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How to Get a Guy to Kiss You When You Want Him To!

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Just don’t know how to get the message across when you’re on a date with a guy? Find out how to get a guy to kiss you, just when you want him to!

Ever been there before?

You’re on a great date with a guy. You like him a lot. And it seems like he likes you a lot too.

But there’s just nothing happening at all!

You want him to make a move to kiss you, but he’s holding back?

He may be worried about going too fast or he may be scared to kiss you. If there’s one thing that scares guys more than anything else, it’s a girl who backs away from a kiss hastily.

No guy likes that.

A guy may like you a lot, but almost always, he’d wait to get a sign from you first, especially when it comes to leaning in for a wonderful first kiss.

So do you want to know how to get a guy to kiss you when you’re on a date? Well, you just can’t go wrong once you read these tips.

How to get a guy to kiss you

Getting a guy to kiss you on a date can be tricky.

If you make the first move, it may seem like you’re too easy to get. If you hold the thought and wait for him to kiss you first, there’s a good chance that you may lose the opportunity once and for all.

Use these tips and you’ll be able to get the message across in just the right way, without ever seeming desperate or too easy to get. [Read: Signs that he’s into you]

#1 Move in closer

When you’re standing next to the guy after the date, don’t just stand an arm’s length away. Try to find any excuse to get into his comfort space. Pretend like you slipped your foothold and take a step closer. If you’re sitting down, move closer to him in an obvious manner and say something like “it’s pretty chilly, isn’t it?” By moving in closer, you’re discreetly letting him know that you don’t mind the little space in between both of you. And that’s a great way to warm him up and let him know you’re ready for some puckering! [Read: What men love most in women]

#2 Stare into his eyes and use this trick

When you’re sitting next to each other, stare into his eyes deeply as he talks about something. Ending the date is always an awkward thing, for men and for women, especially with so much uncertainty in the air. Every time he says something, listen to him and stare into his eyes without bobbing your head up and down. Don’t move around a lot, and just give him the time to look back into your eyes and build a connection. [Read: Ending a date in the perfect manner]

And as both of you speak to each other with your eyes locked, look down at his lips for a second or two and look back into his eyes again. He’ll instinctively understand that you’re ready for a kiss, and may even make a move sooner than you think.

#3 Touch his fingers with yours

There’s nothing like some sizzling flirty touches and sexual chemistry to work this shy guy up to kiss you when you want him to. Most guys feel pretty scared to kiss a girl without knowing for sure that she wants to kiss him back.

When you’re sitting really close to each other, move your fingers closer to his, almost to the point where his fingers are touching yours. There’s a good chance that he’ll place his palm over yours, but even if he doesn’t do that, you can touch his palm in the middle of a conversation while trying to emphasize something like “I’m having such a wonderful time with you…” If he has anything more than sawdust in his head, he’ll know that you really like him and are interested in kissing him. There’s nothing like a chemistry inducing touch to warm a guy up for a kiss. [Read: Flirt with a guy without making it obvious]

#4 Whisper sweet nothings

If you’re standing next to each other, and find it hard to try any of the earlier moves, here’s a tingle inducing move that can make him kiss you within seconds after you try this move. As you stand beside him and have your shoulders almost touching each other, move closer to him and take your lips close to his ears.

When you get near his ears, place one hand on his cheek or near his ear and say something like “…thanks for a wonderful date” in a very soft and happy voice. If he doesn’t have the hair on the back of his neck standing upright, we’d definitely be surprised. But if he doesn’t get the complete hint and ends up just blushing, use the next move. [Read: How to be a seductress]

#5 Kiss his cheek for no reason

When you’re sitting next to him or standing next to each other, and there’s no one else around to make the moment feel awkward, lean into him either to whisper something or for no reason at all. Go close to him and softly kiss his cheek. Don’t rush this or it’ll seem like a joke! If you give him a sweet little kiss on the cheek and let the moment linger for a few seconds, it’ll immediately create enough of a sexual tension to force him to turn towards you and kiss your lips within seconds. There’s no way you can ever go wrong here! [Read: How to seduce a guy]

#6 Kiss him goodbye and linger

If you want to know how to get a guy to kiss you, there can’t be any better way than to use this move as you say goodbye. If the guy you’ve just dated isn’t manning up or trying to initiate a kiss even when it’s almost time to say goodbye, it’s time to try this perfect move.

