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Confessions: Things I Hate about my Man



We love our men just the way they are, but like everything else, he would be oh-so-perfect if you could only change that one thing about him. So what is that one thing that you hate most about your man more than anything else? Is it his habits around the house, or is it just the way he is? Share your confessions right here…

Have your say!
  • Nafisa
    July 22, 2010 | Permalink |

    I hate the fact that my guy always wants to try new positions in bed when I’m perfectly happy with going missionary. It just annoys me when he tries so hard and then ends up frustrating himself and me. And to top that, what I hate the most is the part where he exhausts himself trying new positions and isn’t of any help after that!

  • July 22, 2010 | Permalink |

    Nafiza, I think you need to be a little more indulging. If your guy wants to try out some new stuff, you really should get on board as an enthusiastic, GGG partner.

    you never know, you may stumble across a position that drives you wild. If not, just make sure he knows that only SOME time is for experimenting. The rest of the time, you want your comfortable, face to face, classic love making.

  • Lauren
    July 23, 2010 | Permalink |

    Gosh, my boyfriend can be so nice at times, it makes me want to scream. He doesn’t argue with me, he listens to everything I say, and he’s so courteous he could put a white knight to shame. And the unbelievable part, it’s been two years since we’ve been going out and he’s still all that! Aaargh, I hate it when he frowns when I put my feet up in coffee parlors. He’s just too perfect, and i hate it when he picks my flaws because i can’t point a finger back!!1

  • Yogana
    July 26, 2010 | Permalink |

    My guy is just too handsome. That’s why I fell for him in the first place. But he gets so much attention everywhere we go, I just hate it each time we’re at a party and I have to ward other girls away with stares and shoves all the time.

  • Nicole Sheri
    August 2, 2010 | Permalink |

    My boyfriend likes to make out loud, especially when my neighbors are at home. I keep telling him I can’t do that because I hate my neighbors and don’t want to be frowned upon. But he just doesn’t get it. Sometimes I just want to scream out at him, “I’m not a whore, you idiot!”

  • Debbie
    August 10, 2010 | Permalink |

    I have been going out with my guy since a few years, and I’m pissed off. He’s just so self obsessed, it kills me. He gets upset if I don’t wish him at midnight on his birthday, when he doesn’t do the same. Even when we shop, all he thinks of is about his clothes. And then, he whines while I’m shopping for mine. He’s a great guy otherwise, it’s just that he puts himself way ahead of me. And I hate that!

  • mildred
    June 4, 2011 | Permalink |

    i hate my man because he never wants to comment or engage in our discussions.he just tells he is a quiet guy and it irritates me,his company is so boring…

  • Dee
    August 21, 2011 | Permalink |

    I love my boyfriend to death and he is a great guy but what I hate the most is how he tells me im so beautiful but he’s not really satisfied with my body. Since after having my son 5 yrs ago my chest size has become very small. I hate it but for him to tell me I will,look so much better once I get a boob job makes me so annoyed. I notice he looks at other women who have a bigger chest than me and it feels so degrading. He wont touch me while were fooling around and I love to be touched everywhere. then just the other day tells me I will look like milf once I get my chest done. Like I dont look like one now. I know im pretty and have a body girls would kill for except one minor flaw. I already feel insecure I dont need him telling me im not completely to his satisfactory!

  • Rainnie
    October 11, 2011 | Permalink |

    I hate that I always feel like I’m talking to myself, when I talk to my boyfriend, he always tells me “I love listening to you” , “I’m not much of a talker” or when I try to make a conversation with him, I usually get the one word answers. It’s nice to know he’s listening to me, but I’d rather have him reply or at least comment from time to time. It makes me feel like a chatter box, and his silence makes me feel like he’s telling me to shut up..

  • kayla
    December 2, 2011 | Permalink |

    I hate how my boyfriends exs always try and call or text him. He has said he don’t wanna talk to them. They don’t get it. It bothers me

  • Karen
    December 19, 2011 | Permalink |

    I love my boyfriend very much. He is the type of man that will walk in a room and make everyone laugh. My days are never boring. But I hate my boyfriend because I cant trust him. He has cheated on me countless times in different ways. Physically, by phone, with the computer, and i found him once with a girl. I broke up with him and he came back saying he was a changed man, promising to never do it again. But after that I have found messages on his facebook inbox from him to other girl and they were very innapropiate.I am starting to hate him more everyday. I dont know what to do. I starting to feel weaker everyday.

  • Sandra
    December 23, 2011 | Permalink |

    I hate how much he cares for me, I actually dont hate the bad figths with screaming and pushing, even when we say hurtful things and I slap or hit him for it because then I get the feeling I might be free and get to be on my own but then I “realize” that it wont happen, atleast not for a year from now, probably alot longer.. haha…. just feel so trapped…

  • January 3, 2012 | Permalink |

    i love my boyfriend but i hate that he worries so much i also hate how insecure he is hes always saying how is a girl like u with a guy like me when really hes an amazing guy! but hes always putting himself down, i just wish hed knowthat im hapy with him!

  • Camille
    January 15, 2012 | Permalink |

    My fiance is my very best friend. But i’m not sure what is wrong. Something doesn’t feel right. It seemed to really start when I saw that he looked up porn on our phone and admitts he masterbates to porn. Which really shouldn’t be a big deal, but it’s made an impact to the entirety of our relationship. I don’t really know how to get over feeling this way. I’m uncomfortable having sex with him in the light, when we actually have sex. And I just all around don’t feel as happy around him the way I use to. I love him and we’re getting married actually next Sunday. I’m just not excited. Any suggestions?

  • Beck
    February 21, 2012 | Permalink |

    After reading the comments listed above, I can only say that we are not educating ourselves and others enough. Sandra, you should try counseling or a BDSM club. There are plenty of men that would be willing to abuse you. Others, please try reading and writing classes to portray a sense of intelligence in yourselves!!!

  • Luna
    March 5, 2012 | Permalink |

    I hate how my man lies about where he went and who he went with. I hate how when we take a break he messes around or sleeps with girls he swore were ” just friends” its pathetic. He rather be friends with older women and go on “friend ” dates with them every weekend then keep talking to me. Breaking up with him is my greatest life achievement. Loser.

  • courtney
    April 4, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love my boyfriend more than anything but i hate how when i tell him about something he does that annoys me he starts introducing these ridiculous arguments into the conversation. Like, that i hate spending time with his friends and family, which is not true. Somehow i always end up being the bad person

  • Tess
    April 15, 2012 | Permalink |

    I hate how uncontrolling my boyfriend is. Sometimes I just wish he would strip me, chain me to the bed, and have sex so hard that it would hurt.

  • Kitty
    April 17, 2012 | Permalink |

    Jesus christ.. you guys (girls) ..what the hell??

    Nafisa, i know exactly what you mean, sometimes i can’t be arsed either, but massage his ego! Men love it! Or just make more noise when in the missionary position?

    Lauren, if he’s so perfect, then he should have the capacity to understand your feelings, tell him that when he trips you up on things that shouldn’t really matter, it makes you feel inadequate. Him doing that, is in itself an imperfection!

    Yogana! Those girls sound like tarts, but you have to look into the fact that it might be your man too! Does he make it clear that he’s with you? Or are you the one fighting the battle? Talk to him, or look into it deeper?

