Do you constantly find your man staring at other women when he’s around you, at a restaurant or when you’re at a club? What should you do? Find out here.
Click here to read the introduction: Does your Man always Stare at Other Women?
Are you serious about him?
Well, this is your call now, really. Are you serious with this bloke of yours? If it’s just a ‘little-crush-I-have-on-him’ kind of thing, then don’t bother. Enjoy the moment, have fun with him. Go out for movies and those romantic dinners. Let him stare at others, and don’t stop yourself from staring at other men either.
But on the other hand, if you know that this man is the one for you, and you can’t think of anyone else replacing him, then it’s pretty dense. You need to do something about it. You will have to sit down and tell him about how you feel. Make it clear to him that you don’t appreciate his stares and glances at other women, not at least when you’re around.
Is he really leching?
There’s a thin line between leching and staring. And it’s just as thin as the line between disapproval and jealousy. Ask yourself if your man is really leching or giving the girl with the mini skirt an appreciative glance. To make it simpler for you, leching is obvious and shameless, something like stopping in the middle of the street and turning around to get a better view. And staring is just that, staring… maybe with a bit of appreciation.
Let’s admit it. We know that men can’t take their eyes off a pretty face, or a hot body. Any attractive girl would naturally turn heads. It can be a pain in your backside when your man ogles at other women, but surprisingly it can have a mesmerizing effect on your man’s body parts too. If your boyfriend indulges in ogling every now and then, even after repeatedly reminding him, then it’s up to you to either accept it or move on.
However, if you’re out with a girlfriend of yours and you catch him leching at her or sizing her up, then you know he belongs in the trash bin at the back of the restaurant!
Make it clear to him
Now this calls for some composure and restraint. You may want to choke him or gouge his eyes out, but hold that thought. Do tell him that you don’t like it, in a calm controlled way, and this is best not told right after an ogling incident. We’re already stereotyped as nagging mammies and we don’t need to be one. So tell him in a reasonable tone not to be so obvious because you don’t like it.
You’re not being silly or childish, he is! And don’t start a screaming match or an ‘I’m-not-talking-to-you’ act. It’s not going to help you anyways. And don’t carry any emotional baggage along with that line like “I know that girl looks better than me, that’s why you’re staring at her!” Just stay in control and get the point across in a clear manner.
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Actually there is another perspective – one I learned from my parents (specifically my mom) while growing up.
Women and men who are secure in themselves and their relationship can and are completely cool with their partners checking out other people.
This article sounds like you don’t trust your relationship – how about pointing out the hot chick?
Ask him to point out hot guys (common ladies, you know you look also!).
Women eye-ball just as much as men do – let’s not be hypocrites about it.
And if you aren’t secure enough to handle this – do your own work, don’t penalize your partner.
B-)
why do you even care if he looks at other women? why do you reason that your man is not in love with you because he admires the appearance of another? Is he going to trade you in like a used car? If he felt that way about you do you think you are preventing him from doing it by getting angry at him? Is your physical appearance the reason he is with you? If it is than you will always have that problem. because there is always someone who is attractive out there. Should he turn the tv off every time your twilight movie has a shirtless guy appear? come on people grow up or buy him a pair of sun glasses.
You obviously have issues. Men look, get over it. There really is no need to ruin a good relationship because a man functions the way he was built to function. Sure, it’s a useless feature we have built into our systems but it’s not going to go away anytime soon and fact of the matter is; some men have it more than others.
Perhaps you have never heard of words such as libido, testosterone,… these words are not made up, they uncover decades of evolution and in fact, they are why YOU EXIST ON THIS PLANET. If men thousands of years ago didn’t feel the need to reproduce, the human species would have simply gone extinct.
So now tell me, would you rather not exist at all, or have your man give in to his natural urges? Making him suppress them is as horrible as you make it out to be for you. You might as well cut his nuts off.