As he comes closer to give you a hug and kiss your cheek goodbye, turn your face towards him ever so lightly so that both your lips almost touch each other’s, even better if you can get his lips to touch yours. Of course, it’ll never seem obvious at all!

He’ll realize that both your lips touched each other by “accident” and he may just smile at you awkwardly. At this point, don’t move away from him. Just look into his eyes and stare like there’s something he still has to do. And before you know it, he’ll be embraced in a passionate lip lock with you in no time!

[Read: How to make out with a guy like a sex goddess]

Can it get any easier than this? Now that you know how to get a guy to kiss you on a date, go on and work your magic with these never failing tips.

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14 thoughts on “How to Get a Guy to Kiss You When You Want Him To!”

  1. Natalie says:

    Oh My God! These are just fabulous ideas. I’m sure I’ve used at least the move where I try to sit closer to a guy, but the other ones, I’ve still got to use them. I can’t wait to use the whisper in his ear move.

    It sounds so sexy and feminine, I just can’t wait to try it. Will definitely let you know if it works the next time I try it!

  2. chukwuka mary says:

    i really this advices, its really working 4 me. tnks 2 lovepanky.

  3. Lucy says:

    This is bad. This is really bad. It all screams “Forever Alone” really. A girl shouldn’t do these things if she treats herself respectably.

  4. Raj Pandit says:

    I’m A guy…
    And i can assure u that these are real things and always going too works…
    Standing closer one must do his job….

  5. Destini Casina says:

    I’ve had my eye on this one guy and I SOOO want him to kiss me. Sometimes I want to just take the first move and kiss him, but that probably won’t work to well. I can’t wait to use these tricks!

  6. khronos says:

    When my love tried to use all of those on me it dit not work i was just thinking we are friends till i can make you happy and walked away

  7. a guy says:

    @Lucy You know what century is this?
    If you frown to something like this, I’m sorry to tell you but that’s what screams “forever alone”.

    I’m a guy and I’d like to point out that if you’re spending time together, like in a friendly environment and not an official date, these might not be fail-proof cause he might assume you’re just being sweet or joking.
    Don’t stress out though, because even if you don’t get a kiss, he’ll remember it and you got some good points in your favour.
    And no, no guy is gonna think you’re too easy for this.

  8. A little shy one says:

    I’m so annoyed! I wish I had read this article beforehand. I met this wonderful guy and I really fancy him. After our third date we said our goodbyes, we hugged, I kissed him on the cheek hard so he’d know I’m keen but then without realising it I think he tried to kiss me on the lips ever so gently but why didn’t I just stop and realise he was going to make the move. Now I feel upset about it and I didn’t want to be too easy and I get a bit shy when getting my first kiss. I’m so rusty at dating at the moment. Unfortunately a few days later I had a text from him saying that he feels there’s no romance or a spark. If we kissed then things would be different. We are still keeping in touch so I’m waiting for our next date hopefully soon. And after reading this article I’m going to hope to kiss him on the next date but his move of course! I wish I could ask him if he was trying to kiss me and now I never know. 🙁

  9. A says:

    Let the guy come to you. The more you try and force your way into his heart the more he’ll go in the opposite direction. It’s easy for a girl to fall for a guy who has nice eyes and a great personality. BUT never settle for someone who doesn’t make you truely happy. The whisper in the ear trick is cute but other than that most of this article is showing you how to be desperate. Don’t worry though, some guys are equally as desperate even if they don’t show it. Always stick up for yourself and letting a guy walk all over you just to be able to call him your boyfriend is not ideal. That relationship will be short lived and will die as soon as he gets bored :/ remember that he is just a boy and if he’s already on a date with you, he is already interested. 🙂

  10. lawrena says:

    i really love this article. will be going on a date with this guy i like on saturday evening. am gonna give it a shot but am really nervous since it might be my first kiss

  11. Beverly says:

    Lucy,I think all of these are great ideas.What planet are you from?Or maybe your old fashioned

  12. jasmine says:

    Im planning on making out for the first time tomorrow… its 1 am and ive read like 7 of these articles.

  13. Chris says:

    I’m a guy and if you like the guy MAKE sure to find a way to touch him, find a way to stroke his hand or fingers and linger for a second or 2. He might not do anything with his hands right then but I assure you when you look at him he’ll have a goofy grin and he’ll be thinking this girl is into me and I guarantee he will find a way to touch you sooner rather then later and WILL kiss you before the night is over. Guys love to see a sign and we’ll only need the one sign, touching is by far the best move you could do so just do it!

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