    Nicole Sheri? I just had a similar disgussion with my boyfriend. He has a thing for noise and shit like that. I told him i found it somewhat degrading. He apologised and said that he didn’t mean it, he just wanted me to sound like i wanted him. Talk to your guy?
    Debbie, don’t indulge him, think of yourself a little! If he does that shit, you have a right to do the same! Maybe he’ll come round. If he doesn’t care enough about you to tone it down, you should look for someone who cares a little more?

    Rainnie and Mildred.. god … that sounds crappy. Make sure he has no distractions when you talk to him, MAKE him engage! I found this a little with my guy initially but deeper into the relationship, it turned out okay, we can actually talk now! Or just keep talking at him, he has to listen sometime!

    Dee! DON’T YOU DARE GET A BOOB JOB! How dare he? It’s alright for the gender that doesn’t have childbirth to deal with to complain!! -As he gets older he might get a smaller dick, or a f**king beer belly, and i’m sure he’d have something to say if you complained! Buy a corset and see if it distracts him, and if not, he can f**king deal with it! You said yourself that you have a body to die for! It’s just a shame you don’t feel the same about his morals or personality! ;)

    Kayla, everyone has an interfering ex at some point. Mine had one too and i f**king hated her, she always tried to dip her anorexic fly into our relationship and if i could have run her over with a bus, i would have! If your guy isn’t doing anything, relax! I still talk to guys i’ve been with previously! Just keep a little watch if you have any doubts.. but no psycho phone and email reading.. it’s practically invasion!

  • Kitty
    April 17, 2012 | Permalink |

    Karen sweetheart… i’m so sorry for you.. but i can only say one thing. LEAVE HIM.

    Never let a mad drain you, use you and run around you like he obviously has. Maybe you could forgive it once, but over and over again? Leaving him might be the boost you need to get back on track. He’s a bad egg hun, please don’t hurt yourself for his misfortunes!
    Sandra, i’d say the same to you, just hopefully your guy has the minis cheating thing? Suggest a break or if it’s seriously that bad.. leave? Find someone you feel less trapped with?

    Courtney– Guys all need an ego boost now and then ¬__¬ it just sucks that some of us have to give it out more than others.. i’m sure Debbie doesn’t dish them out nearly as often!

    How long have you been together? Maybe it’s just jitters? He’ll probably get comfortable before you know it. Explain to him as clearly as you can, talk to him! He seems lovely and like the kind of person who would appreciate a deeper convo about it?

    Camille.. i hate to say it.. but this could be your insecurities way more than his. LOADS of guys watch porn, and as much as we hate to admit it ladies, guys will find other women attractive. Maybe he’s watching this shite to cover for the uncomfortable sex he’s having with you because of his habits?? Can’t you find some way to make him cut out the porn? Live out some of his fantasies, have sex more? It might be that simple.. otherwise.. accept and move on?

    Courtney.. he sounds like he’s real insecure, or that he thinks you’re blaming him for something. Keep to the subject, and don’t let him change it, he could just be stubborn or knows that he can divert the convo. But be subtle and a little.. soothing about it, no matter how much you might wanna punch him at the time.

    Luna, i freakin love you, thank god you have a backbone! You could teach girls a damn lot!

    Beck, i totally sympathize, i hate illiteracy as much as the next person, so i hereby take the chance to apologise for any typos etc etc in all this crap.

    Tess, pipe the crap up, he ain’t gonna know or do anything otherwise! He’ll do it more often afterwards (fingers crossed!)
    You lot need to read ‘how to be a woman’ by Caitlin Moran.. or something of the sort.
    Sorry, i’m finished.. Rant over. xx

  • Kathy
    April 22, 2012 | Permalink |

    I have the most amazing boyfriend ever. He is really nice and he treats me with respect. He would do anything for me. He always tells me he loves me and how he misses me and he wishes he could be with me. He is in the army so it can get difficult at times. When he comes home he never posts anything on facebook when hes with me. He doesnt want to change his relationship status or anything. It really bothers me. It makes me feel like he really doesnt want to be with me and he doesnt want the world to know that I am his woman. It makes me like he doesnt have fun with me. He always posts stuff when he is with his friends and stuff and says he has a blast with them. Is it not the same for me? I dont understand. Everytime I have a good time with him I post how amazing he made my day. He always tells me that he had a good day and says that I am amazing but I am just not believing it. It just aggravates me.

  • Bethany
    April 26, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love my boyfriend a lot. He is very sweet and he never points out my flaws and if I say something about them, he says “It doesn’t matter if you aren’t, but I think you’re perfect.” The only things I don’t like about him is that he can get easily angry, but I can control that. Also, he never tells me that I’m upsetting him if I accidentally say something about another guy. He just tells me he wants me to be happy, but he doesn’t realize I’d be happier if he told me when he was feeling emasculated. Lastly, he can be a bit too touchy for me. I like to take things slower and heat it up a little at times, but not every minute I’m with him. I love him, but he can exasperate me as well.

  • Janelle
    May 1, 2012 | Permalink |

    Don’t get me wrong, i absolutely LOVE my boyfriend, but i hate how i’ll try to talk about something that i’m going through and he just brushes it off like “i know how you feel, it’ll all be over soon enough”. For example i’m 19 and i still live with my parents because i’m currently attending the community college in my town. My parents are way to strict with me and i get really angry about it and i try to explain whats wrong and what they’re doing and he just brushes it off. He went into the military at 17 so he never went through that. But bottom line is he’ll never let me finish venting and that just pisses me off even more.

  • Miya Chou
    May 10, 2012 | Permalink |

    I like my boyfriend a whole bunch, maybe even love him. I can’t say I hate anything about him except I hate the people who didn’t let him know he was so attractive and such an awesome catch. He can have low confidence because of this, however, I’m really glad he was single because now he’s with me.

  • casey
    May 22, 2012 | Permalink |

    i dont know how to amuze my guy enough, e.g major turn ons and i fustrate myself. i feel not good enough, like i cant turn him on as much as he turns me on ..

  • June 2, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love my boyfriend but at the same time i hate him so much for making me on the very last part of his priority. His 32 y.o now but still no fix decisions in life. He’s still dependent to his family and i hate it so much. Why can’t he make decisions without the presence of his family? i feel so damn unimportant to him. For being with him for the past 6 yrs in relationship all i felt is i’m the last one on his mind. What should i do? does he do really love me? or am i just the one who loves him?

  • Angel
    June 28, 2012 | Permalink |

    My boyfriend is great. Or at least most of the time he is. I have been with him for over a year now and things keep changing. When I first got with him, he was everything to me. He was sweet, charming, and said all the right things to make me fall for him. He was the type of guy that would hold doors open for me and even pull out my chair!

    The thing is he didn’t stop doing this after we had sex like most guys would… instead he stopped a few days after we finally said I love you. At first, I thought it was just because of stress at work that he stopped being who he was but then I found out he had just been acting the whole time. A week later i found out that he had been talking behind my back to my worst enemy and they had been on a date together.

    No matter how much evidence I had, no matter how many times I accused him and begged him to tell the truth, he wouldn’t admit it so I broke up with him. Another week passed and he came to my friend’s house to talk and try to work everything out. The sad thing was it was working… but later that night when he left I found out he went on a date with the same girl again and this time went back to her house and stayed till late that night. We had a huge fight after that, there were pictures and texts that the girl showed me and everything.

