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Skimpy Clothes and the Workplace

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Should you wear skimpy clothes to work? You may be comfortable wearing them and may not think twice about trying to impress your coworkers, but could your attire in the workplace be misunderstood by others?

Click here to read the first part of Olivia’s revelation on girls that wear revealing clothes in public.

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Moving on from the introduction about girls showing sanitary pads, and white shirts and black bras, I’ve always felt that sometimes women just act naïve.

[Read: Girls flashing in public confessions]

Confusions over short skirts

I had a colleague at my previous workplace who wore suggestive clothes all the time.

It wasn’t revealing, it was beyond way too short.

A guy could get to scoring home runs with his hands in less than a tenth of a second.

Can you imagine how short her skirts were?

And each time she used to buckle her knees to pick something off the ground or for whatever reason, all the guys at work used to bend low conspicuously to get a better glimpse. And it was a laugh!

I’m guessing she wanted to appear as a sex siren, but somehow her attire was more of a joke.

[Read: How to be a real seductress]

One day, she caught a guy staring up at her and she actually started yelling at him for being a pervert, and for not respecting her.

She made a big deal out of her little clothing, which I thought was just mental.

She did wear clothes that did more than attract attention, so why would she make such a big fuss about something that skimpy?

The guys weren’t pervs, nor were they drunk losers who would molest her at the very first chance they get. They were respectable, fun loving guys with eccentric sense of humors who were trying to be funny. Really now, it wasn’t like they were hiding and peeping.

Do you really need to reveal so much?

When I spoke to her later that day about the incident, and mentioned the fact that she did wear clothes that were way outside the border of office professionalism, she seemed shocked. “I’m wearing them because I want to look good for myself!” she cried out. [Read: 20 things about a girl that turns a guy on sexually]

Well, what could I say beyond that? Other than the fact that somehow, all the parts that she revealed had extremely close proximity to her butt and boobs.

And when I asked her if she would wear the same clothes on a Sunday morning, if all she planned to do was laze and watch mush flicks alone, she just looked at me, puzzled. Thank you. One brownie point for me!

Looking at the monster bull of facts here, clothes attract attention. And we wear clothes that look good. Really good. So when girls wear a tight tee shirt on a cold night that’s so tight we could pierce and burst a balloon effortlessly, it’s not because we’re going to stand in front of the mirror and drool at our reflection all day.

And when we’re at work, we rarely see ourselves and our fine never-ending legs or the low waist thong flashing at the derriere. So who are we dressing up for really?

[Read: How to look sexy effortlessly]

Why do girls really dress skimpy?

Did you know that make up too is pretty much all about lusty attraction? You use blushers and lipsticks. Aren’t those the exact regions that get all hot and flushed up when you’re turned on in the heat of passion? Eyeshadows too have the same effect as that of semi closed eyes, in an aroused woman who’s about to reach for the skies and call out to God. And yeah, your beauty stylist at the saloon is right too. Eye shadows do make your eyes look bigger and more appealing to men.

If someone were to ask me why I use make up or wear revealing clothes, I’d tell them straight. To look good. I wouldn’t tell them I’m doing it to attract guys, though that statement may partly make sense.

Some women may just straight out scream that they do it to look good, and not to impress guys. Maybe they’re being honest 24 carat, but definitely they don’t know it’s what they’re doing that’s attracting men anyways. And it’s logical. And completely fine.

Skimpy hypocrites and liars

What I can’t stand the most are guys who drool all they want, and then turn around with a gross look on their face and say, “why does she have to dress up so sluttily in those skimpy clothes?” Now that’s just being disgusting. Why look in the first place? Men just don’t have to look if it bothers them so much. Yeah, we’ve all heard the story, haven’t we? That they just can’t help it because it’s right there and it draws their attention. Whatever.

Perhaps these are the same guys who would accidentally look at their parents banging in bed, and then instead of walking away, hide in a corner and peep with their hands in their tighty whities, just because they couldn’t help it.

Sometimes, unknowingly, all of us do wear clothes that may cross the boundaries of office attire. But the best thing to do about it is not make a big deal about it until it’s time for the molehill to grow into a mountain, or when the guys at work start making it obvious. I like guys who don’t make a big deal about it. The ones who can wolf-whistle in jest, smile and wink at the girl and say she’s looking hot, and yet not make her feel uncomfortable and bare. And those are the best guys to be around with.

Should you wear skimpy clothes to work?

When the story comes to a halt, there isn’t much to elaborate. You know how things can turn out based on what you wear and how skimpy your clothes are, so find that perfect zone that sits spot on, on the lines of your comfort, your office attire, your male attraction zone, and how much you reveal outside your office.

