Have you ever met a great guy and found that everything’s perfect, until you find out later that he already has a girlfriend? Read how to get a guy with a girlfriend the easy way.
Click here to read the introduction on how to steal a guy.
It sucks when this happens, but every time you do meet the perfect guy, there’s a good chance’s he’s already in love ‘with the wrong woman’.
You may know he’s the man you want, and you may be convinced that you can be a much better girlfriend than his annoying girlfriend-present.
Find out how to get a guy with a girlfriend and turn his present girlfriend into girlfriend-of-past with these simple steps.
How to get a guy with a girlfriend
Read the first five steps on how to steal a guy before you read these next five steps to get a guy with a girlfriend.
It’s simple and easy. But steal a guy only if you love him and find that he’s in an unhappy relationship. There’s really no excuse for breaking a relationship up to cure your own boredom.
#6 Have great conversations with him
In the first five steps on how to get a guy with a girlfriend, you would have seen how important it is to make a great impression and make him fall for you. Now we go into the serious stuff. The guy you like may think you’re attractive and smoking hot, but as visual as men are, it’s not enough to win him over.
A guy may get attracted to a lot of girls, but he doesn’t fall in love with all of them. Emotional compatibility is of great importance for a guy.
When you’re spending time with him, have a light hearted conversation almost all the time. But every once in a while, talk to him about something serious and even intellectual. Create interesting conversations and let him see how smart and aware you are. Ask him about his job or what he plans to do in the next few years. Talk to him about his goals and dreams, and about yours too. And always offer some great pointers that can help him, and ask him for a few pointers on your goals too.
[Read: Are you more than friends?]
You don’t always have to talk about games, bikes or cars to win a guy’s attention, unless you like them too. By talking about things you don’t know or by trying too hard to please him, you may just end up coming across as too eager to please.
#7 Flirt, but don’t tell
Now you’ve wowed him with your looks and your emotional intelligence, and he’s probably wishing he could be in a relationship with you. But the truth is, he’s not in a relationship with you just yet. So don’t break the suspense bubble by telling him that you like him. [Read: How to date a friend]
Both of you share a flirty and uncertain relationship with each other. By asking him out or telling him you have a crush on him, you’d end the confusing uncertainty and become the girl who has a crush on a guy with a girlfriend. And once he knows he’s won you over, he’ll lose the interest to impress you.
Always play coy, but stay mysterious. Never let him know that you like him. Always make it look like he’s the one giving you the attention.
One thing you have to avoid though is texting him too often or even texting anything overly flirty. His girlfriend may end up reading it and force him to avoid you.
#8 Build the chemistry with your touch
To understand how to get a guy with a girlfriend, you need to work your magic without ever making your intentions clear. Obviously, he’d know something is in the air or he wouldn’t be having happy flirty conversations with you. He’d be confused about his own feelings at this point, and this is when you need to build the romantic chemistry.
The next time you’re having a conversation with him, try to build the chemistry with some flirty touches. You need to be discreet and careful not to overdo this move. [Read: How to flirt by touching to know more]
#9 Spend more time together
The best way to get a guy with a girlfriend is to spend more time together with each other without making it obvious that you’re hitting on the guy. When he has a great time with you, he’ll obviously start to compare the time he spends with his own girlfriend to the time he spends with you. [Read: What men want in a woman they like]
Don’t ask him out to a movie or a date, be subtle. At least until he makes it clear that he’s falling for you but is confused because he’s already got a girlfriend. If he does say that, it’s obviously going well in your favor.
The next time you’re having a conversation with him, invite him along with your own group of friends and try getting some alone time with him. A few of your girl friends may already know you like him, and they can definitely help by adding a few ‘awkward’ comments like “you guys look good together!” Brush it off in fake jest and just smile. It’s awkward and funny, and it’s going to be perfect!
#10 Hint that you like him
Now you’ve worked your magic and helped him see for himself what a great girl you are. Spend more time with each other and every now and then, try to get some alone time with him. Soon enough, with a bit of late night calls and a lot of mush, he’ll start to fall in love with you without even realizing it.
If you’ve given him a bit of time to make the move or end his relationship with his own girlfriend and nothing’s really changing, you may have to take the plunge and let him know that you have more than just friends on your mind. Don’t tell him straight out that you like him because that would just put him in a spot. Instead be discreet and casual about it. [Read: How to ask a guy out without asking him out for more pointers on this]
Getting a guy with a girlfriend
Now you may know all the secrets to know how to get a guy with a girlfriend, but even the best of moves can at times, fail.
If you’ve been playing all the moves mentioned here to the tee, it’s almost certain that he’d end his relationship with his girlfriend and start going out with you. But if it doesn’t work in your favor, drop the thought. Some guys may like the secret flirting and the attention from another girl, but they may not want to leave a happy relationship and throw it all away.
If you’re in love with a guy who’s perfectly happy in his own relationship, perhaps you could enjoy the little flirty games and find someone else to fall in love with.
But if he isn’t happy in the relationship and has a better time with you, these ten tips will definitely help you know how to get a guy with a girlfriend and steal him from under his girlfriend’s nose.
[Read: Is he in love with you? - The signs]
Use these tips on how to get a guy with a girlfriend to steal a guy you like, and it’ll definitely work in your favor, just as long as you play by these rules.
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wow, the wrong girl friend? if someone likes someone and wants to be with them who are you to push yourself on the relationship of another? The only moral thing in that situation is to be a friend and when its over and he is single you can step in. but anything more than that and your the bad guy in the movie. and most likely someone else will do the same to you.
If any girl tried breaking my relationship up to get with me, I would be livid. Only a complete asshole would follow this advice, and you have to be just as bad to write about it.
These are great tips! I’ve been doing some of them and I can already tell they work. Thank you so much.
woow some of these things it just came naturally for me to do and they really work ,i love this,hehe
This just makes me sad. Why would anyone want to end a relationship? How would they know if said girlfriend was a bad one? Because I’m sure if someone was flirting with their boyfriend, they wouldn’t be the ‘best girlfriend in the world’.
im a boy and i just have to say…i would either love it if a girl did this to me,or i would hate it,depending on how much i love my gf
I don’t see how any of this is immoral. The only way any of it would have an effect on him would be if he was already unhappy with the relationship. Its not like the advice is to throw yourself on him and shove his girlfriend out of the picture. I just see it as being a friend until he realizes how awesome you are compared to his sucky girlfriend that is probably already causing issues in the relationship.
It works
My best friend has a gf and I can’t stand it. I really like him, I always have had feelings for him but I never told him because i didnt want to ruin our friendship. Looking back to when he didn’t have a gf I have realized that he liked me and he even asked me out. I ignored the signs at the time because I was in denial about him likening me. I feel so stupid now and I want him back, but I still can’t figure out how to win him back
This is sociopathic advice. I’m sorry to see that so many of you, including the article writer, have no compassion or conscience. I’m glad to see that some of you do, though. Your parents must have done something right.
why would someone write about this? this is totally wrong! i was loving this website until i saw this, this is like showing a slut how to become sluttier
This is absolutely disgusting. This is why I’m so picky about my boyfriend having female friends: some people have no respect. If you steal someone’s boyfriend, you deserve the schmuck; if he’ll cheat with you, he’ll cheat on you, and you’ll have no right to complain. This article is advice for sociopaths.
wtf no just tell the guy flat out you like him guys hate hints, and some guys will never make the first move
I find this article very backwards and disrespectful. Relationships are hard enough as is without another woman trying to get in the middle. Why would a woman ever want to do this to another woman? and if this did work and you ended up in a relationship with this guy, how would you feel if another woman did this to you?