as a man to take her in your strong arms and make love to her like she’s never felt before.

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