Another pointer here, men will be men. They will look, and that’s irrespective of whether you wear skimpy clothes or not. Maybe they’d just look longer at you if you wear less. But it’s all about what you intend to do about it. Wearing revealing clothes won’t take you to the next floor, though it could take you under a table. And that may in turn help you go to the next floor. But is that what you have in mind? [Read: What men like most in women]

When you’re with friends, it’s easy to wear what you want because they know exactly who you are. But at your workplace, it’s really easy to be stereotyped into a negative category, especially by people who have never spoken to you even once.

And then, the word just goes all around the mulberry bush. So stay clean and follow the office attire rules if you want to have a great time in your workplace. No woman would like a guy to walk up to her near the coffee machine and say “hey babeee, want to come to my place tonight so we can have some fun?”

That line, my dear, was the nicest one you could expect from a perv who just looks at your assets and not at you. There can be lines far worse and blatant than that one. And that’s pretty much what happens when you go wearing skimpy clothes to work.

But if you’re the one who likes that kind of attention, you scarlet woman, go on, you could have a great time in the midst of all those drools. And you’d also be right there at the top, in the Hall of Bare Fame. And if you do want to get frisky, don’t ever do it in the conference room, or at an office party. Go find a room! Serious!

[Read: Clean tips to turn a man on]

And if you like wearing skimpy clothes at work, remember to keep your lovers discreet. And the guys you take home, elite!


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  • John
    October 5, 2011 | Permalink |

    This topic is a hot one for me. I have never liked women wearing necklines which show cleavage at work. I’m a guy and I enjoy an attractive woman like the next guy, I just don’t want to see it at work.

    You’ve said something about how it’s ok when the men don’t make you feel poorly or whatever word you used. That is so wrong it makes me want to scream. Ever consider how those that don’t seem to offend you are the ones you like, or the ones you find attractive for whatever reason. What about those poor saps that don’t fall into that category? No worries, just file a complaint that they are making you feel uncomfortable by staring at your cleavage. That will teach then and “they deserve it”.

    Women do not even have to prove that they were actually stared at, just that they were “made” to feel that way and they can file a complaint. Heck it doesn’t even have to be the person who it supposedly happened to for a third party to file a complaint.

    This last spring I had a complaint filed against me for just that thing. I was pulled into an office with both a male and female supervisor. My union rep was brought in on the phone to offer me “union protection”. The female supervisor read the compliant to me, which amounted to a female coworker complaining that she felt I was staring at her. Clueless as to what could have actually caused such a complaint I sat there like a fish out of water. What could I say, denial won’t work. I barely managed to sign the written counseling before I had to rush to the bathroom to throw up. I was mortified.

    That day and those following were the worst of my adult life. As I worked I felt like everyone was looking at me and talking about how I had sexually harassed so and so. I say ‘so and so’ because I never was told who had made the complaint.

    Going to work each day after that became harder and harder for me and I was forced to eventually quit due to how sick the situation was making me. Near 50 years old I’ve had no luck finding a comparable job. My family and I have both suffered because of how I made someone feel.

    Let me guess ladies (those that wear revealing cloths), it’s not your fault that I began to FEEL sick and quit my job.

  • kiottn
    November 23, 2011 | Permalink |

    As a male professional, executive and HR manager, there is no question that attractive women in the work environment are noticed by men. Moreover, attractive people get noticed by both sexes. We all enjoy seeing people who are “good looking.” However, I believe that women who “flaunt it” in the workplace do not get far along in their careers. Eventually, they have to prove their value. Also, I do find it terribly distracting and unprofessional for a woman to wear inappropriate clothes to work. They end up hurting themselves as they become discounted for their abilities. I am not saying they should dress down or overly conservative. They should look and act professional at all times.

  • subtleglo
    November 23, 2011 | Permalink |

    Yes, I think girls should get their way ahead by by looking sexy . Let’s be real. What do women have? If they’re not sexy, they’re hated. If they’re sexy, they at least get an opportunity for advancement with easier work, i.e. more readily than a man.

  • whoreahead
    November 23, 2011 | Permalink |

    Great idea!!!!!!! Whore your way ahead. Very classy. Very evolved.

  • deplorableme
    November 23, 2011 | Permalink |

    @whoreahead Exactly! If women believe they should use their sexuality as a weapon in their careers, they shouldn’t complain when they become the object of unwanted attention in the workplace. This entire concept is just sowing the seeds for sexual harassment.

  • Ross Campbell
    August 16, 2012 | Permalink |

    I dont see whats wrong with women dressing a bit sexy in the office or wearing slightly revealing clothes- its probably enjoyable to get the male attention

  • Silly females
    September 7, 2012 | Permalink |

    Its called a time and a place, men will stare if there is something on show in an otherwise very dull place, men dont wear short sleeved shirts to show off there muscles in the exact same way women shouldn’t wear low cut tops, your in a place of business not a bar you silly fucking slags

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