    Her main objective in life is to make me and him never talk to each other… and it almost worked. I’m a sad person and I took him back thinking everything would be okay. And it was, I mean, it’s a great relationship. The thing is, he has lied to me again on tons of other occasions. Like facebook… one day he didn’t want me to get on and that’s odd because we always can get on each other’s facebook just to do stuff and play around… but today was different he had even changed his password. But I’m pretty smart with computers and got into it anyways, what I found was that he was talking to two other girls behind my back calling them my nicknames and flirting with them.

    Another time I was at the doctor’s office waiting for him to pick me up and he didn’t show. So I walked down the road to his dad’s work and he took me to a store where my boyfriend was getting pizza. We found his car but couldn’t find him. The sad thing was you remember that girl I was talking about at the beginning of this story? Guess who’s car he pops out of! I run like hell to beat the shit out of her and he grabs me trying to make me stop, I get away and the girl hides behind her mom. In the end, I end up hitting my boyfriend. And the whole way home he yells at me saying he is sending my back to Alaska (where I used to live) and he is breaking up with me… (what did I do for him to break up with me, that lying bastard). But somehow, we work through another fight AGAIN!! Our relationship got a bit more steady and we are still very much in love.

    But I just don’t know what to do… I just got a job and if he isn’t working I have no clue where he is. Just the other day, he was gone for a whole day and I didn’t get a call or a text or anything, he just up and left in the middle of the night. I can’t trust him and that gets on his nerves more than ever. But I have really good reasons to not trust him, don’t I? If I leave him I have to move either to Florida or Alaska because I live with him and have no family where we are at. But is this relationship even going to make it with all this drama?

  • Kayla
    July 18, 2012 | Permalink |

    Angel you can’t stay with this guy he is just a lying bastard and you deserve a lot better than that, he has no respect for you and he is one to cheat so find someone else

  • July 29, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love my boyfriend too much. I am 25 and have been in love twice before but never like this. I already know that I want to marry him and can’t help but thinking about our relationship and future ALL THE TIME. I feel like it’s partly normal but also partly unhealthy. I feel like it’s unhealthy more specifically for our relationship because of who we each are. I know that he is the kind of guy that needs a lot of space and quiet time, which is fine, but I really want to seem more interesting when he is around. I think that since the majority of what fills my mind is our relationship (all it’s problems, good things, the future, problems we may have in the future etc.), I have nothing new or exciting to talk to him about when we do talk. By the way, we live together and it’s summer so we are both out of college and don’t work. Also, he is very controlling. He gets cold or irritated when I get on Facebook, and I have to lie to him about stupid little conversations I have had with people from my past because I am flirty and he will overreact and think that I am a complete whore that is untrustworthy etc. I just feel like this relationship is taking over my life but I know it can be healthier if I just knew what to do. Any tips for gaining a little independence and finding a way to be more mysterious when we live together?

    Next (we have a couple issues, haha), my boyfriend is really into taking anabolic steroids and whenever he is off cycle (back to normal) he doesn’t want to have sex hardly ever. I know it is because he feels skinny and crappy (he has a body image issue) but I don’t know what to do because i LOVE sex and he is so insanely hot that I daydream about blowing him all day so it’s more than difficult for me to not beg for sex let alone come up with some trick to get him to want it regardless of how he feels about his body. I can’t help but to, in some small way, blame myself or feel like I’m not desirable enough for him. I know that a lot of it really does have to do with how he feels and what he needs to feel like to get into the mindset for sex but I want to try everything before I just settle with him not banging me for two or three months! I really want to play hard to get but find him simply irresistible. If I tell him no sex for a week he is relieved and we only have sex once a week lately! I want to be faithful for ever to him but truthfully, I need to get rid of this anxiety caused by my constant horniness?
    Anyone have any good advice for playing hard to get when you really want it yourself? We live together so it’s sooo tricky to snap him into sex mode when he is such a deep thinker and so involved with his projects.
    I should mention that he does get a boner quite often and touches and kisses me and seems to get turned on all the time but won’t ever do anything about it! I am sick of initiating sex! I want to feel desired again. Help!

  • Bryanna Ramirez
    August 6, 2012 | Permalink |

    I hate my man sometimes he is always out and when he finally gets back he is just to “tired” to do anything. We barely spend anytime together but when we do spend time together its fun and he is really caring when we do which isn’t very often and i really love him but i think he is only in it for the sex.

  • Brittany
    August 7, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love my boyfriend so much, and we just got back together 4 months ago after being broken up for like a year and a half. He said I love you first both times, and was really sweet the first few weeks. Now it seems like I’m always doing something wrong :(. He got mad the other day because I was crying on the phone and he said he couldn’t understand me b/c I was crying so much. I don’t know if he’s just stressed out or what, but I’m terrified of losing this man again. A month ago, people I don’t even know told him I was cheating on him with my brother’s roomate. It is absolutely NOT true, but ever since then I feel like he’s maybe being a little less sweet to me. He said he didn’t believe that I cheated on him and that he fully trusted me after he asked me if it was true and I told him I never slept with that guy. Not to mention the guy in question is overweight, extremely hairy (ewwww) and always hurt my feelings by talking about me calling me stupid and other stuff. It hurts my feelings SO MUCH, to think my boyfriend would even consider it a POSSIBILITY that I would cheat on him. Now it seems to me more and more that he is insecure/doesn’t fully trust me, and that breaks my heart :’( :’(

  • Mandie
    August 11, 2012 | Permalink |

    My boyfriend is gorgeous…amazing…all couples hav lol things they hate at times. I hate the word “wutever” means 2 me u don’t care…don’t use it. Lol

  • Elizabeth
    October 8, 2012 | Permalink |

    I hate it when my boyfriend just stops texting me all of a sudden. On any other day, he’d tell me that he needed to go and that he’d talk to me later, but its becoming more and more a habit of his just to stop texting me all together. Honestly, as much as I know he’s busy, a goodbye text would be nice. Its so aggravating. I tell him when I need to go, and him just dodging out on me makes me feel like he doesn’t even care about me.

  • Caren
    October 12, 2012 | Permalink |

    My boyfriend has this irritating tendency to pick fights with me when I’ve had a drink or a few too many. After a couple nights like this I started picking up on it, and considered that perhaps I’m doing something wrong, like maybe I’m turning into a mean drunk. So the past couple times I’ve had a few drinks, and he started picking a fight again I’ve simply said “I’m not in the right state of mind to have this conversation, can we talk about it tomorrow?” And he just completely ignores me! There has to be some pathology for this behavior. I asked him about it today, and he admitted it was his fault for escalating the fight, but that I wasn’t obvious enough about my intoxication?!?!

