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  • chris
    October 2, 2011 | Permalink |

    wow, the wrong girl friend? if someone likes someone and wants to be with them who are you to push yourself on the relationship of another? The only moral thing in that situation is to be a friend and when its over and he is single you can step in. but anything more than that and your the bad guy in the movie. and most likely someone else will do the same to you.

  • Adam
    February 8, 2012 | Permalink |

    If any girl tried breaking my relationship up to get with me, I would be livid. Only a complete asshole would follow this advice, and you have to be just as bad to write about it.

  • Lorena
    May 1, 2012 | Permalink |

    These are great tips! I’ve been doing some of them and I can already tell they work. Thank you so much.

  • dee_dee
    May 3, 2012 | Permalink |

    woow some of these things it just came naturally for me to do and they really work ,i love this,hehe

  • A person
    May 20, 2012 | Permalink |

    This just makes me sad. Why would anyone want to end a relationship? How would they know if said girlfriend was a bad one? Because I’m sure if someone was flirting with their boyfriend, they wouldn’t be the ‘best girlfriend in the world’.

  • Cody
    May 20, 2012 | Permalink |

    im a boy and i just have to say…i would either love it if a girl did this to me,or i would hate it,depending on how much i love my gf

  • Laura
    July 16, 2012 | Permalink |

    I don’t see how any of this is immoral. The only way any of it would have an effect on him would be if he was already unhappy with the relationship. Its not like the advice is to throw yourself on him and shove his girlfriend out of the picture. I just see it as being a friend until he realizes how awesome you are compared to his sucky girlfriend that is probably already causing issues in the relationship.

  • Stephie
    August 14, 2012 | Permalink |

    It works :)

  • Kalliope
    August 27, 2012 | Permalink |

    My best friend has a gf and I can’t stand it. I really like him, I always have had feelings for him but I never told him because i didnt want to ruin our friendship. Looking back to when he didn’t have a gf I have realized that he liked me and he even asked me out. I ignored the signs at the time because I was in denial about him likening me. I feel so stupid now and I want him back, but I still can’t figure out how to win him back :(

  • Mark
    October 24, 2012 | Permalink |

    This is sociopathic advice. I’m sorry to see that so many of you, including the article writer, have no compassion or conscience. I’m glad to see that some of you do, though. Your parents must have done something right.

  • alejandra
    December 27, 2012 | Permalink |

    why would someone write about this? this is totally wrong! i was loving this website until i saw this, this is like showing a slut how to become sluttier

  • Chava
    February 28, 2013 | Permalink |

    This is absolutely disgusting. This is why I’m so picky about my boyfriend having female friends: some people have no respect. If you steal someone’s boyfriend, you deserve the schmuck; if he’ll cheat with you, he’ll cheat on you, and you’ll have no right to complain. This article is advice for sociopaths.

  • imaboy
    May 22, 2013 | Permalink |

    wtf no just tell the guy flat out you like him guys hate hints, and some guys will never make the first move

  • happyrelationship
    May 22, 2013 | Permalink |

    I find this article very backwards and disrespectful. Relationships are hard enough as is without another woman trying to get in the middle. Why would a woman ever want to do this to another woman? and if this did work and you ended up in a relationship with this guy, how would you feel if another woman did this to you?

  • ylababy
    July 18, 2013 | Permalink |

    sure, this article may sound disrespectful and sociopathic but guys, dnt be so shallow.open those close minds.,even if a grl wud do these tips, it wont take effect if the boy is c0ntentd and happy with the relati0nship he has. and these are just friendly tips, the author d0esnt require u to do such! ur reacting to0 much.silly.

  • Courtney Benton
    September 18, 2013 | Permalink |

    I am not going to think about how if another woman did this to me! If any guy I have a crush on has a girlfriend I totally want to hurt/harm her for having the place that I want. Any girl who is in a relationship with any guy I like deserves to be punished for being the lucky girl having the guy I have a crush on and live in a fantasy world with!

  • Jacqui29
    October 30, 2013 | Permalink |

    okay so I am kind of in to this guy but he has a girlfriend and he keeps hanging out with a close friend of mine. my friend knows that I really like him and she still hangs out with him. I as well just broke up with my boyfriend. and I really want another one cuz im now the only single one out of my group so it sucks………

