It sucks when this happens, but every time you do meet the perfect guy, there’s a good chance’s he’s already in love ‘with the wrong woman’.
You may know he’s the man you want, and you may be convinced that you can be a much better girlfriend than his annoying girlfriend-present.
Find out how to get a guy with a girlfriend and turn his present girlfriend into girlfriend-of-past with these simple steps.
How to get a guy with a girlfriend
Read the first five steps on how to steal a guy before you read these next five steps to get a guy with a girlfriend.
It’s simple and easy. But steal a guy only if you love him and find that he’s in an unhappy relationship. There’s really no excuse for breaking a relationship up to cure your own boredom.
#6 Have great conversations with him
In the first five steps on how to get a guy with a girlfriend, you would have seen how important it is to make a great impression and make him fall for you. Now we go into the serious stuff. The guy you like may think you’re attractive and smoking hot, but as visual as men are, it’s not enough to win him over.
A guy may get attracted to a lot of girls, but he doesn’t fall in love with all of them. Emotional compatibility is of great importance for a guy.
When you’re spending time with him, have a light hearted conversation almost all the time. But every once in a while, talk to him about something serious and even intellectual. Create interesting conversations and let him see how smart and aware you are. Ask him about his job or what he plans to do in the next few years. Talk to him about his goals and dreams, and about yours too. And always offer some great pointers that can help him, and ask him for a few pointers on your goals too.
You don’t always have to talk about games, bikes or cars to win a guy’s attention, unless you like them too. By talking about things you don’t know or by trying too hard to please him, you may just end up coming across as too eager to please.
#7 Flirt, but don’t tell
Now you’ve wowed him with your looks and your emotional intelligence, and he’s probably wishing he could be in a relationship with you. But the truth is, he’s not in a relationship with you just yet. So don’t break the suspense bubble by telling him that you like him. [Read: How to date a friend]
Both of you share a flirty and uncertain relationship with each other. By asking him out or telling him you have a crush on him, you’d end the confusing uncertainty and become the girl who has a crush on a guy with a girlfriend. And once he knows he’s won you over, he’ll lose the interest to impress you.
Always play coy, but stay mysterious. Never let him know that you like him. Always make it look like he’s the one giving you the attention.
One thing you have to avoid though is texting him too often or even texting anything overly flirty. His girlfriend may end up reading it and force him to avoid you.
#8 Build the chemistry with your touch
To understand how to get a guy with a girlfriend, you need to work your magic without ever making your intentions clear. Obviously, he’d know something is in the air or he wouldn’t be having happy flirty conversations with you. He’d be confused about his own feelings at this point, and this is when you need to build the romantic chemistry.
The next time you’re having a conversation with him, try to build the chemistry with some flirty touches. You need to be discreet and careful not to overdo this move. [Read: How to flirt by touching to know more]
#9 Spend more time together
The best way to get a guy with a girlfriend is to spend more time together with each other without making it obvious that you’re hitting on the guy. When he has a great time with you, he’ll obviously start to compare the time he spends with his own girlfriend to the time he spends with you. [Read: What men want in a woman they like]
Don’t ask him out to a movie or a date, be subtle. At least until he makes it clear that he’s falling for you but is confused because he’s already got a girlfriend. If he does say that, it’s obviously going well in your favor.
The next time you’re having a conversation with him, invite him along with your own group of friends and try getting some alone time with him. A few of your girl friends may already know you like him, and they can definitely help by adding a few ‘awkward’ comments like “you guys look good together!” Brush it off in fake jest and just smile. It’s awkward and funny, and it’s going to be perfect!
#10 Hint that you like him
Now you’ve worked your magic and helped him see for himself what a great girl you are. Spend more time with each other and every now and then, try to get some alone time with him. Soon enough, with a bit of late night calls and a lot of mush, he’ll start to fall in love with you without even realizing it.
If you’ve given him a bit of time to make the move or end his relationship with his own girlfriend and nothing’s really changing, you may have to take the plunge and let him know that you have more than just friends on your mind. Don’t tell him straight out that you like him because that would just put him in a spot. Instead be discreet and casual about it. [Read: How to ask a guy out without asking him out for more pointers on this]
Getting a guy with a girlfriend
Now you may know all the secrets to know how to get a guy with a girlfriend, but even the best of moves can at times, fail.
If you’ve been playing all the moves mentioned here to the tee, it’s almost certain that he’d end his relationship with his girlfriend and start going out with you. But if it doesn’t work in your favor, drop the thought. Some guys may like the secret flirting and the attention from another girl, but they may not want to leave a happy relationship and throw it all away.
If you’re in love with a guy who’s perfectly happy in his own relationship, perhaps you could enjoy the little flirty games and find someone else to fall in love with.
But if he isn’t happy in the relationship and has a better time with you, these ten tips will definitely help you know how to get a guy with a girlfriend and steal him from under his girlfriend’s nose.