  • katie
    October 13, 2012 | Permalink |

    Ive been reading on here about how when ur man jacks off to porn behind ur back while ur gone or sleeping and that its ok and that its harmless and he thinks nothing of it when he’s done…. Well I could believe it, but my man acts differently when it comes to that. U see. The other day, its happened before but not fur a ling time, but he got into my Android phone and went to all kinds of porn websites. Well I’m Mexican, so I have tan skin and dark hair. Well I seen that he googled “white pussy” and “naked white girls” and looked at like 35 pages of white girls naked. When I woke up n got on the internet, I seen all this and i asked him about it. I said, y did u use my phone and go on porn on it? (keep in mind I’ve been together with him for 9 yrs) and he said, “well I don’t like dark skinned girls, I like white girls pussy. And I did that to show u that’s what I want I’m not ashamed u caught.me, that’s y i didnt dekete the history. I wanted u to see that I’m not attracted to u I like white pussy…… ” and I’m like whoa. That was harsh. And since my skin is tan, I’m a little darker between my thighs and around my private areas and my nipples r dark. And what he said about the girls online, made me upset because their nipples r pink and their privates r white n pink. And it majesty me uncomfortable. Very uncomfortable. It made me hate myself and wish I was white to please my man. He knew I was.Mexican when we met and now all of a sudden, he’s obsessed with these white women lately. so, what u said about men n porn is incorrect. My man is waaaay different. Please help if u have any advice.

  • Beth
    October 23, 2012 | Permalink |

    My man is so quiet and shy. HE is very respectful and sweet. He doesn’t say he loves me. BEEN TOGETHER 5 MONTHS no I love you

  • Debbie
    October 29, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love my man to bits but he’s a bit childish with his emotions. He is well rounded in every other way as far as I can tell but he doesn’t like expressing his feelings at all. I just want him to randomly say he loves me every now and again. Or compliment me once in a while. I say stuff like that to him regularly but he never does the same. We have spoken about it and he says he’ll make more of an effort but it lasts about 2 hours then we’re back where we started. I’ve been in some bad relationships and I need a little reassurance every now and again, he doesn’t seem to get it. He says he didn’t hurt me so it’s not his problem to fix. I don’t want the world, just a spontaneous hug or kiss every now and again. He thinks if he buys me stuff it counts as showing love. It doesn’t. When I say this to him he calls me ungrateful but he just doesn’t get it. :( any advice…. I don’t want to leave him but I’ve been through too much to stay with someone I’m not completely happy with. Help please!

  • Debbie
    October 29, 2012 | Permalink |

    KATIE LEAVE HIM!!! Why would you want to change for someone that has no respect for you or your feelings. He likes white chicks? He can have all the white pussy he wants when he is out of your life! Seriously that is a road you do not want to go down. Much love xx

  • LaReysa
    November 3, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love my honey to pieces but I can’t stand that I always have to ask for sex. It’s so annoying. Like he never initiates it.

  • Kristina
    November 6, 2012 | Permalink |

    My boyfriend (baby daddy as well).. just lets me carry all of the responsibilities.. he doesn’t seem to be remotely interested in finding employment what so ever. He always comes off as very self centered when it comes to just about everything between him and I. He is a good daddy so far, and i want to give him a chance to help me raise our son. but everytime i try to have an adult conversation, he just says “whatever” and it drives me fkkn nuts. He acts like we are still teenagers. with the drinking and whatnot. He only worries about his pleasure when we make “love”. friends and family say i am enabling him to carry on as he is… but i don’t want to just throw him out on the street. he is the father of my son.. but getting through to him seems dauntingly impossible. best believe i have tried. and he said i was too mean. i’m so lost.. and there are so many details i cant reveal on here.. He is not abusive. just a bum.. i sometimes feel like i have 2 kids. i wish he would grow up and take on some of the responsibilities, i’m speaking financially mostly. i just want to do whats best for my baby. and i cant be positive which road to take. love him, or leave him… aghhhh

  • November 7, 2012 | Permalink |

    Kristina, leave him. I have been there for 5 yrs. only different is your man is a good father where my ex wasn’t. You and your son deserve a man that helps around the house and teaches that to your son.

  • Kimberly
    November 28, 2012 | Permalink |

    I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months now and I already can’t believe some of the shit he has done. The relationship started off very good. Then he began blaming me for his faults and problems. He lies to me all the time and turns me against my friends. I don’t know what to do because somedays it could be good and others aren’t so great. I love him to pieces and don’t want to lose him but then again our relationship is going down. I dont know. any suggestions ????

  • kimberly
    December 10, 2012 | Permalink |

    Well, I’ve been with my bf for about six years now. The thing I hate most, is that he is a sex addict. When we first started dating he chased me big time, was hopelessly romantic in every way a girl could dream of. He was upfront about his past, and that he’s bi. I accepted that. As the years went on however, we began experiementing with having threesomes, and the occasional foursome. Now, the romance is dead. As is my sex drive, and all he ever talks about is us being with this person and that person and oh how hot it would be and blah blah blah. I don’t know what to do. I’m hurting, and I’m frustrated. I feel like I’m not enough, and never will be. He’s cheated in the past once. And constantly worrying that I’m cheating, though I never have. Idk what to do anymore. :(

  • Jojo
    December 13, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love my fiance. He’s sweet and caring.. But we see eachother practically every second of the day. I love it and hate it too. I just hate how irritating he can be. Like saying stupid things or being immature. I also hate how sometimes he’s all over me when I want him to get off and then sometimes he doesn’t pay enough attention to me.. He’s kind of awkward and sometimes he’ll just say certain things that I hate. Like when we’re about to have sex and he says something like, you’re so sexy, or whatever. At times it comes off just awkward. And I’m a bitch and I’ll just be like, you’re f**king annoying me. Or, don’t say that. And I didn’t use to be like this but we’ve been together almost 2 years and it’s just worse. I don’t want to give up on our amazing relationship just because he says stupid things or says things stupidly and because I have anger issues.


  • Kamal
    December 28, 2012 | Permalink |

    I am a guy.a wise one.having seen all these above mentioned views i would advice all.-’gud or bad doesnt matter what ur problem is.just tell ur man on face about the issue.word to word as u all have written here.’

  • XXXX
    December 30, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love my boyfriend don’t get me wrong. We’ve been dating for a year now and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. But he is such a freaking Grammar Nazi! Like he was complaining for over an HOUR today about his sister and I ran out of things to say so I was like “I sorry love.” And he was like “You say I’m sorry not I sorry. I like you because you’re smart and beautiful not beautiful and a f****** dumbass.” What is his problem?!?!

  • gwen
    December 31, 2012 | Permalink |

    my man just cant stop thinking about sex! i love him to death but his mind is held captive by milfs! its crazy when we went to paris el’ daronver last night he asked me if we could skip desert and get to the real thing! first of all that was a really corney thing to say and secound he knew i had already had a bad day at work …..ANGRY!

  • Courtney
    January 3, 2013 | Permalink |

    The only thing I hate about my boyfriend is his past girlfriends and how badly they treated him. I also sort of resent that I lost my virginity to him and he had sex with five girls before me who all treated him like crap and caused him quite a bit of emotional trauma. He also is very afraid of criticism because of them so I feel bad trying to ask for things.

  • marley
    January 5, 2013 | Permalink |

    i love everything about my boyfriend… only thing i hate is that my ex just so happens to be my ex but that has nothing to do with him my boyfriend is great nothing to hate here <3

  • laura
    January 6, 2013 | Permalink |

    I really love my boyfriend. I’m 16 and he’s 7 months younger than me, and is 15. He’s perfect, just a few problems. One, he has really low self esteem. Everyone else in our group had been dating since we were like12, only he had never had a girlfriend. He used to say when people would ask him when he’d get a girlfriend that by the time he was 40, he would be able to crush an armadillo with his right hand. He’s constantly worried he’s not behaving as a boyfriend should, even though he’s perfect. He also doesn’t argue with me particularly, instead he uses evasive techniques to avoid annoying me – I like a good argument! Same with any kind of physical contact – doesn’t mention it at all, I have to suggest it even though I’d much rather he initiated it. That, and he doesn’t like shopping, so won’t go with me on trips.
    Please, someone help me to cure these problems! I love him

  • maya
    January 13, 2013 | Permalink |

    i hate it that my man doesn’t pick up his phone, i know that he gets super busy at work and what not but atleast reject the call so i know its a bad time.

