If you want to throw the best passion party, you’re in the right place. Here’s how to make it fun and memorable.
There’s nothing like a passion party to have a little fun and bond with your best friends. But you never want it to be boring. If it is, then it’ll just be awkward and uncomfortable – which will ruin everything about the get-together.
What is a passion party?
If you’re thinking this is just a giant sex party, you’re wrong. However, you’re not that far off. It’s not a party when a bunch of people get together to have sex, but it does involve sex toys and lubricants.
A passion party is when a bunch of ladies – and guys if they want to – get together to learn about different sex toys and products from a specific company. A rep from that company comes with all sorts of sex-related products and informs you and your friends about them.
Your friends then have the option to purchase toys at a discounted rate. It’s all about getting together and having fun together as girls. Usually, men sit these out unless they also want to have fun with dildos. [Read: 13 must-have sex toys for naughty first timers]
How to make your passion party one to remember
As mentioned above, having a dull passion party is awkward. Since there are sex products and if you’re not letting loose and having fun with it, discussion and handling of the products can be really uncomfortable.
If you want to throw a sex toy party but aren’t sure where to start, we have some tips that’ll make it one hell of a night.
#1 Alcohol is very helpful. The topic of sex and even sex toys can make some people uncomfortable. Even if you’re only with friends, it can get weird sometimes. For that reason, just supply some alcohol.
It’ll soothe people’s nerves and even make the evening a lot more fun. You can even have people bring different drinks and use penis-shaped straws to drink from. Not only does this add a little silliness to the evening, but the alcohol will certainly help. [Read: How alcohol can affect your sex and libido]
#2 Have some games. Games are a great way to break the ice and get people to start having fun. Bonus points if the game has something to do with the sex toys. You can even purchase a toy ahead of time and have it be the grand prize for the winners.
People will work hard for the prize and it’ll kickstart a fun evening. Do the game at the very beginning so everyone is in good spirits for the afternoon of sex toy fun.
#3 Choose a fun rep. When you have a passion party, a rep comes to your home with all the products to display and talk about. Because they’ll be discussing the uses and benefits of different toys and lubes, you want someone fun.
#4 Don’t invite friends who aren’t into it. You might have friends that are very shy and uncomfortable when talking about sex stuff. If that’s the case, they might not be a good addition to the party.
You can still invite them so they won’t be upset with you but if they do want to come, just let them know what’ll happen. Tell them it’ll be a lot of sex talk and sex toys right in their face. That way they can make the decision to join or not.
#5 Be active in the demonstrations. No, you don’t have to get up in front of your friends and use the toy right there. However, if the rep needs someone to demonstrate or use their hands on toys or test out lube, volunteer.
It’ll make your friends a lot more comfortable when you’re up there doing it all too. They’ll feel way better about jumping in and getting their hands on the demonstration dildos and vibrators. [Read: How to be funny and make people love your company]
#6 Have lots of snacks! Snacks are a very comforting food. People tend to snack in uncomfortable situations. It’s a soothing mechanism that works fantastically. Always make sure there are plenty of snacks ready to go when your guests arrive.
#7 Make phallically shaped goodies. When choosing snacks, get some penis-shaped ones. You can buy them or even make them yourself if you have or want to purchase molds in naughty shapes. It’s a fun way to feed everyone while sticking with the theme.
Plus, if there are penises everywhere, it makes the dildos and sex toys much less daunting. So go ahead and make that penis cake. Everyone will love it. [Read: 8 fun games for your naughty house party]
#8 Put together gift bags. What’s a good party without some awesome party favors? Making a gift bag for everyone to take home at the end of the night is a perfect way to get people to go.
Not only will they be excited to be at the party, but it’ll be even more memorable if you send little toys and bottles of testing lube along with them. They might even like a sample so much they get the real thing.
#9 Music is always beneficial. Music keeps people entertained when there’s nothing really going on. So if the rep is in between presentations and you still have some music playing, your guests won’t really feel bored.
You can even throw on some naughty music to fit the mood. Playing some Marvin Gaye or music with an underlying sex theme could provide a lot more entertainment than you think. They’ll be singing along and laughing with the music. [Read: The absolute best sex-related playlist guide]
#10 Just have a good time. Don’t worry so much about what other people are doing. Enjoy your party for yourself. You wanted to have a passion party to learn about some sex toys and have a good time with friends.
So just do that. If your friends feel a little weird, it could be because you do. Loosen up and have a good time. They’ll follow and the more fun you’re having, the more fun they’ll have too.