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Questions you should Never ask your Man!

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Most people in the world think that asking questions is the easiest way to open your man up, and get him to start talking. But in reality, it’s these very questions that men hate answering the most, says Vinod Srinivas.

Questions you should Never ask your Man!

Now where do I begin?!! This is one of the most important and crucial parts of a relationship. Maybe not to women, but to men, definitely! A while ago, I had attended a meeting of several counselors and relationship experts, and as the conversation rolled on, one of the women counselors told me about a chart of questions that she had prepared for women.

She beamed as she told me that the chart was called “The fun questions to ask your man”. As I heard what she told me, I was horrified. I thought she was mad! She briefly told me about each question and told me how this little piece of information can help change a relationship and help the women understand their men better. But I thought otherwise, to me these questions sounded like a nail in the coffin.

Maybe that’s why men and women find it so hard to communicate with each other all the time. In every conversation between a man and a woman who are romantically involved, at one point or the other, comes that question that every man dreads. I fondly call it “The Nail!” because these questions are pretty much the type that nails the man or pins him against the answer until he blurts out something. And the consequence of answering these questions is not going to be good all the time.

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The Nail Questions

Now let me give you a small brief of those cute questions that this counselor told me about. These Nail questions are short, poison tipped, scheming and meant to hit the man hard and square in the chest.

The small Nails include:

What do you like about me?

If I met with an accident and was disfigured, would you still go out with me?

Would you give me your whole salary every month after we get married?

Those medium Nails include:

What would you do if I cheated on you?

Would you like to be reborn to see each other again?

If God asked you for three boons, what would they be and why?

Those painfully long Nails:

Would you go out with someone else if I died?

If your ex girlfriend wants you back, then would you leave me for her?

Would you leave a surprise party hosted for you by your friends midway if you had to have a candlelight dinner with me that same night?

What is that extreme thing that you can do for me to make me believe that you love me the most in this world?

How much do you love me?

Etc., etc., etc.

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  • April 29, 2012 | Permalink |

    Omg that’s terrible. How could anyone ever be so insensitive as to ask those types of questions?

  • Guy
    October 18, 2012 | Permalink |

    The “what do you like about me?” is a trap question.
    The “extreme thing that you would do for me to prove the love” does piss me off.
    And the “what would you do if I cheated on you?” one is pretty much the question that will break the relationship as I will assume that she has already cheated on me, her ex or is thinking of cheating on me in the future.

  • LeBob
    January 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    “What is that extreme thing that you can do for me to make me believe that you love me the most in this world?”
    *Stare into her eyes intensely”* “I will carve your name on my wrist……….. or buy you a hot dog”

  • Richard
    October 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    Interestingly, I would honestly answer these questions, and I don’t consider them rude (and we love each other). I understand the principle though – sometimes girls just want to suck the blood a little bit to get their bitter-sweet vanity candy. There are questions that annoy me more, such as when she tries to force me into praising her.

    She is not that vicious, but some women force men to admit something irrelevant that would go against their dignity, like picking some situation from the past that is long gone and forgotten where the man was wrong – and emphasizing on it, requesting one to admit over and over again his mistake. I had such experiences in the past and would ask “Do you realize that this is irrelevant now, and that you are making me feel uncomfortable with this question?”

    And if she asks questions like “am I really ugly? do you hate me?”, I usually answer “yes” with a smile and a hug or alternately answer yes/no/yes/no independently on what is being asked. If she emotionally disturbed, I usually answer with another question, which sets her mind working and distracts from her emotions.

    There are three distinct behaviours, each requires a different approach. 1. blood sucking 2. genuinely hurt/disturbed 3. chronically disturbed. The approaches would be 1. gentle verbal smack 2. no tongue in cheek, genuine compassion and tenderness 3. neutral response without emotions (anything else will only fuel the burning fire)

    BTW, these would be my answers to the above questions:

    Q: What do you like about me?
    A: Being smart, active, independent (and gorgeous).

    Q: If I met with an accident and was disfigured, would you still go out with me?
    A: I honestly don’t know, but hopefully this question will not need answering.

    Some questions bring an impossible torment, like – if you would need to throw one of your kids off the air balloon to prevent it from falling, which one would it be? These are corrupting questions – even the very attempt to answer them is corrupting, and no answering or decision should ever be attempted before the tragic event that demands these answers actually occurs.

    Q: Would you give me your whole salary every month after we get married?
    A: No. But you won’t be starving.

    Q: What would you do if I cheated on you?
    A: It depends on the circumstances. I would try to forgive you, but I don’t know if I will succeed.

    Q: Would you like to be reborn to see each other again?
    A: I don’t know yet, ask me again when I’ll be on my deathbed.

    Q: If God asked you for three boons, what would they be and why?
    A: I’d ask him to choose what is good for me.

    Q: Would you go out with someone else if I died?
    A: Yes.

    Q: If your ex girlfriend wants you back, then would you leave me for her?
    A: As of now, no. I don’t see the future there.

    Q: Would you leave a surprise party hosted for you by your friends midway if you had to have a candlelight dinner with me that same night?
    A: Under certain circumstances I would, probably giving a false (but believable) medical reason for leaving. In other cases I’d call you and let you take the decision.

    Q: What is that extreme thing that you can do for me to make me believe that you love me the most in this world?
    A: If you don’t believe already, then there’s nothing I can do.

    Q: How much do you love me?
    A: As much as it gets.

  • darkocean
    December 18, 2013 | Permalink |

    What sane girl asks a guy these questions? O.o LING LIVE BEING A TOM BOY! I keep my boyfriend lol! Poor “girrly froo froo* women *barf*

  • darkocean
    December 18, 2013 | Permalink |

    excuse my lypos long live I meant. How about instead of asking a guy those stupid questions you see his loving actions towards you and appreciate them and realise you don’t have to ask those stupid questions in the first place and give him your love unconditionaly and enjoy the time you have with him? Life is short! If you have a wonderful guy hold him tight and tell him you love him. And the rest will take care of it self.

  • Bigboss
    December 21, 2013 | Permalink |

    For me the most annoying question would be:

    Imagine the scenario where you just finished making love to your woman, and you’re both laying in bed exhausted. All of a sudden, she asks you, “Baby, what are you thinking (about)?”
    Uggh!!! That is soooo annoying to guys, especially me.

  • Quinn (Girl)
    August 16, 2014 | Permalink |

    I never ask questions like this, but I have had guys ask me questions like the “what do you like about me” one. So it isn’t just girls who ask questions like this, Just saying. :)

  • positive minds
    November 24, 2014 | Permalink |

    There is a guy who comes to my work everyday but he always just stares and smiles at me and honestly I get nervous and my heart starts pounding just seeing him walk thru that door I have tried countless times to get him to say “good morning” back to me but nothing so now I just glance and smile at him and run off when I see I feel like such a fool that its unreal… I cant seem to find a way to get him to just say “hello” to me that im just out frustrated because he wil talk to my co-workers but I get nothing just a stare and a smile… not sure how to even talk to him any tips because im stuck what is up with this guy??

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