  • hendy
    January 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    i am 19 and so is my bf.. we are together for a year but i don’t seem to be getting over his past… he is my first bf and i am like his 6th girlfriend, plus he went CRAZY on his bestfriend who is a girl and another girl he lust after…. i hate his past, i was really hoping to find a guy who is inexperience like me.. i do love him. and he didn’t tell me his past until 6 months together plus we have been friend for like 1 year before… i am so up set just thinking about it.. can i get some help ??

  • Kaylee
    January 17, 2013 | Permalink |

    I absolutely love my boyfriend. He is truly amazing and I am not saying I hate something about me I just feel as if I don’t like it as much as I like some other things. For example he can he really quiet at times, like he doesn’t know what to say, and he gets really shy. He has an amazing body though and is good in bed, not to mention he fully engages in conversation when we are alone. So it isn’t like I don’t appreciate how he is I just wish he could be a little more open. He is absolutely perfect though and I wouldn’t change him for the world because all those little things that I don’t like make him….well him! So here is for the past year….and many more to come! <3

  • Hannah
    February 12, 2013 | Permalink |

    I honestly can not complain about my current boyfriend. He is in the Marines, caring, has goals, sexy as f***. But I have been in bad relationships. I have been cheated on, used, disrespected. I lived with a guy for two years before finding out he had two kids, and that he was sleeping around, selling off the stuff I had worked my ass off to earn so that he could pay for his drug addiction. To all those out there who are having a hard time and feel like they will never find the right person, you will. Just let go of your pain, let love come to you.

  • Cindy
    March 9, 2013 | Permalink |

    Maya! I know exactly what you’re going through! My boyfriend and i have been together for a little short of three months and it started off perfect (don’t they all?). Then it gradually deteriorated. And the only thing we have disagreements about I the fact that he’s not very responsive over the phone. He wont answer… That’s fine. But he wont send a text saying “I’m busy” or call back for hours! Once i really lost it cause i didn’t hear from him for two days. What’s weird is… We’re in high school, and we’ll be going to college in a couple of months so it can’t be something really twisted. I guess he’s just lazy?
    But it’s only been three months, so aren’t we still supposed to be in the “talking all the time and can’t stop texting” phase? Well i know i’m still in the phase. Maybe he isn’t.
    It’s not like he intentionally avoids me… Cause when he’s with his friends and if i call and if he answers, he’ll step aery and talk to me for as long as i want and he wont even mention that i interrupted something until i ask. And if i am panicking about something, he’s always there and he knows just what to say to make it alright. But i guess it kinda annoys me that he doesn’t answer his phone much. His friends get annoyed by it too and end up calling me up to ask me if i know where he is :P
    What scares me is that he’s a really good liar, and i can’t tell when he’s lying. I don’t think he lies to me about stuff that matters, but he is a habitual liar. Though he promises that he doesn’t lie to me… And i generally do believe him considering that i don’t ever go crazy on his ass for doing all those things that he knows i hate. And we have a pretty open relationship. We’re understanding and not too picky and we give each other space but have no problem talking about anything and nothing till 5am either.
    But lately we haven’t been talking much. He’s always out (im guessing) and he won’t answer his phone. And he’ll call at night just before he sleeps even he’s half drowsed and he’s so tired that i don’t have the heart the tell him to wake the fuck up and talk to me :P and if i send him an angry text later at night then he’ll call at 5am and wake me up to talk and that annoys me cause i have major exams coming up and i need my rest so i can study. Is it too much to ask for five minutes of your boyfriend’s time during the day when normal people are awake and not at some godforsaken hour?

  • berniceb
    March 23, 2013 | Permalink |

    my guys doesnt want me to wear colored hair or hang wit friends or go anywhere without him i cant even wear short jeans anymore

  • Angelique
    March 28, 2013 | Permalink |

    Me and my boyfriend are both 15 and mature for our age. I do alot of readings to improve myself and my relationships with people. The one thing I HATE about my lover is the fact he thinks some things I like are “gay” . I watch these Youtube stars like smosh, pewdiepie, Ray william johnson ect. But he thinks they are “gay” and wont even look at their videos. He thinks love songs are “gay” also and I use love songs to make him smile, (without him knowing my words are actually a song) and he likes the texts i send him like that. He is all about being strong and feeling “powerful” in music and such and , i get that. But I would enjoy a nice slow dance to my favorite love song without him not enjoying it too. Am I overreacting? Is this stupid and not such a big problem? Love songs are poetry and I have written poetry forever , But him insulting things I like is like him insulting me. I dont know.. We have been together for 4 months. We actually dated for awhile back then, last summer. So we have been through alot

  • Lily
    April 10, 2013 | Permalink |

    Katie, you said your man had searched up pictures of white girls and their pussys now I don’t know much about guy’s weird habits coz i just don’t ask my boyfriend about this kinda stuff but what I do know is no matter how much you love someone they should never make you feel unwanted or ugly full-stop. No ifs or buts that’s just how things should be he should make u feel loved and beautiful…its awful that he said what he did it’s really rude and harsh, I think you should explain clearly how it made you feel and in the end if he doesn’t say sorry or try to stop you, dump him. Your probably a very pretty girl who deserves a lot better, if he doesn’t love you you’ve got to love yourself until someone better than him comes along. I would love to have skin the colour you described instead I look like some sort of washed out vampire, as I said love yourself and you’ll be fine.
    And Beth I don’t think you should worry about your boyfriend not saying I love you,I had a similar worry about my boyfriend when we’d been together for 3 months because my previous boyfriend had been very quick to say it. But, I think its better to take things slowly for a while. You said your boyfriend was very sweet ect so he clearly cares but maybe he’s just not at that “i love you” stage yet. If you love him…maybe you should say it first, I never have so I don’t really know much about it but try it and see how it goes, but remember not to pressure him into saying it back coz he might freak out.

  • Becky
    April 22, 2013 | Permalink |

    I’ve been with my guy for over 2 months…He doesn’t seem to trust me, if someone texts me…he looks over my shoulder at my texts and thinks I don’t notice, or asks ‘who’s that?’ I went to my friends house, he is a guy…but he is just a friend, he doesn’t seem to understand that and asked to check through my messages to him! I said no…and he went in a mood. He won’t trust me unless he’s met the guy and knows there’s nothing going on. He says he doesn’t want to loose me but he’s too clingy! I can’t take it..its too much, and when he apologises he uses a patronising sarcastic tone…and it really annoys me. He seems to care more about his car and money than me, he’d cancel date plans to go and swap his car for something better or another car, thats all he ever talks about. I do like talking about it sometimes…but it gets on my nerves, its like constantly. He’ll spend all his money on doing up his car and I end up paying for things, he has a higher paying job than me! We went to the cinema for a date…I offered to pay for the tickets which aren’t cheap, I paid for the popcorn, drinks and so on….without even a thankyou, I don’t think he cared tbh, It didn’t seem like it anyway. Don’t get me wrong…I do love him, he’s not like anyone I’ve ever met…but its like he only thinks of himself and his money sometimes, it really gets me down…its like I come in last place.

