Knowing how to make out with a guy comes naturally. But there are a few sneaky ways to stop short of sex and yet, blow his mind and wet his pants! Learn how to make out on a date like a goddess, and make him desperately want more.
All women know how to make out with a guy. It’s instinctive and if you can remember your first time, you know how simple and natural it really is.
First times are nervous, of course, but it only takes a few minutes to realize that you’re a pro when it comes to kissing and taking clothes off.
This is ironic, but if you want to know how to make out with a guy for the first time, you may be a tad too young to be reading more than halfway through this feature.
But we’ll give the first timers a few tips before heading into the guide of the sex goddesses.
Amateur tips: How to make out with a guy for the first time
So you’ve met a guy you like and both of you have been holding hands and exchanging giggles and sideward flirty glances with each other for a while. And tonight, both of you are heading out for a drive on a lonely road. Eventually, both of you will probably pull over in a lonely spot and watch the stars. And we know where this is going to go.
[Read: An embarrassing first kiss story]
There’s really no perfect way to make out with a guy for the first time, but it would be preferable to let the guy take the lead and initiate the kiss. You could initiate the kiss yourself, but after all the playing hard to get, it’s probably better to wait for him to kiss you, unless you can’t wait any longer. When you kiss each other for the first time, you may feel overwhelmed with a rush of emotions, but you don’t really need to stay guarded or focused on what to do next. Just take it slow, relax and go forward with the kiss.
You don’t need to tongue him immediately. Just a gentle peck on his lips for starters, and within a few seconds, your evolutionary instincts will kick in and you’ll realize that you were born a great kisser!
[Read: How to make out with a girl to understand what goes on in a guy’s mind]
How to make out with a guy like a sex goddess
Now let’s get straight to the point, beyond all the first date kisses and nervousness and understand how to make out with a guy, and what they really like when they’re getting it on with a girl.
Foreplay and role play are great when you want to arouse your guy and have sex with him, but when you want to stop short of sex and make him crave for you, use these five flirty, teasy ways to make a great impression that’ll make him beg you for more.
#1 Men love to be touched
If you know about the power of flirty touches, this is probably the best time to show off your skills. Just like women, men love to be touched too. Indulge in some casual petting, but be discreet until the first kiss. A few girls take the touching part too far and touch far too often, and this can come off as being too easy to get. Always remember to play hard to get until there’s a lot of intimacy in the relationship.
But once you’re past the kissing before making out, give your hands some action. Any guy would love it when a girl wraps her arm around his neck while kissing him. It reveals a wild side to the coy and demure girl that real men with testosterone prefer, and this confusing conflict of the shy side and wild side is what drives a man crazy. Slide your hand over his chest and his arms, and let him know you’re ready to take this further.
#2 Tease him and he’ll love you for it
Kiss him and pull away immediately now and then. Smile mischievously and tease him, back away when you’re almost on the verge of kissing him and nibble his ear or kiss his cheek or neck instead.
Men like foreplay, but they don’t really enjoy it as much as women. Restrict a man and it’ll frustrate him, and yet, drive him mad with passion. He would want to do so much more with you, but each time you stop him, his desires will grow because you’re so close and yet so far! Backing away while kissing him is a great way to stay in control and make him want you so much more. Tease him and tempt him and you’ll have him passionately teary eyed with horniness!
#3 Dominate him passionately
In the heat of the moment, it’s easy to sit back and let passion lead the way. You know you’re going to take it a lot further with him anyways, so why bother right? Wrong.
Letting a guy touch you all over or even have sex with you on a first date is passionate and grand, but it’s all too easy. Now we’re not saying you should abstain from sex on the first date even if you really feel like it, go right ahead. But remember to stay in control.
Letting him explore you while you sit back and close your eyes might feel amazing, but if it’s all too easy for him, he might take the whole thing too lightly. It’s an unfortunate mechanism with most men, they lose respect for anything they get too easily and men know this fact themselves. So try not to get too frisky on the very first date, unless you’re just looking for a fling, a rebound or a one night stand. By making a great guy wait for it, he’d lust for you and yet, understand that he can’t take you lightly. [Read: How to make him want you more]
#4 Flaunt it for him
This is something women can do, and do well. And men can’t do anything about it, but go weak in the knees. You want to tempt him, but you don’t really want to have sex in the backseat of a car. So what can you do to keep him on heat until the next time you make out in bed? Flaunt it!
You’ve kissed him, teased him and dominated him. Now it’s time to play a flashing game. If you’re wearing a low cut blouse or a dress, it’s obviously going to show a lot more skin in the heat of the moment. Instead of trying to cover your impressive cleavage or your never ending legs, let it show. If you’ve got something that you’re proud of, be it your cleavage or your lower back, make sure you give him an opportunity to see it and want to touch it. But don’t reveal it all, and make sure you hide the regions that really matter.
If you’re wearing a tee shirt or a shirt, unbutton the first few buttons or lift your tee shirt up till your bra. You really don’t need to be discreet at all, let him know you’re intentionally flaunting it. But each time he tries to move his hands over your revealed skin, stop him mischievously from going too far. Even if he begs for it, which he definitely will! [Read: 30 sexy tips to keep a guy interested]
#5 Wet him with your hands
Any normal guy with raging hormones would probably be ready to explode with all the tension, the flaunting and the restrictions that you’ve built up, but here’s the low blow that’s the icing on knowing how to make out with a guy like a sex goddess. You’ve run your hands over his neck and his chest while kissing him. But now it’s time to take it further.
Take his hands and run it along your body a few times. He’ll get the hint and continue doing that even when you stop guiding him. In the middle of all the heavy breathing, slide your hand over his thigh and go close to his package without really touching it. Do it casually without really paying any attention to it as you’re kissing him. Men go weak when a girl touches them, especially in a few strategic places. Now run your hands a few times and occasionally, don’t shy away from placing your hand right over his package for a fraction of a second. When you do that, it’s going to make the guy go giddy with excitement and he’ll want to place his hands over your breasts or slip his hands under your bra.
This time, allow him to touch your breasts but don’t let him linger for more than a second before you take his hand away. By doing this, you’ve given your date what he wanted, and yet, you’ve not given him more than a glimmer of the good things to come by sticking around and pursuing you! [Read: Tips on turning a guy on]
You’ve got to make him want you and want you bad, well, at least until you’re ready to give in to him and take the making out all the way to the bedroom.
If you just follow these five tips on how to make out with a guy, you’ll be a mysterious and flirty sex goddess that no guy will ever be able to resist. Try it, you’ll know what we mean!
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