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How to Get a Guy to Notice You And Fall For You

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Wondering how to catch that cute guy’s eye? Use these 10 tips on how to get a guy to notice you and fall for you and it’ll do wonders for you!

Getting a guy to notice you can be easy if you understand the way a guy’s mind works.

Guys tend to like things at first sight.

They’re visual and a good sight will definitely get them infatuated in no time.

But it doesn’t really matter whether you know the guy already or you don’t.

All you need to do is play to his senses and you’ll have him craving for your attention in no time.

[Read: How to get a guy’s attention in any circumstance]

How to get a guy to notice you

The next time you see a guy whose attention you want, you need to play it safe and be discreet about your intentions.

Don’t make it too obvious that you like him, or he’ll just end up treating you like a teen girl with a big crush.

Instead, get his attention and make him want to get to know you. It’ll work wonders and make him fall for you too.

To start off, just use these 10 tips on how to get a guy to notice you.

You’ll be able to cast your spell on him and make him interested in you without saying a word.

#1 Dress sexy. You know what looks best on you. Dress well and wear your cutest attire when you’re around him. Don’t wear overly revealing clothes unless you’ve got only sex on your mind. Look cute and wear something that grabs attention. And don’t worry, he’ll definitely notice a girl who knows to dress well. [Read: 25 sweet tips to look cute in front of a guy]

#2 Catch his eye. Every now and then, exchange eye contact with him very discreetly. Look at him once and lock eyes for a second, and avoid looking towards him for a while. He’ll try to look at you often and see if you’re looking at him now and then.

But as irresistible as it may be, avoid looking at him too often because he’ll realize you like him. And once he knows he doesn’t have to win you over because you’re already smitten by him, he’ll lose his interest in impressing you or approaching you. Instead, look once at him and make him look at you often and fall for you. [Read: 10 subtle eye contact flirting tips]

#3 Appear occupied. Guys like staring at a girl when she’s occupied. It’s actually the only time a guy can get an eyeful and appreciate a girl. By looking at a girl when she’s busy, they won’t get caught staring.

After you’ve exchanged glances now and then, get busy with your friends or by looking at something intently. Give him enough time to get a good look at you and appreciate you when you’re looking away. He’s definitely going to look you up and down for a while and that’s all dandy as long as he likes what he sees!

#4 Let him see your best side. What do you like about yourself? If you want to get a guy to notice you and like something about you, you need to make sure you reveal your best side to him.

If you’re proud of your legs, stretch it out for him. If it’s your breasts, stand upright. If it’s anything else, just make sure you do something to accentuate your asset. It’s all physical now and shallow, but when it comes to getting a guy’s attention, put physical appearance and confidence before nice personality, at least at first sight. [Read: What do guys like in a girl’s appearance more than anything else?]

#5 Be fun and alive when he’s around. Guys can’t resist a fun, flirty girl with a sweet laugh. Spend time with your friends, be seen in the right places and indulge in fun activities. Guys love a girl’s laughter. It always gets their attention. Have fun with your own friends, and he’ll definitely spend all the time looking at you.

#6 Spend time with the boys. Indulge in a guy activity with the boys. Or if you’re not into games and sport, just talk to good looking guys. It’ll still do the same trick. If there’s one thing you need to know about guys, it’s the fact that they’re really jealous and extremely competitive. Every single guy wants to be the alpha male. If a few other guys he knows get your attention, he’d definitely want to get your attention too.

Make him jealous discreetly now and then and he’ll try to look for ways to have a conversation with you. [Read: How to make a guy jealous and get his attention]

#7 Smell awesome! Guys are suckers for girly fragrances. Pick up a few fragrances that smell good on your skin and make sure he gets a good whiff of it when you closely walk past him. He’ll have no choice but to float in your fragrance and hope to smell more of you!