  • Ashley
    April 24, 2013 | Permalink |

    Well I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. When we started out we were just friends and I was talking to him on and off because I was in a relationship. After i had my daughter and he had a son I left my daughter father and we decided to start something. Everything was awesome at first until the baby momma drama started. She didn’t know what to say out of her mouth for no reason at all I had no problem with the girl but we fought anyway. Him and I are still totally in love until we started into arguments because he wants to go outside with his friends and I wanted to spent time, cause I was working all the time the arguments we hurtful we both said hurtful stuff but he always go out control punching holes in the walls, broke my door, throwing water on me, broke my phone into pieces, and would just do ratchet stuff like he had no mind. We always seemed to calm down a fix the problems tho, always he has defiantly changed. I helped him control his anger but now everything about him sometimes erks me to death. idk if it’s because I’m a mom that I feel like he’s my child sometimes like he don’t clean up after himself, he can open up like a tea bag and leave they dag on thing sitting there, he plays the Xbox and just leaves the room don’t put nothing back, I don’t think he know where the dirty clothes hamper is cause he just sits his cloths on the side, he don’t putt the toilet seat down he barely flushes, he don’t never want to do nothing I ask. But at first everything was not like this. then I’m starting to feel like sex is the only think we have but I hate it we do the same stupid positions and I tell him all the time I’m tired of doing the same thing let’s do something new I even tried incorporating new things like using food and I brought them playful sex cards from spencer’s and nothing works he still wants to do the same stuff. also we just recently got a car and he drives it way more than I do cause he don’t like my driving but whenever I get the car to go somewhere he’s on my butt like constantly calling asking where I am what’s taken so long why I’m not texting back like I’m driving what u want me to kill myself. he also gets mad because I babysit my two friends children after the kids get out of daycare(they go to the same daycare) and at night when they come pick their kids up the stay for a little bit we talk and or we hangout some days and he always ya friends always over here they never go home omg we never spend time. besides all of that he is awesome he’s loving and he treats me with respect he don’t let no one say anything they not supposed to he helps take care of my daughter and his own son he just been so uggggggg!!!!!!!!!

  • Kaya
    April 27, 2013 | Permalink |

    I hate that my husband is selfish when it comes to having sex. He never tries to please me at all and it’s so frustrating because I have needs too. I end up thinking about having sex with other guys (which I know is wrong) but he does not try ever. I am always left ‘sexually frustrated’ afterwards. It sucks.

  • Alice
    April 29, 2013 | Permalink |

    I believe in taking care of myself; I exercise, eat healthy, and always keep things neat and trim (well groomed, if you will). I’ve been married to my husband for 3 years and he has let himself go BIG TIME. I love this man. If his love was a drop of water, mine would be the ocean. But I cant stand that he’s let himself get this bad! Not to toot my own horn, but I’m an attractive woman. I get whistles and cat calls when I go out. His best friend is beautiful and believes in taking care of his body, we actually have started working out together. I have found myself attracted to his best friend and I am ashamed. I hate that I feel this way. AH! I don’t know what to do. Every time I suggest my husband work out with me he comes up with an excuse :(

  • Jessica
    May 2, 2013 | Permalink |

    I love my boyfriend .
    but i hate how he never trusts me…
    he says he does , but never proves it .
    i can’t even talk to another guy .
    he has to read all of my texts and emails and facebook messages to be happy .
    and i dont think that is fair AT ALL because i NEVER ask to see his phone .
    he invades my personal space way too often.
    also , he always has to have things his way .
    he doesn’t believe that i can love anyone or anything else .
    its all about him . he even said to me “baby i love you more than anything . more than my own family & friends , do you love me more than your mom or bestfriend ?”
    and when i responded with “well , the love i have for my bestfriend & mom is different than the love i have for you” he flipped out on me saying i didn’t truly love him , but i do !
    there are just sooo many things to hate about my boyfriend . :’(
    it really makes me upset because i love him so much .

  • sara
    May 6, 2013 | Permalink |

    what i hate is hes always hanging out with other guys and hes always trying to impress me by telling me stories and jokes

  • Isobell
    May 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    I m in a non serious relationship but hes great n m fallin for him. Hes awesome when we r together but sucks at texting n replies late and i get worried if he s cheating on me when he s not wimme. If i get angry about something instead of being nice n lovey dovey he gets raged n argument is flushed down d gutter n i have to make amends. So annoying!

  • Lindsey
    May 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    I love my boyfriend. and I know how much he loves me too, but sometimes our relationship can be soo frustrating. I come from a family with serious mental illnesses, from bi polar disorder to schizophrenia, and sometimes i can be an emotional wreck. He understands this side of me, but he can be so stubborn about it. He gets frustrated because I cry, or get up set, and then ignores me till he feels like I’m finished.
    On top of that, sometimes he can be so mean! He says some of the harshest things, well, to me at least. I’ve always tried to be the type of girl he wants, and sometimes he makes little remarks that completely crush my ego, and make me feel like im not what he wants.
    The last time we dated, none of this was a problem, we were together for 8 months, and broke up due to him cheating on me. Now that were trying things over again, it’s extremely different. and I miss the old him…

    Someone tell me how to handle this?

  • May 21, 2013 | Permalink |

    My boy friend and I have been dating for a while now. We have know each other since kindergarten but he’s very insecure and it always asking me why I’m with him when we are so clearly opposites. I always opposites attract and he’ll be ok with that but how do I help him understand that I am with him for him.

  • Eccentric
    June 13, 2013 | Permalink |

    I hate that my man has a more feminine quality to his ‘courting’ persona than I do. He likes to initiate the ‘I love you’ and has this unbearable but constant urge to open up about how he feels every single morning, day and night. Men, you may think all women are the same..but you’re WRONG!! I don’t want to hear about your feelings or how strongly you feel about me. Its repulsive. Too much sensitivity makes you appear ‘pansy’ with a wee man who can’t control his messy emotions. Some say, ‘build a bridge’..I just say ‘have a wank’ and be a MAN!

  • DEE
    July 30, 2013 | Permalink |

    I hate it when other girls tell my boyfriend they love him and he says it back. Then he tries to say she’s just like his sister and not to worry about it.

  • Justine
    August 21, 2013 | Permalink |

    I hate that my boyfriend isn’t sexually active enough. I want it all the time, at least once a day, in a new position maybe, in different places of the house even… Year just doesn’t want to have sex with me and openly rejects me in bed. He also has never gone down on me or fallowed through with a handjob for me :’(

  • bridget
    August 23, 2013 | Permalink |

    This guy im seeing now is confusing me he says im beautiful and wants to come over to my house and we were soposed to go to the movies but he never lets me know about anything and this is what i hate about him. IT PISESS ME OFF

  • Teenage girl
    September 9, 2013 | Permalink |

    So I have this friend that likes me . I like him too but I don’t want to get too comitted . What things should I say to him (over phone) / (texting) to turn on or get horny ? I want him to think of me sexually and I want something sexy to happen – please help !!