  • Nicole
    January 25, 2014 | Permalink |

    A gorgeous, elegant, intelligent, magnetic and charming male hit on me at my last job. I already feared the ‘other woman’ would catch us and try to move in on him. This guy was a hunky Alpha male with a tender side. He made me nervous when he flirted with me (except at the front desk where I played receptionist…I felt that I had power then).
    The really exciting thing was that I am married but it did not stop him. Things got so hot I felt like running away. He would arrive unexpectedly in my office and the sexual tension was unreal.
    Back to other woman: this woman was not physically attractive so I was puzzled at first. She was very overweight. I noted after I had a ‘fight’ with him that suddenly he was into her…
    I was jealous and confused. BUT: she made a mistake, much to my joy…
    It was obvious because he approached me at the front desk and talked to me again…she suddenly arrived behind me and I could feel the power and negativity in her at that point. She appeared upset and almost out of control.
    Later in the week I noted that she let her hair get ordinary again and even the grey had grown back in. No surprise to me that she had suddenly starting wearing her hair like mine (even coloring it to match mine).
    It was their conversations that had seemed to fascinate each other…and I was not a good conversationalist and rarely talked about politics or sports. I learned a lot from that situation.
    Unfortunately I got in trouble with him and I resigned…very sad.

  • kuu
    January 26, 2014 | Permalink |

    sorcery could help, but it dosen’t exist, and everyone knows magic cannot make people fall in or out of love.

  • Alexiah
    February 18, 2014 | Permalink |

    Theres nothing wrong with this. Its just how to tip the odds in your favour. Its human nature to flirt and attraction. It doesn’t brainwash the guy to dump his girlfriend, if he’s happy he wont be open to ideas.

  • Alexiah
    February 18, 2014 | Permalink |

    Angeling Jolie is a prime example xx

  • emma824
    May 29, 2014 | Permalink |

    Please take note this is titled how to get a guy with a girlfriend, not how to get a guy w a wife. Ladies if he isn’t your husband, he is not forever committed to you and he’s not a jerk for possibly wanting to leave you for someone else. And she’s not a b**** for wanting to be with him. Hes your boyfriend not your property. Get over yourselves ladies!

  • pqwe25
    September 12, 2014 | Permalink |

    When I first saw this article’s title, I was shocked at how anyone would write such a topic. I had to see it! First of all, this story is completely ridiculous and is directly focused on those women (and men) who are immature and inconsiderate of other people’s relationships. If you think that you’re going to win the love of someone who is in a relationship, especially if he or she is in a good relationship, you’ve in for a big surprise. AND, if you do happen to win him or her over, then you’re the one who actually wins the short side of the draw…his or her previous partner will be the winner because you won the man or woman who has the emotional trait of possibility giving you up for someone else at work/school due to infatuation. Do you really want to have that constant reminder while you’re dating him/her? It’s your call. If, however, the man or woman that you so desire happens to be in a bad relationship, then maybe things will work out for the two of you. However, I strongly advice not interfere with an engaged or married man/woman…that’s just disastrous and downright wrong. Just think ladies (or men), are you really in love with this person or are you just infatuated? If you can’t see yourself waking up to his puppy breath every morning; putting up with all of his quirks, trusting him completely, not minding his burps or farts, and love him for everything (and I mean everything) that he has to offer you (yay for you), then it’s just infatuation and it’s your responsibility to keep it at that so you’re able to save your love for someone that’s available and even more special in the future.

  • Smh
    September 15, 2014 | Permalink |

    This should be called how to be a home wrecking whore…. Cuz only a slut bag would try to ruin a relationshi.

  • Shelbie
    September 15, 2014 | Permalink |

    This is horrible. Only the lowest of the low will even attempt such nonsense. Question for the ladies who’ve tried it, You stole someones man, (*cough*Homewrecker) whats stopping from some other chick from doing the exact same thing to you?

  • Joy Reyes
    September 15, 2014 | Permalink |

    Wow! Really? What kind of article is this? Teaching girls on how to be a whore? Yeah the guy might not be happy anymore, but did you wonder why he hasnt broken up with her yet? Its because HE LOVES HER! Dont be a relationship-wrecking whore! If theyre still together, it means theyre still trying. Dont be the reason why they broke up. Youre a girl too. Be decent. Have morals. Geez. You wouldnt like it if other people does that to you. If you really like or love the guy, just wait. Because if theyre really not meant to be, you dont have to stick your slutty nose in their business. Respect yourself girl!

  • Kori
    September 15, 2014 | Permalink |

    Are you kidding me?!? What is wrong with people?!? Get some morals!! The wrong girlfriend? The last I checked love is about putting their wants and needs over your own so maybe you’re the wrong girlfriend for anyone!!! Stupid home wreckers if he’ll leave his current girlfriend for you than he’ll leave you for someone else! You’re not the exception! You are not some treasure!! You are garbage and when he wants something new he’ll leave you at the curb where you belong!!!!

  • Krista
    September 16, 2014 | Permalink |

    Why put so much effort in being the other woman? Why not find someone you can actually be with and not have to hide ‘your love’ or worry hes cheating everytime he leaves the house. If he will cheat WITH you, he will cheat ON you.

