Everyone wants to be loved effortlessly. Knowing how to make a guy fall for you isn’t as tricky as you may think. Here’s how to win his heart.
If you’re in love with someone and you want to make them feel the same in return, we can help. Learning how to make a guy fall for you is doable. It might not make much sense at first, but it will and you’ll have him wrapped around your finger in no time.
And the best part is that you can do so with little effort. It won’t take a lot to make him fall for you. It’ll just take an understanding of the way guys really work and what they truly find lovable about women.
How to tell if he’s already in love with you
Before you try to make him fall in love with you, do you know if he loves you already? Some guys are head over heels for women and the girls have no clue. This is because guys aren’t really forthcoming with their feelings.
In fact, they like to hold onto them a bit too tight. But there are still some ways he shows you he loves you. If he talking about the future with you and considers your opinion when it comes to his job, where he’ll live in the future, or even how to react to certain news, he loves you.
You can also tell how he feels about you when you’re sick. I know this sounds odd, but pay attention to how he treats you when you’re feeling ill or upset. Does he take care of you and make sure you’re comfortable or just give minimal effort? The former means he loves you. [Read: 25 signs he loves you even if he doesn’t say it out loud]
How to make a guy fall for you without trying much
You do have to try to a certain extent. That’s not to say you have to try and be someone else but rather, you have to make sure to show him every piece of you. Here’s how you can easily make a man fall for you.
#1 Laugh at his jokes. This is pretty simple. If he makes a joke, just laugh at it. Obviously, this requires little effort if you actually think he’s funny. You’ll laugh naturally. The key here is to even laugh at his lame jokes.
You won’t always think they’re funny but just laugh anyway. It makes him feel great about himself and the better he feels around you, the more he’ll actually like you. It’s a little backward how it works but he’ll associate you with happiness, basically. [Read: 15 sweet ways to make a guy feel needed and wanted]
#2 Be yourself. When it comes to understanding how to make a guy fall for you, it’s cheesy and you’ve heard this a thousand times, but it’s so true it needs to be said again. The best thing you can do and the one thing that should be easier than any other tip is to just be yourself.
Let him fall in love with the real you. Enjoy life as you would without him, but just with him there. You shouldn’t have to act differently or change who you are to get a guy to love you. If you do, he won’t really be falling for you at all, would he? Let him fall for the real you.
#3 Have some confidence. If you want someone else to fall in love with you, you really have to love yourself first. As cliché as that sounds, it’s true. Without confidence, you’ll be plagued with insecurity and that often leads to trust issues.
#4 Be passionate and let him see it. Passion is a very attractive quality in anyone. The difference here is that you should show him that passion. Geek out about stuff you love. Let him see you go on a passionate rampage about your love of DIY crafting or your opinions on the education system. He’ll fall for that fire inside of you.
#5 Be really silly. Guys want to be able to goof off with their women. If you don’t show him you can be silly and wild, it’ll take him longer to fall for you. So just show him that side of you right away.
#6 Admire him. And don’t just do this internally. You might be thinking about how much you love that he cares so much about his health but you have to tell him those things, too. Make sure he knows how much you think about him.
Guys are very insecure when it comes to these types of things. They can’t read your mind and so they don’t know how you feel. Tell him and that reassurance will give him the courage to admire you back.
#7 Ask him for advice. I know this seems really silly and like it doesn’t make much of a difference, but it truly does. Most men are hardwired genetically to want to help. They like to provide and feel needed by you. The more you make him feel that way, the more he’ll want to be with you and therefore, may fall in love with you. [Read: Why men find damsels in distress so irresistable]
#8 Get in good with his friends. This is really the ticket to his heart. His friends are very important to him. Guys have even a deeper bond with their friends than girls do a lot of the time. So getting that seal of approval from them will help him fall for you.
He’ll be more likely to allow himself to care deeply for you when his friends really like you. So make an effort with them. Talk to them and joke with them so they get to know you really well. Bonus points if you bring food when you see them.
#9 Support his dreams and hobbies and goals. Basically, if he’s passionate about it, you should be right there cheering him on. Sometimes guys just need to know you’ll be there to encourage them. Once he realizes you’re there for him and will help him achieve his goals, he’ll fall for you. [Read: 15 rules to be a good partner in a relationship]
#10 Be sexual in a goofy way. Obviously, you can be sexual in a very sexy way, too. However, being goofy and adorable while also maintaining that sexual vibe isn’t something many women can do. If you can nail this and make him laugh while wanting you, he’ll love you.
#11 Fall in love with him. Just let yourself fall for him if you haven’t already. Focus on building a strong, healthy bond with him. Let him see every part of you and get vulnerable with each other. This fosters love much better than other tactics.