  • Janey
    October 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    My boyfriend is one of the kindest people I’ve ever met and I love him to death, the only thing that annoys me is that he is very shy sexually. He’s happy to start sex by giving little hints he’s horny but after that I literally have to do EVERYTHING, from starting foreplay to picking positions to finishing up (he wont tell me if he’s come he’ll just keep going until I ask basically) One time I even tested him once he hinted to me to see what he’d do if I didn’t continue it and he just sat there kissing me for no joke an hour, didn’t even go for a boob grab or nothing lol. Its hard to when my ex was such an amazing lover. Oh well you can win them all I suppose!

  • Lorna
    October 29, 2013 | Permalink |

    My bf ‘s voice when we fight turns into this high pitched tone which drives me crazy!!! But other than that he loves every inch of my body (and im far from perfect) and tells me daily, never made me feel inferior than other women, he likes having date nights with me and treating me to a nice bottle of wine and lots of flirting (after three yrs together), comes to my house to watch a movie and brings donuts and makes me tea:)) txts me in d morning to ask how I am, comes to family occasions with me, comforts me by turning a negative situation into a positive one and maintains his well-dressed stylish self slim (for both of us) by jogging daily:) Sorry ladies but some of you really need to wake up and grow some balls

  • Alaina
    November 24, 2013 | Permalink |

    I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. He began to show his true colors after about six months. His annoyances were very rare, occurring probably three times the first year (frustration at my indecisiveness). But ever since I moved in with him 4 months ago, his frustrations and aggravations have become more frequent. Nearly every time he is in the passenger seat if my car, he has to control how I drive! He is the classic back seat driver. I have since stopped driving with him in my car. I can’t tell you how many times I wanted to kick him out of my car after he tells me to “watch out for that car” and comments on my minor traffic violations (shifting lanes when they are solid). Yet he is no great driver. I have never been at fault in an accident, and had one ticket. Then he helps me move into his apartment and complains that my boxes were too heavy, due to being too big. Although I agree, I also know that sh** happens. Then he complained about why I didn’t get a u-haul (he had helped his cousin move out the week before and wanted to ride his motorcycle). The list goes on and on. I have been on medications for a condition that slows me down and makes me spacey. He becomes so so frustrated when I space out while we are at the gym, and becomes impatient when I don’t go through my workout routine quickly enough. When I cook, he is standing behind me, ready to correct me. I don’t boil my eggs correctly. When I had a difficult time opening a crisco package, he grabbed it from my hands to open it himself. AAAARRRRGH!!! It frustrates him that I’m an introvert. I am generally friendly, but don’t become talkative until I am comfortable. When he spend time with his friends, he tells me “smile. You always have this mean look on your face. My friends think you don’t like them.” Again, the list goes on. I have talked to him about it. I have cried. I have distanced myself from it. He has improved on it, but does not realize how small some of his annoyances make me feel. I have been looking to move out. I know that relationships are far from perfect, but I would rather be single and confident but somewhat lonely than in a relationship and sad/broken.

  • Hugo
    April 11, 2014 | Permalink |

    i was going home to live with the deers and u said you were just going to say that. Or like the time I called you the hulk and you said you know whats funny Im wonedr the blanket the hulk. We are so good to each other when we don’t fight and I want to stop fighting and being there for you. I messed up but sometimes I say things i don’t mean and I don’t want to do that anymore to you. I want to be there for you and show you that life isn’t all bad I want to spend time with you and take our dogs for a walk together and talk we used to talk about everything and make each other laugh and it can be like that again. That day that your step dad trying to do that to you I was proud of you that you were smart and strong and you got out and u call me. you should be proud of yourslef. we both seen each other in our good times and bad times and we’ve been there for each time.I was the first one she called she is 25 and her step dad left her mom and her and her step dad are close and she went over and he tryed to rap her. she called me I picked her up and listen to her and was there. well she went away for a week to get away so i text her saying that im going to leave and I wanted to say goodbye. then I said im sorry that I wasn’t a good friend i wish i could have been there for you. she text back saying if i hear and more words. from anyone back home i am not getting on the plane monday morning. I text her back saying i though everything was ok between us she text back saying it was I dont want drama but you always seem to make it. so i text her saying I don’t want drama between us and she said ok. then she stop texting me so i got mad and i said to her wow you really don’t care about me you only use me when you need to talk and when something happens to me you don’t care. then i said I hope you stay out there I never want to see you again stay the f uck out of my life. then text her saying sorry. do you think she is mad at me or just mad about everything and do you think she will talk to me again because she came to me first when her step dad tryed to rap her

  • Mavie
    April 14, 2014 | Permalink |

    I love my bf more than my life, but a few months earlier i found him cheating on me with another girl,but he accepted me in font of that girl.we still broke up. but then he came back and said that he was sorry and he loved only me.now we re together and in long distance relationship but i still feel he would cheat me. should i break up with him?

  • Adrian
    June 18, 2014 | Permalink |

    “My boyfriend’s too handsome, too nice, likes sex too much”…good grief. What more will women think of to criticise?

  • Emily
    June 21, 2014 | Permalink |

    I have been with my boyfriend for a month now, and even thought I wouldn’t say I hate anything about him particularly, it annoys me that he checks his phone when we’re going out. It always makes me wonder whether I’m not entertaining enough :P
    I also get mightily pissed off when I ask a legitimate question and get a one-word answer. Mostly he talks more than me, but sometimes… Argh!
    Love this feed btw xx

  • Runaway Luna
    July 7, 2014 | Permalink |

    I, like most women want to scratch his eyes out and other such violent things when he oggles at other women.. that’s what actually brought me to this site: but it gets even weirder: he’s into anime women! There’s already so much competition, and he adds cartoon charters?? To make it worse he constantly watches or reads anime, and they’re so sexual! Almost every time i look at what he’s up to, there’s some anime slut! rather half naked or full blown! It just drives me batty! To the point where im actually planning on moving to another state and leaving him in the dust. Because i have faced the truth that no matter how amazing a guy is, he will be nothing but a guy.. And he will always fall prey to this habit.

  • Nicole
    July 16, 2014 | Permalink |

    I absolutely despise it when my fiance comes home from work, I ask him how his day went then he just sits his ass down on the couch, puts his headphones in & watches youtube videos on his laptop for basically the rest of the night. If I suggest watching a movie that maybe doesn’t interest him, we’ll wind up watching nothing. He won’t even consider picking something else to watch or do. I’d be cool sitting next to him while he plays a video game. But legit, I feel like as soon as he puts his headphones in, he shuts me out. I’ve long graduated from high school & of course like any adult, have lost a lot of friends due to just drifting apart. I crave attention sometimes. Maybe we’ve gotten too comfortable in our relationship? Maybe because it’s our slight age difference? I don’t know… but any advice is much appreciated.

    Back story: We’ve been friends & have known each other for 15 years. (Met in elementary school & our parents became great friends.) I’m 22 & he’s 19, almost 20.

