If you need a way to spice up your sex life and drive him wild, these ways to stun him with surprise sex definitely gets the job done.
If you’ve been in a long-term relationship, chances are your sex life could use a makeover. When you’ve been with someone for a long time you get stuck in the same old routine and end up bored with your partner even though you still love them. That is how surprise sex helps out.
Even if you’re in a new relationship and just want to show him how fun and adventurous you are, surprise sex is definitely the best way to get his attention. Men love to be taken by surprise when it comes to sex—especially if they’re the one usually initiating sex in your relationship.
The benefits of surprises
Surprising someone can be extremely beneficial for both of you. When you shock someone with something and they’re not expecting it, their adrenaline kicks in and floods their system with all kinds of endorphins and feel-good hormones.
Like I mentioned above, surprising him with sex is one of the best ways to really shock your man and leave him speechless. It doesn’t matter how boring your sex life is, if you surprise him with sex on a semi-regular basis, you’ll find excitement lights up your love life.
Even if you’re with someone new and want to show him you’re really into him, surprising him with sex is the way to go. No matter what your relationship and sex life is like, you can never go wrong with surprising him with sex in these different ways.
#1 Show up at his work. The last place your man expects you to show up and surprise him with sex is when he’s at work. I mean, it’s basically the thing of his fantasies.
If you really want to shock him with surprise sex, just tell him you’re bringing him lunch one day. Then walk in dressed in a trench coat, heels, and sexy lingerie underneath. This works best if he has his own office so you can escape there and tear off your trench coat and get it on—on top of his desk. [Read: Sneaky sex at work: The pros and cons of banging on the job]
#2 Morning shower sex. The best time for sex is right away in the morning. Not only is it a great way to wake up and get your blood pumping for the day, but there’s just no way you can have a bad day after getting laid right first thing!
All you have to do is hijack his morning shower and let him put you up against the shower wall. Just slowly slip into the shower after he’s been in there a few minutes and let him has his way with you. He’ll be shocked and thrilled to start the day off this way. [Read: 16 sassy ways to be sexy for your boyfriend]
#3 Middle of the night sex. It may be a little risky climbing into bed in the middle of the night after your partner has already fallen asleep only to wake them up and initiate sex with them. The great thing about this, however, is once they realize what you’re doing, they’ll be more than happy to oblige.
To surprise him with sex this way is to either wake up yourself or climb into bed really late—after he’s already asleep—and wake him up by grabbing him and kissing him in all the right places. He’ll be confused at first, but afterwards he’ll be ecstatic.
#4 Surprise him at an event. Having sex with a bunch of people just rooms away is always great for getting your adrenaline pumping. It’s even better if your man doesn’t even see it coming—especially from you!
Whisper in his ear to meet you at a certain place away from the crowd and then drag his hand to the nearest bathroom or even a closet. Yank your dress up and let him go to town on you. The adrenaline + the surprise sex = unforgettable for him. [Read: 20 awesome tips to have satisfying sneaky sex–every time]
#5 Sex in the water. How many times have you been swimming in a pool, hot tub, or even the ocean with your significant other? When you’re wet, barely clothed, and in close proximity to him, you can bet that all he wants to do is get it on.
Casually lean into him and grab his manhood. Give him a knowing wink and lead his hand in the direction of your lady bits. He’ll get the idea soon enough just after you see a surprised expression on his face.
#6 Sex while cooking dinner. There really isn’t much sexier than coming home to a woman dressed in nothing but an apron cooking you up your favorite meal. I bet your man feels just that way, and that’s why you should surprise him this way.
Just tell him you’re making him dinner and then put together his favorite meal you make. Be sure that you’re there before him so he walks into the room and sees you in nothing but an apron. The sight, smells, and realization of what’s about to happen will drive him wild. [Read: Want something super hot? Try some sexy yoga]
#7 Sex during a family visit. Sometimes having your family around for extended periods of time—especially in your own home—leaves you stressed and in need of a release. There’s no doubt your partner feels the same way.
That’s why you should make an effort to indulge in surprise sex whenever you have family events going on in order to ease some of the tension. Just grab him by the hand and steal away for a short time. He’ll be shocked you’d risk doing that with family around. Pleasing him all the more.
#8 Sex on a long drive. Everyone takes a road trip at some point in their lives. We all know how tense and boring those car rides can be. And I bet your significant other would never expect you to suggest you pull over down a dark road and test out the backseat. He’ll be SO happy to do this, and you’ll be able to get your bodies moving after sitting for so long. [Read: How to tease your boyfriend: 15 sexy tips to leave him stiff]
#9 Sex on your balcony. This obviously has to be done if you have a balcony, but you can also try this out if you ever end up in a hotel that’s high up. Just pull him away from the bed and closer to the balcony and tell him you want to do it in the fresh air. He’ll be stunned, amazed, and thrilled to do something so foreign to him. [Read: The 20 best and sexiest places for outdoor sex]
#10 “Netflix and chill” sex. We all have heard of the famous “Netflix and chill” vibe that goes on between new couples, but what about for everyone? I bet your significant other would never expect that you’d put the moves on him in the middle of a Nicholas Sparks movie you were intently watching.
Instead of getting lost in the romance of the movie, make your own romance! Grab his hand and lead it right where you want it and grab him. Starting sex in the middle of your favorite movie will be so shocking to him that he’ll never forget it!