#8 Show off your kind side. Guys are drawn to a girl’s kindness. They may not know it themselves but evolution has crafted men to fall for kind traits in women. Don’t act bitchy or aloof just to show him that you’re the coolest girl in office or school. Instead, be warm and pleasant when you speak with anyone who walks up to you. You’ll be liked by everyone, and definitely by the guy whose attention you want too!

#9 Be seen in the right places. Find ways to cross paths with the guy you like, without making it obvious. Bump into him now and then and make it seem like a big coincidence. Hang out where he spends a while now and then. See if he reciprocates and starts hanging out in your favorite places. Does he linger a while when he’s around you? If he does, you’ve definitely made an impression on him. [Read: 20 circumstances when a guy may never like you back]

#10 Get an excuse to talk to him. You don’t need to ask him out immediately or ask someone to introduce you to him. If you’ve used all these earlier tips on how to get a guy to notice you, you would definitely have made an attractive impression on him.

Wait for him to cross your path sometime when you’re alone. And just as he comes close, turn around and ask him for some help. Guys love helping a damsel in distress. You could ask him for anything from a pen, help with your car, help with carrying something, or something more impromptu. Appear casual, but smile coyly as you ask him for help. It’ll definitely do more than just get his attention. [Read: How to talk to a guy you like and make him like you]

Use these 10 tips on how to get a guy to notice you, and you’ll definitely leave him thinking of you and waiting to see you again.

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14 thoughts on “How to Get a Guy to Notice You And Fall For You”

  1. Nethmini says:

    Hello!! I love your website. It actually helps!!

    Don’t delete this but this is a suggestion and topic I need some advice with – How to get your crush to notice and ask you out for real?

    Thanks for your cooperation in making this world a better place for LOVE!

  2. Ivy says:

    This was really helpful!! Thank you so much!

  3. Niomi says:

    This is not true because the guy I like is in to girls that like to fight and wrestle and kind of act like a boy

  4. Extra260 says:

    In this faltering world economy, men are busy and stressed up. So i guessed, men would really appreciate if a girl can just let us know that she is interested. A sincere, down to earth girl is a turn on! : ) “Playing hard to get” isn’t making life easier ^ ^

  5. lizzie says:

    i pray it works cos i’m really in love wit him

  6. Lola says:

    I used this and it worked! I liked this guy and I use all of these tips on him,

  7. luke says:

    Hi, im a guy.
    Just so you all know, these suggestions work primarily on the average guy, I actually know alot of guys who stay away from fun girls, and girls that do most of these, so my suggestions for you gals (no offence), are that you get to know the guy a little before trying these, because you most likely will lose the guy your trying to get.
    hope this helps, have a good day, bye.

  8. chubby ninja says:

    i have liked my crush fora year now and we only send each other stares and glances it kinda sucks im thinking i just look intimidating so im gonna try some of these tips ~ \ .

  9. Rin Rankotsu says:

    I need help. You know when you said bump into the guy and make it seem as a coincidence, there is a slight problem. This boy in my class once bumped into my crush and my crush got very angry but luckily the boy escaped.

  10. aisha says:

    I’ve been falling slowly for this guy and it’s killing me… for a whole year now we have been making eye contact and his been holding my glaze like crazy and finally decided to make a move and talk to him…a few months ago I told him that I like him and his reaction was soo wierd he dirst was like why havent you told me about it before and stuff like that and then he was like I don’t like you and stuff like that.. I told him that he must stop looking at me all the time and he was like yeaah sure whatever, but his still staring at me all day long????? I’m so confused plz hel

  11. Angela says:

    Guys don’t like it when girls come onto them, they want to be the ones doing the chasing and making the decisions. Also if they know you are smitten with them it turns them off. You will find this happening a lot so you better get used to it =P

  12. Kartho says:

    I, personally as a guy, would be perfectly fine with a girl letting me know that she likes me. It would give me a wake up call (I need to think about if I like her as well). In addition, if I found out that a girl had “liked” me for a long time, but was trying to make me fall in love without knowing she loved me, I would most certainly (?

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