  • Christine
    August 28, 2014 | Permalink |

    By the way when I say “go to parties with girls” not as dates, just that there are girls at the parties he goes to. Ughh I’m just so scared that I’m gonna get my heart broken :’(

  • Anon
    November 15, 2014 | Permalink |

    I don’t understand how they vow to love you and get through all the bumps in the road when you first start dating, and then everytime you have something you need to get off your chest, or everytime there is a relationship issue, they turn it on you and blame you! They can’t ever seem to take responsibility for their hurtful actions, I’m tired of saying sorry when the other party is the one who is being the asshole! Learn to recognize when your actions hurt your girlfriend, and she’ll notice you are taking responsibility and love you more.

  • Paul
    November 25, 2014 | Permalink |

    I just came out of my longest relationship thus far (2 years), i know that’s nothing for alot of people, non the less when we met i was a party animal, that’s all i did party & sleep around (until i started sleeping with her). A month a two later i eventually gave in and fell in love, & when i did fall in love i fell hard, buying flowers, candle lit dinners the works eventually we moved in together (unplanned), i probably got to comfortable too. 9 months of staying together & two years later she broke up with me because i’m such a nice guy & she feels that she gets whatever she wants & i don’t challenge her anymore she doesn’t even have the same hunger for me. So we broke continued having sex (now apparently great) for a short while until i left the city for a week and came back she don’t want me anymore period, no sex no nun. I have reflected on it saw my flaws & where i relaxed when i should’ve cemented or relationship, I love her to death & she just left without even giving it a second shot. I’ve read some of ya’ll ladies comments & learned a thing or two just don’t think i’ll be able to use your different insights on any relationship anytime soon thou. I guess i’m going back to my old self now cause this love thing ain’t for a young fellow like me.

  • Kat
    November 26, 2014 | Permalink |

    I love my boyfriend, and to me he’s like every issue or concern I’ve had with other relationships of all kinds -friends, family, ex’s- but corrected and mashed into one. To be fair, I will say I don’t compare him to my ex’s, but I definitely learned what works for me and what eventually leads to hair tearing out.
    I am extremely comfortable with him, we share almost every aspect of our lives with each other, and or the most part our communication is great. In bed, when we fight, and were both open to each others ideas.
    But on a micro level, I feel misinterpreted by him sometimes, we’ll be talking and when I say things, he over analyzes sorta and takes it wrong, then I’m left stuttering trying to explain what I meant. Then he gives me this face that leaves me feeling inherently faulty. I start to always blame myself, but I know it can’t all be me

  • Bree
    November 27, 2014 | Permalink |

    I love him so much but I hate it when we fight or some little thing happens, he over reacts and does stupid things. He doesn’t harm me in anyway but he says a few hurtful things now and then and I’m sick of crying behind locked doors. We live four hours away from eachother and I only get to see him on weekends or every fourtnight and we’ve been together for a week, whenever we talk on the phone he starts a fight and its goes on for a whole week until we see eachother again. So we both agreed to not call but text. I love to so much but I just wish fighting with him wasn’t scary, I just want to be able to talk to him and sort things out.

  • Bree
    November 27, 2014 | Permalink |

    We’ve been together for a year sorry.

  • Alex
    December 1, 2014 | Permalink |

    I hate the fact that most of his best friends are girls and that he has a need to share everything with them. Particularly, one of them was stupid enough, to go with us to his home country to visit his parents and friends. Actually, they were supposed to go without me, which I could not let happen. I know he loves me and he would not cheat on me, but I don’t think he should behave in a way he does with other girls.

  • Liberty
    December 31, 2014 | Permalink |

    I’m reading about all of these arguments and cheating and really bad stuff and I’m all like I hate that my boyfriend tickles me so much. We have almost never fought and been together over a year. Just communicate people.

  • Simple Guy
    January 12, 2015 | Permalink |


    If your bf likes white pussies and not you, that’s fine. I love Mexican pussies.

  • Heartbroken Hinode
    January 20, 2015 | Permalink |

    The thing I hate most about my fiance is that he cheats.
    This weekend will mark my fiance and I’s 6 month anniversary. I Love him dearly but he’s cheated on me twice already.
    In the beginning of our relationship I looked through his cell while he was asleep and found that he had asked several other girls for nudes. I confronted him and he said he didn’t remember asking them for it. I forgave him and he didn’t cheat again until 3 months later.
    We had a three some with his friend from school at my apartment. After the three some I told him I wasn’t comfortable with us being sexual with her anymore and he agreed.
    Later that evening I came out of my bedroom to find them having sex in front of my bedroom door.
    He apologized for it an hour later as he cried on my shoulder and I told him I would still stay with him.
    Last week a mutual friend of ours told me that he repeatedly asked her for sex and nudes.
    I confronted him about it but he adamantly denied it.
    This last weekend he swore on his name that he will never cheat on me or purposely hurt me again although I’m not sure if I believe him.

  • Karen
    January 26, 2015 | Permalink |

    I hate that my boyfriend constantly wants to kiss me or feel be up in public, especially when we are around my family. Also, work always is a priority over me. I get that work is important, but never am i number one

  • Reply for Angelique and Everyone
    February 5, 2015 | Permalink |

    PLEASE READ my replies and answers to your concerns/questions.

    Just so you know:

    Gay is OK

    If anyone cheats, back out of it, NOW!

    Your lover needs to have respect for everything.

  • Mehreen
    February 12, 2015 | Permalink |

    Hi I have a boyfriend I have been dating him it’s been 6 month now but thing that bother me is when I text him he doesn’t reply back but his phone broken then yesterday I check on my social network he post a picture then I start to wonder that he has time to post a picture but hasn’t got time to reply the message. I I’m trying my best effort for this relationship I never been in a relationship before what should I do to make him reply back if he reply back so help me x.

  • Bobby
    February 25, 2015 | Permalink |

    Almost all the things that bother my fella (driving too slow, cutting people off, not paying attention to your surroundings, ignoring others while playing on cell, not saying please and thank you, just to mention a few) HE himself does! When I call him on it, he gets pissed, moody, and/or argumentative. When I make a valid point he starts to shift focus on to me and one of my flaws. It’s frustrating!! Never does he admit or apologize.

  • Erika
    March 13, 2015 | Permalink |

    My boyfriend got laid off 2/2014. Since then, he has worked sporadically. I work 2 jobs plus I am going to school for a B.S. in Computer Science. All he does is sit on the couch all day playing video games. Not to mention, he is selfish and mean. He wants what he wants and when I tell him we don’t have money for that it ends up in a big argument. Never mind the fact that there is never any money left over for me either and I can’t even afford health insurance to take care of myself. He doesn’t resect my feelings and he has shoved me and thrown things at me during arguments. He has punched holes in doors and broken things in our apartment, which I will have to pay for because he is not on the lease. He walks in front of me and never beside me and is always complaining about something. He yells at my dog all the time for doing nothing but following him around or not going to the bathroom when outside. I feel so used and eventually he will find his next meal ticket when I am no longer able to provide for him because I am not rich. I loved him in the beginning but now he’s just a bad boyfriend who uses women to get what he wants so he doesn’t have to work. When I finally cut him loose will be the happiest day of my life! I already have an exit plan and have started to put it into motion.

  • cheetah
    April 17, 2015 | Permalink |

    My boyfriend from now 3 years still looks for an excuse to talk to his ex wife, they do have a child in common but that doesn’t mend they need to talk everyday and text all day… And when we argue he tells her everything personal about us, even worst he makes me feel like Im over reacting to the situation. No man should spend countless hours is his ex wife’s house just because they have a 8year old in common smh.

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