  • Bansheegirl
    September 16, 2014 | Permalink |

    Ladies (if that is the right word), if he can cheat with you, he can cheat ON you. This isn’t about love. It’s about getting what you want no matter who else it hurts.

  • Erin
    September 16, 2014 | Permalink |

    I think the person who wrote this despicable piece of trash is on the receiving end of this situation some day. You have no conscience. You obviously have no self worth or morals. You’re a mediocre writer at best. And to all of the disgusting homewrecking whores who think this is a respectable way to get a man, I hope you get your asses beat.

  • mea
    September 19, 2014 | Permalink |

    What a joke!! I hope anyone who condones this type of cheap, nasty behavior experiences some major paybacks. When the time comes that you slutty HW’s actually find a guy you truly love and want to be with… I hope there’s another skanky Homewrecker waiting in the wings to pounce on your guy… so then you can see what it’s like to have your relationship stepped on and interfered with. Karma will nail you every time.

  • Amber
    September 19, 2014 | Permalink |

    LOL, I don’t know what is more offensive here, suggesting that it’s okay to break up a relationship or encouraging such manipulative behavior. How about a guide explaining how to become classy and self-confident? This article is the exact opposite of that!

  • Kelly
    September 24, 2014 | Permalink |

    If someone is truly happy with their gf they’re not going to leave them anyway, so whats the big fuss about how horrible this article is and the ppl who take it’s advice. If a girl can’t hold onto her man that’s her problem and she needs to step up. If he chooses the other girl he didn’t love the gf in the first place, and who wants to play second fiddle to another woman. I think this article is great!

  • courtney
    November 19, 2014 | Permalink |

    To some of u this is wrong and to some of u it’s perfectly fine . it all depends on how u look at it . if u see a guy in a sucky relationship with a Lil bitch who treats him bad and ur a good person with respect and could treat him better then heck yea go for it . take him and show him what a real relationship is. But if he’s happy then let him be happy .

  • Sasha
    December 1, 2014 | Permalink |

    I can tell everyone commenting is very young and inexperienced in relationships. The only boundaries that are not to be crossed by an outsider is if a person is married. There is nothing sacred in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. In fact, when people are just dating all is fair in love and war. If anyone is that committed they will put a ring on it and be serious about it (because we all know engagement rings are shaky too). If there is someone that you like and want to be with, get into their space and create a bond. Keep in mind that you might have a change of heart after really being with a person you think you like/love. My sage advice for women would be to exert energy only on men who pursue you and want to be with you only.

  • Sandra
    December 15, 2014 | Permalink |

    He is always telling me that how disappointing their relationship and his girlfriend is cheating with other guys. He is shy in front of me even though it’s not his personality. His girlfriend is older than him and too dominating. I think he is interesting me and of course I have already fall in love with him before he know. We are both shy and quite. I think I should follow these steps.

  • Reesa
    February 18, 2015 | Permalink |

    You guys are simply idiots condoning this behaviour. Why encourage women to step on other women and get their men? Thats pretty fucked up in all honesty and quite premieval. This is a snotty way of cheating or initiating cheating. Do you ppl have honor and respect for yourselves? I guess not because you guys easily would crush another person for lustful pathetic desires than being strong and dealing with it. Yeah youre all too weak for that. And btw, those who are defending this article saying that if men were faithful they won’t leave their relationship are all ignorant of behavioral psychology. Its been proven time and time again and through many studies that men avoid cheating best by staying away from temptation. They cant help it they are men and hardwired to do so. And if theyre constantly tempted they will eventually give in, and sometimes only once and regret it terribly- and that one fatal mistake can be enough to destroy a relationship. So stop hiding your filthy scent you skanks, admiring or promoting this behaviour is just wrong and disproving. Disagreeing just shows how sluttier you are

  • HappilyWithHimFor2YearsNow
    February 23, 2015 | Permalink |

    I love how all these women are calling women who do this home-wrecking whores or sluts. Get off your high horse and realize a truly happy man would never stray, because a truly happy man has nothing else to look for. People go through tons of suitable people in their lifetime looking for the right person and this is the same thing. If he’s in a relationship with you and is straying I’m sorry open your eyes and realize you are not the one for him. You can’t force a man to be happy with you. Obviously this other woman has stuff he likes and wants. It doesn’t make him a bad guy (unless he does it with every girl) but if this is a one time thing. he can’t help the attraction and neither can she. It’s natural and eventually you have to realize that he isn’t right for you either. Some men just aren’t good at breaking up with women.. but if he suddenly is trying to stray with a woman, you should know he’s already emotionally done.

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