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  • Reese
    June 12, 2012 | Permalink |

    This is exceptionally informative and fun! I especially loved the first line, “Seducing a man is an art, and one that’s thoroughly enjoyable.” It’s so true. So many girls try so hard to seduce a guy, but end up coming off as trashy or slutty.

    What I like most about these tips is the fact that it’s so awesomely sexy and yet so subtle. You can turn a guy on without ever letting him know that you’re doing everything intentionally. Really, this is truly one of the best ways to seduce a guy and be discreet at the same time. The last tip, about creating awkward situations is so fun, it actually makes me smile just imagining how much fun it can be!

  • Leanne
    September 18, 2012 | Permalink |

    I did all of this with a guy who is now my bf. but one problem.. I thought i was all sneaky about it, and it wasnt till three weeks in when he told me he knew all of these tricks. I was kinda shocked, boys are cleverer than we care to think.

  • Monica
    October 2, 2012 | Permalink |

    This is an informative yet disturbing article. But you will delete this post I’m sure.

    I guess it’s okay to treat men as if they are things to be played ith and not actual people…. Btw, why would you want someone that dumb and unfaithful? Won’t he leave you for the next scheming tramp? Just my thoughts.

  • kelebogile
    October 26, 2012 | Permalink |

    Ouu my word…this is a very very nice article. I lyk it so much. Seducing ur man or someone’s for dat matter its good, it make you feel lyk u owning ds whole world. I enjoy doing dat nd most of d guy kip on cuming bk I’m nt d one who call thm, bt hey wat cn I say its gud

  • October 30, 2012 | Permalink |

    Hahahaha I can’t wait to try out the last step!

  • Lisa
    January 3, 2013 | Permalink |

    This last step is so going down this weekend… i’m gonna try most of these (;

  • Jake Mitchell
    July 31, 2013 | Permalink |

    I thought I’d add something from a man’s point of view. Ignoring a guy is not always smart. Make sure you don’t ignore him very long. Yes, from personal experience I know that it absolutely does shake up his insecurities, which is good, but if it goes on more than a day, he may assume that you are no longer interested. If you explore men dominated forums, like bodybuilding.com, you’ll find that any man is capable of feeling crushed if he cares enough. I know because a girl did this to me. She was extremely flirty, made distant plans with me, and expressed her desire to do more than kiss, so I was convinced she was interested. Not to mention she asked me out. Still, my mind wandered for too long, and I came up with too many possible scenarios (was there another guy? Etc.). Turns out she just wanted us to move more quickly, but with no apology and my realization that she was playing mind games, I lost most of my feelings for her. It’s too bad, I really cared for her, but I have too much self-respect to allow myself to be toyed with.

  • sugga
    November 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    operation ignore comin right up. ill definitely take in consideration what Jake said. im in a similar situation.DONT want to chase the Guy away.

  • Miss Anonymous
    December 2, 2013 | Permalink |

    This is awesome!! And yet subtle… ;*

  • Mark
    January 12, 2014 | Permalink |

    As a guy, i can honestly tell you that ALL of these steps will work. Every time. No questions asked.

  • heather
    January 17, 2014 | Permalink |

    this is sad…..lets confuse men more than they already are and make objects of women……if were already not made objects most of the time.stop sexualizig everything this is sickening. God help us….

  • Annabelle
    March 17, 2014 | Permalink |

    “you can do something outrageous like wearing extremely short skirts and plunging necklines and still blame a man for being a pervert”
    This is the most disgusting thing I’ve read in a long time!!!
    No, you can NOT do that. This type of behaviour is absolutely vile and you should be ashamed of yourself.

    If you wear very tight or revealing clothing a man may glance at you. He can’t be blamed for a glance and shouldn’t be made to feel like a pervert. That DOES NOT make him a pervert. It does not mean a woman can pretend to be offended, shocked or think that he is a pervert.

    Those are VERY serious allegations which could ruin a mans reputation at work, at home or in the community.

    There are some vile men out there who make women feel uncomfortable. THOSE men should be shown up as perverts. A man just being friendly or glancing at innapropriate clothing is not. If you do this you are everything that is wrong with a woman!!!

  • Carrie
    April 1, 2014 | Permalink |

    Wow, I feel bad for men they are damned if they do and damned if they don’t. As for women who behave like this…..High maintenance/self obsessed much? Also chick’s doing this on purpose to steal other women’s men….next time my husband makes fun of me for not liking other women I think I might show him some of these comments. All I can say ladies is I wish you find your prince charming and that you lose him because a girl pulled these same shinanigans and stole your man. It’s always fun right until of course it happens to you.

  • Found Realism
    May 2, 2014 | Permalink |

    8 and 10 are the most despicable things to do to someone. I can’t believe you people can live with yourselves with such horrible advice. That really hurts someone when its played like such a game as this. Horrible advice that hurts people and makes them vengeful!!!!!

  • Kineton
    October 23, 2014 | Permalink |

    Advice usually say more about the person giving it (Their mindset and morality) than how the varied human nature out there expresses itself.

  • Anti
    December 24, 2014 | Permalink |

    This last step is borderline sexual harassment. If the guy is not interested don’t fucking touch him without his agreement. If he is, you won’t have to throw yourself at him, you’ll know. God damn.

  • Brian
    March 11, 2015 | Permalink |

    Decent advice. Some of this stuff is cool and has worked on me in the past, but a lot of it is unnecessary I think. I recommend just being upfront “I find you attractive…do you want to come to my house tonight?” I realise that’s scary and risky for your reputation. The cool thing is though if he judges you for being a slut then you have eliminated a judgemental guy and if he doesn’t judge you or gossip about you, you have a attractive non-judgemental guy and you could keep him as a long term lover or boyfriend.

  • M'kali-Hashiki
    March 23, 2015 | Permalink |

    I’m sorry, are we in the 1950s? Or is this written by high schoolers?

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